MufasaLion:
Human Rights Groups are the best shot!

tammyf:


What agency please .I'm in ph.

kernniejay:
I will try and overlook your grammatical constructions.
Now to the issue, this poor girl is surrounded by destiny destroyers. Her very mom is her arch enemy. How could her daughter report a rape by her step dad and the mom would rather send the girl out to save her already miserable home? And worst still, the same mom still went ahead to chase her out of the grandma's house just because she didnt want her to marry her jobless and broke boyfriend? That is a mother from hell !
I will not blame the girl so much because she's just a very innocent and naive girl who needs parental guidance and support. She is way too young for all these terrible mishaps. Imagine a 19yr old already done two abortions for two different guys! Heartless guys would continue to take advantage of her in that condition.
The girl (probably with his "fiance" should just run away from anywhere within the reach of her mother and step fathers before they completely ruin her already shattered life. As a man, the guy should seek help from family or anywhere approachable to start something no matter how little it may be. From that, the two can pick up their lives and with diligence and determination, they will surely scale through the hurdle and come out triumphantly.

tammyf:


Pardon my grammatical blunder .I type very fast ...but wat if they run away and during child birth something happens to her (she dies)... that dude is deep soup don't you think? Then the family of the firl will come for the boy.

tammyf:
Hi ,
..this matter came to me by a girl and I'm confused how to advice her so I need matured ,experienced and wise contributions please ..

She is 18 going to 19.done with waec .... got impregnated by a guy 5months ago .d boy denied .she met a boy who assisted her ,tool care of her till she aborted the baby cos she doesn't like the guy.it was a mistake .

Now she stays with her grandma who is struggling to feed .the boy who helped her abort took care of her waec (2021 waec) ... the boy was just in town for a little job.

Her dad (biological ) raped and discovered her a year ago...she fought will all her might but couldn't over come him.she ran away and went to her mum .d mum didn't believe the step dad currently married to the mum made series of advances on her and threatened not to pay her fees if she doesn't give in to him.she told the mum n d mum sent her to the grandma to save her marriage .

Back to the young man that has been helping her ,they fe inlove.he has been looking for a baby .they agreed to hv a child together. Now she is one month gone.the man is back to his state cos job finished n he is broke .

Young man wanted to come see the mum but mum refused cos he has nothing doing and said she must abort it.she wants to take the daughter to the clinic to abort it .little girl is scared cause of the local abortion she did 5months ago for another guy.

Mumsy drove her out of grandma's house ,said until she agrees to abort it .the young man is broke. She is living n hanging with friends now .met me for advice and I said I will reply her in 3days time.

Mumsy has poisoned the heart of all uncles n aunties not to help her .mummies excuses are she is too young ,she needs to go to sch ,what will people say,she wants to make the same mistake I made....

What does she do? From her statement she rather commit suicide dan abort her baby who can help? Any gov agency or what? Any contribution?

Athina1982:
contact 08037111012 he is with the efcc explain everything to him he should be able to help u recover ur money

kernniejay:

In that case, they can decide to marry legally. It is not compulsory for parents to attend 'court wedding'. A registry marriage only requires witness from both intending couples. Under the law, a 19yr old is no more a minor, she is able to make her decision on her own. Most early marriages like this are often caused by frustration from parents or guardians.

Dailyparrot:


You contradict yourself in an attempt to exonerate and support the girl.

Earlier, you said she should not be blamed because she is just naive and young.

Later, you said she should go ahead and marry without the parents consent because she's an adult capable of taking independent decisions.

How come she's not to be blamed for being stupid enough to allow the same man who helped her abort her pregnancy to get her pregnant again. So, her reason for aborting earlier was not because she lacks what it takes to take care of the pregnancy but that she doesn't like the guy that got her pregnant. Does this whole situation not sound so foolish?

At 19, she's not a baby. I don't know why we keep making excuses to absolve these young girls of their stupidity. A guy her age will take full responsibility for his actions, will go to jail if he commits rape or armed robbery, so, why would you say the girl shouldn't be blamed because she's naive.

The mother did what an average woman out there would do. Would you suggest she reported the case to the police and have her husband jailed? Who will take care of her and her children or rather you would suggest she leaves the marriage? She did right by taking the girl away to save her and her marriage. Now, the girl she's trying to protect from the step father has by herself chosen to destroy her own life. Or was it the mother that sent her to be getting pregnant from different men anyhow?

Apart from the series of rape and attempted rape from her father and step father, she has a full blame of all that came to her.

