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mutter:
Sorry to disappoint you... I don't make any money from my videos and that's not my intention.
On the contrary I even over the years have parted with money on this group helping other Nairalanders that needed help.
So I am not "running here" to make money.
So right now you are the one painting female genders black.
I suggest you remove the log in your own eye first.

She specifically referred to only you, YOU lumped us all. So, no, they ain't the same...nahh.

AmazonTopaz:
I have a husband and why should I care if you believe me your validation of my truth does not change the fact that I have a loving husband that adores me.Lol you are a fool a big one a man married me and we both own our house and properties.You will only wail because the man who married me is not lazy like you and he is not an slowpoke like you and your father.How can you fathom it when you are a fool and your level of reasoning is beyond low that you don't have sense.You are the slowpoke who is lazy and cannot feed himself that is why you are a gigolo and is fed by women.na you forest go kill because na bush you dey stay na make you nor know anything wey they happen around you.Dumbarton

You don'tt have shit!!!... only a crazy person will wife you, you are scum and deserve your miserable life!!!

AmazonTopaz:
Initially you said it was 3 kids so it is now two you are truly a liar and a clown as well It is not a man's World boy women are making progress and changes and there is nothing you will say to change that fact.I don't hate men and can never be depressed.It is not a man's World men will do anything for women that alone shows how women control the world so stop deceiving yourself and accept this truth that in 2021 and beyond men will sit back and learn from women.

Doesn't change a shit that men rules the world... we Bleep and discard your type, you deserve only low quality men like your husband!!!

AmazonTopaz:
Initially you said it was 3 kids so it is now two you are truly a liar and a clown as well It is not a man's World boy women are making progress and changes and there is nothing you will say to change that fact.I don't hate men and can never be depressed.It is not a man's World men will do anything for women that alone shows how women control the world so stop deceiving yourself and accept this truth that in 2021 and beyond men will sit back and learn from women.

You must very stupid and useless, men will sit and learn what exactly from women, how to double date, makeup and Bleep guys with money!?, you have serious mental illness if you are denying the reality that its a mans world, like what exactly has a woman ever made that's well known and useful to humanity!?, well except mascara.

Caleycashh:
I am married with 2 kids and take care of my kids and my queen as real king should, not you a woman claiming to be a king, weird madwoman... continue emulating useless women like Tonto who lack feminine traits, you will languish in depression and hate against men, it is a mans world, it is what it is and you can't fuckin change it!!!

She spends her whole life on this forum with her imaginary husband. Some of which are mods that sleeps with her just to ban someone.

A skunk is like a perfume when compared to her filth. AmazonTopaz AmazonQueen a shame to feminism.

Caleycashh:
You don'tt have shit!!!... only a crazy person will wife you, you are scum and deserve your miserable life!!!

You are the fool who doesn't have shhit.

Only a crazy person will husband you you are a scum and deserve your miserable life.

Caleycashh:
Doesn't change a shit that men rules the world... we Bleep and discard your type, you deserve only low quality men like your husband!!!

Men don't rule the world.Actually it is the other way around women Bleep you idiots up and discard you when necessary that is why many of you lots result to suicide your type Is only used for errand and nothing more you don't even deserve anyone at all.And by the way my husband is of very high quality and you will never in your miserable life measure up to him

Caleycashh:
You must very stupid and useless, men will sit and learn what exactly from women, how to double date, makeup and Bleep guys with money!?, you have serious mental illness if you are denying the reality that its a mans world, like what exactly has a woman ever made that's well known and useful to humanity!?, well except mascara.

Why did you lie that you were married with kids I exposed you and you deflected shame on you you are truly single and pathetic.
You are the very very stupid one.
Men will sit down and learn from women on how to be resourceful,prudent,generous,leadership,multitask,negotiators,effective communicators etc all these and more men should learn from women because women have the upper hand in these things.You are the one suffering from mental illness if you think the 21st century world belongs to men it is obvious you are not up to date with what is happening globally that is why you choose to argue blindly because you have mental illness.You fool why don't you search Google and find out about that the fact that women alone are family and nation builders is enough proof that the world cannot function without women.If you have Google you will go online and search the latest research and development in science and other fields authored by women you are a complete idiot for thinking that you can underplay women's achievements since the rise of women's rights/feminism.

