Garbage.. belongs to the thrash!!

Twoclans:


We know oga Toks

Babe how are you?

E wan create controversial thread and feminism is perfect. I am good jare, come give me 2k.

Feminism was becoming a serious topic until a group of Nigerian hos (especially from Nairaland) joined the wagon. Unknown things like Sapphiere think they're feminists by attacking men regularly, and some others think feminism is all about female domination. The most useless ones among them believe they don't need to work as long as they have men around them.
To understand true feminism listen to Hilary Clinton and avoid Nigerian hos.

Two misogynists disagree on what feminism is. Neither knows what it is.

One supports male masturbation in public vehicles, the other is just after the red pill. Nigerian men at it.

Then it flew right over his head

pocohantas:


E wan create controversial thread and feminism is perfect. I am good jare, come give me 2k.

Send your akant number ,I will wire the money.

danowena:
Someone said feminism is for women who are too ugly / unlucky to get things from a man and have little chances of getting married.

It’s true..
Bitter, damaged and hopeless..
I’ve never seen a sane Nigeria feminist..

SweetCunt97:
No i cant work o, he'll have to work and we'll have a joint account as we women are better managers. Cant work and care for kids naw abi y do you think children rape is on the high? Women dont nurture anymore as they are busy workin.

Working don’t have to be on a full time meaning don’t bring that excuse of you can’t work because of this and that. So if God forbid he fall sick or he becomes disabled you won’t survive. Taking care of the kids is a job of you two also. Always find time to work and train kids. You chose to be married and to be a parent. Take responsibility.

Whatevet Feminists do, it's their business. I truly don't give a fvck. All I know is am not helping one, saving one, protecting one, marrying one. And if one should eventually get in my way, I will totally destroys her like I would a man.

pocohantas:


Most definitely.

Well that is true... I write when I'm bored cos it's my way of killing boredom...

BUT WHEN I WRITE I MAKE SENSE.

stanliwise:

Working don’t have to be on a full time meaning don’t bring that excuse of you can’t work because of this and that. So if God forbid he fall sick or he becomes disabled you won’t survive. Taking care of the kids is a job of you two also. Always find time to work and train kids. You chose to be married and to be a parent. Take responsibility.

Aint i surviving on my own before he came along? Nigerians and their silly mentality of working to survive. Abi i no fit get salon put person there? Or cars for uber? One dont need to work to earn bro... Enlarge ur thinking broadband

Abeg for where dey happen hope say no b naija cos this topic ain't to be on this platform remember it NAIRALAND not DOLLARLAND

And for their sexual satisfaction, I think they can also do well to avoid any sex organ/object that resembles the male sexual organ. And there must be no penetration what so ever, because that will be imitating the work of the male organ.

AfroKnight:


Totally wrong.

Feminism doesn’t care about a fair world but only the the advancement of women. Don’t be deceived. By their fruit you shall know them.

They are always in contention even over the smallest things.

Op u understand what feminism really is, is not about men and women being equal, feminism is a nice name for "Women supremacy" the other guy talking about egalitarianism isn't well in the know! Feminism doesn't really want t create level playing field for gender but to emasculate men, they want a situation where jobs are given just for being a woman! They don't care if u re qualified for it or not, NOI has already started it! That's wat u get when feminists get on top, they empower women and emasculate men which isn't feminism, feminism to them is advancing women rights no matter the circumstances, looking out for women at the detriment of men, if a woman is accuses a man of rape they don't care to know if its true or not, there own is to protect women weda right or wrong! Today's women's feminism is a Misandrist movement and a hate crime against men!!!! Don't be deceived!

SweetCunt97:
Aint i surviving on my own before he came along? Nigerians and their silly mentality of working to survive. Abi i no fit get salon put person there? Or cars for uber? One dont need to work to earn bro... Enlarge ur thinking broadband

so if you earn then what do you need the “head” of the home to be taking care of you mean.? Giving you money for soup, house rent and nails and clothes and all. So Anuty your own money would now be for?

AfroKnight:
You defined egalitarianism not feminism.

Feminists are not looking to even any scale. They are looking out for women only.

Their idea of success and fulfilment is incomplete if a man is not losing out or if they cannot favourably compare said success with that of a man.

As for what they should avoid, I agree. No man should be unfortunate to be married to a feminist, especially these Nigerian e-feminists A.K.A bitterleaf FC.

You’re very right. Women that started feminist movement we’re even married and blessed. It was never about men. It was about women having their own voice..

Men of the very Olden days used women like scumbags & since they had zero power, they didn’t have a voice..

Now feminist evolved to cure that. They didn’t want any equality self, just women should be treated with with fairness..

Generations by generations, different bittered women evolved and twisted it. Here we’re today, I don’t even think feminist are fighting for women anymore, it’s now all about men..

The real feminist movement is dead long time ago.. Reasonable women are not so into it anymore since the goal has been changed..

