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NwaAmaikpe:




Marriage is a fraud, a big one.
Because it is impossible to love your partner with the same intensity you loved them with during courtship when you were over the moon throughout marriage.
Over time, the love dwindles, the attraction fades and what we have left is an abundance of tolerance.

Most people who have been married for more than 4 years are no more in love with their partners but only tolerate them.

That is the same reason a full bodied, warm blooded man with a functional preek doesn't get moved sleeping next to his nakeed wife but the same man's preek will jump like a wounded alligator if one small girl sits next to him in a molue.

Because the love is dead, the thrill gone and the spark extinct.
And you tell me marriage is not a scam?

Marriage is a deceptive correctional institution designed to keep humans in the bondage of sexual and emotional monogamy.
Humans were not created to be monogamous.

Every one hates a prison and that's the reason why the most wayward of all humans are the married.

Ironically, the ones who shout that marriage is not an achievement or that marriage is a scam are the ones who are still single despite their other achievements.

They say it to make people feel they aren't bothered about being single when in reality, their only heart desire is to be married.
When a husband doesn't come, they become bitter feminists who see all men as the reason for their sorry single existence.

So Hanty, before you say marriage is a fraud, get married first.
Is that not how Hamidatu was claiming marriage was a scam and she didn't need a man but later agreed to be 4th wife for the unfortunate Eramah who was stupidly selfless enough to deliver her from spinsterhood.

They lie to us but they won't lie to themselves.
Visit Hillary Clinton or Chimamanda Adichie's pages and you'd accept that even the strongest feminist knows that a husband is a woman's greatest laurel.