Feminism wants equal rights, but not equal responsibilities and labour.

pocohantas:
1. We are not all christians.

2. Feminism doesn’t mean the woman must work. Respect all women and their choices. If she is a housewife, that is fine, provided her and her husband are in agreement.

3. There are things that would always be considered male and female.

You haven’t stopped traveling to America to prove you are equal to the whites. Sorry to say, you and your kind are not making any sense.

The people who needs this sermon on the mount are in The view hotel, charity hotel, and so on.

Ordinary hardbook for feminist that is not up to 10 page you can't read, you want to add gospel according to saint pocohant to it.

Feminist can't be a christian it's that simple, you have no shame you could type number two and then add number three because your fat ass can't allow you do anything.

Madame hit the gym jor and stop disgracing a noble cause.

Oladoyinipede:
If men had not subjugated women in the first place,there would have been no need for an ideology such as Feminism.

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Women are forced to abandon their academic ambitions,so that they can marry on time and not become 'an evening newspaper';a cliche commonly used by anti-feminist men here on nairaland.....

When she gets married,she is forced to stay in an abusive marriage.why? because no one will take care of her children... because of the shame of returning to her father's house or living on her own and be labelled a loose woman.... because of the men out there who see it as their duty to exploit unmarried women....

At work,she will be accused of using 'bottom power' even when she has worked hard and deserves the promotion...

So,you see these and many more are the pains of a woman..

If you CANNOT BEAR a woman's CROSS,LET HER BE with her Feminism!!!!

What some women go through,all in the name of being a weaker vessel;a lesser being; most men will never understand,only a woman can.

As for me, I stand with females!!!!

No one forced women to do anything..we all have choices....women want to bear children? they should deal with the consequences...or stay childless and husbandless and face their careers and education instead of crying that men did it to them..

have you heard the song “sweet father” Nope!!!!there’s only “sweet mother” for a reason.

U get to children, and the joy of bonding and caring, collect maternity leave, collect full salary and still want Management to ignore that your KPI is showing less 4 months less than the guy that has been at his desk 12 months in a year.... welldone..feminism is working..

And yeah..... lots of women need bottom power to get ahead of men becos men are fvcking too hardworking...

I see them in the offices using Yansh to bring account...later they will say it’s management and men’s fault.....i spit!!!!!

BRATISLAVA:
Two misogynists disagree on what feminism is. Neither knows what it is.

One supports male masturbation in public vehicles, the other is just after the red pill. Nigerian men at it.

Must you demonize the redpill

What Nonsense

Elvisgolden:


Minister of maturity.................but Ruth nor dey senseless like you now..........if na you be Ruth, with this your mentality..........Boaz for chase you with big stick

Lolz. Baba free me Chelsea don enter finals, i gat no time for shitty talk.

stanliwise:
Tell this rubbish to your husband. Meanwhile at the end of the day sha have sense. Your husband is also human being.
Don’t kill him because he is bearing the “Head” name. Head means leader.

Thank you. Leader. I've always been a very reasonable and considerate lady.

pocohantas:
1. We are not all christians.

2. Feminism doesn’t mean the woman must work. Respect all women and their choices. If she is a housewife, that is fine, provided her and her husband are in agreement.

3. There are things that would always be considered male and female.

You haven’t stopped traveling to America to prove you are equal to the whites. Sorry to say, you and your kind are not making any sense.

1. The most relevant thing is majority has a religion, say naa una 1st dey fly b4 plane fly thats ur problem
2. How can two people be equal while one depend on the other, person wey no work no go be leech. women are to respect men & their choices cos its only sane for the head to lead.
3. when capacity varies their is no equality

Till date nelson mandela is the most celebrated man in the world, if burna boy did not go to america to collect the biggest white man award(grammy) why would any black man go to america to measure dvck just watch porn ... olodo rabata beta go sun dry that tin yu call a brain.

Heathrow44:




Op u understand what feminism really is, is not about men and women being equal, feminism is a nice name for "Women supremacy" the other guy talking about egalitarianism isn't well in the know! Feminism doesn't really want t create level playing field for gender but to emasculate men, they want a situation where jobs are given just for being a woman! They don't care if u re qualified for it or not, NOI has already started it! That's wat u get when feminists get on top, they empower women and emasculate men which isn't feminism, feminism to them is advancing women rights no matter the circumstances, looking out for women at the detriment of men, if a woman is accuses a man of rape they don't care to know if its true or not, there own is to protect women weda right or wrong! Today's women's feminism is a Misandrist movement and a hate crime against men!!!! Don't be deceived!

U are completely wrong and simply displaying ur misogynist mindset. NOI put 2 women and 2 men on the board and u already feel threatened. Why are u threaten by the equally no? because it is the 1st time ever? Well that is not feminisms at all atleast like what u are desperately trying to decribe. Feminism would have been the case if she put only women on that board. Then u can say men are under a threat.