Nobody wants to associate with bitterness..

stanliwise:
so if you earn then what do you need the “head” of the home to be taking care of you mean.? Giving you money for soup, house rent and nails and clothes and all. So Anuty your own money would now be for?

Well, I'd still want someone who'd notice if my hair is rough, if I've got a torn blouse heck someone who'd book a ticket to Dubai for us to simply go chill. So ur soup, rent are basic... I really dont have to school u on how to be a man and ur responsibilities bro, that's ur dad's job. Too bad if u lost the teaching to all these nonsense u digest online

GeneralPula:


You’re very right. Women that started feminist movement we’re even married and blessed. It was never about men. It was about women having their own voice..

Men of the very Olden days used women like scumbags & since they had zero power, they didn’t have a voice..

Now feminist evolved to cure that. They didn’t want any equality self, just women should be treated with with fairness..

Generations by generations, different bittered women evolved and twisted it. Here we’re today, I don’t even think feminist are fighting for women anymore, it’s now all about men..

The real feminist movement is dead long time ago.. Reasonable women are not so into it anymore since the goal has been changed..

Nobody wants to associate with bitterness..

Feminism is needed in those arab countries

Toks2008:


I will not argue this with you any further.

The Internet is your friend.. Use it.
S
BTW are you sure you read the write up properly?

Please read again and this time slowly...

Toks2008, u re reading books on feminism, well av u read Esther vilar r's book on women Psychology! Feminism lost its human touch a long time ago and has been hijacked by men haters and misandrists who think the world is men dominated and want t change it! Its a radical extremist view to emasculate men from top positions in d world! I can never have a decent talk with a feminist(Men hater) and not get disgusted with such hateful and misandrist views about men, they make men look evil forgetting that their dad is a man, their brother's and nephews, grand pas and uncles are men, the stranger and neighbours that help them are men, the most annoying is that useless Rhoda Francis of Magic FM that comes up every Thursday with the useless show called "Feminic" I think Men in d studio should come out with their own version of that es

SweetCunt97:
Well, I'd still want someone who'd notice if my hair is rough, if I've got a torn blouse heck someone who'd book a ticket to Dubai for us to simply go chill. So ur soup, rent are basic... I really dont have to school u on how to be a man and ur responsibilities bro, that's ur dad's job. Too bad if u lost the teaching to all these nonsense u digest online

Tell this rubbish to your husband. Meanwhile at the end of the day sha have sense. Your husband is also human being.
Don’t kill him because he is bearing the “Head” name. Head means leader.

If men had not subjugated women in the first place,there would have been no need for an ideology such as Feminism.

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Women are forced to abandon their academic ambitions,so that they can marry on time and not become 'an evening newspaper';a cliche commonly used by anti-feminist men here on nairaland.....

When she gets married,she is forced to stay in an abusive marriage.why? because no one will take care of her children... because of the shame of returning to her father's house or living on her own and be labelled a loose woman.... because of the men out there who see it as their duty to exploit unmarried women....

At work,she will be accused of using 'bottom power' even when she has worked hard and deserves the promotion...

So,you see these and many more are the pains of a woman..

If you CANNOT BEAR a woman's CROSS,LET HER BE with her Feminism!!!!

What some women go through,all in the name of being a weaker vessel;a lesser being; most men will never understand,only a woman can.

As for me, I stand with females!!!!

nextstep:
Feminism, in its original intended form, is an assertion that there should not be discrimination based on gender: women should not be judged on their ability to work, earn, lead, etc. solely based on their gender.

Though there are hotly debated and valid differences, I will equate feminism, womanism, and gender equality for the purpose of this discussion.

Feminism is why we have politicians, voters, doctors, astronauts, presidents, CEOs, professors, etc. who are women. It's why women can legally inherit property, leave abusive marriages, and pursue personal happiness.

To frame your acceptance of what I'm about to say: I would call myself a feminist, womanist, and a believer in gender equality; my mother was a founding member of Women in Nigeria back in early 80s so I was steeped in the history, reason, and difficulties of feminism in the Igbo, Nigerian, African, Western, and global contexts. I am a happily married man who appreciates and encourages his strong wife to attain all that she can. I don't feel threatened, and I respect her as a partner in decision making, though I confess I've had to put my foot down as a man on the rare occasion. As a woman, she appreciates and desires me to lead as her man with all the connotations it implies, but it doesn't mean she wants to be discriminated against, ignored, abused, or denied pursuit of happiness.

I would say my understanding of feminism is more about mutual self-respect between interdependent partners who complement each other.

Ironically, there has been a long history of gender eqality in Africa - to the point that most African women were far more independent and empowered in African societies in 1700s than their European counterparts. African women provided for their families (they farmed, taught, ran markets, protested, and were a visible voice in decision making in African societies long before American women could vote).


If a man have have total independence without any inhibitions, why can't a woman? There have been many inhibitions placed on a woman simply because she is a woman, and objectively cannot be said to be fair. Feminism is a reaction to this.


