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Kenturkey048:
Your type can misquote things.

zeuss:
No, your understanding is poor.....
go back and read the 3rd paragraph of the post.

mariahAngel:
No dey bObO yourself!

Clean your eyes well, make you go read the post again.
Read it again, and again, and again if you have to....till you can read between the lines and understand.

Na man you be, abi?
For a man to tell him neighbor (out of nowhere) say e no good make man dey bring gift for person wife when the man no dey house, suppose tell you say the man don observe something.
If a man tell you something like that (even if it his imagination) and you no carry anything for mind, wetin you go do? No be to back off?
Why the op dey insist to "help" then?

Klass99:
E shock you too abi? Lol

I bow and tremble @ how they are able to take a simple matter and twist it to a sinister one.

Kenturkey048:
Wow......Enjoy.....The human with the rich understanding....

I too know people too full naija...No wonder person like Buhari be una president...

Simple thing somebody brought y'all are busy diversifying it...saying several nonsenses...

zeuss:
why are u so desperate to put the op in trouble? I encouraged op to help but he must do so safely.
Na una type dey wicked pass forming principle forget all this demo wey u and that feminist wey no Sabi English reach ground dey do for here.

Kenturkey048:
I quoted someone else..I too know quote me... I use God name beg you. I didn't talk to you at first...Make the matter rest...Thank you...

zeuss:
see ...another MAD person ....go through your post and see where you quoted me......how can crased person give a sound opinion when em head no sound.

Kenturkey048:
Shey na you I quote for here.??....who quoted who first?? I no know where all these dey come from, because na someone else I quote , you begin start dey insult me..But all these insults online dey useless, na osapa for lekki I dey stay,behind zenith bank.,I for like make you come give me all these insults face to face..or better still tell me your location...Because I no understand where all these dey come from... .

zeuss:
. u dey feel Mike Tyson........e be like say life don tire u no worry I go come reset am for you... drop ur house address and give me 1 hr

mariahAngel:
"Do not desire thy neighbour's wife"

Klass99:
LMAO

@ Kenturkey048, I like your energy but abeg die this matter.

I don't know if this has ever happened to you, but when I engage with unintelligent and low level thinking people on this forum I genuinely experience a temporary brain fog.

You will do well to identify such people and avoid them like a plague, they are easy to spot from their narrow minded comments and reaction to issues. You can answer them once to put them in their place and let them know how stupid they are and then move on.

In some cases, you are better off completely ignoring such people sef (I get a real kick from doing that when they quote me, like I did with another one on this same thread)

If you throw stones at every dog that barks at you, you may never reach your destination.

Lostchild:
You are a person that is quick to judge and conclude without asking question

Kenturkey048:
This is the statement " " Men should not visit the home of a married woman whenever the husband was not around"

Na people like una dey run several news media for Nigeria..misquoting everything .

Na for where you hear this one you talk? "say e no good make man dey bring gift for person wife when the man no dey house,"

Shey wetin you write and wetin o.p write na the same thing?? Bros facts are not based on assumptions...

Visit and bring gift na the same thing? The man wasn't specific. You might be visiting for several reasons...rubbissshhhh...

wunmi590:
Stay in your lane....

You heard what the husband said about men visiting married women...

We don't want to hear a nairalander was slapped for helping a neighbour

shunletsam:
Slapped? Or sliced?

mariahAngel:
Guy! No dey let your blood dey hot!

mariahAngel:
You also are a person that is quick to accuse without understanding.

...then again, it's in human nature to have those tendencies.
Nobody is a saint.

mariahAngel:
You also are a person that is quick to accuse without understanding.

...then again, it's in human nature to have those tendencies.
Nobody is a saint.

shortgun:
I stay in a compound with 4 tenants.
One of my co-tenant's wife have shown me acts of kindness many times and I want to repay her kindness but I don't know how to go about it without getting her suspicious husband worked up or cause problems in their home.

I am a very busy bachelor, I hardly have time to do most home chores. I go out early and come back late at night.

This lady helps me remove my clothes outside when I spread them, when I bring out trash and keep it outside she helps me to take them out, even when wind blow off my clothes from the line, she will wash and dry them . She's the only one that comes to ring my door bell to notify me whenever power is restored when I am on gen and asleep.

I've been thinking of ways to repay her kindness but the problem is her husband with the little interactions I've had with him is someone that will read meanings to my kindness to them....I once traveled and bought things for them, when I went to give the things I bought for them the husband was not around, I delivered the stuff to the wife at the door and left.

After some days, I was having a conversation with the man and he said " Men should not visit the home of a married woman whenever the husband was not around" I was shocked because what he said had nothing to do with our discussion.
One other time, I and the wife were the only ones left in the compound during the festive period when everyone had traveled, I noticed the wife doesn't sleep in the compound...she comes back every morning. I believe it was the instruction from her husband not to be sleeping in the house and I believe it's because of me. The woman is always in a hurry whenever she returns my clothes or comes to notify me to turn off my gen.

I know they are struggling in these hard times and I have the capacity to help but I don't want the husband to read unnecessary meanings to anything I do for them... He is also a kind of person that will feel I am looking down on him if I render any help.

I don't really blame the man cos he sees how different girls comes to my house and he may think I will have interest in his wife.

I've discussed this with some of my friends, some said I should forget about helping or giving anything to the man or his wife while some think I should go ahead if I want to.
So I want nairalanders to help me decide on what I should do.