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Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by midnighter(f): 11:36am On Jan 04, 2020 |
madridsta007: All youve stated here bears only passing relevance to that stuff you wrote in your first post. It may all be true, but you havent refuted what I argued against initially which leaves me to conclude that my assertions were correct. A "homegrown" Nigerian fellow who travels abroad and starts bowing and scraping and behaving in a timid and stupid manner will attract equally stupid "oyibo" who care nothing for his cultural background. I mean, that "salad and tomato" jibe totally exemplified the whole thing. Did your friend tell the woman he wanted Eba and soup? Or he was just squeezing his face while chewing the lettuce and carrot before slipping out later to one downtown Nigerian dig Only to come after how many years and accuse the woman of "bullying" him? He bullied himself! Smh What is the meaning of "inflexibility" here? There is a difference between traditionalism and backwardness, though the two concepts naturally overlap. Again, if he behaves in a typically chauvinistic manner alien to societies in developed climes, then he cant expect the relationship to work and he'd better stick with his so-called "homegrown woman" who may even also have her eyes open and still call him to order! There are Nigerian men who dont behave in a crazy or stupid manner towards women and have progressive mindsets, yet still stand by the Biblical principal of commanding respect and authority in their homes. Such an enlightened man would not have a problem with a well-intentioned foreign woman in that regard, though there may still be cultural differences to iron out. My point is that its true that marriages between foreigners and native Nigerians are often difficult, but not for the reasons you described. 3 Likes |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by madridsta007(m): 11:41am On Jan 04, 2020 |
midnighter: OK. |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by xtun(m): 11:49am On Jan 04, 2020 |
Kingrefreshed:has you take get failed marriage contract for yankee naxo i take get success marraige contract..it all depends on luck and your approach.... |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by Gerrard59(m): 11:53am On Jan 04, 2020 |
madridsta007: Omo, It's not easy oh. 2 Likes |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by Damfostopper(m): 12:19pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
lol..... no be only entering as single or married.... you can enter as Bobrisky too.... that's either as male or female |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by XaintJoel20: 2:13pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
madridsta007: Thanks. I honestly appreciate this answer. |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by XaintJoel20: 2:17pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
chigoizie7: This your answer is apt Thanks a million |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by XaintJoel20: 2:22pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
cococandy: The former. Married but thinking if I should pretend to be single. I want to know if there are favours to gain from either (I mean being married or single). Thanks |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by XaintJoel20: 2:25pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
swedbase: Thanks so much. |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by cococandy(f): 2:27pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
XaintJoel20: If you’re married, don’t pretend to be single. It will backfire. When you eventually want to bring your family over, what will you say? That you just got married? It’s just more lies to cover previous lies and at some point you won’t be able to keep track. If you were truly single, the benefit of it would be the responsibility of your family won’t be there while you’re still trying to find your footing. 3 Likes |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by lordally(m): 2:39pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
xtun: |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by XaintJoel20: 2:49pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
osazsky: Osazee, no be me and you. |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by Enemyofpeace: 3:12pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
payperpost:sure bro. Don't allow any bitch to frustrate you life. Marriage is a very long time affair meant to be enjoyed. Get out of the country and let her find her level 1 Like |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by Legendguru: 6:00pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
None |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by kizonero(m): 6:50pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
lol... on point bro |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by Olaburn(m): 12:30am On Jan 06, 2020 |
Atleasst wait see if Iran no go attack where u day go |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by Torontoparrot(m): 12:00pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
lordally: |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by NEROSKY(m): 7:34pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
swedbase: Please why is it hard getting paper as married man, explain please? |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by NEROSKY(m): 7:44pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
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Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by swedbase(m): 12:38pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
NEROSKY:I made that comment base on the poster's question regarding his destination. Where do you intend travelling to and base on what arrangement? You have 80 percent guarantee chances of getting a permanent residence permit by marrying a citizen or PRP holder than any other means. Asylum ZERO chance anywhere in Europe right now. Study might give you only temporary |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by NEROSKY(m): 5:27pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