Men are not better than women and it cannot be a man's World alone in the 21st century.Better accept that fact and see women breaking Glass ceilings

AmazonTopaz:
I have a husband and why should I care if you believe me your validation of my truth does not change the fact that I have a loving husband that adores me.Lol you are a fool a big one a man married me and we both own our house and properties.You will only wail because the man who married me is not lazy like you and he is not an slowpoke like you and your father.How can you fathom it when you are a fool and your level of reasoning is beyond low that you don't have sense.You are the slowpoke who is lazy and cannot feed himself that is why you are a gigolo and is fed by women.na you forest go kill because na bush you dey stay na make you nor know anything wey they happen around you.Dumbarton

Hahahahaha, I said it that you are mentally unstable and confused like your feminazi lots, so now you have a husband who married you and paid your bride price!?... madwoman what was my initial reply to the lady i quoted!?, let me reiterate cus i know you suffer from chronic dementia, I said "it's the man that marries you not you" you see you really need help by actually concurring with my statement after displaying your mental series!, i won't reply you again since you've actually said what I want, you and your confused feminazi lots are confused, controversial and have serious mental problems, I implore you to desist from the kind of toxic people you mingle with!, You will only hurt yourself!!!

Kokobilo87:
She spends her whole life on this forum with her imaginary husband. Some of which are mods that sleeps with her just to ban someone.

A skunk is like a perfume when compared to her filth. AmazonTopaz AmazonQueen a shame to feminism.

Hahahaha, bros I know her type... feminists online but worth shit in the actual world, I just wan let her know say she dey ment small small if she no know!

AmazonTopaz:
Why did you lie that you were married with kids I exposed you and you deflected shame on you you are truly single and pathetic.
You are the very very stupid one.
Men will sit down and learn from women on how to be resourceful,prudent,generous,leadership,multitask,negotiators,effective communicators etc all these and more men should learn from women because women have the upper hand in these things.You are the one suffering from mental illness if you think the 21st century world belongs to men it is obvious you are not up to date with what is happening globally that is why you choose to argue blindly because you have mental illness.You fool why don't you search Google and find out about that the fact that women alone are family and nation builders is enough proof that the world cannot function without women.If you have Google you will go online and search the latest research and development in science and other fields authored by women you are a complete idiot for thinking that you can underplay women's achievements since the rise of women's rights/feminism.

Men are not better than women and it cannot be a man's World alone in the 21st century.Better accept that fact and see women breaking Glass ceilings

Girl you are psychotic and need help... Women doing shit in your fantasy world, Hahahahhaha

Caleycashh:
Girl you are psychotic and need help... Women doing shit in your fantasy world, Hahahahhaha

Boy Abi Na child I go call you you need help because you live in a fantasy World which is devoid of facts to see what women are doing globally.
No matter how hard you try you cannot deny reality boy

AmazonTopaz:
Boy Abi Na child I go call you you need help because you live in a fantasy World which is devoid of facts to see what women are doing globally.
No matter how hard you try you cannot deny reality boy

Hahahaha, Ok name one major thing a woman did to aid humanity?

Caleycashh:
Hahahahaha, I said it that you are mentally unstable and confused like your feminazi lots, so now you have a husband who married you and paid your bride price!?... madwoman what was my initial reply to the lady i quoted!?, let me reiterate cus i know you suffer from chronic dementia, I said "it's the man that marries you not you" you see you really need help by actually concurring with my statement after displaying your mental series!, i won't reply you again since you've actually said what I want, you and your confused feminazi lots are confused, controversial and have serious mental problems, I implore you to desist from the kind of toxic people you mingle with!, You will only hurt yourself!!!

You are mentally unstable every sane person knows that I married my husband under the act legally and we both contributed to our wedding so we married each other because he and his family did not pay alone my family and I also did it is an egalitarian union and yes I have a husband and I am glad you are pained about that fact.You are the madman if you are foolish not to realise that women contribute a lot to their weddings and marriages including finances.Lol my husband and I married each other and it is the man and woman that marries each other not only the man it is not a forced marriage but a consented one so it cannot be the man alone marrying the woman.I did not concur with your foolish statement you must be the one suffering from chronic illness if you could not understand my statement afterall you are dull.Lol boy you are just an idiot blowing Grammer and tautology beyond your reason I actually mingle with worthy people who are not toxic and I am a feminist everytime and everyday I wear the badge of feminism with pride.You on the other hand should move around with people that will help your miserable life and you should leave that bush you live in a be in reality to see the amazing things women have done and are doing.Change your circle and be open-minded unless your unexposure will only hurt you.stop comparing yourself to women and seeing them as a threat feminism is here to stay and there is nothing you can do to change that fact because women themselves are more aware and will not take nonsense from men

Caleycashh:
Hahahaha, Ok name one major thing a woman did to aid humanity?

