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charles009:
Hello Family,

I am so pissed right now. I warned my wife not to take any contraceptive going forward, I have two kids and my last baby will be 3 in February.

Now she hurriedly took post pill last month, few days ago she told me she has missed her period.I can onfirm that she is pregnant. I am extremely upset and I have told her to Immidiately abort the baby or go back to her fathers house.

I have spent the entire 2days reading up topics concerning two burning questions.
Will the contraceptive cause a birth defect?
Is there a high chance of ectopic pregnancy?

I have called a few doctor friends, there answers are just guess work to me. Sincerely, I wouldn't want issues emanating from not taking simple instructions.

Any contribution please...

Klass99:
If it's any consolation to you, I didn't think your story was fake and I didn't think you hate your wife either or that you wish her harm.

Perception differs from person to person, as in, people discern and understand things differently. I figured from your post that you weren't thrilled @ the prospect of a 3rd child and a deformed one (if it came to that).

If I were in your shoes I will be catching malaria too, at either prospects , because these are rough times economically and financially. I understood your unspoken concerns and I judge you not.

If you're certain you are done having kids, why don't you look into a vasectomy? Oh and happy father's day, you and your household will be alright.

descartes400:
On the bolded

It is forbidden! A Nigerian Man does not tamper with his blokos!

frozen70:
The essence of a woman working is to have self respect and confidence

Incase of tomorrow she will not be stranded

Only married people will understand

Hathor5:
That's not what you initially said.

armyofone:
Not forbidden! Any Nigerian man can do vasectomy!

Is it also forbidden for a Nigerian woman to tamper with her Uterus ?

Una sef!!

descartes400:
Attempting to tamper with a Nigerian Man's blokos through vasectomy is an existential threat. We will not take it..leave our blokos alone..do not encourage us

charles009:
Hello Family,

I am so pissed right now. I warned my wife not to take any contraceptive going forward, I have two kids and my last baby will be 3 in February.

Now she hurriedly took post pill last month, few days ago she told me she has missed her period.I can onfirm that she is pregnant. I am extremely upset and I have told her to Immidiately abort the baby or go back to her fathers house

I have spent the entire 2days reading up topics concerning two burning questions.
Will the contraceptive cause a birth defect?
Is there a high chance of ectopic pregnancy?

I have called a few doctor friends, there answers are just guess work to me. Sincerely, I wouldn't want issues emanating from not taking simple instructions.

Any contribution please...

ExBachelor:
eDrop accessible one na

poshestmina:
This man .

poshestmina:
This man .

poshestmina:
Lol

1Sharon:
OP yeye finish you there.

This is why women should get their own crap so no man can tell you to 'go back to your father's house' like you're trash

thorpido:
Op,you are not clear in your statement about this pregnancy.Is it a pregnancy you both wanted?If not your wife wanted to prevent a pregnancy and she didn't do wrong by using a plan B contraceptive.

Anyway she is pregnant already and the chances of the Postpill having an effect on the baby is negligible.It's not an abortifacient.Ectopic pregnancies are caused by a different factor altogether.
When did she use the Postpill?That will determine its effectiveness.The drug is supposed to be used within 72hrs of having unprotected sex.However,with all contraceptives,there is some degree of failure.

Originator101:
Will the pill prevent pregnancy even if uou cum inside