In a corporate world or a general world ladies have been relegated to the back and what sensible feminists are trying to do is bring these women to a similar active role. Bt men feel theathen by the slightest things probably because of the extreme feminists. If I may use that description.

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Real feminists are only interested in the fun and convenient aspects of being a man. Take them to dinner, they expect a man to pay except the fugly ones whose problems are just frustrations. They hate people not just males.

I am yet to see a beautiful feminist.
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InvertedHammer:
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Real feminists are only interested in the fun and convenient aspects of being a man. Take them to dinner, they expect a man to pay except the fugly ones whose problems are just frustrations. They hate people not just males.

I am yet to see a beautiful feminist.
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The same can be said of some men. They only want to be The Head when it's convenient. They shun feminism, so they can tell you they want a working wife that would bring financial gains to their hypothetical table.

Feminism isn't something to be feared. It's just a movement for a just world. It doesn't even shun femininity and a feminist can still opt to be some man's property, so long as the decision doesn't cause them harm and/or is pushed upon them.

Sadly, we live in a world where men are likely to listen to only men, so yeah, a lot more men have to be feminists to propagate the truth, which is far removed from what this op is spewing.

Rocktation:


The same can be said of some men. They only want to be The Head when it's convenient. They shun feminism, so they can tell you they want a working wife that would bring financial gains to their hypothetical table.

Feminism isn't something to be feared. It's just a movement for a just world. It doesn't even shun femininity and a feminist can still opt to be some man's property, so long as the decision doesn't cause them harm and/or is pushed upon them.

Sadly, we live in a world where men are likely to listen to only men, so yeah, a lot more men have to be feminists to propagate the truth, which is far removed from what this op is spewing.

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A man's property? I guess you mistake division of labour for domestic slavery. A woman can bring in the cake without wearing it as a badge of honour. Feminists are not interested in any role they play. They just need standing ovation doing it.

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Your post is senseless , go and read the real meaning of feminism, you people keep talking trash about the word feminists without adeguate knowledge,








quote author=Toks2008


post=101413954]Feminism is an ideology that believes in equality of all the sexes in all aspects and strata of life ...It is about both gender having equal rights and opportunities and as long as you believe in this ideology, you are a feminist whether you are a male or female.

But Feminism transcends beyond sex equality hence there is a deeper twist to this term Feminism and it is simply about a woman having total freedom to do what she wants without any form of inhibitions... it is about a woman having total independence in all facets of life and this is the true definition of Feminism.

Be that as it may, i find a very funny contradictions in the persona or way of life of ladies who claim to be feminists and that is the crux of this piece... Below are three things a female Feminist should avoid and any lady who claims to be a feminist yet is involved in any of these three is hypocritical or perhaps confused about who she is.

1. A FEMINIST SHOULD AVOID MARRIAGE : Except there is a different form of marriage asides the one institutionalized by the creator GOD almighty then i think any feminist who goes into marriage is on a wild goose chase or should just give up the ideology.

There is no way you can be a feminist and practise the submissiveness as commanded by GOD. A feminist does what she wants and she is not obliged to obey any man. The bible and even the Quran clearly state that the Husband is the head of the wife and a wife MUST SUBMIT AND OBEY HER HUSBAND. This is a total deviation from the ideology of feminism and any feminist who is married is not a true feminist.

2. A FEMINIST MUST NEVER DEPEND ON ANY MAN FINANCIALLY: You can't be a feminist and still want a man to pay your bills...a feminist makes her own money 100% and will never at any point depend partly or totally on any man for money. After all, financial independence is a core attribute of a feminist.

3. A FEMINIST SHOULD NEVER TURN DOWN ANY TASK OR JOB WITH AN EXCUSE THAT IT IS A MAN'S THING:
It is all about equality so there is no job designated for the men, a feminist should be able to take up any task no matter how manly it appears and any lady who believes in the feminism ideology yet shies away from certain tasks with an excuse that it is a man's thing should simply give up the ideology.

My candid opinion...You may add yours. [/quote]

Toks2008:


Well that is true... I write when I'm bored cos it's my way of killing boredom...

BUT WHEN I WRITE I MAKE SENSE.

Indeed... I am sure Buhari thinks same of himself.

jaxxy:


U are completely wrong and simply displaying ur misogynist mindset. NOI put 2 women and 2 men on the board and u already feel threatened. Why are u threaten by the equally no? because it is the 1st time ever? Well that is not feminisms at all atleast like what u are desperately trying to decribe. Feminism would have been the case if she put only women on that board. Then u can say men are under a threat.

In a corporate world or a general world ladies have been relegated to the back and what sensible feminists are trying to do is bring these women to a similar active role. Bt men feel theathen by the slightest things probably because of the extreme feminists. If I may use that description.

I knew sensible and unbis men can’t just go extinct. Feminism would gladly protest against such.

pocohantas:


Indeed... I am sure Buhari thinks same of himself.



I knew sensible and unbis men can’t just go extinct. Feminism would gladly protest against such.

