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I think it's time people picked a different date on the calendar to 'celebrate' deadbeat dads, mums that are dads and sperm donors.
Today is strictly for fathers. Leave Father's Day for fathers, biko.

If your husband, baby daddy or father is a nuisance, kindly ignore the day and move on please, because we already have enough days in the calendar celebrating women and girls.

Thanks for dropping by.

And also celebrate fake DNA carriers and the new trending one for feminist “Marriage Scam”

Cc:

Tonto Dike
Mercy Aigbe
Yvonne Jegede

Today is also World Refugee Day so the fathers don't have a full day to themselves.

Sad.

pocohantas:


Cc:

Tonto Dike
Mercy Aigbe
Yvonne Jegeda

Check all of them. They couldn't even stay in their matrimonial homes so why won't they follow men to drag the day? It's so irritating

bukatyne:
Today is also World Refugee Day so the fathers don't have a full day to themselves.

Sad.

Really sad. I will celebrate the fathers in my life everyday because the day reserved for them has already been hijacked

Ishilove:
Check all of them. They couldn't even stay in their matrimonial homes so why won't they follow men to drag the day? It's so irritating

I made a diary post the other day. When you spend all your time as a single mother taking shots at your ex, you won’t have the grace to move on. No man would even want to move on with you.

Apart from having enough days to celebrate women, I think it reduces the quality of a woman to attribute manly qualities or titles to herself.

A mother is strong, a queen is strong and the vagina is one of the strongest creation. When you refer to yourself as a KING, it means you subconsciously think being a queen isn’t good enough.

I would never refer to myself as a king or a father. I even take it as a backhanded compliment when people tell me I drive like a man or comment like one. I don’t reply or rate such compliments. I am a woman with a vagina and that remains it till the end of time.

T for thanks

pocohantas:
I made a diary post the other day. When you spend all your time as a single mother taking shots at your ex, you won’t have the grace to move on. No man would even want to move on with you.

Apart from having enough days to celebrate women, I think it reduces the quality of a woman to attribute manly qualities or titles to herself.

A mother is strong, a queen is strong and the vagina is one of the strongest creation. When you refer to yourself as a KING, it means you subconsciously think being a queen isn’t good enough.

I would never refer to myself as a king or a father. I even take it as a backhanded compliment when people tell me I drive like a man or comment like one. I don’t reply or rate such compliments. I am a woman with a vagina and that remains it to the end of time.

T for thanks

Hear hear. I only realized the bolded when I watched a video of a woman giving birth. Pushing a baby out of that tiny hole is a superhuman feat. I felt cold sweat break out all over me when the little human popped out and since then, I am content being called a woman because WE ARE STRONG.

Anyone who wants to call herself a king should keep living in self delusion

Ishilove:
Hear hear. I only realized the bolded when I watched a video of a woman giving birth. Pushing a baby out of that tiny hole is a superhuman feat. I felt cold sweat break out all over me when the little human popped out and since then, I am content being called a woman because WE ARE STRONG.

Anyone who wants to call herself a king should keep living in self delusion

I knew Tonto was going to do that. Totally forgot Mercy pulls same stunt every other time.

subtle jabs everywhere, King Tonto don suffer

Not just tonto. Waje herself is also an accomplice to this


To me, I think these women are pained and wouldn't want to move on. Let the fathers be. It's a once-in-a-year something.. Mothers have so many days in a year to celebrate.

Ishilove:
Really sad. I will celebrate the fathers in my life everyday because the day reserved for them has already been hijacked

Good one.

We ought to celebrate the people in our lives as often as possible.

I agree with you OP. All these ladies acting as though they are men and seeking relevance are confused.

pocohantas:
I made a diary post the other day. When you spend all your time as a single mother taking shots at your ex, you won’t have the grace to move on. No man would even want to move on with you.

Apart from having enough days to celebrate women, I think it reduces the quality of a woman to attribute manly qualities or titles to herself.

A mother is strong, a queen is strong and the vagina is one of the strongest creation. When you refer to yourself as a KING, it means you subconsciously think being a queen isn’t good enough.

I would never refer to myself as a king or a father. I even take it as a backhanded compliment when people tell me I drive like a man or comment like one. I don’t reply or rate such compliments. I am a woman with a vagina and that remains it till the end of time.

T for thanks

Hopefully, this golden message (especially the bold) would be understood in time.

Being a woman is enough!

When you add 'strong', 'independent', 'boss' bla bla bla, you are unconsciously saying that the state of womanhood is deficient so you need to add other qualities to 'measure up'.

Surprised that poco made such a true and profound statement.

Also, the bolded is quite insightful.

bukatyne:
Hopefully, this golden message (especially the bold) would be understood in time.

Being a woman is enough!

When you add 'strong', 'independent', 'boss' bla bla bla, you are unconsciously saying that the state of womanhood is deficient so you need to add other qualities to 'measure up'.

pocohantas:


Cc:

Tonto Dike
Mercy Aigbe
Yvonne Jegede

But they are not nairalanders. How will they see this?

pocohantas:
. I even take it as a backhanded compliment when people tell me I drive like a man or comment like one. I don’t reply or rate such compliments. I am a woman with a vagina and that remains it till the end of time.

Yep it’s not a compliment.
Same as those who assign femininity to men who they believe are sub par. Saying things like “stop arguing like a woman”. Etc

It denigrates womanhood.

cooooooks:
Surprised that poco made such a true and profound statement.

Also, the bolded is quite insightful.

