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My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Adebowhales(m): 9:14pm On Oct 11, 2019
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Colb461: 9:16pm On Oct 11, 2019
Sharp shooter i hail.......

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by midnighter(f): 9:17pm On Oct 11, 2019

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Nobody: 9:18pm On Oct 11, 2019
How exactly does your wife not understand herself?

What were you expecting after cuming inside? A car?

It isn't her fault the family planning failed biko.
Cc Thorpidö

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Rajman45(m): 9:18pm On Oct 11, 2019
U get wahala ọ, after just 4 months... U start de knack her

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Charleys: 9:19pm On Oct 11, 2019
Family planning is for people who have no plans for their lives..... At all.

People who plan their lives won't go for family planning.

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by mii4u(f): 9:23pm On Oct 11, 2019
U, do u understand ursef?

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by JubrinElSudan: 9:28pm On Oct 11, 2019
Add 9 months to the 4 months and your first child will be 1year and 1 month by the time the 2nd one is born . E no too mean like that Congratulations

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by lilmax(m): 9:30pm On Oct 11, 2019
Title and post be like oil and water

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by donstan18: 9:38pm On Oct 11, 2019
You are one of the luckiest husband in Nigeria for having a fertile wife.


They are.very few and you should be grateful.

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by IamR: 9:49pm On Oct 11, 2019
midnighter:
Wow! What family planning methods do you practice??

By the way you should change the name of this topic and stop blaming your wife...you're the one that slept with her so you don't understand yourself either
He is subtly putting the blame on his wife. Some men ehn!

Modified.

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Teaorcoffee(f): 9:50pm On Oct 11, 2019
It's Well

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Abfinest007(m): 9:51pm On Oct 11, 2019
use condom since family planning is not working

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by midnighter(f): 9:53pm On Oct 11, 2019
IamR:

The title is so annoying; he is subtly putting the blame on his wife. Some men ehn!
Very ridiculous, and he even mentioned family planning which means they both agreed on it.

Now he scored a goal and its the babes fault

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by thorpido(m): 10:16pm On Oct 11, 2019
Why is it that it is your wife that does not understand herself?Do you understand yourself@ Op.

What family planning method did you use Op?
People need to get knowledge even if you are not in the medical line.Read up on pregnancy and contraception.Some women start seeing their periods less than 2 months after giving birth and that means they can get pregnant even with a baby at hand.

Well,I would say keep the baby.You won't be the first.I know brothers with 11months difference between them.If you decide on termination,use a good hospital.Your wife will undergo D&C..
Go to a family planning clinic and decide on a good family planning method for your family.Your wife may need to be on an IUCD or injectables or you decide to use condoms CORRECTLY.

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by saucecoder: 10:22pm On Oct 11, 2019
Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.
Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.
Thanks.
Medics in the house.
Sharp shooter cheesy

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by mysticwarrior(m): 10:31pm On Oct 11, 2019
oga you are the one who doesn't understand himself

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:27pm On Oct 11, 2019
Rajman45:
U get wahala ọ, after just 4 months... U start de knack her


Is your meaning of knack pregnancy? If it means sèx, is he suppose to wait for a year b4 having sèx with his wife?

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:28pm On Oct 11, 2019
midnighter:
Wow! What family planning methods do you practice??

By the way you should change the name of this topic and stop blaming your wife...you're the one that slept with her so you don't understand yourself either


Lmao don't mind him, they prefer to blame the wife for every little issue.

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:31pm On Oct 11, 2019
donstan18:
You are one of the luckiest husband in Nigeria for having a fertile wife.


They are.very few and you should be grateful.


You dey craze, with millions of females in Nigeria you had to spill out nonsense based on what, 2 or 3 that you diicked?

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by midnighter(f): 11:31pm On Oct 11, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
Lmao don't mind him, they prefer to blame the wife for every little issue.

Just imagine

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by midnighter(f): 11:32pm On Oct 11, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
You dey craze, with millions of females in Nigeria you had to spill out nonsense based on what, 2 or 3 that you diicked?

He would have said the OP is lucky he doesnt have lazy sperm...this thread is just unbelievable

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by elektra(f): 11:33pm On Oct 11, 2019
Your wife doesn’t understand herself? How does that relate to pregnancy and abortion?

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:34pm On Oct 11, 2019
midnighter:


He would have said the OP is lucky he doesnt have lazy sperm...this thread is just unbelievable


That is to tell you the kind of diickheads we have on nairaland.

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by midnighter(f): 11:39pm On Oct 11, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
That is to tell you the kind of diickheads we have on nairaland.

abi terrible

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by raheemadejoke81(f): 11:54pm On Oct 11, 2019
Please, don't let your wife go for abortion. It may be disastrous in the
future.
One of my madam in office has been affected by this type of your situation. Exactly the same story of yours and she opted for what you are about to do but today she is regretting it.

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Kastrom: 12:52am On Oct 12, 2019
Study her if she don't understand herself na

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Kastrom: 12:55am On Oct 12, 2019
Kastrom:
Study her if she doesnt understand herself na
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by baby124: 1:50am On Oct 12, 2019
OP means his wife does not understand how to calculate her fertile period. OP, your wife’s fertile period is from the 10-14th day of the beginning of her period. Make it 10-15th day because sperm can survive in the vagina for 5 days waiting for the egg to come down on the 12-14th day.

Go for family planning courses and use online tools to determine her fertile period. There are some apps that can help you track this so you are both informed. Some women are exemptions and are fertile like rats though. But try to educate yourself.

Also, there are birth control options available for you to use. I hear a lot that the IUD’s cause issues for women or can be displaced sometimes which can result in pregnancy. I know how to calculate my safe period and that has been full proof. As for the baby on the way, well God has decided to bless you two. All hands must be on deck before the baby comes.

If your wife does not work right now, try to ensure she has something doing to bring in money no matter how small. Petty trading or making hair should give her time to work and watch baby.

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by SirVintageCock: 2:41am On Oct 12, 2019
This is a new mother for crying out loud. What is there to understand? Her cycle probably hasn't returned fully when you fvck her. How can she even calculate a damn thing when there are semen all over the damn vagina?. Why didn't you use a damn condom until you can choose another birth control. It takes some time for the hormones and cervical mucus to go back to normal.
Just barely 4 month after birth? You laid this accusations too thick here, I wonder how the wife will be feeling and the craps you will be shelling out on her. You messed up dude!!!!!!
Blame games doesn't work, it is for the fainthearted who cannot take responsibilities for their juvenile actions.. Learnt that from Buhari sha.....

See here, ask your wife what she wants, na she get the body.
Use condom in future, do not hand over your control remote to anybody by believing someone else in this case your wife will make the right choices for you. We all have different aims and goals, guard yours judiciously when others doesn't seem to bother.
If you had taken control by having a backup, you won't be asking this questions.

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Nobody: 2:57am On Oct 12, 2019
Her body has not even healed properly and she's pregnant again!? That you married doesn't mean you can't use condom or practice withdrawal method.

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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by 24kmagic: 7:24am On Oct 12, 2019
I just cannot stop thanking God that I'm a man.

Why?

Because I know that I will never get blamed for any lapses in marriage.

I can't believe I can also blame my wife for getting pregnant even though I wont stop knacking.

God, this good thing that you have done for me, do it for my unborn children. Make all of them male

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