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FamilyAdviser:
Many relationship and family today have been teared apart because there is lack of trust.

Here is my true story!

It started early this year when I sensed that my wife I dated for 12years before marrying her maybe cheating on me.

My wife is a fashion designer, it happens that a particular number was calling her frequently and it was a male voice.

Each time her phone rang from this particular number at night, she will give the caller an excuse that she was busy and instruct him to call in the morning. After dropping the call, I would expect her to tell me who called but I noticed she usually abscond from discussing on it, so I wouldn't bother her or give her the reason to suspect I am not comfortable with her call.

Been a gentleman, I had never raised a hand on my wife even in our courtship. I always avoid arguments because it may lead to some uncertainties in our marriage so I need a enough evidence before unleashing the beast in me.

One fateful day, I over heard her telling the same caller "REMEMBER I AM MARRIED". That night I couldn't hold myself I vowed to double my lead in finding out who my wife was crushing on.

I made some contacts from experts and they billed me huge amount to record the callers conversation with my wife.

To cut the story short, I bought exact phone with my wife and one day I pretend as if I mistakenly took hers instead of mine, I took her phone

reading your story and laughing in pekanese

FamilyAdviser:
Many relationship and family today have been teared apart because there is lack of trust.

Here is my true story!

It started early this year when I sensed that my wife I dated for 12years before marrying her maybe cheating on me.

My wife is a fashion designer, it happens that a particular number was calling her frequently and it was a male voice.

Each time her phone rang from this particular number at night, she will give the caller an excuse that she was busy and instruct him to call in the morning. After dropping the call, I would expect her to tell me who called but I noticed she usually abscond from discussing on it, so I wouldn't bother her or give her the reason to suspect I am not comfortable with her call.

Been a gentleman, I had never raised a hand on my wife even in our courtship. I always avoid arguments because it may lead to some uncertainties in our marriage so I need a enough evidence before unleashing the beast in me.

One fateful day, I over heard her telling the same caller "REMEMBER I AM MARRIED". That night I couldn't hold myself I vowed to double my lead in finding out who my wife was crushing on.

I made some contacts from experts and they billed me huge amount to record the callers conversation with my wife.

To cut the story short, I bought exact phone with my wife and one day I pretend as if I mistakenly took hers instead of mine, I took her phone to the technical gurus and something was installed, all my wife's call is now been recorded.

Within a space of days I replayed her conversation with the caller, behold it was her customer. The man is a Keke Rider and always have chance at night. All these while, my wife who is a professional tailor was sawing ashoebi cloths for his wife to be. The man is the one footing the bills and he is paying it gradually hence the conversation.

I was shocked, I became speechless. One day the man called again after she dropped the call I jokingly told her who called you abi na your catch? She replied "Godforbid baby while should you say things like that, I no Igbo tradition more than you do, any married man that sleeps with another man is bringing untimely death to her husband, I don't want to be widow she replied emotionally". I tendered her an apology and regretted why I allowed my emotions to judge my woman wrongly.

Since after this incident I concluded that many broken home today maybe as a result of lack of trust and communication.

As many innocent people are in prison for what they know nothing about so is many family broken for no just reasons.

If I don't have the money to track that caller I could have concluded that my wife is cheating on me and sent her packing.

May God give us the wisdom to manage our home!

Boss abeg I need the gurus details biko...need to clear my doubt too oh...

Slurity:
check your use of abusive language in responses to my post and how angry you are becoming even without knowing the kind of person I am, younger or older than you but yet you are losing your temper just because my idea of life is different from yours. You don't need a wizard to tell you that I am way grown than you. Respect other people's stand and get respect in return. I am done replying you Sir.

I am not losing my temper.

I am just not interested in having any discussion worth having with you.

Go away.

Etuagievin:
. But you have already taken it personal. He was so clear in his explanations. Even before the wife threw the traditional lines,he already understood who the man is and the reasons for calling at nights. You chose not to accept it but to cause more problems in his home. You just want him to continue his investigations for nothing. Please let them be ..

Like I said before, he is a man,he should handle his home the way he likes. I only pointed out reality .. I no dey trust humans normally...

fati2001:
SAME REASON THE LADY LEFT AND MARRIED THE OTHER GUY.. BECAUSE SHE CAUGHT HIM CHEATING ON HER

So you and the lady talked and she told you that?

