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[quoteauthor=nograv post=102141193]hmm... Ok o but i sha knw wat am taking about nd am saying it again nt evry man is u

All lies or again an exception to the rule..

Look I am a financier and software engineer. I know various other men of other races who earn a good living. Homes worth millions in dollars or pounds sterling.

Men who are high earners, in good shape and with options are not chasing women in their 40s - 60s. If you look good and have a great lifestyle women actually come to you. So if these men are chasing her, they are poor quality men.

I repeat no man, who is worth anything will pass over a 25-27 year old for a 40 to 60 year old woman with kids. The only poor quality men will chase such a situation.

If the woman has aged well, a man will still probably hit and quit it. Or worse yet hang around only until a better woman comes along..

Chai women and delusional thinking..

I didnt make the rules of the game, I just say am.. [/quote]hm

Hayee:
hm

The truth pain am

saphiere:
It shows how valuable women are.

yeah valuable to simps...

TheControversy:
This Drake sef na parasite. I pray never to have friends like him.

How he take be parasite?

DANGOTE AND OTEDOLA WARMING UP FOR KIM

nograv:
All lies or again an exception to the rule..

Look I am a financier and software engineer. I know various other men of other races who earn a good living. Homes worth millions in dollars or pounds sterling.

Men who are high earners, in good shape and with options are not chasing women in their 40s - 60s. If you look good and have a great lifestyle women actually come to you. So if these men are chasing her, they are poor quality men.

I repeat no man, who is worth anything will pass over a 25-27 year old for a 40 to 60 year old woman with kids. The only poor quality men will chase such a situation.

If the woman has aged well, a man will still probably hit and quit it. Or worse yet hang around only until a better woman comes along..

Chai women and delusional thinking..

I didnt make the rules of the game, I just say am..

They aren't exceptions.
Many people even on NL grew up with step fathers because their mother's remarried after having them. Step fathers are not a strange concept in our society, and I personally have relatives who married single mothers, despite not having children themselves.
Young men doing well in their own fields.
You listen too much to Mr KS aka Mr Kitten heels, and real life doesn't happen that way.
When you see such 'exceptions ', next thing you tell us is that these men are simps.
When it comes to the issues of the heart, forget it.
Maryam Babangida was a married woman with a child when IBB pursued her. Infact, she had once slapped IBB at the airport, as a first lady. A whole IBB, the evil genius chop slap by his woman. All cameras of journalist were confisticated that day.
Is IBB a simp?
T.Y Danjuma married a woman with children. Another military general, running things in Nigeria. The movers and shakers of the country causing trouble everywhere and making so called alpha men pee on themselves. Is he also a simp?
Atiku has stepchildren after marrying a single mother. Is he another simp?
I have more examples btw, to show you that it's not an uncommon phenomenon amongst us, for single mothers to remarry high value men who pursue them. It's not uncommon at all.
There is a point in an accomplished man's life that the parity of a woman means nothing, about how he places value on her.

eyinjuege:
They aren't exceptions.
Many people even on NL grew up with step fathers because their mother's remarried after having them. Step fathers are not a strange concept in our society, and I personally have relatives who married single mothers, despite not having children themselves.
Young men doing well in their own fields.
You listen too much to Mr KS aka Mr Kitten heels, and real life doesn't happen that way.
When you see such 'exceptions ', next thing you tell us is that these men are simps.
When it comes to the issues of the heart, forget it.
Maryam Babangida was a married woman with a child when IBB pursued her. Infact, she had once slapped IBB at the airport, as a first lady. A whole IBB, the evil genius chop slap by his woman. All cameras of journalist were confisticated that day.
Is IBB a simp?
T.Y Danjuma married a woman with children. Another military general, running things in Nigeria. The movers and shakers of the country causing trouble everywhere and making so called alpha men pee on themselves. Is he also a simp?
Atiku has stepchildren after marrying a single mother. Is he another simp?
I have more examples btw, to show you that it's not an uncommon phenomenon amongst us, for single mothers to remarry high value men who pursue them. It's not uncommon at all.
There is a point in an accomplished man's life that the parity of a woman means nothing, about how he places value on her.

I can see I have pained many women lol

They are exceptions if the majority of men when presented with this scenario would not conduct themselves in the way you cited...

Also please dont put words in my mouth. Nowhere have I used western words like simp etc.

I have said that the majority of wealthy men I have met/seen would not choose a 40-60 year old woman with kids over a 25-27 year old who has no children.

