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. by Goldenbliss1(f): 11:33pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
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Re: . by longetivity(m): 11:36pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Nice fiction |
Re: . by Goldenbliss1(f): 11:45pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
longetivity:Thank you very much sir! This is a true life story of a young adults. 1 Like |
Re: . by Daveambition(m): 11:47pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Na normal thing, @ early 20s waist don begin dey scratch yu. Wetin yu need rn na man wey go fit hang yu for wall lyk Plasma, give yu bettah wheel-barrow style; with ur two legs ontop im shoulder... Jam u from behind lyk who dey learn driving til yu squirt.. Just imagine that kind cruise, & e go make brain if short gurl lyk yu sabi swallow too. |
Re: . by Oluromantic: 11:51pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
There's nothing wrong with you being an introvert. You should be an authority in yourself despite your introversion. Being an introvert and having low self esteem are two different things. Your problem is you've not conquered the fear of being ridiculed, taken for granted or being alone and the only way to conquer them is by entering the relationship. Even though it is 90% sure it will not end in marriage you should still give it a trial. It's even unrealistic to think all the relationship you're into must end in marriage at your age as believed generally by naija girls. That's why they become easy to sleep with once you put a marriage promise in place. It works like wonder. So enter with out fear but use your brain as much as you can and no get belle. Welcome to adulthood. 3 Likes |
Re: . by Ynix(m): 12:24am On Dec 30, 2021 |
Goldenbliss1:If you want to get married early try out a relationship not with the idea of getting married but for learning about men and relationships, just ensure that there are boundaries. If your interested is to be academically ambitious or successful career wise, jettison the idea of relationship and focus on your acadmics 1 Like |
Re: . by Richy4(m): 12:52am On Dec 30, 2021 |
<<<Being an introvert is not a death sentence....Some times it's better to stay on your own and have your self worth and dignity in tact...Some times the humiliations and insults the extroverts takes on daily basis, u might not endure it... <<<However, You have to try and get out of your comfort zone... and meet with people, this is because your future husband can never see you for the first time inside your room, except u were into online dating... u have to go out and meet him... <<<Your self esteem issues, I don't know if you know former late first lady called Mrs Stella Obasanjo... she wasn't tall then but the way she carried herself like she was 7ft when she was alive, graceful, elegant and class... U can also do that.. your height got nothing to do with anything...what matters is your confidence... <<<In terms of getting yourself out there, Start with the baby step.. Good manners will take u places u can never dream of...learn how to say hello...Practice it with old women,,, greet them and mean it.......{Not the waka pass kinda greeting if the person responds or not u don't care}remember u were learning to speak with genuine interest... <<<You didn't say if you were into religion... I would have said ushering in the church would have been another step to take you out of your comfort zone...Any volunteering group can basically help too... like once in a week @ motherless babies homes...Homes for the needy or Nursing homes for the elderly...If u are not doing this, then start it; learn how to boldly and confidently go to school cafeteria to buy coke.. sit there alone and drink while checking on your phone/ killing time while waiting for your next lectures(this could be ones in a month thing)A prince might come up for a chat.. <<<Please while u were trying to get yourself out there be careful about Foxes and Wolves... the fact that you want to eat meat does not mean that you should bow down to a cow...Good Luck 5 Likes |
Re: . by Karleb(m): 1:16am On Dec 30, 2021 |
My advice to introverts have always been, if being introvert is causing you so much pain that you have to report it to us, then stop being an introvert. But they always come for my head. Think about it, have you ever heard anyone complaining that they are extroverts? Besides, introvertedness and teenagehood usually come with low self esteem. This is a fact that many introverts and teenagers would argue of course but, it is what it is. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by crackhaus: 1:51am On Dec 30, 2021 |
Goldenbliss1:I think you should just stick to this goal. Nothing is wrong with you. 4 Likes |
Re: . by olus01(m): 3:38am On Dec 30, 2021 |
Is it only me that is confused here? 1 Like |
Re: . by weblord1900: 10:40am On Dec 30, 2021 |
You don't have any problem. . When you see problem you go run 1 Like |
Re: . by Polynek(m): 5:48pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
You don't hv problem young lady 1 Like |
Re: . by Ishilove: 5:53pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
#team am |
Re: . by ProFuhrer: 6:06pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
olus01:Same here. I couldn't connect her story with the 'Life of an Introvert' topic. |
Re: . by Uyi168: 6:16pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
olus01:.. yes bro. |
Re: . by BigDick70inch(m): 6:31pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Goldenbliss1: I have a smally like you too....... She’s has been giving me the vibe I never wanted tho...... |
Re: . by Stargurl20(f): 8:03pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
My sista, na the Sam page we dey o.... 1 Like |
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