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Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Tribalism123(m): 5:56pm On Oct 27, 2021
Even ur left hand must not know what ur right hand earns, let alone ur full community.
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by lookingfly: 6:01pm On Oct 27, 2021
This question can be answered especially among colleague's...... If one is applying for an opening in the firm where you work and he/she ask your the range of your salary assuming he/she would be employed to same level with you, I don't see anything wrong in telling that person your salary. It's not also bad to tell your parents depending on the kind of food parents though, but you see wife or galfriend.....no try am. Instead, tell them a lower figure from your actual pay, like 50 percent of your original pay.
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by scrupulousblog: 6:06pm On Oct 27, 2021
This is inappropriate. No one should ask that if they have nothing to offer.
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Prettyclown: 6:10pm On Oct 27, 2021
undecided Pastors indeed, i pity u and the person wey put the mentality for ur head
RapistOnBail:

Only your pastor should know how much is in your account and how much you earn.

They are Good men.



Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Prettyclown: 6:12pm On Oct 27, 2021
My dear, nobody deserves to know
No even think am
ubsky:
Good morning all, please I need your suggestions concerning this topic....
The reason I'm asking is because I feel it should be personal due to my personal experience and I also find it annoying when someone not really close to me come up with the question "how much do you earn"......
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by winner37(m): 6:16pm On Oct 27, 2021
telling your family, friends or your babe the amount you earn is a very expensive mistake hardly to be corrected. ..
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by highoctane: 6:17pm On Oct 27, 2021
ubsky:
Good morning all, please I need your suggestions concerning this topic....
The reason I'm asking is because I feel it should be personal due to my personal experience and I also find it annoying when someone not really close to me come up with the question "how much do you earn"......
You have already tell.
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Kokaine(m): 6:19pm On Oct 27, 2021
ubsky:
Good morning all, please I need your suggestions concerning this topic....
The reason I'm asking is because I feel it should be personal due to my personal experience and I also find it annoying when someone not really close to me come up with the question "how much do you earn"......
life is better enjoyed in secret though. That public thing causes too much wahala. You are safer when people assume you to be broke and lowly than when they think you're richer than you actually are. You attract a lot of unwanted attention. Some even just hate you like you're the cause of their own misfortunes. Others want to pile up responsibilities on you so that they can accuse you of not helping them when they were down. They're always trying to be on a revenge mission for nothing. If you earn 100k, live like you earn 40k and try to cry up the standing of your side hustle. Give an average impression and don't they to show off.
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Daughterboard(m): 6:30pm On Oct 27, 2021
ubsky:
Good morning all, please I need your suggestions concerning this topic....
The reason I'm asking is because I feel it should be personal due to my personal experience and I also find it annoying when someone not really close to me come up with the question "how much do you earn"......
Don't ask! Don't tell!
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by mysteriousD: 6:39pm On Oct 27, 2021
Druss:
Your salary is not confidential. It is also not illegal in Nigeria to discuss your salary. If an employer to be asks you this question, you can tell them. It is not bad HR practice.
Try to read before commenting on a public platform there no "legal or illegal" in my statement...who has said its illegal nw
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Vince77(m): 6:39pm On Oct 27, 2021
I've been asked this question before and I was more angry with myself than the person who asked because I realized that I must have given the impression that I'm stupid that's why I was asked the stupid question.
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Kfg1: 6:41pm On Oct 27, 2021
Show off are your own peril and be burdened for life
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by starlingbawa(m): 6:45pm On Oct 27, 2021
NO!

It's that simple really!!!
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Anndrew(m): 7:08pm On Oct 27, 2021
winterlover:
If I have N500 million in my account, I will behave like I have less than N500,000.
I will even beg them for help.
If you no wise, they will finish you. They will not bother you when you don't have. As soon as you have and then know eh, some will even plan to execute you and steal your property.
I agree with u,don't even them beg for help...just dey ur dey, never let any one have leverage to me..life has taught me a better lesson
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by NomzyJust(m): 7:21pm On Oct 27, 2021
RapistOnBail:

Only your pastor should know how much is in your account and how much you earn.
They are Good men.
Only few will understand this.
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by smasher1(m): 7:21pm On Oct 27, 2021
ubsky:
Good morning all, please I need your suggestions concerning this topic....
The reason I'm asking is because I feel it should be personal due to my personal experience and I also find it annoying when someone not really close to me come up with the question "how much do you earn"......
What da hell are you talking about?
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by smasher1(m): 7:21pm On Oct 27, 2021
Davash222:
Only a foolish person will ask someone how much do you earn, and only a senseless fellow will answer such question.
Thread closed.
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by akanbiaa(m): 7:26pm On Oct 27, 2021
Whether they know or not, do they dictate your life affairs? Be a Man and know when to say no and yes and when to stand firm and when to be flexible and only spend what on those loved ones who truly appreciate and grateful and have potentials of doing same to others when they have and do this if you must only when its convenient for you to spend.
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by RapistOnBail: 7:40pm On Oct 27, 2021
NomzyJust:
Only few will understand this.
Few wise men
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by mysteriousD: 7:49pm On Oct 27, 2021
abbey621:
Would you keep quiet! Bad HR practice? Una go just dey type rubbish all in the name of yarning, I have probably hired over 30 different team members over the past 4 years and current salary allows us to have a good starting point for negotiations especially for well qualified candidates. We can't offer someone currently making $80,000 a year lesser money for the same job or higher position, it would most certainly be a deal breaker and besides all pay information can be verified easily for those of us overseas, it is only primitive nations like Nigeria where things are hidden or hard to get.
My dear dumb hirer...always conduct your due diligence before inviting applicants for a role.you already have a budget for the role for christsake and also have the cvs before they are invited ...applicants are humans like YOU seeking to find better opportunities. If your basis for negotiations was their previous engagement salary/wages most would not even apply....
I can also see you have quickly listed your achievements....you have hired over 30 teams member probably through this method and most likely they are underpaid going by your demeanor
You are classically above the primitive Nigeria...the quick use of the dollar sign to depecit the inferiority complex u suffer..
I suggest you once again conduct due diligence get enlightened stop asking applicants stupid questions but unfortunately your egocentric,myopic and dumb nature will rather reply this than read relevant practices to be enlightened.
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by NaijaSumi: 7:54pm On Oct 27, 2021
winterlover:
If I have N500 million in my account, I will behave like I have less than N500,000.
I will even beg them for help.
If you no wise, they will finish you. They will not bother you when you don't have. As soon as you have and then know eh, some will even plan to execute you and steal your property.
Not true. I don't subscribe to this advise
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Joetttimua1811(m): 8:03pm On Oct 27, 2021
Please who will teach me how to make money online.... Legitimately ooooo, please if you want to scam, I no kuku get money wey you go collect. Please my digit in my signature, WhatsApp and call thanks.


Please help a brother sad shocked sad sad sad
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by abbey621(m): 8:04pm On Oct 27, 2021
mysteriousD:
My dear dumb hirer...always conduct your due diligence before inviting applicants for a role.you already have a budget for the role for christsake and also have the cvs before they are invited ...applicants are humans like YOU seeking to find better opportunities. If your basis for negotiations was their previous engagement salary/wages most would not even apply....
I can also see you have quickly listed your achievements....you have hired over 30 teams member probably through this method and most likely they are underpaid going by your demeanor
You are classically above the primitive Nigeria...the quick use of the dollar sign to depecit the inferiority complex u suffer..
I suggest you once again conduct due diligence get enlightened stop asking applicants stupid questions but unfortunately your egocentric,myopic and dumb nature will rather reply this than read relevant practices to be enlightened.
Again, you type like an incoherent person, your write-up exposes the issue here, you lack exposure and inability to comprehend simple sentences! I believe your experience describes your immediate surroundings so I cannot fault you for that, you can't possibly phantom my point of view or of those employed outside of Nigeria so no need for us to keep dragging this out, the words are there for anyone to view and it is easy for the readers to decide who is dumb and myopic between you and I, I've already given you too much credibility by responding to your disparaging comment, enough of this tomfoolery......PEACE!
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by jojothaiv(m): 8:10pm On Oct 27, 2021
RapistOnBail:

Only your pastor should know how much is in your account and how much you earn.

They are Good men.



N.B

Be mindful of bold letters
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Deenillah(m): 8:34pm On Oct 27, 2021
How much i earn? Only three persons know this.

Me.
Myself and
I.

Am a very personal somebody.
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by mysteriousD: 8:51pm On Oct 27, 2021
abbey621:
Again, you type like an incoherent person, your write-up exposes the issue here, you lack exposure and inability to comprehend simple sentences! I believe your experience describes your immediate surroundings so I cannot fault you for that, you can't possibly phantom my point of view or of those employed outside of Nigeria so no need for us to keep dragging this out, the words are there for anyone to view and it is easy for the readers to decide who is dumb and myopic between you and I, I've already given you too much credibility by responding to your disparaging comment, enough of this tomfoolery......PEACE!
Like I said you would reply rather than find knowledge...please remember to treat pple like humans and stop bad practices.....thanks.

Ps :
Empty pangolo makes the loudest noise.....nobody asked u if u were in the county or not...
Ur peak is another person's beginning....
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Originalsly: 9:32pm On Oct 27, 2021
ubsky:
"how much do you earn"......
Not So Close: How much do you earn?

OP : Why do you want to know?

Not So Close: Nothing really ... I just wanted to know.

OP : OK.... how much do you earn?
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Jamesbiodun(m): 9:38pm On Oct 27, 2021
RapistOnBail:

Only your pastor should know how much is in your account and how much you earn.

They are Good men.



your pastor will not die well grin
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by winterlover: 9:42pm On Oct 27, 2021
NaijaSumi:
Not true. I don't subscribe to this advise
Just a wise advice
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by pfadom: 10:03pm On Oct 27, 2021
What for? Why should they?
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by dawncorhneil: 10:08pm On Oct 27, 2021
RapistOnBail:

Only your pastor should know how much is in your account and how much you earn.

They are Good men.



get reay to carry church burden ontop ur heaD
Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by Ukeme8: 5:54am On Oct 28, 2021
[quote author=RapistOnBail post=107113274][b]
Only your pastor should know how much is in your account and how much you earn.

They are Good men.



Nonsense, for what reason ?
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