We aren’t extinct o bt we are trying not get pulled by the 2 extremist views on both sides.

It’s like a tug of war game

jaxxy:


We aren’t extinct o bt we are trying not get pulled by the 2 extremist views on both sides.

It’s like a tug of war game

Lmao, I can imagine how tough it must be maintaining that balance. Don’t mind Toks2008. I go deactivate his NL account, make everybody rest. Feminist kor, Tundenist ni.

danowena:
Someone said feminism is for women who are too ugly / unlucky to get things from a man and have little chances of getting married.

You can add Lesbians to the list too...

AHCB:
Unfortunately all 3 are things they can't avoid. The Nigerian (most) feminist (both home and abroad) are a bunch of bitter, vengeful and vile creatures. One look at them and you'll see everything wrong with everything a woman is.

A lot of 'traditional' women are the same way.

TheRedpillguy:
Whatevet Feminists do, it's their business. I truly don't give a fvck. All I know is am not helping one, saving one, protecting one, marrying one. And if one should eventually get in my way, I will totally destroys her like I would a man.

I share this same opinion with you 100%

SweetCunt97:
I'm a traditional lady, I expect my man to care for me even know i gat my own money. He's the head cos i know my roles and responsibilities while he should know his.

So what happens to your own money o.

I'm a feminist. Happily married. We share responsibilities here. No human being is greater than the other. Stop massaging your ego. You are still dragging roles, in this Buhari's time? How much do you earn? Do you think only you can foot the bills in your home if your partner is not supportive.

Oladoyinipede:
If men had not subjugated women in the first place,there would have been no need for an ideology such as Feminism.

,
Women are forced to abandon their academic ambitions,so that they can marry on time and not become 'an evening newspaper';a cliche commonly used by anti-feminist men here on nairaland.....

When she gets married,she is forced to stay in an abusive marriage.why? because no one will take care of her children... because of the shame of returning to her father's house or living on her own and be labelled a loose woman.... because of the men out there who see it as their duty to exploit unmarried women....

At work,she will be accused of using 'bottom power' even when she has worked hard and deserves the promotion...

So,you see these and many more are the pains of a woman..

If you CANNOT BEAR a woman's CROSS,LET HER BE with her Feminism!!!!

What some women go through,all in the name of being a weaker vessel;a lesser being; most men will never understand,only a woman can.

As for me, I stand with females!!!!

I love you

ednut1:
Oga toks is chimamanda not married Abeg your points hold no water

Even ishilove the great NL feminist once snatched my boyfriend here using an alternate moniker. Fake ,confused feminists everywhere looking for validation.

InvertedHammer:
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Real feminists are only interested in the fun and convenient aspects of being a man. Take them to dinner, they expect a man to pay except the fugly ones whose problems are just frustrations. They hate people not just males.

I am yet to see a beautiful feminist.
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This is one here. Beautiful in and out, A woman with power and affluence

Well, all I know is that what we have here in Nigeria ain’t feminists. They are bunch of witches

Toks2008:


Nice one. The truth is that there is no big deal if any lady chooses the path of feminism... I just hate it when a lady wants to have her cake and still eat it.

You can't be acting like a feminist in a relationship and still expect to be treated like a traditional lady.

You and this your coded game of gender threads...

Anyway I agree with you on this one..

Traditional ladies are feminine and should be handled as queen.(A queen is submissive to her king).

Feminists should be treated as men...

GeneralPula:

It’s true..
Bitter, damaged and hopeless..
I’ve never seen a sane Nigeria feminist..

You're right Bro.

Feminist = ugly ladies who think men look down on them always.

Femisit = beautiful ladies who are unfortunate as a result of pride. They look down on good men, so bad ones used and dumped them

Femisit = Stupid and unwise ladies who will always regret not submitting to a good man by the time they are clocking 40.

Anyone who practices feminism in this age has something wrong with her personality...

All of you should gettat.. A feminist can still choose to live her life not on your dictates but hers..

SweetCunt97:
I'm a traditional lady, I expect my man to care for me even know i gat my own money. He's the head cos i know my roles and responsibilities while he should know his.

God bless

Accurate !!, you have said it all ...

EndRape2:
Your post is senseless , go and read the real meaning of feminism, you people keep talking trash about the word feminists without adeguate knowledge,

Can i ask you one question?

Does the ideology of feminism embrace submissiveness of a woman to a man?

Just give me a yes or No answer then go back and read my write up again and this time objectively and not with unneeded emotion which is very typical of the women folk.

AfroKnight:
You defined egalitarianism not feminism.

Feminists are not looking to even any scale. They are looking out for women only.

Their idea of success and fulfilment is incomplete if a man is not losing out or if they cannot favourably compare said success with that of a man.

As for what they should avoid, I agree. No man should be unfortunate to be married to a feminist, especially these Nigerian e-feminists A.K.A bitterleaf FC.

Baba say na Bitterleaf F.C

Can we kick them out please? Their time us up