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if church can decline a prospective pregnant bride from getting marriage in there church, why do they allow non prospective virgin bride to get marry. is the vows before marriage non broken as well that say a woman should remain pure until wedding night. if non virgin could marry in church I don't see any reason why pregnant woman should not get married in the church.

andre45:
if church can decline a prospective pregnant bride from getting marriage in there church, why do they allow non prospective virgin bride to get marry. is the vows before marriage non broken as well that say a woman should remain pure until wedding night. if non virgin could marry in church I don't see any reason why pregnant woman should not get married in the church.

First thing you need to understand is that your churches are nothing but social businesses/clubs under the rules set up by the business owner, typically referred to as Pastor or overseer in some cases.

God never commanded His followers to set up churches or install themselves as authorities, teachers, etc. over anyone on His Kingdom, so they, your churches have nothing to do with God and the Laws set by God.

As for your weddings, that too has nothing to do with God. You need to realize the separation between the traditions of men and the Law as far as God is concerned.

What did I say all this to say? Well, since the pastor is the business owner, you who want his service need to bend to his rule. If he says he does not want pregnant gals in his church, then you have to abide by his rules and find yourself a church that will allow you do what you want instead. This is simple business 101.