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Young said it's humiliating when people ask why she's working when she had a millionaire for a father.

"People label me as a millionaire's daughter so they don't understand why I'm working. It makes me want to crawl under a rock," she said.

richmondefosa:
Single mother of 4.
take your kids to their fathers and stop the emotional blackmail on your dad.
Also, Go and work for your damn money and leave your dad alone. You are old enough to make your money.
The future is female

viyon02:
Bro. You said it all. But because you and I are not famous and rich like Dr Dre, many we say we think like a poor man and that we are just trying to console ourself.

MrBrownJay1:
sadly, not all kids wanna work, some just want free money and/or handouts from parents for the rest of their natural life...

aieromon:
Your dad started fending for himself at the age of 18 and put in hard work to get to where he is.

Entitled waste of space

MemoriesAndMe:
She is a mother of four for heaven's sake, why does she need her father to take care of her and her kids? Doesnt she have a husband or baby daddies like they all do?

I bet the baby daddies kept getting her pregnant with hopes of getting money from her rich dad. Her dad doesn't owe her anything, she's old and mature enough to fend for herself and whatever she made her life become.

I cant stand it when people start feeling entitled. Her type won't appreciate it even if her dad gives her enough money per month because she would think he needs to take care of her for the rest of her life.

If Dre gets broke or handicapped, her type would never do anything to cater for him. So, whats the use of a child that will perpetually be a pest to you?

elonmuskbaby:
no be person be otedola? You nor see as money dey show for him daughters Body? Can't you see they're well taken care of? Them resemble liabilities to their Papa?

Wasn't it because their father trained the girls well to catch fish themselves instead of relying on "daddy" despite say he get money?

Can't Dre raise his kids to be self sufficient to the level that she won't need daddies money?

Davido NKO? No be person be Adeleke? He didn't give Davido fish but he used his connection and networks to give him an edge so as to make him self sufficient without needing daddy's money

Can't he build her up the same WAY?

elonmuskbaby:
but even if her father doesn't want to give her free money (for reasons best known to him) he should have a relationship with his grandkids as a grandfather.its super strange when a man doesn't want to see his own grandkids.i mean it's quite understandable if you don't like your daughter's decision but to hate her to the level of not using your influence to give her a stepping stone to fly is really extreme and cruel.yoruba will say taba nja bikaku ko.haba...no no no.this is a no no

If he has cut all ties with his daughter and grandkids who will be there for him in his old age and on his death bed? Who will he see to talk to when he is old and frail and all his money is of no use to him?

Who will continue his legacy or everything he has built over the years when he's gone? If he doesn't forgive and empower the girl,it's outsiders WHO don't know how you made your money and the sweat and sacrifice you paid to build your wealth that would just eat it ruthlessly without a care and boom, your name will just die in your own generation.it will not be passed down

I don't understand why blacks don't have deep thoughts and see beyond their present.smh

Which legacy? Which name??...Wetin consign dead person with name or legacy? Of what use is it to the dead man??

MemoriesAndMe:
Bro, America is not same as Nigeria - the systems are totally different in that regard. American women, especially the blacks, are known for trapping men with kids - cos they want financial obligations from the men. Many will open up their laps for rich dudes with hopes of getting pregnant for him and watch him take care of them going forward - gold digger mentality. In her own case, she opened up for male gold diggers who expected to get money or some attention from Dre when they eventually impregnate his daughter. Dre ain't dancing to that and she's bitching about it.

Who knows if the girl's mom had collected more than enough from Dre on child support and alimony using the child as her weapon. Now she 38 and still expects him to keep paying her? For what? She's an adult for heaven's sake. If she's not a grandmother yet at 38, she will be soon. So, does she expect her son or daughter to still blame Dre for not giving them monthly allowances? What did she do with her life to be homeless at 38? Did she have any ambitions while she was younger and ended up being homeless at 38, or she waited for her dad's money to cater for her forever?

If she had said he wouldn't support her career or pay her tuition fees, thats a different thing all together, but in this case she's saying he's not giving her money monthly as if he's obligated to give her money monthly for the rest of his life.

Otedola's kids and Davido have ambitions and any parent would want to support such kids because they make them proud. In her own case, its obvious she has no ambition. Its clear from her having 4 kids and still waiting for her own father to take care of her and her kids. I won't be surprised if all 4 kids came from 4 baby daddies. So, whats the duty of the baby daddies? Just to get her pregnant and bounce? Then Dre comes to the rescue to take care of the baby daddies' obligations? Hell no.

If DJ Cuppy had four random kids and comes on social media crying that her dad doesn't give her money anymore, won't you ask her what happened to the dudes that got her pregnant? Are they homeless too?

