They were all victims of domestic abuse and they all suffered extreme physical violence in the hands of their husbands up until their deaths.

Growing up, I was told the reason many women stay in abusive marriages is because they don’t have their own money and they can’t run back to their fathers house….

Let me shock you!!!

All the women in these pictures were the breadwinners; they were all independently and financially well to do. They all had their own money and they were all richer than their husbands. They were all equally educated and relatively exposed; everything you know about domestic violence, they knew much more!
But yet! Yet! Their lives were ended by the dead-beat men they chose to love!

Dear Women,
If he hits you once, he will definitely do it again and again and again. And if you make excuses for him the first time, you will see yourself making excuses for him, over and over and over again.
Maybe one day he will change, but until then, leave! Because he won’t change if he keeps seeing you to punch. He can only change when you leave him! So, leave now! Carry you bag and go. Just go! And don’t come back!


Under the flyover is better than a inside the casket.

We can blame society, we can blame religion, we can blame the church! But the truth is, you always have a choice and the choice is always yours to make.

Religion cannot go, tradition cannot go, society cannot go… only you can go!

If you love yourself, leave! If you love your children, leave! If you love your friends, leave! If you love your partner, leave!

The rate at which women are dying in the hands of their partners these days is alarming. It’s seems like the right question to ask is….Who Is Next?

#saynotodomesticviolence #

Courtship is very important before marriage.

kunlesehan:
Courtship is very important before marriage.

There are people who hide themselves well even during courtship so please don't depend on that either.

Wicked world

Women(men too) should know when to run.Most don't die from the first hit.....not even the second.

Why they ever listen or learn?

They prefer the 'Mrs' title on their obituary posters than leaving.
If you advise some self,you'll automatically become an enemy.

"Who will take care of my children?"
"Who will marry me after having kids for another man?"
"What will people say?"
"I have nowhere to go to"
"I suffered with the man, now there's money,he's beating me so I can run away and another woman will enter"
"He'll change, God will change him"
"Another woman is using 'juju' on my husband,that's why he's always beating me"

TOOR!!!
MY SISTER, NA 6ft oh.
No love and marriage in the grave. Na him new wife go escort am come your burial .

poshestmina:

TOOR!!!
MY SISTER, NA 6ft oh.
No love and marriage in the grave. Na him new wife go escort am come your burial .

Kai!

I don't know where to start in this matter. But trust me these women knew these men to be monsters before they got into the marriage. Hoping that the monster will change.

Ladies in abusive relationship reading this thread should please ask questions before it's too late.

They are always afraid of what people will say.

Kobojunkie:
There are people who hide themselves well even during courtship so please don't depend on that either.

Mostly daughters of eve hide themselves more than sons of man.
Who regrets first in marriage if not men bcs what they saw in courting became opposite of what they hv.

They will never listen....... Stupid women.....



Don't ever entertain any abusive marriage but since some of them are lazy, they want free money and can't quit the relationship... I am talking abt those ones in relationship...


How can dey quit when they are leeches and jobless lazy fellow who depend on a guy money.... That one in turn treats her anyhow because he blivs dt he is her benefactor

emmanuelbrown26:

Mostly daughters of eve hide themselves more than sons of man.
Who regrets first in marriage if not men bcs what they saw in courting became opposite of what they hv.

Stop rambling abeg!

Kobojunkie:
Stop rambling abeg!

I expected this comment from u

I'm a married man. Either in dating, courtship or marriage I have never raised my hands on any woman. I hate any man that abuses his wife.

But the current events are very good opportunities for those that hate marriage and those that tried and failed through fault of theirs. Women that are not settled in marriage are using the events to paint marriage as negative.

Nobody talks about men that are in abusive marriages. Are we encouraging them to quit?
When we face the wave of divorce that will come out of what we are encouraging, the society must be ready to face it.

All our statements appear to suggest that everyone should quit every marriage at the slightest provocation.

Let's be cautious in our statements concerning the current events.