The polonium and X-ray by Marie Curie if you were a scientist you will know this she won a Nobel prize for that in the 20th century.

Women have explored fashion and define the fashion World.A woman stopped the killing of twins in Calabar and many more if you were intelligent and ready to learn you would have asked Google this question and get answers.

Caleycashh:
Hahahaha, bros I know her type... feminists online but worth shit in the actual world, I just wan let her know say she dey ment small small if she no know!

You and kokobilo87 are useless idiots.

AmazonTopaz:
You are mentally unstable every sane person knows that I married my husband under the act legally and we both contributed to our wedding so we married each other because he and his family did not pay alone my family and I also did it is an egalitarian union and yes I have a husband and I am glad you are pained about that fact.You are the madman if you are foolish not to realise that women contribute a lot to their weddings and marriages including finances.Lol my husband and I married each other and it is the man and woman that marries each other not only the man it is not a forced marriage but a consented one so it cannot be the man alone marrying the woman.I did not concur with your foolish statement you must be the one suffering from chronic illness if you could not understand my statement afterall you are dull.Lol boy you are just an idiot blowing Grammer and tautology beyond your reason I actually mingle with worthy people who are not toxic and I am a feminist everytime and everyday I wear the badge of feminism with pride.You on the other hand should move around with people that will help your miserable life and you should leave that bush you live in a be in reality to see the amazing things women have done and are doing.Change your circle and be open-minded unless your unexposure will only hurt you.stop comparing yourself to women and seeing them as a threat feminism is here to stay and there is nothing you can do to change that fact because women themselves are more aware and will not take nonsense from men

Hahahahaha...Now you married your husband!?, asin you paid his groom price and paid for the wedding celebration!?, if you did it confirms your husband is a weakling and wretched, i real man gotta do what a real man does!, Hahahaha, so you married your husband or your husband married you!?, you want to pass your generational confusion and madness to me!?, thunder fire you there, Controversy kill you there!!!, everybody knows shit about you!, YOU ARE ACTUALLY MAD, na now i really confirm am!,

Caleycashh:
Hahahahaha...Now you married your husband!?, asin you paid his groom price and paid for the wedding celebration!?, if you did it confirms your husband is a weakling and wretched, i real man gotta do what a real man does!, Hahahaha, so you married your husband or your husband married you!?, you want to pass your generational confusion and madness to me!?, thunder fire you there, Controversy kill you there!!!, everybody knows shit about you!, YOU ARE ACTUALLY MAD, na now i really confirm am!,

Oh yes I did we married each other and it is a team effort we both paid for our wedding celebration I don't believe that a man is supposed to pay for everything or feed the family alone financially.It actually confirms that my husband is a lucky man because many men in Nigeria want their wives to pay for things and assist in running the family and even weddings too so yes my husband is a lucky and blessed man he is a man you can never measure up to.Like I said in 2021 and beyond men and women Marry each other whether or not you want to accept this fact it won't change the fact that consent means that women Marry their husbands too you are a bush man and not intelligent enough to know this fact learn and stop arguing like an idiot.Lol Na you thunder go fire and strike actually I have confirmed to you that I am so intelligent and exposed and beyond your league while you have confirmed to me and the whole world that you are a village clown that has no idea about what is happening around him.

YOU ARE THE MAD PERSON HERE

AmazonTopaz:
The polonium and X-ray by Marie Curie if you were a scientist you will know this she won a Nobel prize for that in the 20th century.

Women have explored fashion and define the fashion World.A woman stopped the killing of twins in Calabar and many more if you were intelligent and ready to learn you would have asked Google this question and get answers.

Hahahaha, only that one!?... Ok let me burst your bubble do you know she was assisted by her husband "Pierre Curie" a,nd didn't do that alone!?... a man can function alone most times but most women can't do without men in their lives, now no need telling you the thousands of inventions made by men and most acts valour attributed to men to aid civilization, I'm not saying women are not important but its very glaring and practical that men are more important in any given setting, psychologically, physiologically, Spiritually and Emotionally men can handle em very well more than women, so how will a sane person say women are equal to men, just like the foolish arguments most Nigerians do by saying blacks are better that white, I do ask them in what aspect!?, virtually everything used by blacks nowadays from language to lifestyle and even religion are brought by the whites... I'm more of a realist than an illusionist or someone with non practical believes!!!, even you knows that what you are saying is not practical and even it will be it will take thousands of years to be realistic especially here in Africa which is highly Patriarch, the feminism practiced in the west is even 100% practical cus at least their feminists can take care of themselves, still its creating a whole lots of nuisance and trouble in the west, unlike our African feminists who can't even recharge 200 naira card In their phones... I'm not supporting mal treating women and never will i, i have a wife and a daughter and will do anything to protect them... my anger at feminism is the switching of vital evolutionary roles of men and women, its a disaster waiting to come, cus it will ruin many homes