Im sure Dre must have supported her at some point, but she wants to make it his responsibility to give her money every month. Its evident from her comment that Dre pays his ex-wife $300k per month. What stops her own baby daddies or husbands from giving her money every month too that makes her think its her dad's duty even though she's an adult?

If Otedola's kids had that many kids and gets no support from the father of the babies, I'm sure Otedola himself would have stopped supporting them because that makes him an enabler and thats no proper way to raise a child. If Dre keeps giving her free money, she won't know how hard it is to make money. She probably would even end up having 10 kids in a short while and still expect her dad to give her money to take care of them all.
Do you think Davido's dad would be comfortable with his son asking him for money every month for the upkeep of his baby mamas? Heck no! I wouldn't do that for any child no matter how rich I am. If he his mature enough to impregnate a girl, he should be mature enough to deal with the aftermath. Davido hustles to take care of his responsibilities and doesn't have to wait for his dad, which is an evidence of maturity.

tellwisdom:
Which legacy? Which name??...Wetin consign dead person with name or legacy? Of what use is it to the dead man??

freshkik:
I feel pain reading comments nowadays on Nairaland.
~~~~Bitch, sleeping around, lazy , opening leg around~~~
these are all what we’ve been reading on this thread & many other threads.
….. Do you guys even have moms at all, for real?
because I’ll definitely hurt someone for saying something less harsher bout my sister not to talk of mother, so i can’t imagine myself saying that to a mother of FOUR(4), going through a hard time.?
First of all you dimwits worship money , so the one with the money is always right. But that’s not even the issue, they are family with family issues not as bad as your family issues, but somehow you believe you have a say, in theirs ?

I’m a Guy and every guy man know say guys were Dey quick condemn & insult women online most likely lack confidence to approach down for real life.

So y’all keep embarrassing your Upbringing every time. And showing the world how mannerless & insultive we Nigerians were, like buhari like una . Well done

elonmuskbaby:
it's not about him it's about his generation.i mean how can 1 person in a family be super rich and break the jinx of poverty and the rest of his generation go back to poverty? At least 1 person is supposed to break that yoke and the subsequent generation is meant to maintain it

Holiness2100:
Lalasticlala

https://www.thesun.com/news/3414606/dr-dre-daughter-living-van-despite-begging-help/amp/

tellwisdom:
Everyone should carry their cross.

elonmuskbaby:
it's this Nigerian mentality that has brought nigeria this low

richmondefosa:
Single mother of 4.
take your kids to their fathers and stop the emotional blackmail on your dad.
Also, Go and work for your damn money and leave your dad alone. You are old enough to make your money.
The future is female

tellwisdom:
No, your sense of reasoning is sickening. Can’t even wrap my head on your need for a dead person to be worried about the happenings in the living.

elonmuskbaby:
you have a point.infact you made several valid points but Dre still failed as a father,why? Because when she was growing he should have fathered her,groomed her to be responsible and not be opening laps for just about any fool.he should have used her mom as example for her to learn.now he has failed as a husband and father.i mean what are you as a father doing when your daughter is busy getting pregnant with 4 different 1diots.1st one you didn't call her to order,2nd one you didn't say anything and on and on.moreso there's a way you raise your kids that they'll be able to make better choices.it is enablement and over indulgence on daughters that always makes them stup1d.Theres a place of tough love and discipline so that she will learn to make commonsenical Choices that will affect her future positively.

Now look at it, he's divorced.his daughter is a baby mamA with no iota of sense or responsiblity.at 38 she doesn't yet have common sense that you have to be self sufficient whether daddy is there or not.she is definitely an evidence or product of BAD PARENTING and I'm sure the 4 different kids will tow their mom's part

elonmuskbaby:
it's this Nigerian mentality that has brought nigeria this low

elonmuskbaby:
you have a point.infact you made several valid points but Dre still failed as a father,why? Because when she was growing he should have fathered her,groomed her to be responsible and not be opening laps for just about any fool.he should have used her mom as example for her to learn.now he has failed as a husband and father.i mean what are you as a father doing when your daughter is busy getting pregnant with 4 different 1diots.1st one you didn't call her to order,2nd one you didn't say anything and on and on.moreso there's a way you raise your kids that they'll be able to make better choices.it is enablement and over indulgence on daughters that always makes them stup1d.Theres a place of tough love and discipline so that she will learn to make commonsenical Choices that will affect her future positively.

Now look at it, he's divorced.his daughter is a baby mamA with no iota of sense or responsiblity.at 38 she doesn't yet have common sense that you have to be self sufficient whether daddy is there or not.she is definitely an evidence or product of BAD PARENTING and I'm sure the 4 different kids will tow their mom's part

elonmuskbaby:
smh low IQ

I won't indulge you.i don't entertain trolls and 1diots

Imustnottalk:
did read the story or you just want to comment for likes