Keep being surprised

Some of you are very funny. Because someone doesn’t often agree with your POV doesn’t mean you should be ‘surprised’ and suddenly feel like they now make sense once they say something you agree with.

Maybe your bias has been clouding your ability to see the truth in her other posts? No?

pocohantas:
A mother is strong, a queen is strong and the vagina is one of the strongest creation. When you refer to yourself as a KING, it means you subconsciously think being a queen isn’t good enough.

This is what most people don't know.
Like, I don't really understand why they do that.
..
Even some men who see females (in totality) as some kind of lower version of males, I usually wonder what made them to be thinking like that.
I mean, the roles of the men in nature are clearly different from that of women, and none of the genders can do their own roles perfectly without the need of the other gender.

Wow, I'm impressed.

Ishi, I support this your thread with the sum of...
...mba mek I donate what I can afford biko.

Holla at me if you need keke charter, I will give you good discount.

Modified.

Guys don't fall for comments by ladies in this thread. It's a set up.

Imagine a gathering of known feminists in this forum fighting for and defending men. Mbanu, something is wrong somewhere.

pocohantas:


Cc:

Tonto Dike
Mercy Aigbe
Yvonne Jegede

Those group of confused confusionists parading themselves as fathers, hijacking the day from fathers and ruining the day just because of a failed encounter they had with their men.

Mtcheeew

Okay ma'am.

Keep having a chip on your shoulder.

Poco and Zzor have been efficiently divisive on this forum, adding nothing non-inciendary & meaningful to discourse between men and women.

cococandy:
Keep being surprised

Some of you are very funny. Because someone doesn’t often agree with your POV doesn’t mean you should be ‘surprised’ and suddenly feel like they now make sense once they say something you agree with.

Maybe your bias has been clouding your ability to see the truth in her other posts? No?

cococandy:
Keep being surprised

Some of you are very funny. Because someone doesn’t often agree with your POV doesn’t mean you should be ‘surprised’ and suddenly feel like they now make sense once they say something you agree with.

Maybe your bias has been clouding your ability to see the truth in her other posts? No?

Or maybe even a broken clock can be right twice a day? Yes?

JeffreyJunior:
Wow, I'm impressed.

Ishi, I support this your thread with the sum of...
...mba mek I donate what I can afford biko.

Holla at me if you need keke charter, I will give you good discount.

Modified.

Guys don't fall for comments by ladies in this thread. It's a set up.

Imagine a gathering of known feminists in this forum fighting for and defending men. Mbanu, something is wrong somewhere.

Na only Ishi and Buka person fit take their comments on this thread as coming from a place of true objectivity.

The rest be like film-trick...

cooooooks:
Okay ma'am.

Keep having a chip on your shoulder.

Poco and have been efficiently divisive on this forum, adding nothing non-inciendary & meaningful to discourse between men and women.

I beg to disagree. That’s just your opinion

Imagine thinking feminists want women to be the fathers in their kids lives . How and why? It makes no sense: That’s how far y’all have chosen to twist the narrative in your fight against women’s liberation.

I promise you tonto and the rest of the “momdads” probably don’t identify as feminists. it’s just lazy intellectual approach to classify all women you don’t agree with as feminists or claim feminists can’t condemn a female bad behavior.

Women don’t have to be pandering to y’all all the time for you to believe them when they say “hey this lady is wrong”.

JeffreyJunior:
Wow, I'm impressed.

Ishi, I support this your thread with the sum of...
...mba mek I donate what I can afford biko.

Holla at me if you need keke charter, I will give you good discount.

Modified.

Guys don't fall for comments by ladies in this thread. It's a set up.

Imagine a gathering of known feminists in this forum fighting for and defending men. Mbanu, something is wrong somewhere.

crackhaus:
Na only Ishi and Buka person fit take their comments on this thread as coming from a place of true objectivity.

The rest be like film-trick...

No be lie. That comment of poca is something I'm yet to fathom.

pocohantas:
I made a diary post the other day. When you spend all your time as a single mother taking shots at your ex, you won’t have the grace to move on. No man would even want to move on with you.

Apart from having enough days to celebrate women, I think it reduces the quality of a woman to attribute manly qualities or titles to herself.

A mother is strong, a queen is strong and the vagina is one of the strongest creation. When you refer to yourself as a KING, it means you subconsciously think being a queen isn’t good enough.

I would never refer to myself as a king or a father. I even take it as a backhanded compliment when people tell me I drive like a man or comment like one. I don’t reply or rate such compliments. I am a woman with a vagina and that remains it till the end of time.

T for thanks

Like play, like play you don dey turn wife material. Na here we dey.

crackhaus:
Na only Ishi and Buka person fit take their comments on this thread as coming from a place of true objectivity.

The rest be like film-trick...

Egbon e get wetin maturity dey cause so no surprises from me. It's possible for our views and inclinations to change over time.

On this same Nairaland, I've seen a full blown feminist cum man hater turn into a loyal girlfriend and potential wife. Na small small e dey start.

JeffreyJunior:
Wow, I'm impressed.

Ishi, I support this your thread with the sum of...
...mba mek I donate what I can afford biko.

Holla at me if you need keke charter, I will give you good discount.

Modified.

Guys don't fall for comments by ladies in this thread. It's a set up.

Imagine a gathering of known feminists in this forum fighting for and defending men. Mbanu, something is wrong somewhere.

Captured my thought here, you fucckingn genius. Whenever I read a somewhat sensible post about men from certain monikers, I can't just help but feel they are being sarcastic or up to some mind games lmao .