Lamanii22:
Wooow! Concluding things based on assumption is so wrong.... If you know how relieved I was eehn knowing that your wife didn't cheat....

Imagine a female voice was always calling your husband at night like that, what would be your reaction?.

CsRockefeller:
"Female married woman cheating" has no tribe.

I think it is a bit common with Yoruba women, I m a Yoruba man, and I could tell, I lived in the East for several years, the igbos have greater respect for marriage and marital vows than us Yorubas. Quite rare you seeing an Igbo man running after another man's wife. My Yoruba guys are just too guilty of these, little wonders, the igbos are prospering in most of what they do. You can't be sleeping with another man's wife, and you think there are no consequences.

A keke driver calling her at night for asoebi? Bullshit story... bro your wife is aware u monitored her calls, she played smart

enonche85:
Imagine a female voice was always calling your husband at night like that, what would be your reaction?.

There's this one that would be chatting my husband sef, telling him to send her money that she wants to travel blah, blah, blah, she even called him asking for how to get to eko idumota..... It wasn't even in the night, during the day ooo, I told him if she was his ex or anything, he said they didn't date for long or something, I outrightly told him to stop talking to her, I believe talking to an ex or something can lead to something which is why I blocked all my exes numbers....

larryking540:
really,u see everyone is happy when nobody is a cheater ,I don't know why people will take such a short road to destroy their years of marriage and relationship

I just don't know the devil that pushes one to ruin a beautiful marriage, I want to be very married, I still get chased and all but I am always on my heels, I don't want anything to ruin my marriage...

BlackXabbath:
I thought she did the do too.

Hahahahaha

Lamanii22:
I just don't know the devil that pushes one to ruin a beautiful marriage, I want to be very married, I still get chased and all but I am always on my heels, I don't want anything to ruin my marriage...

I have seen women cheat on their spouse and men do same too ,but it very sicken ,when you go on tiktok ,or only fan you imagine this is really somebody wife or husband and when they get got they blame the devil ,my dear the devil is we human , there is a brain to think before actions ,..
I am not an advocate of cheating in relationship if the lady is dirty atleast that should have been fixed before marriage or money no day hux ,that can also be fixed before marriage ,or sex of the guy is poor there are med for that ,see this or generation,we are the most blessed generation the earth have ever had ,but we are just confused and thanks to social media way add join relationship wahala

larryking540:
I have seen women cheat on their spouse and men do same too ,but it very sicken ,when you go on tiktok ,or only fan you imagine this is really somebody wife or husband and when they get got they blame the devil ,my dear the devil is we human , there is a brain to think before actions ,..
I am not an advocate of cheating in relationship if the lady is dirty atleast that should have been fixed before marriage or money no day hux ,that can also be fixed before marriage ,or sex of the guy is poor there are med for that ,see this or generation,we are the most blessed generation the earth have ever had ,but we are just confused and thanks to social media way add join relationship wahala

You're so so so right ... Social media is one crazy thing ... I stopped going online often.... It's only nairaland I like now except from the excess bashing lol.....

Lamanii22:
You're so so so right ... Social media is one crazy thing ... I stopped going online often.... It's only nairaland I like now except from the excess bashing lol.....

lol yes dear ,just filter the bashing on nairaland that's my advice ,

FamilyAdviser:
Many relationship and family today have been teared apart because there is lack of trust.

Here is my true story!

It started early this year when I sensed that my wife I dated for 12years before marrying her maybe cheating on me.

My wife is a fashion designer, it happens that a particular number was calling her frequently and it was a male voice.

Each time her phone rang from this particular number at night, she will give the caller an excuse that she was busy and instruct him to call in the morning. After dropping the call, I would expect her to tell me who called but I noticed she usually abscond from discussing on it, so I wouldn't bother her or give her the reason to suspect I am not comfortable with her call.

Been a gentleman, I had never raised a hand on my wife even in our courtship. I always avoid arguments because it may lead to some uncertainties in our marriage so I need a enough evidence before unleashing the beast in me.

One fateful day, I over heard her telling the same caller "REMEMBER I AM MARRIED". That night I couldn't hold myself I vowed to double my lead in finding out who my wife was crushing on.

I made some contacts from experts and they billed me huge amount to record the callers conversation with my wife.

To cut the story short, I bought exact phone with my wife and one day I pretend as if I mistakenly took hers instead of mine, I took her phone to the technical gurus and something was installed, all my wife's call is now been recorded.

