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5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Vipro(m): 5:13pm On Aug 06, 2021
An inspirational writer once wrote “Don’t be in such a rush to reach a goal that you reach the goals before you are ready”. Put your heart into a goal but don't rush, good things in life take time.

We are in a generation where people prefer instant gratification to long-term enjoyment. Little wonder why the world is filled with confused and dissatisfied individuals. People make grievous mistakes and live the rest of their lives in regret.

This article exposes you to five very important things that you should never rush in life.

1. Building A Business
You have got a great idea, so what's next? Raise a capital to start up? Don’t be in a hurry. Having a great idea does not equal having a successful business. A lot of people are so excited about their plans that they immediately venture into execution them. Building a business is an important thing you should never rush in life.

Before you start up that business take time to ask yourself little questions. Questions like if that idea aligns with your passion and future goals? If you will be able to stick to the venture in hard times?

You should also learn more about your proposed business, network with other people in your niche and work on building quality services and products before starting up.

2. Marriage
Walking down the aisle with someone to spend forever with them isn't something to be rushed into. It is a critical life decision most people allowed the pressure from family and friends to make them dive into marriage.

Marriage is a sensitive aspect of every human's life and you must be sure to be ready before you commit. Being in your 30s does not make you prepared for marriage. Marriage goes beyond age.

Asides even if you’re prepared, is your intended partner willing? No doubt it is not possible to fully understand someone but then you must take your time to study and noticed certain behaviours of your partner.

Always bear in mind that being married does not mean that a person will change or drop certain characteristics. If your partner does not change before marriage, the chances are that they may likely not change even after marriage.


3. Large Financial Commitments
You need think through and weigh your options often before you get into any substantial financial obligations. So, maybe you just got some considerable amount of money, on your list is buying a car or you saw a house for sale at fair price and you are thinking of acquiring a bank loan to purchase it.

For getting a good ride or home of your own is lovely. But do you think you can manage them based on your present financial level?



4. Making A Promise
Promises mean nothing without the accompanying action. No matter how small you may think of promises, it has the potential of causing a massive hurt to others, if not fulfilled.

To make a promise is to put your reputation on the line. Your integrity is a valuable asset that you should not trade with. One reason why people make promises and fail to keep, is that the promises were made hastily.

Hence an anonymous writer wrote, don't make a promise when you are happy. People don't respect you because you make Commitments, they do when you keep your Commitments. For this reason you should be careful when you give your words to others



5. Making Your Relationship Public
How do you feel about celebrity breakups? Well, many at times the primary causes of those breakups especially the fresh ones, is the media and publicity.

Too many eyes on a relationship is bad enough and worse when the relationship is a new one. Often, people get carried away by their sweetness of the early stage of their relationship that they hastily start expressing love in public, social media especially.

We know that good things take time but we get carried away by our desires that we end up rushing through things.

Thanks for reading through.

Please don't forget to share and leave also leave your comments below

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Visocrate(m): 5:15pm On Aug 06, 2021
OK what if you have banged all of them

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by KingSatan: 5:39pm On Aug 06, 2021
Great points but I doubt if this children of "Haste" will listen.

All they care about is Money, Benz, Weed and Women.

No vision, no plan, no future.

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by cassidy1996(m): 5:39pm On Aug 06, 2021
good
Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by iLegendd(m): 5:40pm On Aug 06, 2021
Valid points and fully approved by the ministry of works.

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by NamelessOGBENI(m): 5:40pm On Aug 06, 2021
Too right would have been an overstatement, man..

1. Building A Business
2. Marriage
3. Large Financial Commitments
4. Making A Promise

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by olanreyman(m): 5:41pm On Aug 06, 2021
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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by ConnectPhones(m): 5:41pm On Aug 06, 2021
Ah!! Bros, you no talk am on time. I don rush go marry na. Nawoooa.

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by EmperorTolson: 5:41pm On Aug 06, 2021
Nothing should actually be rushed. It's not just 5 but mostly all things

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Talk2david1(m): 5:41pm On Aug 06, 2021
Nice write up. Nobody should rush into marriage. It's usually the innocent kid(s) that suffer if it doesn't work out.

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Father4all: 5:41pm On Aug 06, 2021
I agree with all except MARRIAGE
Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by olanreyman(m): 5:42pm On Aug 06, 2021
6. Having girlfriend and letting her know your pocket

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Jesuslvzme(m): 5:43pm On Aug 06, 2021
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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Jesuslvzme(m): 5:43pm On Aug 06, 2021
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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Talk2david1(m): 5:44pm On Aug 06, 2021
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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by akimbomimer: 5:44pm On Aug 06, 2021
Visocrate:
OK what if you have banged all of them
good question... OP
Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Kenneth10110(m): 5:44pm On Aug 06, 2021
don't share your plans let the success speak for you

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Botking: 5:45pm On Aug 06, 2021
Insightful
Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Nobody: 5:45pm On Aug 06, 2021
Good points
Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Ademola47(m): 5:46pm On Aug 06, 2021
The only valid point (I think) is MARRIAGE. Aside that, being in hurry can be inspirational most especially in a country where things can go haywire in the blink of an eye.

