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As a parent, do you see anything wrong with this picture?

Let's assume that the people in this picture are father and daughter.

Is this appropriate?

lalasticlala let's hear from you.

Though I'm not a parent, in my opinion, everything is wrong with this photo.

From their dress code to the cuddle.
An opposite sex is not supposed to cuddle a female child in that manner irrespective of their relationship.

Since men natural, cannot control their urge, I think 'for me ooo' they shouldn't be left alone with an opposite sex especially the teen girls.

My own daughter then why can't I cuddle her to sleep? Who would I leave the job for? He should place her head on his chest so she feels warmer sef

Nothing is wrong with the photo (I assume it is father and daughter) but it should not be posted on social media.

FutureIsFemale:
Since men natural, cannot control their urge, I think 'for me ooo' they shouldn't be left alone with an opposite sex especially the teen girls.

Your didn't spend alone time with your father?

FutureIsFemale:
Since men natural, cannot control their urge, I think 'for me ooo' they shouldn't be left alone with an opposite sex especially the teen girls.

Dirty mind! Allow the kid to enjoy her father-daughter bonding experience in peace.

Its cool by me, why won't I cuddle my daughter like this... those raping their daughter to satisfy the sexual desire are from the ambassador of poverty..A rich or hardworking man never does that....instead I go do soapy

Hathor5:
Nothing is wrong with the photo (I assume it is father and daughter) but it should not be posted on social media.

abi, I remember when I had issues in school 2016 my dad still cuddle nd pet me

Hathor5:
Your didn't spend alone time with your father?

ask her o

debbydams:
abi, I remember when I had issues in school 2016 my dad still cuddle nd pet me

My father and I cuddled too and took naps in the afternoon on the same sofa. Nothing sexual about it. Totally innocent. I cherish those memories.

FutureIsFemale:
Though I'm not a parent, in my opinion, everything is wrong with this photo.

From their dress code to the cuddle.
[b]An opposite sex is not supposed to cuddle a female child [/b]in that manner irrespective of their relationship.

Which kind of sexist statement is that?? So a father ((opposite sex)) shouldn't cuddle his daughter ((female)), but a mother ((female)) can cuddle her son ((opposite sex))...

Na wa o

FutureIsFemale:
Since men natural, cannot control their urge , I think 'for me ooo' they shouldn't be left alone with an opposite sex especially the teen girls.

Men can't control their sexual urges?? Which kind of generalization is this one sef?

Omor your reasoning eh...
Hmm...
Tis well with you o....

So women can control their sexual urges ba?? Including the cases of women raping minors and getting pregnant for them..those one happened because the minor ((male)) couldn't control his sexual urges??

Hmm...
Indeed sense full your comment ...
Weldone ma'am...

There's nothing wrong here... She's still a small girl..

Hathor5:
Your didn't spend alone time with your father?

I did. But regretted.

pyro62:
My own daughter then why can't I cuddle her to sleep? Who would I leave the job for? He should place her head on his chest so she feels warmer sef

What kind of job? Where is it stated you must cuddle?

Nothing is wrong about it .

Sonnobax15:

Nothing is wrong about it .

Why would you see anything wrong?

This thread was not even for males to comment.

FutureIsFemale:
Why would you see anything wrong?

This thread was not even for males to comment.

Male or female,the fact is that I'm always addicted to speaking the truth......If a mother can cuddle her son to sleep like that,why can't a father do the same to his daughter....... Pardon you,not all fathers are prone to incest or whatever....Many fathers who are responsible knows what's good and what's bad.....

FutureIsFemale:
What kind of job? Where is it stated you must cuddle?

If you want to eat with your daughter with a long spoon, then that's your problem. But a father's job to make his baby feel safe. When I was a boy, if I have a nightmare, I run to my fathers room, and that's the same position I take with my dad and I feel better.

Do you have a life story you wanna share?
Maybe I can understand

FutureIsFemale:
[s]Since men natural, cannot control their urge[/s], I think 'for me ooo' they shouldn't be left alone with an opposite sex especially the teen girls.

Women are the master urge controllers abi. If you can feel safe with ur father hugging you, then you are unlucky. You see how kamaru usman and his daughter always bond, that's the goal baby.

FutureIsFemale:
I did. But regretted.

Sorry.

FutureIsFemale:
I did. But regretted.

I would like to read your story.

I shouldn't cuddle my own daughter that God used me and her mother to bring to this world again?

Nothing is wrong

FutureIsFemale:
Since men natural, cannot control their urge, I think 'for me ooo' they shouldn't be left alone with an opposite sex especially the teen girls.

May you find inner peace and be healed of men-induced trauma in JESUS' name! Amen!

FutureIsFemale:
I did. But regretted.

That's your own problem don't dictate for others , what a stupid post.

Why was such private moment snapped and posted online, worse when a minor is involved? There are psychiatric disordered persons such pictures sexually arouses and they do make efforts in getting children to sate their urges.

Mindlog:
Why was such private moment snapped and posted online, worse when a minor is involved? There are psychiatric disordered persons such pictures sexually arouses and they do make efforts in getting children to sate their urges.

That looks like a photo from a movie scene.

I feel the man didn't get close to the daughter enough just because it's a public setting.

On a norm, I would even get much closer than they did. It's nothing... The mindset is what makes the difference.

The poster is just being paranoid and it's understandable based on her comments. It must be hard living with her experience.

They're both deeply asleep and not cognizant of their poses, which I think are innocent. There's no need to read any sexual meaning into them.

Kids can sleep anyhow when that sleep is good. You don't expect the father to wake her up to tell her to sleep properly or something, not when he himself is fast asleep.

InTheCloudySky:
They're both deeply asleep and not cognizant of their poses, which I think are innocent. There's no need to read any sexual meaning into them.

Kids can sleep anyhow when that sleep is good. You don't expect the father to wake her up to tell her to sleep properly or something, not when he himself is fast asleep.

thanks for dis comment. not all men are pedo.....

FutureIsFemale:
Though I'm not a parent, in my opinion, everything is wrong with this photo.

From their dress code to the cuddle.
An opposite sex is not supposed to cuddle a female child in that manner irrespective of their relationship.

.your mind, soul and body is dirty.. you are just one loose saddist on the run, u better change