Caleycashh:
Hahahaha, only that one!?... Ok let me burst your bubble do you know she was assisted by her husband "Pierre Curie" a,nd didn't do that alone!?... a man can function alone most times but most women can't do without men in their lives

Glad to see that you read it I am sure you read many more inventions done by women too.Lol does it change the fact that her work was recognised and she was given a prize If a man can function alone why then does a man remarry after losing his wife and always feel the need to be with a woman and the same is not said about women who sometimes never remarry.If a man can function alone why do people say that behind a successful man lies a woman you are just a dimwit how about the other women who made outstanding research on their own without men.It is actually men who cannot do without women that was why God created the woman for those who believe in the biblical version of creation

now no need telling you the thousands of inventions made by men and most acts valour attributed to men to aid civilization

Men have that to their credit because women were not given the same opportunity as they were in the past that is why until recently women started inventing researching and breaking barriers with more on the way too many of these women have been Nobel prize recipients too

I'm not saying women are not important but its very glaring and practical that men are more important in any given setting, psychologically, physiologically, Spiritually and Emotionally men can handle em very well more than women

There is no proof of this whatsoever just your head telling you these delusions if men were so important emotionally why are they so prone to anger you don't know what you are saying here the things you mentioned is not synonymous to any gender but human attributes which could be good or bad men are not more important in any of these things you mentioned

so how will a sane person say women are equal to men, just like the foolish arguments most Nigerians do by saying blacks are better that white, I do ask them in what aspect!

Now that I just told you that men are not important than women in any aspect you mentioned it kills this stupid question you are asking that said the Bible and constitutions of various countries including Nigeria all men are created equal and men in this case includes women too.When people talk about equality it is in the fact that no one should be discriminated against treated unfairly or denied equal access it can also be called equity.You should do more research on that to know what they mean by equality.There are arguments where women beat men in biology and other areas so those are the aspects and many more too when people say women are better multitaskers than men going by your logic it means women are better than men too because that is an aspect backed by facts.

virtually everything used by blacks nowadays from language to lifestyle and even religion are brought by the whites... I'm more of a realist than an illusionist or someone with non practical believes

So going by that whites are better than blacks though I might agree with you but if blacks were opportune like whites they will also do better so nobody should be limited by gender,race,religion etc if you were a realist like you said you will open your eyes to the facts around you that women are making progress and feminism is a good thing that has helped women but you are not instead you want to keep being delusional that women are nothing and men are better which is not in anyway true

even you knows that what you are saying is not practical

Lol what did I say that is not practical are women not voting having equal rights and breaking barriers daily across the world are women not feeding families working and breadwinners in their families too so what exactly is not practical there we have a long way to go but it is a start that is very much practicable

and even it will be it will take thousands of years to be realistic especially here in Africa which is highly Patriarch

I agree with this but note Africa already has few women leaders,parliamentaruans and scientist and there is already awareness and fights against FGM,Domedtic violence,rape and gender abuse so yes that is a start as patriarchal as it is women are already aware of those rights and are advocating better across Africa take Rwanda as a case study and even in Nigeria and others women are breadwinners and work to support and feed the family and in some parts of Ghana and Africa chiefs and monarchs we have a long way to go but this is a good start

the feminism practiced in the west is even 100% practical cus at least their feminists can take care of themselves, still its creating a whole lots of nuisance and trouble in the west, unlike our African feminists who can't even recharge 200 naira card In their phones

Lol you know this about African feminist how?Feminism has come to stay...