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by geloorrrrdd(m): 5:47pm On Aug 06, 2021
6. Relocation abroad. Make sure to do enough research. Weigh the pros and cons before settling on the country to move to. Have plan A, B, C, and D just in case.

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by kingbee90: 5:48pm On Aug 06, 2021
Good piece!
The problem with this generation of youths is IMPATIENCE. These days I see memes like "That patient dog don too wait & hunger don kill am" trending on social media. Nobody believes in building anymore but everybody wants to arrive instantly.
A girl you meet today & fvuck tomorrow is already pestering you for marriage by next week just because her gf got married last weekend.

Let's all try to take things a step at a time.

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Awoleesu(m): 5:48pm On Aug 06, 2021
Vipro:
An inspirational writer once wrote “Don’t be in such a rush to reach a goal that you reach the goals before you are ready”. Put your heart into a goal but don't rush, good things in life take time.

We are in a generation where people prefer instant gratification to long-term enjoyment. Little wonder why the world is filled with confused and dissatisfied individuals. People make grievous mistakes and live the rest of their lives in regret.

This article exposes you to five very important things that you should never rush in life.

1. Building A Business
You have got a great idea, so what's next? Raise a capital to start up? Don’t be in a hurry. Having a great idea does not equal having a successful business. A lot of people are so excited about their plans that they immediately venture into execution them. Building a business is an important thing you should never rush in life.

Before you start up that business take time to ask yourself little questions. Questions like if that idea aligns with your passion and future goals? If you will be able to stick to the venture in hard times?

You should also learn more about your proposed business, network with other people in your niche and work on building quality services and products before starting up.

2. Marriage
Walking down the aisle with someone to spend forever with them isn't something to be rushed into. It is a critical life decision most people allowed the pressure from family and friends to make them dive into marriage.

Marriage is a sensitive aspect of every human's life and you must be sure to be ready before you commit. Being in your 30s does not make you prepared for marriage. Marriage goes beyond age.

Asides even if you’re prepared, is your intended partner willing? No doubt it is not possible to fully understand someone but then you must take your time to study and noticed certain behaviours of your partner.

Always bear in mind that being married does not mean that a person will change or drop certain characteristics. If your partner does not change before marriage, the chances are that they may likely not change even after marriage.


3. Large Financial Commitments
You need think through and weigh your options often before you get into any substantial financial obligations. So, maybe you just got some considerable amount of money, on your list is buying a car or you saw a house for sale at fair price and you are thinking of acquiring a bank loan to purchase it.

For getting a good ride or home of your own is lovely. But do you think you can manage them based on your present financial level?



4. Making A Promise
Promises mean nothing without the accompanying action. No matter how small you may think of promises, it has the potential of causing a massive hurt to others, if not fulfilled.

To make a promise is to put your reputation on the line. Your integrity is a valuable asset that you should not trade with. One reason why people make promises and fail to keep, is that the promises were made hastily.

Hence an anonymous writer wrote, don't make a promise when you are happy. People don't respect you because you make Commitments, they do when you keep your Commitments. For this reason you should be careful when you give your words to others



5. Making Your Relationship Public
How do you feel about celebrity breakups? Well, many at times the primary causes of those breakups especially the fresh ones, is the media and publicity.

Too many eyes on a relationship is bad enough and worse when the relationship is a new one. Often, people get carried away by their sweetness of the early stage of their relationship that they hastily start expressing love in public, social media especially.

We know that good things take time but we get carried away by our desires that we end up rushing through things.

Thanks for reading through.

Please don't forget to share and leave also leave your comments below

6. Hot Pepper Soup: This delicacy of African origin is best enjoyed being sipped gently and flushed down with chilled drink. Rushing to eat hot pepper soup may lead to choking and sometimes could be fatal.


Addendum:

7. My Son just told me it's not good to rush drink La Casera, Coke or Power Horse... According to him, "Dem nodey rush drink La Casera or Power Horse O! the gas too strong. E go make water dey comot for ya eyes! grin

These children sef! grin

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by GloryGloryRufus(m): 5:50pm On Aug 06, 2021
NamelessOGBENI:
Too right would have been an overstatement, man..

1. Building A Business
2. Marriage
3. Large Financial Commitments
4. Making A Promise

` Do not rush girlfriends jor.

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by fasho01(m): 5:52pm On Aug 06, 2021
That marriage is a serious thing one shouldn't rush into

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Re: 5 Most Important Things You Should Never Rush In Life. by Sonnobax15(m): 5:52pm On Aug 06, 2021
shocked
Op,you too get sense abeg...

My pity always goes to people who rush into marriage probably because of family or societal pressure... One thing you ought to put at the back of your mind is if the marriage should crash,na only you go dey there for yourself, collecting all the blames and damages to yourself...So you've got to better use your head..

..The second big NO for me is making my relationship public undecided Mehn,I hate it like mad.......
In fact,I love it when people begin to question my relationship status grin.

Just three days ago,ny four neices were so curious about meeting my gf...I just smiled at them and they were like--"uncle obax,na when we go even see that your gf self?"......But inside my mind,I was like--"NEVER"

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