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Every disappointment is for a good reason. With all the begging and pleading... the man never saw "sense".... he returned with his entire family... children that knew UK life only... above average UK status.... leaving a dream life because he feared dying in the UK. Mind over matter.
As I see it.... that was his path in life and he followed it ... is like going with your gut feeling rather than intelligent reasonings from the brain. As husband... head of the house... he made the decision. As wife... despite disagreeing... follows his lead ... leaves her job.. ups the kids and remigrated with him ... keeping the family unit together. Is it a coincidence that a friend .... happen to be leaving Nigeria at the same time..... and offer his even more luxurious home for him and his family to use? Things did not go according to his expectations... but he has seen his family has stuck together through the storms of life. What is more important in life than a family that sticks together through thick and thin? He should've stayed... would they have feared better if they did? Today they are all alive... and still a family unit. Many of us... men....wherever we be... in whatever part of the world... living in poverty or luxury... wish we can have a wife like his. And many women.... wish they can have a man literally pick them from off the street ... marry them... take them abroad and offer them a life of luxury.... but to follow him back home?... it surely shall be God forbid... not over my dead body.

"He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing."

Originalsly:
Every disappointment is for a good reason. With all the begging and pleading... the man never saw "sense".... he returned with his entire family... children that knew UK life only... above average UK status.... leaving a dream life because he feared dying in the UK. Mind over matter.
As I see it.... that was his path in life and he followed it ... is like going with your gut feeling rather than intelligent reasonings from the brain. As husband... head of the house... he made the decision. As wife... despite disagreeing... follows his lead ... leaves her job.. ups the kids and remigrated with him ... keeping the family unit together. Is it a coincidence that a friend .... happen to be leaving Nigeria at the same time..... and offer his even more luxurious home for him and his family to use? Things did not go according to his expectations... but he has seen his family has stuck together through the storms of life. What is more important in life than a family that sticks together through thick and thin? He should've stayed... would they have feared better if they did? Today they are all alive... and still a family unit. Many of us... men....wherever we be... in whatever part of the world... living in poverty or luxury... wish we can have a wife like his. And many women.... wish they can have a man literally pick them from off the street ... marry them... take them abroad and offer them a life of luxury.... but to follow him back home?... it surely shall be God forbid... not over my dead body.

"He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing."

would you suddenly leave like that too?

hammed71:
would you suddenly leave like that too?

Yes. My peace of mind is not based on vanity nor location. When vaccine becomes mandatory... I'm gone.

Originalsly:
Yes. My peace of mind is not based on vanity nor location. When vaccine becomes mandatory... I'm gone.

You"ll leave the US?That's not possible?

TheEnforcer:
You"ll leave the US?That's not possible?

Why not? ..... don't people who been living well in the US return home to live? ... and are quite happy? Must you have a G Wagon to be happy?... some people do.... Toyota whatever will never do.... while some with Pencil Light are very happy and contented. To each his own.

Originalsly:
Why not? ..... don't people who been living well in the US return home to live? ... and are quite happy? Must you have a G Wagon to be happy?... some people do.... Toyota whatever will never do.... while some with Pencil Light are very happy and contented. To each his own.

You and I know Nigeria is in a dire state.It will be tough to cope there having lived here for some time.I have suspicions about the vaccine too ,but to go back home seems a long stretch. The high standard in the US will be sorely missed if that were to happen.Its quite chaotic in Nigeria

The man isn't telling the full story. He's selfish and a coward. I know a guy like this in Canada. He didn't get a good job originally and wanted to return to naija with his wife and kids. His wife brought him divorce papers and said she's not going anywhere with him, back to naija.

A few years later he finally got his dream job and they're doing good. He now realizes how foolish he was trying to leave Canada and going back to Nigeria. He admitted he was selfish at the time. Ladies never let a blind, incompetent man lead you.