Within a space of days I replayed her conversation with the caller, behold it was her customer. The man is a Keke Rider and always have chance at night. All these while, my wife who is a professional tailor was sawing ashoebi cloths for his wife to be. The man is the one footing the bills and he is paying it gradually hence the conversation.

I was shocked, I became speechless. One day the man called again after she dropped the call I jokingly told her who called you abi na your catch? She replied "Godforbid baby while should you say things like that, I no Igbo tradition more than you do, any married man that sleeps with another man is bringing untimely death to her husband, I don't want to be widow she replied emotionally". I tendered her an apology and regretted why I allowed my emotions to judge my woman wrongly.

Since after this incident I concluded that many broken home today maybe as a result of lack of trust and communication.

As many innocent people are in prison for what they know nothing about so is many family broken for no just reasons.

If I don't have the money to track that caller I could have concluded that my wife is cheating on me and sent her packing.

May God give us the wisdom to manage our home!

Wow

FamilyAdviser:
Many relationship and family today have been teared apart because there is lack of trust.

Here is my true story!

It started early this year when I sensed that my wife I dated for 12years before marrying her maybe cheating on me.

My wife is a fashion designer, it happens that a particular number was calling her frequently and it was a male voice.

Each time her phone rang from this particular number at night, she will give the caller an excuse that she was busy and instruct him to call in the morning. After dropping the call, I would expect her to tell me who called but I noticed she usually abscond from discussing on it, so I wouldn't bother her or give her the reason to suspect I am not comfortable with her call.

Been a gentleman, I had never raised a hand on my wife even in our courtship. I always avoid arguments because it may lead to some uncertainties in our marriage so I need a enough evidence before unleashing the beast in me.

One fateful day, I over heard her telling the same caller "REMEMBER I AM MARRIED". That night I couldn't hold myself I vowed to double my lead in finding out who my wife was crushing on.

I made some contacts from experts and they billed me huge amount to record the callers conversation with my wife.

To cut the story short, I bought exact phone with my wife and one day I pretend as if I mistakenly took hers instead of mine, I took her phone to the technical gurus and something was installed, all my wife's call is now been recorded.

Within a space of days I replayed her conversation with the caller, behold it was her customer. The man is a Keke Rider and always have chance at night. All these while, my wife who is a professional tailor was sawing ashoebi cloths for his wife to be. The man is the one footing the bills and he is paying it gradually hence the conversation.

I was shocked, I became speechless. One day the man called again after she dropped the call I jokingly told her who called you abi na your catch? She replied "Godforbid baby while should you say things like that, I no Igbo tradition more than you do, any married man that sleeps with another man is bringing untimely death to her husband, I don't want to be widow she replied emotionally". I tendered her an apology and regretted why I allowed my emotions to judge my woman wrongly.

Since after this incident I concluded that many broken home today maybe as a result of lack of trust and communication.

As many innocent people are in prison for what they know nothing about so is many family broken for no just reasons.

If I don't have the money to track that caller I could have concluded that my wife is cheating on me and sent her packing.

May God give us the wisdom to manage our home!

I have learn from this NEVER to accuse someone unless I have evidence

FamilyAdviser:
Many relationship and family today have been teared apart because there is lack of trust.

Here is my true story!

It started early this year when I sensed that my wife I dated for 12years before marrying her maybe cheating on me.

My wife is a fashion designer, it happens that a particular number was calling her frequently and it was a male voice.

Each time her phone rang from this particular number at night, she will give the caller an excuse that she was busy and instruct him to call in the morning. After dropping the call, I would expect her to tell me who called but I noticed she usually abscond from discussing on it, so I wouldn't bother her or give her the reason to suspect I am not comfortable with her call.

Been a gentleman, I had never raised a hand on my wife even in our courtship. I always avoid arguments because it may lead to some uncertainties in our marriage so I need a enough evidence before unleashing the beast in me.

One fateful day, I over heard her telling the same caller "REMEMBER I AM MARRIED". That night I couldn't hold myself I vowed to double my lead in finding out who my wife was crushing on.

I made some contacts from experts and they billed me huge amount to record the callers conversation with my wife.

To cut the story short, I bought exact phone with my wife and one day I pretend as if I mistakenly took hers instead of mine, I took her phone to the technical gurus and something was installed, all my wife's call is now been recorded.