This of course conveniently avoids the fact that these books were written from a male point of view - I find even the concept of God being male quite odd since we're restricting an omnipresent being to needing to have a gender. It reflects more the limitations in the minds of people than the actual reality. The bible also suggests/supports a lot of things that we now consider archaic, so I wouldn't be quick to use it as a reference for what should be in today's society. But that aside, ever hear the expression: "the man may be the head, but the woman is the neck?" Can't do much without the neck and head both agreeing to turn. I view marriage in that light: it's a partnership where men too should participate in give-and-take.


No argument here... this is just a classic case of eating your cake and having it. With anything and any movement, most people will take all the positives, and not want to take on the negatives: e.g. some women complain that men are no longer chivalrous because of equality, conveniently forgetting that chivalry was strong when women couldn't own property, vote, lead societies, and if you go back far enough in Western society, didn't even posses souls.



However, we can't ignore basic biology that there are some things women can't (or were not trained to, or would rather not) do; conversely, there are some things men cannot do (or are not naturally disposed to doing).

Well, the main thrust of feminism is that it gives both genders the same opportunities to choose what they want to do - in education, employment, having a voice in society. We should not ignore the inequalities that keep half the population oppressed because of a few idiosyncrasies.

This is woke, why do leftists all sound the same with similar argument patterns

AfroKnight:
You defined egalitarianism not feminism.

Feminists are not looking to even any scale. They are looking out for women only.

Their idea of success and fulfilment is incomplete if a man is not losing out or if they cannot favourably compare said success with that of a man.

As for what they should avoid, I agree. No man should be unfortunate to be married to a feminist, especially these Nigerian e-feminists A.K.A bitterleaf FC.

neyohh:


This is woke, why do leftists all sound the same with similar argument patterns

Because, as in physics and maths, arriving at the correct solution involves making the similar pattern.

AfroKnight:
You defined egalitarianism not feminism.

Feminists are not looking to even any scale. They are looking out for women only.

Their idea of success and fulfilment is incomplete if a man is not losing out or if they cannot favourably compare said success with that of a man.

As for what they should avoid, I agree. No man should be unfortunate to be married to a feminist, especially these Nigerian e-feminists A.K.A bitterleaf FC.

Gbam...
My guy say na Bitter leaf FC

Heathrow44:




Toks2008, u re reading books on feminism, well av u read Esther vilar r's book on women Psychology! Feminism lost its human touch a long time ago and has been hijacked by men haters and misandrists who think the world is men dominated and want t change it! Its a radical extremist view to emasculate men from top positions in d world! I can never have a decent talk with a feminist(Men hater) and not get disgusted with such hateful and misandrist views about men, they make men look evil forgetting that their dad is a man, their brother's and nephews, grand pas and uncles are men, the stranger and neighbours that help them are men, the most annoying is that useless Rhoda Francis of Magic FM that comes up every Thursday with the useless show called "Feminic" I think Men in d studio should come out with their own version of that es

Bro, you are based in Lagos, just curious how you know Rhoda francis and follow the feminic show on Magic fm radio station..
You be Aba boy too ??

nextstep:


Because, as in physics and maths, arriving at the correct solution involves making the similar pattern.

Nah I don't agree, maths and opinions can't be used in this context, you could be a victim of a psy-op bigger than what you imagine.

Could it be all those leftist articles you've read

Some solid points in there though.

The OP himself does not understand what feminism is about and the aggressive variants we see online goes further to aggravate the misconception. Nairaland is also the last place to have such constructive discussion. So OP, to each his own

Okay, OP.

Listen to that man called nextstep. He understands what the concept means to the last breath. He has indeed said it all

Biglittlelois:
Lol all of you will be fine, the earlier you guys realise that a female movement is for the betterment and inclusion of females in every sphere of life, the better for you.

A movement that is not even recognised in Nigeria, is what is giving most of y'all heart attack like the government is about adding it into the constitution when there are so many ills in the country right now, yet you people keep crying and wailing over it, concern yourselves in getting solutions to the negativities everywhere, then when or if feminism sees the light of day, your wailing may be heard, which is actually never cos of the high handedness of naija men and religion.

While you do what? We should concern ourselves with the happening in Nigeria while you ....

Contribute constructively, no body is crying about anyone, to think your gender can have four of you sleep with one man at the same time without shame sharing one man's cock for money � and you are talking about feminist! Madame take loud � speaker and educate your gender first.

There's no way in hell I am sharing a woman with another man not to talk of on the same bed, I can bet you your gender is having a field day as we type.

SweetCunt97:
Which one is money mr man? You so immature if you think "care" translates into money alone. Omo shift jarey.

If man money no dey important, Ruth for no go lie down for Boaz feet as hunger wan kill her and her mil. So abeg you men should quit the conplains.

Minister of maturity.................but Ruth nor dey senseless like you now..........if na you be Ruth, with this your mentality..........Boaz for chase you with big stick

Olisainokwaya:
How would they reproduce

700k ivf..unknown donor 50k come to ubth