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olabrinks:
Maybe I’m different because things like that don’t affect me. You can return at 4am, Have sex outside, you are using your hand to destroy your own life not mine. Im numb to these kind of things, honestly. The only thing that will give me peace forever is God, humans will always disappoint you and fall short of your expectation.

what do you say about a woman who refuse sex with her husband because they have unresolved issues do you think the husband should ignore the issues and pretend nothing is wrong?

Married couples should show concern and listen to each other, in other to avoid scenarios like these.

livingchrist:
what do you say about a woman who refuse sex with her husband because they have unresolved issues do you think the husband should ignore the issues and pretend nothing is wrong?

Married couples should show concern and listen to each other, in other to avoid scenarios like these.

absolutely not, you MUST have a conversation about this, and come to an agreement where both are satisfied. But if It’s gets to the point where one party is extremely stubborn and refuses to disregard their pride, there’s only so much you can do. You cannot force someone to do what they don’t want to and disrupt your peace in the process. So if it gets to that point, I will ignore my surroundings and focus on myself, ( for my sanity ) until my partner is ready to hash it out.

Biglittlelois:
Most women during our mothers time yes, but not now, or maybe a few, but most women of our generation will certainly not give a damn.

She'll even stop bothering herself to cook for him till he recovers from whatever is doing him. Who has time for a sulky baby that refuses to eat, especially when the food stuff was bought with his money.