This usually happens through the female folks. They mostly use this way to get back at the man for wrong doings. It is quite rampant nowadays and marrying a lady who is a product of this syndrome is very dangerous because this has its way of repeating itself. How can a man struggle and work hard to get his kids through school and at the end of the day when he is supposed to be enjoying their company his wife turns his kids against to get back at something he did in the past

Your question should be why do some women turn their children against their father..

Longsleeve:
Your question should be why do some women turn their children against their father..

I just know it's common with the female folks, I have seen it alot around me and it's scary, they loose respect for the man and he becomes lonely

phemmylink:
I just know it's common with the female folks, I have seen it alot around me and it's scary, they loose respect for the man and he becomes lonely

They do it because they always want to look like the victim and gain sympathy from their children..
Whereas the man might not be guilty of what he's being accused of..

It's most men who do this, but it later backfires because of the bond of mother and child.

Absentee father’s will blame their wives for everything.

Be present in your child life. Do not wait for their mother to help you form a relationship with your own seed.

This can only happen to dead beat fathers or absentee fathers who substitute presence for presents.

If the father shows affection and care towards the children there's no way the wife can turn their hearts against him.

zeb04:
Absentee father’s will blame their wives for everything.

Be present in your child life. Do not wait for their mother to help you form a relationship with your own seed.

what you don't know don't say ... do you know that is is the worst way to ruin a man ? You are a woman so you will never know.

Don't talk because you see things clearly from a woman's perspective.. that shit is pure evil!

Aforxzy:

This can only happen to dead beat fathers or absentee fathers who substitute presence for presents.

If the father shows affection and care towards the children there's no way the wife can turn their hearts against him.

there is a million ways ... and it is as common as air. Society has made it so. Whenever there is misunderstanding between the couple women always try to throw the kids in the mix somehow and kids will always root for theit mother because it just the way the world has made it to be... dead beat dad? Sheeeet! This nigga got me fvcked up!

Some Fathers do it too, trying to turn the children against their mother. I have witnessed this.

phemmylink:
This usually happens through the female folks. They mostly use this way to get back at the man for wrong doings. It is quite rampant nowadays and marrying a lady who is a product of this syndrome is very dangerous because this has its way of repeating itself. How can a man struggle and work hard to get his kids through school and at the end of the day when he is supposed to be enjoying their company his wife turns his kids against to get back at something he did in the past

It is not prevalent only nowadays,it has been happening since stone age.

We were talking about this same issue many years ago on how some wives bad mouth their husbands in his absence.Telling the children how unserious their father is,leaving her the burden of picking all the bills.

While I was telling my guys that my mother,though separated from my dad,used to lie about our upkeep allowances solely coming from her,i never believed.But my mother words impacted my older brother that it took me years of reminding him of the regular allowances and good times we enjoyed when our dad,now late, came visiting before he changed.

Unknown to us while gisting,an older woman(grandma) was listening to my personal experience been shared,she started crying and asking for forgiveness. It was that day she came to her senses that her mother petty trade was not enough to sustain the whole family without the support of her father.

On enquiry,she related how her late father was a taxi driver that leaves home early and returns late. His absence due to work enabled the mother to plant hatred in the minds of all the eight children,that none of them lifted a finger to help their late dad in his old age.

My advice is that men should endeavour to let their kids know every single effort they make in caring for the family. It is not because you expect financial support from your children in old age,but to give you the attention and care that you mostly gets from close family

chatinent:
It's most men who do this, but it later backfires because of the bond of mother and child.

thats a lie. Its mostly done by women statistically 60% if not more do this and turn their kids against their father. I have seen about 5 cases. God help us all.

tommy589:


It is not prevalent only nowadays,it has been happening since stone age.

We were talking about this same issue many years ago on how some wives bad mouth their husbands in his absence.Telling the children how unserious their father is,leaving her the burden of picking all the bills.

While I was telling my guys that my mother,though separated from my dad,used to lie about our upkeep allowances solely coming from her,i never believed.But my mother words impacted my older brother that it took me years of reminding him of the regular allowances and good times we enjoyed when our dad,now late, came visiting before he changed.

Unknown to us while gisting,an older woman(grandma) was listening to my personal experience been shared,she started crying and asking for forgiveness. It was that day she came to her senses that her mother petty trade was not enough to sustain the whole family without the support of her father.

On enquiry,she related how her late father was a taxi driver that leaves home early and returns late. His absence due to work enabled the mother to plant hatred in the minds of all the eight children,that none of them lifted a finger to help their late dad in his old age.

My advice is that men should endeavour to let their kids know every single effort they make in caring for the family. It is not because you expect financial support from your children in old age,but to give you the attention and care that you mostly gets from close family

God bless you for this thats why some men now take their children to schl when they want to pay school fees or even go as far as buying foodstuff themselves and wares for the children because they can't predict their wives. Woman wey go smile with you inside room con dey curse you behind your back but infront of your children not all of them but some.

tommy589:


It is not prevalent only nowadays,it has been happening since stone age.

We were talking about this same issue many years ago on how some wives bad mouth their husbands in his absence.Telling the children how unserious their father is,leaving her the burden of picking all the bills.

While I was telling my guys that my mother,though separated from my dad,used to lie about our upkeep allowances solely coming from her,i never believed.But my mother words impacted my older brother that it took me years of reminding him of the regular allowances and good times we enjoyed when our dad,now late, came visiting before he changed.

Unknown to us while gisting,an older woman(grandma) was listening to my personal experience been shared,she started crying and asking for forgiveness. It was that day she came to her senses that her mother petty trade was not enough to sustain the whole family without the support of her father.

On enquiry,she related how her late father was a taxi driver that leaves home early and returns late. His absence due to work enabled the mother to plant hatred in the minds of all the eight children,that none of them lifted a finger to help their late dad in his old age.

My advice is that men should endeavour to let their kids know every single effort they make in caring for the family. It is not because you expect financial support from your children in old age,but to give you the attention and care that you mostly gets from close family

Very true

oladipuposadeeq:
thats a lie. Its mostly done by women statistically 60% if not more do this and turn their kids against their father. I have seen about 5 cases. God help us all.

You have seen but not experienced it personally?

chatinent:


You have seen but not experienced it personally?

I don't want to experience sumtin as such oooooooo

It is the way it is. Women only look out for themselves. They don't even care about their kids the way they want everyone to believe. Always quick to use these kids as pawns in their stupid, petty games without an ounce of care the long lasting damaging effects this could have on the kids. See Tonto Dike. Constantly embroiled in stupid scandals all over the social media. Imagine the effects on her child, especially in the future; the internet never forgets.

My advice to men remains; invest for your older selves. Age 18-60 is long enough time to work and save up a sizeable amount of cash to see you through old age.

Longsleeve:

They do it because they always want to look like the victim and gain sympathy from their children..
Whereas the man might not be guilty of what he's being accused of..

If most men are not guilty of what they are being accused of, why is it easy for the wives to turn the kids against their fathers with no questions asked?

JovialJune:



If most men are not guilty of what they are being accused of, why is it easy for the wives to turn the kids against their fathers with no questions asked?

When they grow older they actually see the truth..but when they are young it's easy to manipulate them..