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I started dating this girl officially around October last two years, our relationship was going well cause money dey plenty by then so the family would once in a while ask me for some small cash and stuff while I provide (just ordinary dating oh).

After some time during the lock down and the hard economy that's now, omo demand don the high like die.
My monthly profit don drop and I'm like going into dept.
And the aren't going slow on me the whole family are draining me.
I go angry around last 3 month and broke up she apologize and we got back. Like play the draining has taken a new level now its weekly.

I've met some people who are willing to help me back but do you think I should end the relationship or I should discus with the family or I should talk to her alone.
I've talked to her before she didn't do anything about it..
when she come my shop omo na to the carry this anyhow and even dashing people.
E the pain me inside oh.
Sometimes if she see that am no longer happy she will give me small cash as if she's paying for the stuff.
Guys I'm a player but I fall for this girl and I'm not really wanting to let her go cause I love her.
Now the love don the tire me.


I just need your help on what exactly to do.
My business isn't moving forward again.
I'm even planning to sell my phones and laptop to enable me raise money back on track.
Please advice me.

You sound like someone I know. N**ke, na you?

ekensi01:
I started dating this girl officially around October last two years, our relationship was going well cause money dey plenty by then so the family would once in a while ask me for some small cash and stuff while I provide (just ordinary dating oh).

After some time during the lock down and the hard economy that's now, omo demand don the high like die.
My monthly profit don drop and I'm like going into dept.
And the aren't going slow on me the whole family are draining me.
I go angry around last 3 month and broke up she apologize and we got back. Like play the draining has taken a new level now its weekly.

I've met some people who are willing to help me back but do you think I should end the relationship or I should discus with the family or I should talk to her alone.
I've talked to her before she didn't do anything about it..
when she come my shop omo na to the carry this anyhow and even dashing people.
E the pain me inside oh.
Sometimes if she see that am no longer happy she will give me small cash as if she's paying for the stuff.
Guys I'm a player but I fall for this girl and I'm not really wanting to let her go cause I love her.
Now the love don the tire me.


I just need your help on what exactly to do.
My business isn't moving forward again.
I'm even planning to sell my phones and laptop to enable me raise money back on track.
Please advice me.

Ur story is familiar to me.
Where do you live?

Can't tell

Your location

macrodata:
You sound like someone I know. N**ke, na you?

Jeon:
Ur story is familiar to me.
Where do you live?

Somewhere in benue

ekensi01:
Somewhere in benue

bro the girl told me that she would start dating me if she gets admission although she passed her jamb this year, as a brother way you be how do u see this??

Why do I find this post funny?
Better talk to your lady tell her your financial condition now......If anything happens to your business, herself and her family will look for somewhere or someone else to eat from. It's good to give out things to the one you love but, don't good overboard with it when you're not married to the person yet.

Assumptabeke:
Why do I find this post funny?
Better talk to your lady tell her your financial condition now......If anything happens to your business, herself and her family will look for somewhere or someone else to eat from. It's good to give out things to the one you love but, don't good overboard with it when you're not married to the person yet.

Thanks man

Similar to one girl I know.

See am telling you na parent something. It has everything to do with the parent.
If she leaves the parent you go enjoy, na nice update now

Igbojihadist:
bro the girl told me that she would start dating me if she gets admission although she passed her jamb this year, as a brother way you be how do u see this??

ekensi01:
Similar to one girl I know.

See am telling you na parent something. It has everything to do with the parent.
If she leaves the parent you go enjoy, na nice update now

bro but am thinking are you sure she is not telling me this so that i would be taken care of her if she leaves her parents because am not in the same state with her so i dont see where this has to do with her parent

That's where you need wisdom.

Most girls aren't depending on guys but the moment other girls starting influencing them.
.
Its hard cause a lady schooling is like a bird in the forest it may return to the owner or join the jungle fun.
I repeat don't stake your all in her. Girls can be really disappointing.

Igbojihadist:
bro but am thinking are you sure she is not telling me this so that i would be taken care of her if she leaves her parents because am not in the same state with her so i dont see where this has to do with her parent

ekensi01:
That's where you need wisdom.

Most girls aren't depending on guys but the moment other girls starting influencing them.
.
Its hard cause a lady schooling is like a bird in the forest it may return to the owner or join the jungle fun.
I repeat don't stake your all in her. Girls can be really disappointing.

bro am tired of this fucking love i dont pray 4 my enemy to fall in this type of love am in a deep shit

ekensi01:
Thanks man

I am a lady.

Like ehn.
Love is wicked.
Let's just home it goes well.
But the way it is she is very beautiful.

Igbojihadist:
bro am tired of this fucking love i dont pray 4 my enemy to fall in this type of love am in a deep shit

ekensi01:
Like ehn.
Love is wicked.
Let's just home it goes well.
But the way it is she is very beautiful.

not beautiful bro but she is just living inside me

Seriously.
Hmm. She has really taken over you.
But have you heard of this popular saying that people who love you, you don't love them back?

Igbojihadist:
not beautiful bro but she is just living inside me

ekensi01:


Seriously.
Hmm. She has really taken over you.
But have you heard of this popular saying that people who love you, you don't love them back?

thats just it send me ur whatsap number boss

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Igbojihadist:
thats just it send me ur whatsap number boss