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If you know denomination is a big deal to you, avoid the conflict earlier.

Don't start what you can't finish. Don't even date that person at first..

chrisifeanyi:
I met a lady while in the university and we dated for 10 years. Church separated us. She's a Catholic and refused following me to Anglican. I even suggested us changing to a neutral church she refused.

@bold shows that you're a spiritual person, while she's a religious person. So you guys are not compatible. That's the simple truth.

Lightway:
What if you're 29 and unmarried

That's the mistake people make.
29 and unmarried is not a curse.
Do you really believe that everyone will marry?
I've always said that people should do what makes them happy.
Marriage is actually overrated.
Seven years ago, I contacted a caretaker of a house I wanted to rent. He asked me several questions, one of which was where my wife was. I told him I wasn't married. He said "ah, we want to give our house to a married man who is responsible oo".
And I asked him, "who says an unmarried man is not responsible?"
"Who even says all married men are responsible?".
"That's not what I am saying, sir" he responded.
I told him I would like to discuss the matter further with him face to face.
That was society speaking through him.
Many people let the words of the society get into their head and by the time they realize they've made a mistake, it'll be too late.
Next thing you hear is divorce.
Get ready before you marry!
Otherwise, remain single and mentally healthy!!

Even God and christ no get church i wonder who did this to africans . U cannot marry him because he is rccg and u are catholic yet you people wll be claiming christians..... Christ no get church if he did he would have identified it and rejected the rest if of christian denominations already. The effect of this religious brainwashing called christianity is overwhelming! I will say it again christianity beats politics and cataract to become no 1 cause of blindness amongst black people

I wonder why there are division in bodies of Christ...

Whereas it's not so with Muslims... And traditionalist people..

It's a religious extremist that does that.
Me that won't mind wedding in a mosque, any church as far as I love the lady.
I will always compromise for her.
But come and force my brain to believe in the existence of middle East medieval age creator deity na.

NarcissistKing:
Igbo girls are the best.

I don't know about all Igbo girls but Nneka and Chidimma were darlings.

Walahi, poverty is embarrassment

CsRockefeller:
I met a lady on Nairaland. She said she can't marry a Catholic. Ok, no problem, I will change to a church both if us will decide on after marriage. She said ok.

Later, she said the wedding must be done in her own church, I said no problem.

Oya nau, can we begin the relationship? Only for her to call and start threatening me based on comments she saw on a front page thread last week about Marriage and Denomination. Not like I made any negative comment there, I was just wondering were all the anger was coming from especially as I have promised her that my word won't change.

After everything she said that night, I decided it was the last straw, I walked away.

If you see this, I'm really disappointed that you couldn't take my word and let everything about church rest. We could have had some beautiful and long lasting, but your fears and knack for perfection won't allow you to see the bigger picture.

Remember the words of Paul; If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. I wish you well

So that Catholic vs Pentecostal Topic Cause dis kind Kasala for ur Relationship?

D Topic strong Sha! Got to 18 or 19 Pages!

Things dey Really Happen in this Life oo!

There's more than just church denominations. Is the person going to RCCG God's fearing? Do my husband to be that attends Anglican knows the person called Jesus? Even as a mere Christian how do he or she thinks? I know denominations matter but beyond that is the person attending the denomination.

It can't enter marriage level before you know denominational compatibility except if d person is dull

greatiyk4u:
Lolz, no be the same christ they worship?

abeg o
Help me ask o
Na this segregation and discrimination among Christians make me to no dey go church again

Urbanchampion:
Bọlá, I'm a member of Mountain of Fire and Miracle Ministries. How about that?

Omo Dk Odukoya

Comedian2019:
Both of you should do traditional wedding and leave church with their problem. After all, marriage is a family thing, not religious.

abi! and after the traditional marriage we wouldn't go to church again?

No one would have believed that discrimination will be in a body that cost God the live on His only Son to build

my girlfriends mother said when j mentioned about marriage told her daughter to tell me.go away because I am not a catholic..that is am.not a catholic it will never work out btw us..

Bola146:
I can't marry someone from white garments church where they are after rituals. I'll cancel the relationship asap

i am a protestant

I’m catholic
It seems hard for a Protestant to switch to the catholic faith
So probably it might not go down well at the end

IAMBlesssed:
If you know denomination is a big deal to you, avoid the conflict earlier.

Don't start what you can't finish. Don't even date that person at first..

Exactly!

It's not good to be going to different denomination as a family

Because ur belief may be slightly different with them, take for instance JE did not believe in holy Spirit whereas as another believers, I may believe I cannot do anything without the spirit

And you need to be growing in the same word in case challenges of life arise, so that u will be able to fight it together.

I can marry another denomination, the koko is, do you know christ?

If you don't know christ that's nothing

Hmmm my present issue now

This is exactly what myself and my girlfriend are dragging now. She has never been to my church before and keep saying she won't. We're both from the same church background but am going to different church now, I've been to her church up to 4times, she has never been to mine. I really wanna sort this thing out with her.

Alihamdu lilah

Yes..Marry an Eckankar,Olunba,Olunba,Gurumaharaji and all him siblings them at your own generation risk!!!

People with different problems

I can't even cancel my wedding because of religion.

That was how I told one nansense girl I like her and the next thing she asked was whether I can leave my church because of her since she and I are not of the same denomination... Ordinary like I like her o, what If I had told her that I love her, that means the she goat will ask me to deny Christ. The kind anger that went through my veins eeh I for kill person daughter fa!

Can two walk together except they AGREE? Interdenominational is just like intertribal marriage too. If you agree, compromise and fashion out the relevant things before you get serious, then no problem. A good no of my yoruba people from the southwest practice it.

Vinnie2000:
So that Catholic vs Pentecostal Topic Cause dis kind Kasala for ur Relationship?

D Topic strong Sha! Got to 18 or 19 Pages!

Things dey Really Happen in this Life oo!

Abeg tag me on the thread

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Jogab:
These is what religion have turned all of us to. Imagine a building of 10 rooms apartment occupied by 10 Christian denominations e.g deeper life, Jehovah witness, celestial, rccg, Aladura, mountain of fire etc.

The other 9 rooms can't exist with this one in the same building it can't work. They are not part of christendom

You made it sound like a catholicism thing I once had a girlfriend that called it off because I'm not a catholic. So is everywhere oga OP.