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When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by lovemoi2(f): 11:51am On Oct 01, 2021
This is for Nigerians especially religious ones!!!!!!

Stop with your false Misleading informations!!!!

There is noting wrong with thanking your God after waiting for years to have kids and finally through IVF (INVITRO FERTILISATION) you got your dream.

But atleast be open about it so that it could help others.

You know in your heart that if you waited for a miracle without the IVF you wouldn't have had your children.
So stop the lies when you give your testimony, like you did nothing and just prayed.
Please let's find the habits of telling people that Faith without works is dead

James 2:14-26
14 .What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can faith save him?

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Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by habsydiamond(m): 11:56am On Oct 01, 2021
lovemoi2:
This is for Nigerians especially religious ones!!!!!!

Stop with your false Misleading informations!!!!

There is noting wrong with thanking your God after waiting for years to have kids and finally through IVF (INVITRO FERTILISATION) you got your dream.

But atleast be open about it so that it could help others.

you know in your heart that if you waited for a miracle without the IVF you wouldn't have had your children. So stop the lies when you give your testimony, like you did nothing and just prayed.
Please let's find the habits of telling people that

James 2:14-26

Faith Without Works Is Dead



whenever I see of any marriage of multiple year without a child all of a sudden had twins this is where my mind always flashes to this IVF. Science is helping out too

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Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by yuping(m): 11:57am On Oct 01, 2021
I don't see anything wrong with IVF, I think people hide it because of discrimination.
You don't want your children to be seen as Zombies, So is better the entire thing should be between the parent and doctor not even extended family should know we just have this African mentality, something bad may happen to the husband and in the near future the family might come to take all properties saying the children are not genuine.
Fear African Family.

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Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by ahnie: 11:59am On Oct 01, 2021
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Spot on,you have said it all.

Fews years ago on this forum,one sweet adorable blunt lady from the TTC thread had twins or triplets I really can't remember again,but I love the fact that,she came out opening saying she got her kids through surrogacy.

My love for her tripled.

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Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by lovemoi2(f): 12:05pm On Oct 01, 2021
yuping:
I don't see anything wrong with IVF, I think people hide it because of discrimination.
You don't want your children to be seen as Zombies, So is better the entire thing should be between the parent and doctor not even extended family should know we just have this African mentality, something bad may happen to the husband and in the near future the family might come to take all properties saying the children are not genuine.
Fear African Family.

This mindset is the reason why nothing improves in that country.
what do you mean as zombies? IVF is just mixing egg and sperm (the same thing that happens after unprotected sex when the woman is ovulating). The only difference is the doctors gets the sperm of the husband and the eggs of the wife and mix it in the lab, because maybe the sperm was unable to travel to the egg on its own quickly. There is no difference.
And when people keep hiding things that actually happens naturally in most countries and are open about it , when will others learn? this is why people need to speak about it. it is normal

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Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by lovemoi2(f): 12:11pm On Oct 01, 2021
ahnie:
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Spot on,you have said it all.

Fews years ago on this forum,one sweet adorable blunt lady from the TTC thread had twins or triplets I really can't remember again,but I love the fact that,she came out opening saying she got her kids through surrogacy.

My love for her tripled.




thank you, and its really inspirational when they do that. they help others.

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Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by thesicilian: 12:27pm On Oct 01, 2021
That's is why many Nigerians suffer in silence, because those who have gone through the same process instead of showing others the way, will just say it's "God's grace." While not in any way trying to disregard the influence of God in the process, I believe it will be much more beneficial to your audience if you actually let them know the procedure you went through so that they too can decide to go that route if they can afford it.
Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by greenie77: 12:59pm On Oct 01, 2021
There are things overwhelming majority of Nigerians don't feel comfortable being open about issues such as IVF, Surrogacy, mental health issues, Caesarian Section etc.

it is due to the socialization but some Nigerians are becoming bold enough not to feel shame about their journey and feel a sense of release sharing their stories.
Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by lovemoi2(f): 2:27pm On Oct 01, 2021
thesicilian:
That's is why many Nigerians suffer in silence, because those who have gone through the same process instead of showing others the way, will just say it's "God's grace." While not in any way trying to disregard the influence of God in the process, I believe it will be much more beneficial to your audience if you actually let them know the procedure you went through so that they too can decide to go that route if they can afford it.


THE SUFFERING IN SILENCE IS SO REAL. and so so sad

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Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by lovemoi2(f): 2:28pm On Oct 01, 2021
greenie77:
There are things overwhelming majority of Nigerians don't feel comfortable being open about issues such as IVF, Surrogacy, mental health issues, Caesarian Section etc.

it is due to the socialization but some Nigerians are becoming bold enough not to feel shame about their journey and feel a sense of release sharing their stories.
Yes but it is still very rare.

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Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by MufasaLion: 4:10pm On Oct 01, 2021
They would rather give all the thanks to their clerics. Ungrateful souls!

Physicians should be praised more!

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Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by Kobojunkie: 4:35pm On Oct 01, 2021
lovemoi2:
This is for Nigerians especially religious ones!!!!!!
Stop with your false Misleading informations!!!!

There is noting wrong with thanking your God after waiting for years to have kids and finally through IVF (INVITRO FERTILISATION) you got your dream.

But atleast be open about it so that it could help others.
You know in your heart that if you waited for a miracle without the IVF you wouldn't have had your children.
So stop the lies when you give your testimony, like you did nothing and just prayed.
God knows the liars! grin
Re: When You Have Children By IVF Please Thank The Doctors Too by Kobojunkie: 4:37pm On Oct 01, 2021
yuping:
I don't see anything wrong with IVF, I think people hide it because of discrimination.
You don't want your children to be seen as Zombies, So is better the entire thing should be between the parent and doctor not even extended family should know we just have this African mentality, something bad may happen to the husband and in the near future the family might come to take all properties saying the children are not genuine.
Fear African Family.
They should sit on their so called testimonies as well. undecided

The lies are ridiculous. undecided

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