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We live in a society that favours ladies when it comes to help, whether in getting a good job or receiving financial help from people.
I know a popular young woman on Facebook that will ask her friends and followers to contribute money for the needy who reach out to her and Immediately people mostly guys will start sending money into her bank account, though I appreciate her transparency and accountability in handling the money, she will screenshot all the alarts and post them for people to see, she can raise 100k within 2-3 days and give it to whoever ask for it (ladies/women)
Apart from this, ladies can easily get help from even broke guys as well, meanwhile some guys don't really care about their fellow poor niggas, as for me I help both genders but guys most times because I can't ask a lady for help during emergency, but I can boldly ask my male friend whom I've been helping.

I've helped a lot of female relatives including the ones in school , but not random girls that will think it's because of their beautiful body, they won't even appreciate it, and a day is coming that they will stop talking to you.

Majority of ladies on social media are mendicants, only God knows how many guys they beg for money on daily basis.

So guys share your experience here, who do you help most? Guys or ladies?

Matters arising...

Any financial help rendered to a woman aside your mother and sisters is vain.

Men don't forget who help them, that's a fact. It may take years, they will still remember.

It's more noble to help your fellow man than to help a woman who may not appreciate your help.

Be wise not nice.

That is because men hardly help their fellow men. I wonder why that is.

Men would rather render "help" to women and expect the "favour" to be repaid in kind.

Kriss216:
Any financial help rendered to a woman aside your mother and sisters is vain.

Men don't forget who help them, that's a fact. It may take years, they will still remember.

It's more noble to help your fellow man than to help a woman who may not appreciate your help.

Be wise not nice.

Kriss, when was the last time you helped your fellow man?

They the "weaker sex" I guess .
Abi you wan become a woman?

Every time your arguments and Lamentations is always gender based with the female gender at the receiving end. Men why?

Are there no cases of women helping men or of men getting help?

Davido made a whooping 150 million naira within 4 days of seeking help online. All the help women have been getting can never be compared to what Davido got in 4 days. So, stop with the gender strife already.

I come in peace.

Ladies uses what they(KitKat) have to get what they want.I have caught a manager of recruitment in chivita,ajao estate brought a lady to my former hotel for a short rest.I don apply several times to get employment in chivita before.If I write my name in the list of applicants for employment he would cancel my name.
His name is uncle Ben.Anyone who has been to chivita for job knows him.
I have even listened to some female applicants gossip about him that he would call them at midnight to asked them out.They would declined.
Guys don't have hole and Bobbie.

Mariangeles:
Kriss, when was the last time you helped your fellow man?

This afternoon...I shared my last blunt with my male neighbor.


You nko? Have you helped your fellow woman before?

Mariangeles:
That is because men hardly help their fellow men. I wonder why that is.

Men would rather render "help" to women and expect the "favour" to be repaid in kind.

Say SIMPle men not all Men.

Kriss216:
Say SIMPle men not all Men.

All men are guilty,only if you want to lie or you don't know anything about life
Before you help a man,you will help a lady 2 times
Men believe women are inferior so they easily attracts sympathy
I once parked to help a lady to change a tyre,not that i like her but I believe she wasn't safe if I should just pass

Kriss216:
This afternoon...I shared my last blunt with my male neighbor.


You nko? Have you helped your fellow woman before?

I help people not because you're a man or woman, but because you're a human being who needs help I can render.

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Flier:
All men are guilty,only if you want to lie or you don't know anything about life
Before you help a man,you will help a lady 2 times

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I'll rather die than to help a lady before a man.

The lady has nothing to offer me aside sex which I can afford with just noodles and egg.

Mariangeles:
I help people not because you're a man or woman, but because you're a human being who needs help I can render.

You're yet to answer my question, Mariah.

Kriss216:
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I'll rather die than to help a lady before a man.

The lady has nothing to offer me aside sex which I can afford with just noodles and egg.

You just not thinking straight,under normal condition you should help a lady before a man
It's not always about sex,they are simply helpless

Mercychen:
They the "weaker sex" I guess .
Abi you wan become a woman?

Every time your arguments and Lamentations is always gender based with the female gender at the receiving end. Men why?

Are there no cases of women helping men or of men getting help?