swedbase: Going for study, so I'm torn between registering as married or not. Don't know the advantage of applying as married or single. (or if one get that place as married man what drawbacks can it bring to someone etc) Yet to get the certificate, but I'm still considering too many options and what won't be a stumbling block for me in future. |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by swedbase(m): 5:56pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
NEROSKY:Advantage in applying as a married individual maybe you getting approved because they know it won't be easy for you to change your marital status and marrying someone to obtain a residence permit. Disadvantage you will be limited to an option of getting it through employment after your studies depending the Country's rules and ETC. Advantage of coming as a single is you will be entitle to marry someone who is either a citizen or a permanent resident to obtain your permit during or after your studies and stay permanently Note. They want you to study and go home while you want to stay for as long as you wish. |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by NEROSKY(m): 7:44pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
swedbase: Thank you very much for the insight, i dont have plans to stay in europe as final settlement for my family other than study but who know what the future holds? |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by swedbase(m): 9:58pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
NEROSKY:You are welcome. Life is all about choices. I made sure my children are born in Europe and thank God I made it. I am very happy with the choice I made 12 years ago. Having an European passport is a very good achievement |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by NEROSKY(m): 11:04pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
swedbase: Not definitely in Africa, especially Nigeria (God forbid) even as pan Africanist (we ain't ready to build Africa yet, all we care about now is to kill each other and follow the Whites master plans), I guess when i started getting some funds to make moves is when things got worse to travel for any reason. Most especially as a Nigerian,my brother its hell on earth.. But nature/Grace will place everyone where they deserve. When i was in Rwanda, i met Americans, Canadian and many people from Europe who had move back home (Black & white) because they feel its time to invest and grow with the country. Rwanda have really really developed my brother. But i can't say the same with my country, all i can say to them is that our own government is sending soldiers to kill my people. I'm very ashamed about talking anything Nigeria, though, at the bright side they love the entertainment industry about Nigeria, esp music. They host Nigeria artist at Kigali Arena almost everywhere 14 days. |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by NEROSKY(m): 11:13pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
swedbase: One of my friend i ask to make inquiry for me, said it won't be in public database that i came in as married man, but i doubt that, even though it'll won't be on my passport because my passport is single. What do you think? Well, anything to get me European education first for more enlightenment. |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by swedbase(m): 11:33pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
NEROSKY:You are absolutely correct about the rapid development going on in Rwanda and some other African Countries except Nigeria. And I doubt if Nigeria will ever develop the way Northerners are going about it. No Country develop with such hatred among the components. Are they even sincere about building a country for all?? I pray for things to get better in the future. It is not easy anywhere in the world but as someone who was born in Nigeria and have had the opportunity of seeing different many countries I can honestly tell you that Nigeria is one of the worst places to survive not to talk of reaching your potentials. |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by swedbase(m): 11:45pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
NEROSKY:Any information you submitted to a visa consular will be well documented in their database. (Even for the fact that your a Nigerian). Think this way.... If it isn't a vital information they wouldn't be asking about it |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by Cousin9999: 3:12am On Dec 19, 2021 |
1. You'll never be as happy with a foreign woman from a dramatically different culture. 2. Marrying a foreigner gives her a lot of power over you. 3. Your sweet village girl may transform once she's in a position where she has money and options, and you haven't been treating her right. 4. You may not end up staying abroad, especially when the money you make abroad goes so far at home. 5. American women are wack, unless they're African or Caribbean. 6. Black British girls are fun, but they have their own set of ratchets, plus a bunch of tragic mulattos. 7. Don't confuse mulattos for black women. They're basically oyinbos. 8. Don't be a loser and make more mulattos. 9. Black Hispanic women are extremely self-hating, and most have a nasty attitude (like most Hispanics). 10. Fat, sloppy oyinbos will be all over you. They'll give you all their money for the chance to be claimed and bedded by you. Respect yourself. Don't entertain it. |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by biggie73(m): 9:38pm On Dec 20, 2021 |
Both. |
Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by NEROSKY(m): 8:33pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
swedbase: No lies, it's no longer to survive financially now, it's how to be alive till this murderous tenure ends, because soldiers, army & the terrorist in North are all killing more than hunger currently. |
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