Within a space of days I replayed her conversation with the caller, behold it was her customer. The man is a Keke Rider and always have chance at night. All these while, my wife who is a professional tailor was sawing ashoebi cloths for his wife to be. The man is the one footing the bills and he is paying it gradually hence the conversation.

I was shocked, I became speechless. One day the man called again after she dropped the call I jokingly told her who called you abi na your catch? She replied "Godforbid baby while should you say things like that, I no Igbo tradition more than you do, any married man that sleeps with another man is bringing untimely death to her husband, I don't want to be widow she replied emotionally". I tendered her an apology and regretted why I allowed my emotions to judge my woman wrongly.

Since after this incident I concluded that many broken home today maybe as a result of lack of trust and communication.

As many innocent people are in prison for what they know nothing about so is many family broken for no just reasons.

If I don't have the money to track that caller I could have concluded that my wife is cheating on me and sent her packing.

May God give us the wisdom to manage our home!

You think say you de Wise?

You're a mumu man

Ebymyk:
Whatever.... No matter how smart any woman thinks,I'm times 20....if you are not sensitive to details or you can't read in between the lines, your name n'a sorry... This is for real men... Not men who don't use their number 6 very well.... Women are conscious of people around them, so they pretend alot... If a woman has cheating tendencies,if you are sensitive, you will know without hacking her phone...

Exactly my guy, my ex girlfriend didn't save the niggar number she was going out with on her phone neither did she call him but he calls her and she knows the caller and they talk.
The first day I got her a phone she told me I hope I didn't put any tracker on the phone because she would know. Las Las I didn't pay any expert but my instinct told me she was cheat and I caught her and she confessed.
Before you think you're smart about a woman they know your game but just make sure you're strategic and catch them red hand.

butterfly777:
People are missing the lesson in the post, maybe it's because the op also missed the main lesson in the story which are:
1. If you are suspicious, dig deeper.
2. Do not act or accuse your spouse until vyou have an evidence.

There is nothing wrong in being suspicious when the situation is unclear. At least, as a married woman, the wife could have casually spoken about the night caller to her husband. Not acting likevit doesn't matter, only to bring up tradition when are lack of openness about the issue to her hubby could have caused a crack in her marriage.

The wife can't even talk freely with the tailor in the husband presence meaning she's hiding something.
Once your instinct speaks to you, study what's going on rather than finding out. If you try to find out your results will always be wrong.

FamilyAdviser:
Many relationship and family today have been teared apart because there is lack of trust.

Here is my true story!

It started early this year when I sensed that my wife I dated for 12years before marrying her maybe cheating on me.

My wife is a fashion designer, it happens that a particular number was calling her frequently and it was a male voice.

Each time her phone rang from this particular number at night, she will give the caller an excuse that she was busy and instruct him to call in the morning. After dropping the call, I would expect her to tell me who called but I noticed she usually abscond from discussing on it, so I wouldn't bother her or give her the reason to suspect I am not comfortable with her call.

Been a gentleman, I had never raised a hand on my wife even in our courtship. I always avoid arguments because it may lead to some uncertainties in our marriage so I need a enough evidence before unleashing the beast in me.

One fateful day, I over heard her telling the same caller "REMEMBER I AM MARRIED". That night I couldn't hold myself I vowed to double my lead in finding out who my wife was crushing on.

I made some contacts from experts and they billed me huge amount to record the callers conversation with my wife.

To cut the story short, I bought exact phone with my wife and one day I pretend as if I mistakenly took hers instead of mine, I took her phone to the technical gurus and something was installed, all my wife's call is now been recorded.

Within a space of days I replayed her conversation with the caller, behold it was her customer. The man is a Keke Rider and always have chance at night. All these while, my wife who is a professional tailor was sawing ashoebi cloths for his wife to be. The man is the one footing the bills and he is paying it gradually hence the conversation.

I was shocked, I became speechless. One day the man called again after she dropped the call I jokingly told her who called you abi na your catch? She replied "Godforbid baby while should you say things like that, I no Igbo tradition more than you do, any married man that sleeps with another man is bringing untimely death to her husband, I don't want to be widow she replied emotionally". I tendered her an apology and regretted why I allowed my emotions to judge my woman wrongly.

Since after this incident I concluded that many broken home today maybe as a result of lack of trust and communication.

As many innocent people are in prison for what they know nothing about so is many family broken for no just reasons.

If I don't have the money to track that caller I could have concluded that my wife is cheating on me and sent her packing.

May God give us the wisdom to manage our home!

