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I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by imagrg(op):
I read this story and I was greatly disturbed!

*Moderator, please move this topic to front page to attract more reactions so that we can all learn from it.

Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by Jashub: 10:51am On Sep 02, 2021
The woman is a foolish harlot and she deserves every bit of embarrassment her ex dishes out to her . Nonsense
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by LilMissFavvy(f):
angry In as much as I value the female race and have pity on some of the things we go through, I do not pity this lady. It takes a very evill mind to abort 5times, She didn't pity her body or pity the dead babies, this is a very wicked soul. When they tell them not to live with a man who hasn't married you, they will say we are old fashioned/talking religion.

Solution: this man should never go Scot free, She has to place a curse on him, the curse will hold him I am very sure, he will pay for it one way or the other, and his virgin wife may even be affected undecided . You as a virgin lady, you do not try to find out your guys past life, you carry your precious clean body and give a brolosho. The affected lady can adopt in future, marry a widower or pray for a miracle.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by Davash222(m): 11:02am On Sep 02, 2021
There's nothing the Lord can not do. She should fast and pray.




Shalom.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by donbachi(m): 11:30am On Sep 02, 2021
"Messed up"..and u did not explain much on dat part.but,all the guys part.u gave full explanations.
All dis kezaya.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by imagrg(op): 11:34am On Sep 02, 2021
I am a man, but my heart bleeds for her.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by Ishilove: 11:35am On Sep 02, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
angry In as much as I value the female race and have pity on some of the things we go through, I do not pity this lady. It takes a very evill mind to abort 5times, She didn't pity her body or pity the dead babies, this is a very wicked soul. When they them not NEVER live with a man who hasn't married you, they will say we are old fashioned/talking religion.
I concur. In addition, contraceptives are subsidised by the government so they really have no excuse. I do not pity her.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by Richy4(m): 11:56am On Sep 02, 2021
I really feel bad for the young lady. It's not really bad to take a gamble on love...But I have no regards for a young woman that cohabits with a man especially in universities and things like NYSC...

Yes you can pass the night as a matter of fact, countless times.. yes you can leave your toothbrush, eye pencil etc..to mark your territory but living in the same house together with him has its risk... And this story is just one of them...I wish some people can just learn from this....

When a man who haven't pay your bride price see how you sleep probably dribbling in your sleep, perceived how your sh!t smells daily, etc...Do u still have anything to hide? .
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by AishaYesufu: 11:56am On Sep 02, 2021
What about the guy she was dating before going for NYSC? What about her school boyfriend? Women will never cease from presenting themselves as saints.

You are a victim of your own decision
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by emmanuelbrown26: 3:29pm On Sep 02, 2021
Even though i dont like commenting on romance and family sections but here i am.
The said lady deserved every bit of what she got herself into.
after how many abortions for one guy? She is damn wicked.
I think its high time people should start understanding body language, personally i am somebody that understands tone and language very well
Another innocent simps will finally settle with her, chaiiiii men dun suffer.
As for the niggar his own karma is still doing enough push ups
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by GboyegaD(m): 5:33pm On Sep 02, 2021
Was she competing for the highest number of abortion? This is a learning point to those who chose to engage in sex before marriage that sex doesn't guarantee love or marriage.

It is better to live a stress and headache free life than living a life where there's no guaranteed peace at the end of it all.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by GboyegaD(m): 5:36pm On Sep 02, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
angry In as much as I value the female race and have pity on some of the things we go through, I do not pity this lady. It takes a very evill mind to abort 5times, She didn't pity her body or pity the dead babies, this is a very wicked soul. When they them not to live with a man who hasn't married you, they will say we are old fashioned/talking religion.

Solution: this man should never go Scot free, She has to place a curse on him, the curse will hold him I am very sure, he will pay for it one way or the other, and his virgin wife may even be affected undecided . You as a virgin lady, you do not try to find out your guys past life, you carry your precious clean body and give a brolosho. The affected lady can adopt in future, marry a widower or pray for a miracle.
Why curse? Was she raped? Did you not read that she went the extra mile as the guy was an addict? Wasn't she enjoying it all through? It is said "at the end of the day, one bears the brunt of one's actions", So she should deal with it.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by StPete: 5:41pm On Sep 02, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
angry In as much as I value the female race and have pity on some of the things we go through, I do not pity this lady. It takes a very evill mind to abort 5times, She didn't pity her body or pity the dead babies, this is a very wicked soul. When they them not to live with a man who hasn't married you, they will say we are old fashioned/talking religion.

[s]Solution: this man should never go Scot free, She has to place a curse on him, the curse will hold him I am very sure, he will pay for it one way or the other, and his virgin wife may even be affected undecided . You as a virgin lady, you do not try to find out your guys past life, you carry your precious clean body and give a brolosho. The affected lady can adopt in future, marry a widower or pray for a miracle. [/s]
Nonsense talk
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:49pm On Sep 02, 2021
He should have stood with her and marry her,he can't mess up someone's life to that extent and abandon her, who is he leaving her for. They committed it together.
GboyegaD:
Why curse? Was she raped? Did you not read that she went the extra mile as the guy was an addict? Wasn't she enjoying it all through? It is said "at the end of the day, one bears the brunt of one's actions", So she should deal with it.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by GboyegaD(m): 5:59pm On Sep 02, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
He should have stood with her and marry her,he can't mess up someone's life to that extent and abandon her, who is he leaving her for. They committed it together.
Did you say mess up? They both had fun and trust me, it is a man's right to ask and the lady's right/decision to decline.

