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Dammylois:
well he's gone

Sorry, someone better will come

Katier00:
ok o. You are a matured lad

Its someone that will say what someone is actually. I have my own moments o

Katier00:
don't be so sure. I got my moments

Yes ma'am, we will deal with those moments

Dammylois:
Someone can't be cool in peace again...... My own ex said I never loved him cos I wasn't checking his phone and all that annoying stuff

Hmmm but u should be checking his phone sometimes na, its allowed

Katier00:
May be her limits has not been stretch. I don't get angry easily but pretending is far from it

I have seen my wife

IamD18:
Made men don't stress to build a relationship, only broke losers try to build their relationship.

Just make your money and watch women worship you and make everything possible to build the relationship.

It's their work as women to struggle real hard to build the relationship, not you.

Yours is just to see if she's worthy to reap where she did not sow by making her your wife.

Laughing at your reasoning. If you like, dont work on your relationship, trust your money to do that for you. Good luck

Offpoint:
I didn't read, too long. But whoever is it the write up is talking about, I'm not dropping my social media for any relationship... never.

It's computer age, either she adapt or exit.

Your comment is out of point becauss you are lazy to read the content.

One of the best things you can do for your relationship is to throw away your smartphone. Do it right now. Chuck it off a pier into the ocean. If you’re not quite that brave, just shut it off and stick it away somewhere in a drawer. You don’t need it, and it can actually harm your relationship if you aren’t careful.

Why? Because social media, which is the main thing people use their phones to access, is a distraction from reality.

Everyone’s heard the jokes about a couple dining at a restaurant while they both update their social media profiles and take pictures of themselves and their food, paying absolutely no attention to each other.

That’s a funny story when it’s somebody else. But when it’s you ignoring your partner and your relationship, it’s not funny. It’s tragic. And it’s quite true – people do it in restaurants and I’ve seen couples walking down the street looking at their phones rather than talking to each other. Studies show that ignoring your partner is a big factor leading to breakups.

Do you know why it’s illegal to drive and text? Let me tell you – because if you aren’t paying attention to your driving, you can crash and die, and/or kill other people in the process. If you aren’t paying attention to your relationship, you can also lose control and kill it pretty quickly.

Connecting With a Human Being in the Present

Love and relationships are about connecting with another human being in the present moment. The way you connect with your partner is to pay attention to them, to look directly into their eyes, to hold hands, to touch each other, to make each other laugh.

If you would rather be checking your phone to see who’s texted you, or what your online friends are doing, then what’s the point? How are you connecting more deeply with your partner by checking your phone all the time?

Love is a chemical thing, as any scientist will tell you. Why are we attracted to another human being? Partly because of their physical features, which we find attractive. Partly because of their personality, the way they talk or laugh. And partly because of a chemical connection – how they smell.

Though we aren’t consciously aware of it, much of our attraction to and bonding with another person is based on subtle scents. That connection can’t happen very easily via the Internet.

What Has Social Media Done for You?

Sit down and ask yourself – on paper – What has social media ever done for me? Write down your answer. Make a list of all the improvements in your life and in your relationship that using social media has improved.

There are some legitimate advantages social media can confer, particularly to grandparents, who wish to share photos of their beautiful, handsome, adorable, talented grandchildren with friends near and far. That’s not a problem.

Online dating can also be a legitimate and helpful use of social media. If you live in an isolated area and have trouble meeting many people, the Internet and social media can help you find someone to date. Of course, there are many better ways to meet quality people, and the best of them are the tried and true old ways – getting out and having fun and living your life while interacting with fun people.

That means joining a club or taking a class that throws you together with other people in a fun environment.

Social media can also help you network and connect with others when you need to find a job. I have no problem with that at all. But do it during work hours, and be clear when defining those hours.

Certainly, if you’re spending the season at an Antarctic research base, where your social group is similar to that of a mission to Mars, social media can be a real lifesaver, reminding you that the dozen scientists you work with and see day after day after day after day and who bathe just once a week aren’t the only human beings in the universe.

Then I say, fire up that social media app! But if you live in a community of other people, like most of us do, get out and actually see and meet and talk to some of those other human beings.

Life After Love: No Social Media, Please!

But however you find love, once you’re in a relationship, it’s time to shut down social media. Spend time with your partner, looking in their eyes, holding their hand, resting with your head in their lap on the couch, spooning with them in bed.

Cook your dinner together. Take a walk around the neighbourhood. Go for a drive or a bike ride. Swim together at the local pool.

Make a commitment to shut off your phone whenever you don’t really need it – and that means in the evening and at night when you should be paying attention to the person right in front of you rather than jumping every time a “status update” alert pings from your phone.

Otherwise, the message you are sending your partner is a powerful one – Other people matter more to me than you do.

You may not think that’s the message you’re sending. You may think you’re giving off the impression of being a happy, friendly person who is well connected. You may think you’re showing that you’ve got lots and lots of friends, that other people are really interested in your life, and that you are interested in theirs.

But the truth is, you’re ignoring your partner much of the time, and that’s not attractive, that’s not kind.

Time to stop bragging or complaining about your life via social media. Time to start living your life– with your partner – instead.

The last girl I gave that to tore my bedshit and nearly released everything inside her...I don't think some girls can withstand the pleasure or did I do it wrongly?

I did not see any month its said people of that month will suffer and see hell...
My question is...those people that suffer, which month were they born?

Ifyhills:
September. nd it's so me.i pray that bonding part really happens.

Its gona happen

What's yours?