Well scripted!

Slurity:
If I am not a woman wrapper, what do i gain? You have to learn how to really position yourself to happiness. Sadness can visit anybody without inviting it, but happiness is always intentional

I envy you because you have such trust for your partner.

Can you tell me how you developed that. I am having a hard time trusting mine even though I haven’t found any reason not too.

brandsoncharlie:
Exactly my guy, my ex girlfriend didn't save the niggar number she was going out with on her phone neither did she call him but he calls her and she knows the caller and they talk.
The first day I got her a phone she told me I hope I didn't put any tracker on the phone because she would know. Las Las I didn't pay any expert but my instinct told me she was cheat and I caught her and she confessed.
Before you think you're smart about a woman they know your game but just make sure you're strategic and catch them red hand.

correct... Na the way...you are the 1 of the Realest...

DICKstractor:



I don tire to read relationship problem. Ewww

I support breakup that's the more reason I keep my advice to my self but I'm glad it was just a misunderstanding

It was more of a baseless and insecure mistrus/distrust than a “misunderstanding”.

Lamanii22:
Wooow! Concluding things based on assumption is so wrong.... If you know how relieved I was eehn knowing that your wife didn't cheat....

A man once suspected his wife was cheating with her male best friend. He confronted her and made her go for a lie detector test. She passed! She wasn’t cheating with her male best friend. Truth is, she was cheating with another man and her male best friend was her confidant. This life

you bought an identical phone and you think she won't know what your up to..you be learner!
she is more smart than you!
you think is only you that fck her all these years..lolzzz

Lmao. Did you trust & communicate? Nope. You snuck around & tapped tour wife's phone. You're certainly not a prize yourself.

FamilyAdviser:
Many relationship and family today have been teared apart because there is lack of trust.

Here is my true story!

It started early this year when I sensed that my wife I dated for 12years before marrying her maybe cheating on me.

My wife is a fashion designer, it happens that a particular number was calling her frequently and it was a male voice.

Each time her phone rang from this particular number at night, she will give the caller an excuse that she was busy and instruct him to call in the morning. After dropping the call, I would expect her to tell me who called but I noticed she usually abscond from discussing on it, so I wouldn't bother her or give her the reason to suspect I am not comfortable with her call.

Been a gentleman, I had never raised a hand on my wife even in our courtship. I always avoid arguments because it may lead to some uncertainties in our marriage so I need a enough evidence before unleashing the beast in me.

One fateful day, I over heard her telling the same caller "REMEMBER I AM MARRIED". That night I couldn't hold myself I vowed to double my lead in finding out who my wife was crushing on.

I made some contacts from experts and they billed me huge amount to record the callers conversation with my wife.

To cut the story short, I bought exact phone with my wife and one day I pretend as if I mistakenly took hers instead of mine, I took her phone to the technical gurus and something was installed, all my wife's call is now been recorded.

Within a space of days I replayed her conversation with the caller, behold it was her customer. The man is a Keke Rider and always have chance at night. All these while, my wife who is a professional tailor was sawing ashoebi cloths for his wife to be. The man is the one footing the bills and he is paying it gradually hence the conversation.

I was shocked, I became speechless. One day the man called again after she dropped the call I jokingly told her who called you abi na your catch? She replied "Godforbid baby while should you say things like that, I no Igbo tradition more than you do, any married man that sleeps with another man is bringing untimely death to her husband, I don't want to be widow she replied emotionally". I tendered her an apology and regretted why I allowed my emotions to judge my woman wrongly.

Since after this incident I concluded that many broken home today maybe as a result of lack of trust and communication.

As many innocent people are in prison for what they know nothing about so is many family broken for no just reasons.

If I don't have the money to track that caller I could have concluded that my wife is cheating on me and sent her packing.

May God give us the wisdom to manage our home!

Lamanii22:
There's this one that would be chatting my husband sef, telling him to send her money that she wants to travel blah, blah, blah, she even called him asking for how to get to eko idumota..... It wasn't even in the night, during the day ooo, I told him if she was his ex or anything, he said they didn't date for long or something, I outrightly told him to stop talking to her, I believe talking to an ex or something can lead to something which is why I blocked all my exes numbers....

So you agree that the guy was right to be suspicious?. Human beings are not to be trusted 100% anymore.

Reading through, I was really stunned and surprised. Hmm. OP, you get luck. Only you for use your own hands spoil something beautiful.