When you report to human rights, what do you intend to achieve? To have the fathers arrested or to prevent the mother from forcing her to abortion?

Unless, the so called human rights will take her in and take care of her bills until she delivers and is capable of working to take care of herself and the child.

This is how girls go about breeding bastards that end up as menace to the society. She deliberately agreed to have a child with the new boyfriend without marriage. How more idiotic can she be.

Now, the guy is claiming broke, thereby, leaving her to her fate. Definitely, she's the one with the pregnancy and whether or not there's money to take care of her and the baby is a burden only her can bear. I pity for the society with the rate these girls are breeding kids without formal family setting.

tammyf:

Please read the post again.efcc has nothing to do with this.

Athina1982:
so sorry I intended to post on ur other topic of u been duped of your money

Dailyparrot:


You contradict yourself in an attempt to exonerate and support the girl.

Earlier, you said she should not be blamed because she is just naive and young.

Later, you said she should go ahead and marry without the parents consent because she's an adult capable of taking independent decisions.

How come she's not to be blamed for being stupid enough to allow the same man who helped her abort her pregnancy to get her pregnant again. So, her reason for aborting earlier was not because she lacks what it takes to take care of the pregnancy but that she doesn't like the guy that got her pregnant. Does this whole situation not sound so foolish?

At 19, she's not a baby. I don't know why we keep making excuses to absolve these young girls of their stupidity. A guy her age will take full responsibility for his actions, will go to jail if he commits rape or armed robbery, so, why would you say the girl shouldn't be blamed because she's naive.

The mother did what an average woman out there would do. Would you suggest she reported the case to the police and have her husband jailed? Who will take care of her and her children or rather you would suggest she leaves the marriage? She did right by taking the girl away to save her and her marriage. Now, the girl she's trying to protect from the step father has by herself chosen to destroy her own life. Or was it the mother that sent her to be getting pregnant from different men anyhow?

Apart from the series of rape and attempted rape from her father and step father, she has a full blame of all that came to her.

When you report to human rights, what do you intend to achieve? To have the fathers arrested or to prevent the mother from forcing her to abortion?

Unless, the so called human rights will take her in and take care of her bills until she delivers and is capable of working to take care of herself and the child.

This is how girls go about breeding bastards that end up as menace to the society. She deliberately agreed to have a child with the new boyfriend without marriage. How more idiotic can she be.

Now, the guy is claiming broke, thereby, leaving her to her fate. Definitely, she's the one with the pregnancy and whether or not there's money to take care of her and the baby is a burden only her can bear. I pity for the society with the rate these girls are breeding kids without formal family setting.

Richy4:

I made out time to read what you have written...I believe that was your opinion which you were entitled to...

But I will suggest that you should please go and make a little research about teenagers.. Your write up shows clearly that you knew nothing about them...

A 19 yr old is still a teen and can make series of mistakes if not guided properly.. Yes they can vote and be voted for at that age and can go to adult prison... but still, that doesn't absorb her from being in that confusing age bracket...

You talked about her mother saving her marriage and doing the right thing... I felt really bad reading what u wrote in that regard... U should ask yourself, what was the remote cause of her problems today?

Was it not the wrong choices the parents made that landed her in that situation?
U sounded so confident as if it was okay that the woman should sweep what happened to her daughter under the carpet in other to save her marriage... What an unfeeling thing to say..

I wish this nonsense occurred in a sane country where govt look out for its citizens.. where poverty mentality will not stand in the way of justice... where abnormal things like rape got treated with the way it should be without anyone thinking about who will take care of the family or where the daily bread will come from if a culprit is punished...

That young lady should take some responsibilities...Yes.. But she was not the architect of her problems..Bad parenting, poor choices made by both parents, lack of parental care and attention.. Bad govt( because @ 18, there should be some stipends given to unemployed teenagers by the government)...all contributed

tammyf:


So at last what's your solution brother.

tammyf:
Hi ,
..this matter came to me by a girl and I'm confused how to advice her so I need matured ,experienced and wise contributions please ..

She is 18 going to 19.done with waec .... got impregnated by a guy 5months ago .d boy denied .she met a boy who assisted her ,tool care of her till she aborted the baby cos she doesn't like the guy.it was a mistake .

Now she stays with her grandma who is struggling to feed .the boy who helped her abort took care of her waec (2021 waec) ... the boy was just in town for a little job.

Her dad (biological ) raped and discovered her a year ago...she fought will all her might but couldn't over come him.she ran away and went to her mum .d mum didn't believe the step dad currently married to the mum made series of advances on her and threatened not to pay her fees if she doesn't give in to him.she told the mum n d mum sent her to the grandma to save her marriage .

