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Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by IyaTola: 11:12am On Jan 02, 2020
Why does sex slowly die off in a Marriage after 10+ years??

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by thorpido(m): 11:17am On Jan 02, 2020
Economists call it the law of diminishing returns.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by middlebelter(m): 11:19am On Jan 02, 2020
thorpido:
Economists call it the law of diminishing returns.

Diminishing Marginal Utility.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by AroOkigbo(m): 11:20am On Jan 02, 2020
Simply because you are getting older.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by thorpido(m): 11:23am On Jan 02, 2020
middlebelter:


Diminishing Marginal Utility.
Ah ok.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by THUNDER4real(m): 11:46am On Jan 02, 2020
Sex sex sex, u cannot com and kill yourself ......This is the reason you should marry your friend, friendship don't die off....Marriage is not all about sex, u will get tired one day no matter your libido level..

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by donbachi(m): 11:48am On Jan 02, 2020
New year lie...mine is 12,feels like its yesterday.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 11:51am On Jan 02, 2020
Because the frequency of marital sex is inversely proportional to the woman's certainty in her relationship and future financial stability. The more she is confident of her husband's willingness to maintain her financially, physically and emotionally as the only sugar in his tea, the less sex he gets.

Unsure women give out the most sex. Remember that.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by ezugegere(m): 12:48pm On Jan 02, 2020
People de tire na

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by mysticwarrior(m): 12:51pm On Jan 02, 2020
White couples remain sexually active until they die, Oyibo no dey play with sex even 90 years old couples still dey enjoy themselves with the thing jare.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by chiemmanuel(m): 12:57pm On Jan 02, 2020
Children, job, stress, other priorities take over, cuddling is enough if you have gotten all your kids.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 2:09pm On Jan 02, 2020
Sex
Sex
Sex

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by olabrinks(f): 2:11pm On Jan 02, 2020
No. You got it the wrong way around.
RisenPhoenix:
Because the frequency of marital sex is inversely proportional to the woman's certainty in her relationship and future financial stability. The more she is confident of her husband's willingness to maintain her financially, physically and emotionally as the only sugar in his tea, the less sex he gets.

Unsure women give out the most sex. Remember that.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by culf: 2:14pm On Jan 02, 2020
it depend on the couple especially when either or both of then is cheating. many are over 10 years and so much into each other.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by sisisioge: 2:18pm On Jan 02, 2020
Well...I think doing things the same way all the time plus hormonal depreciation causes it. I know a guy who can't imagine getting some every other day like I think it should be, he thinks you should get it every goddaam day grin. I know he won't feel that way after ten years of constant getting from same source wink. Its just natural.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 2:50pm On Jan 02, 2020
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by tolumizzy(m): 2:50pm On Jan 02, 2020
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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jan 02, 2020
Stress

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jan 02, 2020
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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by EngrMarve(m): 2:51pm On Jan 02, 2020
You bought blackberry 10years ago, why are you not using it now?
All these things we dey rush we go definitely get tired of it.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by SarakiBukola: 2:51pm On Jan 02, 2020
angry

IyaTola because Tola needs more of your attention than Baba Tola's preek. tongue

But in all seriousness.... familiarity breeds contempt. TOO MUCH EXPOSURE.

Jay-Z wouldn't admit it, he's tired of fvcking Beyonce.

How do i know ?

He told me so... grin

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Prettiedame: 2:51pm On Jan 02, 2020
More important things to do

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Fisher007: 2:51pm On Jan 02, 2020
Lol, Well because humans are nature of change.

We always want change or evolution.

You can not like or want the same things, feelings, object etc of 2,5 or 10 years ago.

Although you can grow with someone but your interest or mindset change over the years, only if both of you are on the same frequencies. Which is never the case in most marriages because most partners fail to communicate or power struggle come in.

In some cases external influences such as friends, colleagues, ex lovers etc affects ones sexual satisfaction over the years. Some couples go.back to the past by searchingfor nostalgic sexual satisfaction with ex- lovers, friend,colleagues or school mates, which doesnt or can never be the same.

Wait what do I know. Psshh
I am not even married. Please ignore my comment and wait for the Elders.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Brightfab(m): 2:51pm On Jan 02, 2020
grin grin
thorpido:
Economists call it the law of diminishing returns.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by liv123: 2:51pm On Jan 02, 2020
I'm following

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by mfm04622: 2:51pm On Jan 02, 2020
Who told you that? That is NOT my experience

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by omamush(f): 2:52pm On Jan 02, 2020
Dunno, I'm not married..

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by madgoat(m): 2:52pm On Jan 02, 2020
Thats why one needs a side chick to spice up the sex life smiley

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Salamson111: 2:52pm On Jan 02, 2020
middlebelter:


You get it


Diminishing Marginal Utility.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by jhydebaba(m): 2:52pm On Jan 02, 2020
OP, how many samples have you taken before arriving at your conclusion.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Necksonnel: 2:52pm On Jan 02, 2020
10 years too long self

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