I'm not supporting mal treating women and never will i, i have a wife and a daughter and will do anything to protect them... my anger at feminism is the switching of vital evolutionary roles of men and women, its a disaster waiting to come, cus it will ruin many homes

Lol there is no defined role for anybody but social constructed roles which change and evolve as time progresses there is nothing you will say or do that will change that moving human evolution women are working feeding the home some men don't want to shoulder all responsibility and want their wives to take part if not the higher share of it and there don't mind it works for them and it is their choice that is the reality of today that you cannot change but have to accept as time goes on monarchy was the other of the day years ago now it is democracy in years to come another form of government will emerge the only thing constant in life is change which sane and open minded people should be happy to accept.Feminism is here to stay so better get it out of your head about evolutionary roles because what you said about men and women is not evolution what you wanted to say is traditional roles but what is happening in today's 21st century which you don't like is what we s called evolutionary not what you said you mixed it up.It is not a disaster just people and women in particular saying it is time to change the system and work for a better one.Homes were ruined in the pass it did not start today I am a feminist and know the ideas of feminism I stand for and apply to my life and the work I do which is centred around women and uplifting women.

AmazonTopaz:
Glad to see that you read it I am sure you read many more inventions done by women too.Lol does it change the fact that her work was recognised and she was given a prize If a man can function alone why then does a man remarry after losing his wife and always feel the need to be with a woman and the same is not said about women who sometimes never remarry.If a man can function alone why do people say that behind a successful man lies a woman you are just a dimwit how about the other women who made outstanding research on their own without men.It is actually men who cannot do without women that was why God created the woman for those who believe in the biblical version of creation Men have that to their credit because women were not given the same opportunity as they were in the past that is why until recently women started inventing researching and breaking barriers with more on the way too many of these women have been Nobel prize recipients too There is no proof of this whatsoever just your head telling you these delusions if men were so important emotionally why are they so prone to anger you don't know what you are saying here the things you mentioned is not synonymous to any gender but human attributes which could be good or bad men are not more important in any of these things you mentioned Now that I just told you that men are not important than women in any aspect you mentioned it kills this stupid question you are asking that said the Bible and constitutions of various countries including Nigeria all men are created equal and men in this case includes women too.When people talk about equality it is in the fact that no one should be discriminated against treated unfairly or denied equal access it can also be called equity.You should do more research on that to know what they mean by equality.There are arguments where women beat men in biology and other areas so those are the aspects and many more too when people say women are better multitaskers than men going by your logic it means women are better than men too because that is an aspect backed by facts. So going by that whites are better than blacks though I might agree with you but if blacks were opportune like whites they will also do better so nobody should be limited by gender,race,religion etc if you were a realist like you said you will open your eyes to the facts around you that women are making progress and feminism is a good thing that has helped women but you are not instead you want to keep being delusional that women are nothing and men are better which is not in anyway true Lol what did I say that is not practical are women not voting having equal rights and breaking barriers daily across the world are women not feeding families working and breadwinners in their families too so what exactly is not practical there we have a long way to go but it is a start that is very much practicable I agree with this but note Africa already has few women leaders,parliamentaruans and scientist and there is already awareness and fights against FGM,Domedtic violence,rape and gender abuse so yes that is a start as patriarchal as it is women are already aware of those rights and are advocating better across Africa take Rwanda as a case study and even in Nigeria and others women are breadwinners and work to support and feed the family and in some parts of Ghana and Africa chiefs and monarchs we have a long way to go but this is a good start Lol you know this about African feminist how?Feminism has come to stay... Lol there is no defined role for anybody but social constructed roles which change and evolve as time progresses there is nothing you will say or do that will change that moving human evolution women are working feeding the home some men don't want to shoulder all responsibility and want their wives to take part if not the higher share of it and there don't mind it works for them and it is their choice that is the reality of today that you cannot change but have to accept as time goes on monarchy was the other of the day years ago now it is democracy in years to come another form of government will emerge the only thing constant in life is change which sane and open minded people should be happy to accept.Feminism is here to stay so better get it out of your head about evolutionary roles because what you said about men and women is not evolution what you wanted to say is traditional roles but what is happening in today's 21st century which you don't like is what we s called evolutionary not what you said you mixed it up.It is not a disaster just people and women in particular saying it is time to change the system and work for a better one.Homes were ruined in the pass it did not start today I am a feminist and know the ideas of feminism I stand for and apply to my life and the work I do which is centred around women and uplifting women.

Anything that rocks your boat and make you feel fulfilled do it... but don't look down on other peoples opinions and ideology, no one knows everything!!!

Caleycashh:
Anything that rocks your boat and make you feel fulfilled do it... but don't look down on other peoples opinions and ideology, no one knows everything!!!

Practice what you preach then

AmazonTopaz:
Practice what you preach then

I 100% do!... remember you quoted me not me!

Caleycashh:
I 100% do!... remember you quoted me not me!