That there are exceptions I wont disagree. But if you gave the majority of men on this forum a few million dollars let alone a billion dollars they certainly wouldnt be running after older women with children. You know as well I do they would be in VI and Lekki chasing younger women up and down..

Also the men you cited are thieves, they arent high earners by virtue of work, so again this may also explain why this small subset of men have a different mindset. Being Alpha in my opinion is a man who has risen to the top of his field by virtue of his intellect and work. None of the men you cited fit this description.

At the end of the day, believe what you want to believe, that doesnt neccesarily mean it is true.

nograv:
[/b]I can see I have pained many women lol [b]

They are exceptions if the majority of men when presented with this scenario would not conduct themselves in the way you cited...

Also please dont put words in my mouth. Nowhere have I used western words like simp etc.

I have said that the majority of wealthy men I have met/seen would not choose a 40-60 year old woman with kids over a 25-27 year old who has no children.

That there are exceptions I wont disagree. But if you gave the majority of men on this forum a few million dollars let alone a billion dollars they certainly wouldnt be running after older women with children. You know as well I do they would be in VI and Lekki chasing younger women up and down..

Also the men you cited are thieves, they arent high earners by virtue of work, so again this may also explain why this small subset of men have a different mindset. Being Alpha in my opinion is a man who has risen to the top of his field by virtue of his intellect and work. None of the men you cited fit this description.

At the end of the day, believe what you want to believe, that doesnt neccesarily mean it is true.

Nobody is pained by what you have said, and if anything at all you're the one sounding pained and moving the goal posts.
It's funny how you feel anyone should be pained though, and I really wonder why.
I am only trying to correct a wrong narrative. I gave some examples and there are many more btw.
Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates have lost their marriages because of older women.
Macron- President of France is married to an elderly woman with children probably older than he is.
There are loads of examples even in everyday life, that I see around me.
Men have been marrying single mothers since time immemorial. It's not a new phenomenon, and it's not stopping anytime soon.
I am just telling you how things are in real everyday life. Not fantasies some people have built from their own imaginations.
I specifically talked about alphas and simps because that's the usual excuse for many young ones on NL if things don't seem to fit the narrative in their fantasies.
Perhaps when you get older and have seen life like those examples I gave, your disposition may be different.
I definitely see IBB, Danjuma as alphas. Young men who took charge in their prime. Definitely not beta
A time comes in a man's life that he sees beyond chasing young girls in Lekki, V/I.
I wish you well young un

eyinjuege:
Nobody is pained by what you have said, and if anything at all you're the one sounding pained and moving the goal posts.
It's funny how you feel anyone should be pained though, and I really wonder why.
I am only trying to correct a wrong narrative. I gave some examples and there are many more btw.
Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates have lost their marriages because of older women.
Macron- President of France is married to an elderly woman with children probably older than he is.
There are loads of examples even in everyday life, that I see around me.
Men have been marrying single mothers since time immemorial. It's not a new phenomenon, and it's not stopping anytime soon.
I am just telling you how things are in real everyday life. Not fantasies some people have built from their own imaginations.
I specifically talked about alphas and simps because that's the usual excuse for many young ones on NL if things don't seem to fit the narrative in their fantasies.
Perhaps when you get older and have seen life like those examples I gave, your disposition may be different.
I definitely see IBB, Danjuma as alphas. Young men who took charge in their prime. Definitely not beta
A time comes in a man's life that he sees beyond chasing young girls in Lekki, V/I.
I wish you well young un

Look I already said believe what you wish to believe..

As for young'un remark, I am flattered, as I am older than you think.

I wont resort to condesension like you. I am actually happily settled down with kids. I am respected in my industry and I am well known by my peers.

If you admire the likes of Danjuma, Atiku and co, interestingly some of that cohort I know personally due to my father; then perhaps you need to reflect on your values. Seizing power and abusing your position to loot govt coffers, isn't something to be admired in my book. It is at the heart of the problem with Nigeria. If you have travelled the world like I have, you will realise that such behaviour is viewed very negatively in places like Sweden, Denmark, Singapore, Japan and China. In the case of the latter it carries the death penalty

IMO a man who works what is initially only a mere idea, brings it to fruition and earns significant sums as a result is the type of person I admire. But as you are a woman and few ever earn or have to earn large sums, perhaps it is harder for you to appreciate such a opinion. You merely want to be attached to a wealthy man, so how he acquired that wealth is of little concern to you..

Anyway, I have my beautiful wife who is calling, so I dont have anymore time to debate this issue with you.

Have a nice day..