Back to the young man that has been helping her ,they fe inlove.he has been looking for a baby .they agreed to hv a child together. Now she is one month gone.the man is back to his state cos job finished n he is broke .

Young man wanted to come see the mum but mum refused cos he has nothing doing and said she must abort it.she wants to take the daughter to the clinic to abort it .little girl is scared cause of the local abortion she did 5months ago for another guy.

Mumsy drove her out of grandma's house ,said until she agrees to abort it .the young man is broke. She is living n hanging with friends now .met me for advice and I said I will reply her in 3days time.

Mumsy has poisoned the heart of all uncles n aunties not to help her .mummies excuses are she is too young ,she needs to go to sch ,what will people say,she wants to make the same mistake I made....

What does she do? From her statement she rather commit suicide dan abort her baby who can help? Any gov agency or what? Any contribution?

Dailyparrot:


You contradict yourself in an attempt to exonerate and support the girl.

Earlier, you said she should not be blamed because she is just naive and young.

Later, you said she should go ahead and marry without the parents consent because she's an adult capable of taking independent decisions.

How come she's not to be blamed for being stupid enough to allow the same man who helped her abort her pregnancy to get her pregnant again. So, her reason for aborting earlier was not because she lacks what it takes to take care of the pregnancy but that she doesn't like the guy that got her pregnant. Does this whole situation not sound so foolish?

At 19, she's not a baby. I don't know why we keep making excuses to absolve these young girls of their stupidity. A guy her age will take full responsibility for his actions, will go to jail if he commits rape or armed robbery, so, why would you say the girl shouldn't be blamed because she's naive.

The mother did what an average woman out there would do. Would you suggest she reported the case to the police and have her husband jailed? Who will take care of her and her children or rather you would suggest she leaves the marriage? She did right by taking the girl away to save her and her marriage. Now, the girl she's trying to protect from the step father has by herself chosen to destroy her own life. Or was it the mother that sent her to be getting pregnant from different men anyhow?

Apart from the series of rape and attempted rape from her father and step father, she has a full blame of all that came to her.

When you report to human rights, what do you intend to achieve? To have the fathers arrested or to prevent the mother from forcing her to abortion?

Unless, the so called human rights will take her in and take care of her bills until she delivers and is capable of working to take care of herself and the child.

This is how girls go about breeding bastards that end up as menace to the society. She deliberately agreed to have a child with the new boyfriend without marriage. How more idiotic can she be.

Now, the guy is claiming broke, thereby, leaving her to her fate. Definitely, she's the one with the pregnancy and whether or not there's money to take care of her and the baby is a burden only her can bear. I pity for the society with the rate these girls are breeding kids without formal family setting.

tammyf:
Hi ,
..this matter came to me by a girl and I'm confused how to advice her so I need matured ,experienced and wise contributions please ..

She is 18 going to 19.done with waec .... got impregnated by a guy 5months ago .d boy denied .she met a boy who assisted her ,tool care of her till she aborted the baby cos she doesn't like the guy.it was a mistake .

Now she stays with her grandma who is struggling to feed .the boy who helped her abort took care of her waec (2021 waec) ... the boy was just in town for a little job.

Her dad (biological ) raped and discovered her a year ago...she fought will all her might but couldn't over come him.she ran away and went to her mum .d mum didn't believe the step dad currently married to the mum made series of advances on her and threatened not to pay her fees if she doesn't give in to him.she told the mum n d mum sent her to the grandma to save her marriage .

Back to the young man that has been helping her ,they fe inlove.he has been looking for a baby .they agreed to hv a child together. Now she is one month gone.the man is back to his state cos job finished n he is broke .

Young man wanted to come see the mum but mum refused cos he has nothing doing and said she must abort it.she wants to take the daughter to the clinic to abort it .little girl is scared cause of the local abortion she did 5months ago for another guy.

Mumsy drove her out of grandma's house ,said until she agrees to abort it .the young man is broke. She is living n hanging with friends now .met me for advice and I said I will reply her in 3days time.

Mumsy has poisoned the heart of all uncles n aunties not to help her .mummies excuses are she is too young ,she needs to go to sch ,what will people say,she wants to make the same mistake I made....

What does she do? From her statement she rather commit suicide dan abort her baby who can help? Any gov agency or what? Any contribution?

efficiencie:


The mumsi ohh, dadsi (rapist) oh, the girl oh, the lover boy oh...all need chronic deliverance!