She should be upfront with whoever she wants to get married to in order to avoid unnecessary stress and pains in the event of delay in conception.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by JovialJune(f): 10:04pm On Sep 02, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
angry In as much as I value the female race and have pity on some of the things we go through, I do not pity this lady. It takes a very evill mind to abort 5times, She didn't pity her body or pity the dead babies, this is a very wicked soul. When they tell them not to live with a man who hasn't married you, they will say we are old fashioned/talking religion.

Solution: this man should never go Scot free, She has to place a curse on him, the curse will hold him I am very sure, he will pay for it one way or the other, and his virgin wife may even be affected undecided . You as a virgin lady, you do not try to find out your guys past life, you carry your precious clean body and give a brolosho. The affected lady can adopt in future, marry a widower or pray for a miracle.
Rightly said, both of them will chop the curse, and the foolish guy can never go scot free cos he was aware of the abortion and agreed to it, I only pity the virgin wife, she's about to face challenges that was not her own to carry, that is why I advice people to thoroughly investigate the past of the person they want to marry, the man/woman may be a walking dead or cursed infected human cos of their past deeds.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by JovialJune(f): 10:07pm On Sep 02, 2021
GboyegaD:
Did you say mess up? They both had fun and trust me, it is a man's right to ask and the lady's right/decision to decline.

She should be upfront with whoever she wants to get married to in order to avoid unnecessary stress and pains in the event of delay in conception.
Yes he messed up same as her cos they both agreed to it, and it is also a woman's right to ask and the man to decline, both are rights, not one over the other.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by dacblogger: 10:16pm On Sep 02, 2021
5 abortions shocked shocked, people get mind
Like this na,you have aborted all the babies you're meant to have in this life.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by GboyegaD(m): 4:24am On Sep 03, 2021
JovialJune:
Yes he messed up same as her cos they both agreed to it, and it is also a woman's right to ask and the man to decline, both are rights, not one over the other.
A woman can't win a man in this game because men don't carry pregnancy. The earlier we remember that, the better for all parties.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by JovialJune(f):
GboyegaD:
A woman can't win a man in this game because men don't carry pregnancy. The earlier we remember that, the better for all parties.
What is this one saying? Who is talking about winning or losing here? What has carrying a pregnancy got to do with anything? They both messed up, they will both face the consequences simple, all these ones that argue unnecessarily sef undecided
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by NoToPile: 10:07am On Sep 03, 2021
If only ladies would be smarter and think deeply about consequences of some actions.

The guy is gone now its the lady bearing the brunt.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by GboyegaD(m): 12:50pm On Sep 03, 2021
JovialJune:
What is this one saying? Who is talking about winning or losing here? What has carrying a pregnancy got to do with anything? They both messed up, they will both face the consequences simple, all these ones that argue unnecessarily sef undecided
Sorry if you can't comprehend what I wrote however, let Good be the judge of them both. One thing though, stop playing victim mentality here. Fact still remains that for the most of it, ladies bear the greater consequences in this game. As much as ladies can, they shouldn't lay with a man they are not married to.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by JovialJune(f):
GboyegaD:
Sorry if you can't comprehend what I wrote however, let Good be the judge of them both. One thing though, stop playing victim mentality here. Fact still remains that for the most of it, ladies bear the greater consequences in this game. As much as ladies can, they shouldn't lay with a man they are not married to.
You have a problem with yourself, no where did I support one over the other, but somehow, you have a problem with those blaming both of them equally

You say ladies bear the consequences yet we see ills happening to men because of their past and present deeds, the way life works is that, everyone will pay for whatever they've done, no matter how long

And @bolded, imagine in this 21st century, we still have people reasoning one way without logical thought process, two people lay with each other, but it has to be the ladies problemhuh
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by GboyegaD(m): 2:03pm On Sep 03, 2021
JovialJune:
You have a problem with yourself, no where did I support one over the other, but somehow, you have a problem with those blaming both of them equally

You say ladies bear the consequences yet we see ills happening to men because of their past and present deeds, the way life works is that, everyone will pay for whatever they've done, no matter how long

And @bolded, imagine in this 21st century, we still have people reasoning one way without logical thought process, two people lay with each other, but it has to be the ladies problemhuh
I repeat, in this game, the woman remains the loser. Seems you just want to stretch the obvious. I am tired of this, biko let me be.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by Nobody:
The dude did her dirty but he will definitely meet his karma. She herself was naive and lacked discernment.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by mariahAngel(f): 3:56pm On Sep 03, 2021
Disgusting story!

I detest abortion with a strong passion!
The only people I feel sorry for in this story are the unborn children who were never given a chance at life.
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by socialmediaman: 4:02pm On Sep 03, 2021
Hard lessons of life. Unfortunately there's nothing much she can do except stalk and torment their lives at the expense of her mental health and legal consequences
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by Uber101: 6:00pm On Sep 03, 2021
if I no marry virgin wetin I gain
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by imagrg(op): 8:38pm On Sep 03, 2021
This odd world!
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by UjuJoan2: 8:47pm On Sep 03, 2021
Honestly, we women need to start taking responsibilities for our actions. He got you pregnant 5 times she says, like she has NO part in it.

As far as I’m concerned any lady taking any such risk without a ring on her fingers is on her own. I can understand one, but five?

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me . . .
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by UjuJoan2: 8:48pm On Sep 03, 2021
GboyegaD:
A woman can't win a man in this game because men don't carry pregnancy. The earlier we remember that, the better for all parties.
I’m a woman, and I agree completely!
Re: I Read This Story And Was Greatly Disturbed! Reactions Please! by blank(f): 9:46pm On Sep 03, 2021
Are contraceptives not cheaper than this?
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