Mine is February, month of lovely people, generous people...its said its the year we will get everything we have been waiting for the past months, money, cars, our bets will enter lol, wives will come, husbands will come, true love will come. Amen

DECEMBER

The year 2019 is all about people confessing their love throughout the year. You are so appealing and attractive that everybody around you wants to be connected with you. But you need to remember that love can be hard and dating is quite tricky, so you need to avoid messing with people's hearts. You will also spend most of your time relaxing, playing and laughing. You need to spend more time with friends and loved one


Lalasticlala, RoyalRoy

NOVEMBER

The year 2019 will be the year full of joy and happiness. You need to work a little harder in your career and other worldly matters. This year is going to be about harvesting your rewards. But experts warn you that you need to become more aggressive and ambitious to experience success as the year 2019 requires a lot of effort. On the other hand, you will also let go of the outdated and outgrown concepts and relationships.

OCTOBER

The year 2019 will bring in the fresh air of new relationships. As you tend to trust people easily, you seem to be hesitant to give away your heart, but you do not have to worry; as the people who are entering your life only make your experience the best for the coming time. You also need to make sure that your focus is on long-term planning as this will help in being at peace. Your interest in the spiritual path will also help you being content all through the year.

SEPTEMBER

This will be the year when you will develop a beautiful bond with someone you have never expected, and this bond will be a huge blessing for both of you. It is seen that you will feel low during the first few months of the year, as this is something that you have imagined for yourself. Instead, you need to try and deviate your mind towards the positive things and plan for the future by following your heart and dreams.

AUGUST

The year 2019 is the year when you will get to see a new side of yourself. The year is all about you finding time to make a fair assessment of your life. You tend to start thinking about your goals and dreams seriously and will find ways to meet them. Also, experts reveal that you will turn more realistic and down-to-earth throughout the entire year. You will also face new challenges coming your way, but experts reveal that you will face them without many difficulties.

JULY

You will become successful in the year 2019. Everything will flourish around you with your honesty. The primary factor for you this year is going to be all about being patient, having good reflection and also making the right decisions in life. The year is all about turning your hidden desires into reality. You need to say goodbye to your anxiety and insecurity or even the doubtful personality, and instead, open your eyes to a lot of possibilities around you. Instead, learn to be brave, and move to the next level. Remember, good things come to those who dare.

JUNE

The year 2019 will be in great favour of you. All the doors that seemed to have been shut in the past will open now. You will have peace and contentment flowing into your life, and this will make you will feel refreshed. Even though you will face a bit of struggle, it is your determination that will keep you motivated in your projects. You also need to be optimistic throughout the year, as it will help you to go through tough times.

MAY

This year 2019 will bring in a significant change in your life. You will not see it, but it looks like things will work in your favour after a point of time. Since you are talented and have the potential to become successful in all areas of life, the year will also give you the courage to dream big, especially when it comes to your career. You will make use of every opportunity coming your way, and you will do whatever it takes to become successful.

APRIL

The year 2019 reveals that this year it is all about being in love as love is in the air for you completely. You seem to express your true feelings towards you from whom you have been expecting since long. Your motivation will be quite high all throughout the year. You need to invest your time in making logical decisions as this will help you to face any kind of difficulties and obstacles. Apart from this, you seem and you need to be sure about what you think before jumping into any sort of decision as this will help you to avoid any disasters.

MARCH

The year 2019 will be full of prosperity, and you will see things falling in your favour. The year will bring in harmony in your life, and this will add on some much-needed excitement to your daily life. You will have all the things that you have desired for this year. Apart from this, you will see many significant events will take place in your life. Experts advise you to be sure to keep an eye on your goals and objectives. Overall, the year will also give you immense opportunities to explore and discover new possibilities that will take you to the next level of being successful.

FEBRUARY
The yearly predictions for 2019 reveal that this is the year when you will get everything that you have been wanting to get since the past few months. This year you will notice that your friends will admire your quality of being generous. Experts reveal that the start of the 2019 year will be full of positive vibes and you will put communication ahead of confrontation. People around you will understand you and they will also agree with you on various decisions. This year you will also see yourself playing a very influential role in your family and friend's lives. You need to put all your ideas in place and turn your dreams into reality this year as per your yearly predictions.

JANUARY
The year 2019 is going to be one of the most critical years of your life. The predictions reveal that the year will come with significant accomplishments and celebrations in your different field of work, romance, education, etc. As you have been thinking about your future for quite some time now, you can feel relaxed as the year 2019 is the time when you can spring into action and see success come your way in all possible ways. Make sure you set your priorities and goals right as this will help you to move forward progressively. Remember that you need to follow your heart and success will come your way this year.

How did they come about the figure? Are they aware of those women that will give birth tomorrow in the fram inside interior villages in Nigeria

faithfull18:
Nope, I wasn't referring to you. I don't know you, my comment was based on general happenings.

I called you requesting to know you sell your data.

faithfull18:
Nope, I wasn't referring to you. I don't know you, my comment was based on general happenings.

Ok

Shugavee:
i hate gays but damn seeing men morn like women really turn me on!!

You a mature and sincere person and I like ur type

Allaboutkatiee:
Lol please tell him
They are here

Kate....Are you sure dear?

faithfull18:
Thank you. Bad boys everywhere looking for good girls to wife after making a lot of good girls bad. Who is deceiving who Whatever you sow, you will reap, it's constant.

So you are calling me a bad guy because of what you think about guys? How would you feel if somwone who knows nothing about you calls you a bad girl? Its your opinion though and thanks for commenting.

Alexaonfleek:
I think there are good girls in Catholic church

Op convert to catholism you will find good girls there to marry

My ex was a Catholic, she always attends to all these church programs and activities but if I tell you what that girl did or what I saw with her, you will know that church is not what makes a girl good.