Davido made a whooping 150 million naira within 4 days of seeking help online. All the help women have been getting can never be compared to what Davido got in 4 days. So, stop with the genderization already.

I come in peace.

Davido is a celebrity sis, this isn't generalisation either, but you yourself know the truth na

Never Underestimate the power of Kpekus

[s]Ladies uses what they(KitKat) have to get what they want.I have caught a manager of recruitment in chivita,ajao estate brought a lady to my former hotel for a short rest.I don apply several times to get employment in chivita before.If I write my name in the list of applicants for employment he would cancel my name.
His name is uncle Ben.Anyone who has been to chivita for job knows him.
I have even listened to some female applicants gossip about him that he would call them at midnight to asked them out.They would declined.
Guys don't have hole and Bobbie.[/quote][/s]

Learn how to keep something secret nobody ask you this question you are totally off points

Kriss216:
You're yet to answer my question, Mariah.

Of course, I have.

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Flier:
You just not thinking straight,under normal condition you should help a lady before a man
It's not always about sex,they are simply helpless

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How and why are they helpless? Who made them helpless?

Kriss216:
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I'll rather die than to help a lady before a man.

The lady has nothing to offer me aside sex which I can afford with just noodles and egg.

Don't place a curse on yourself.

Give help to who needs it more, not because of their gender.

Mariangeles:
Don't place a curse on yourself.

Give help to who needs it more, not because of their gender.

To die is not a curse. We shall all die


The only valid help a Nigerian girl can get from me is Gbola help, out of my benevolence.

Kriss216:
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How and why are they helpless? Who made them helpless?

God created them that way

Simple because they have a hole(pussy) in-between their legs.

Flier:
God created them that way

I'll advice you stop patronising foolishness!

God1000:
David is a celebrity sis, this isn't generalisation either, but you yourself know the truth na

Men get help too forget that thing. Only that, ego will not let them divulge it to anyone. Na only women own una dey hear.

Sometimes a woman will seek help and she'll be presented with conditions which if not met will detter her from getting any help. What about that?

That is not to say women don't get help though but I'm just trying to make you understand that it's mostly the same hurdles the men face that women face too. It's a matter of luck.

DaddyRochie1642:
Never Underestimate the power of Kpekus

Lol, are you among them?

Kriss216:
To die is not a curse. We shall all die


The only valid help a Nigerian girl can get from me is Gbola help, out of my benevolence.

Comrade Your davash account done chop ban abi?
Lol. Make you no let vaginarians carry your case for head like gala like they did to thegidredpiller and mosdii.

Flier:
You just not thinking straight,under normal condition you should help a lady before a man
It's not always about sex,they are simply helpless

You must be the biggest SIMP I've ever come across, just read what you posted and ask yourself if you made any sense.

Mercychen:
Men get help but too forget that thing. Only that, ego will not let them divulge it to anyone. Na only women own una dey hear.

Sometimes a woman will seek help and she'll be presented with conditions which if not met will detter her from getting any help. What about that?

That is not to say women don't get help though but I'm just trying to make you understand that it's mostly the same hurdles the men face that women face too. It's a matter of luck.

Hmm, this is casuistry dear, please stop gaslighting and acknowledge the reality.

lkillbrokehoes:
Comrade Your davash account done chop ban abi?
Lol. Make you no let vaginarians carry your case for head like gala like they did to thegidredpiller and mosdii.

Nairaland romance mods are biased.

Someone will call you all sorts of name, even insult your family members, the moment you call her Olosho, they delete your post and place a long ban on you.

Joysticks:
Ladies uses what they(KitKat) have to get what they want.I have caught a manager of recruitment in chivita,ajao estate brought a lady to my former hotel for a short rest.I don apply several times to get employment in chivita before.If I write my name in the list of applicants for employment he would cancel my name.
His name is uncle Ben.Anyone who has been to chivita for job knows him.
I have even listened to some female applicants gossip about him that he would call them at midnight to asked them out.They would declined.
Guys don't have hole and Bobbie.

Too bad, such a person should be sacked

God1000:
Too bad, such a person should be sacked

The position have been relieved from him.But he is still disguising to deceive some desperate ladies.He was surprised when I called his name"uncle Ben,na this man be the manager of chivita"He kept mute.He just finished what he came to do with his mistress and zoom off.