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Married people, how do you spike your sex life again

Spike ke?
My brother work stress, financial stress, children stress, house chores is enough...

Anytime your banana just rise make una run am anyhow....

Go back to all the things that you did pre marriage, visit exiting places together,keep the kids away either at a family or trusted friend so you can explore things together.

Ahmed0336:
Spike ke?
My brother work stress, financial stress, children stress, house chores is enough...

Anytime your banana just rise make una run am anyhow....

kuku kill me

Go on an adventure, that will help.

Why do you need to spike it? Is it boring?

People saying go on adventure or start doing what they were doing before marriage, for how long will they do that , so anytime they wanna have sex they will have to go on adventure?

Hathor5:
Why do you need to spike it? Is it boring?

E don cold

ptoall1000:
E don cold

How is it outside of the oda room? Are you nice to each other? Do you gist and joke? Do you enjoy spending time together? Are you affectionate and caring? Do you have meals together?

The reason why I am asking is because a wise person once told me that the pre-intimacy begins long before you actually think it begins. If you like your partner and you are gentle and affectionate and caring outside the bedroom, you will desire and enjoy the person in the bedroom too.

It doesn't always have to be the bedroom though.

Ahmed0336:
Spike ke?
My brother work stress, financial stress, children stress, house chores is enough...

Anytime your banana just rise make una run am anyhow....

I swearrrr

Lamanii22:
I swearrrr

E dey your side too?

ptoall1000:
Married people, how do you spike your sex life again

focus on ur wife alone

Ok

You can’t spike anything. The longer you are with a person the less frequent the sex is. When you meet a new girl, just looking at her will get you an erection, just sitting next to her will make you Hot. Once she becomes yours and sex becomes regular then the decline hits, she no longer makes you Hot. You only have sex when there’s an urge for it.

It also doesn’t help that women hardly initiate sex, over time men get tired of being the only ones asking for sex and that takes a toll on sex life. If frequent sex is a priority in your life don’t get married.

A wise man once said ‘’if you want to stop having sex, get married’’.

Hmmm. Na