That is not in contention the fact that you tried to look down on my ideology as a feminist and insult my hubby or how we choose to run our home says otherwise.

AmazonTopaz:
That is not in contention the fact that you tried to look down on my ideology as a feminist and insult my hubby or how we choose to run our home says otherwise.

But I insist you did first, if you haven't quoted me I won't have done that, I stick to my ideas firmly cus I believe no ones own is superior to mine even on death point!... stick with yours don't bring it to everyone cus some people will still criticise and look down on it, remember all fingers are not equal and they are all important.

AmazonTopaz:
That is not in contention the fact that you tried to look down on my ideology as a feminist and insult my hubby or how we choose to run our home says otherwise.

You are a prostitute for life. Sadly

Kokobilo87:
You are a prostitute for life. Sadly

It is your mother actually

AmazonTopaz:
It is your mother actually

It does not change the fact that you are a prostitute. When the night comes you will get busy in the streets.

bukatyne:
In secondary school, we called it 'if na me'

I don't think it is a 'woman' problem because I have seen men do same on/offline.

'I wash my wife's car because she deserves it's; 'i cook because it is my hobby'; 'I do XYZ because my spouse deserves it'.

They are all married to the only good men and women in the world so going the extra mile for them or being a little patient is worth it.

Somehow, they 'enjoy' doing all the good things that would continually make their spouses happy. Those things are not 'compulsory', they just 'like' to do them.

They are so plenty here that it makes for comic relief when they goad posters into doing what is wrong while they know (from their previous posts/belief system/situation) that they are taking far more or doing something worse.

This generation also has itchy ears so when you assess the stories they bring or tell and tell them the truth, you become a 'man pleaser'; 'anti-feminist'; 'anti-women'; 'simp'; 'woman wrapper'. Etc.

That's why a Beyonce (a woman who forgave a cheating husband and immediately went on to have twins) would wear a bikini and tell girls they 'rule' the world or to summarize 'the future is female'. And girls would listen and project their inner 'Sasha' whom Beyonce left on stage at home.

Or a Chimamanda who dresses like a Pastor's wife would come out to complain 'girls are told to dress decently or cross their legs while sitting' and women would shout 'power to the ladies'.

Or Cardi B would tell women not to buy more expansive gifts for their men aka buy weed when he gives you flowers while she buys the world and more for her husband/baby daddy.

Like you rightly said, some of the people goading you also want to use you as a guinea pig for their fantasies. 'If Shade or Tunji runs it and it works for them, maybe I would try it'.

I believe anyone matured enough to have a relationship/marriage or attain certain positions must have acquired the required skill set and emotional intelligence to maintain them.

If they don't, they should go and learn.

such an intelligent write up.

bukatyne:
In secondary school, we called it 'if na me'

I don't think it is a 'woman' problem because I have seen men do same on/offline.

'I wash my wife's car because she deserves it's; 'i cook because it is my hobby'; 'I do XYZ because my spouse deserves it'.

They are all married to the only good men and women in the world so going the extra mile for them or being a little patient is worth it.

Somehow, they 'enjoy' doing all the good things that would continually make their spouses happy. Those things are not 'compulsory', they just 'like' to do them.

They are so plenty here that it makes for comic relief when they goad posters into doing what is wrong while they know (from their previous posts/belief system/situation) that they are taking far more or doing something worse.

This generation also has itchy ears so when you assess the stories they bring or tell and tell them the truth, you become a 'man pleaser'; 'anti-feminist'; 'anti-women'; 'simp'; 'woman wrapper'. Etc.

That's why a Beyonce (a woman who forgave a cheating husband and immediately went on to have twins) would wear a bikini and tell girls they 'rule' the world or to summarize 'the future is female'. And girls would listen and project their inner 'Sasha' whom Beyonce left on stage at home.

Or a Chimamanda who dresses like a Pastor's wife would come out to complain 'girls are told to dress decently or cross their legs while sitting' and women would shout 'power to the ladies'.

Or Cardi B would tell women not to buy more expansive gifts for their men aka buy weed when he gives you flowers while she buys the world and more for her husband/baby daddy.

Like you rightly said, some of the people goading you also want to use you as a guinea pig for their fantasies. 'If Shade or Tunji runs it and it works for them, maybe I would try it'.

I believe anyone matured enough to have a relationship/marriage or attain certain positions must have acquired the required skill set and emotional intelligence to maintain them.

If they don't, they should go and learn.

You are very lucky this topic is old. I would have schooled you. You know nothing about Beyonce.