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isaiah4life:
Some people take shots to encourage others to extend their kind act, but some do the same to show off.

The ball is in their court. Let them choose their tenet right.

Giving publicly or secretly is not the issue. As long as the heart is right while giving, it says it all.

It all boils down to the heart that gives. You can give secretly with no good intention. Some give secretly expecting the receiver to worship them while some give publicly to increase their fanbase.

Correct

It's in the scriprture already

mattew 6:1-4 says it all

I'm with shan george on this
.there is nothing else anyone can say to justify their show off in their deeds

Abdulazeez99:
https://instagram.com/stories/shangeorgefilms/2739314482268585682?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&utm_medium=share_sheet

Me too

Same here, I don't respect people who show off vainly.

isaiah4life:
Some people take shots to encourage others to extend their kind act, but some do the same to show off.

The ball is in their court. Let them choose their tenet right.

Giving publicly or secretly is not the issue. As long as the heart is right while giving, it says it all.

It all boils down to the heart that gives. You can give secretly with no good intention. Some give secretly expecting the receiver to worship them while some give publicly to increase their fanbase.

People wont help one another if they are not able to show off,we are human its our nature we can not change it
Showing off encourage us to help more people beside,people that show off are always more generous

MrBrownJay1:
i feel exactly the same way....all these yeye people who will only help, as long as the whole world knows about it.

Yeah?

And you think the #100..

They gave..

Is any less useful..

To the recipient?

Ryda:
She's right, some give to show off while others give for reasons known to them.
Probably she's throwing jabs at her colleagues in the industry.

I have seen big shoes give and you can never see it on cam. Some of them don't even accept having them on camera.
Like the moniker above stated it is the heart that giveth wether with a good or bad heart.

She is faulting those who carry loudspeakers and cameras to announce their good deeds….while codely using her Instagram loudspeakers to let us know that, she also do good deeds, but don’t carry cameras follow bodi, who is fooling who?

I beg, ignore the camera or loudspeakers, the bottom line is, a good deed has been done and someone has been helped and it does not matter if you announce it or not…..and by the way, who made her the Judge over how others should administer their good deeds….it is their money and time, let them dispense it the way they like!

She is just using it to seek her own 15 minutes of fames and to tell us that, she also do good deeds.

isaiah4life:
Some people take shots to encourage others to extend their kind act, but some do the same to show off.

The ball is in their court. Let them choose their tenet right.

Giving publicly or secretly is not the issue. As long as the heart is right while giving, it says it all.

It all boils down to the heart that gives. You can give secretly with no good intention. Some give secretly expecting the receiver to worship them while some give publicly to increase their fanbase.

Rarely do you see secret philanthropist that expect worship. Very rare but those public ones, they are mostly after clout and public accolades.

MrBrownJay1:
i feel exactly the same way....all these yeye people who will only help, as long as the whole world knows about it.

Its normal,you may refuse help if you dont want them to show you off
Its their sweat and i believe they wont give it out if they dont derive any joy from it so dont kill their joy

isaiah4life:
Some people take shots to encourage others to extend their kind act, but some do the same to show off.

The ball is in their court. Let them choose their tenet right.

Giving publicly or secretly is not the issue. As long as the heart is right while giving, it says it all.

It all boils down to the heart that gives. You can give secretly with no good intention. Some give secretly expecting the receiver to worship them while some give publicly to increase their fanbase.

over sense gum you die. Make I keep quiet for you.

irunoko:
abegiii

If you are a Christian the Bible says any man that gives with his left hand and he lets his right hand know or does it for show off has already collected his reward (validation) from men and that is all he can get.nothing more

Yet churches publicize their own

Nylonbag:
People wont help one another if they are not able to show off,we are human its our nature we can not change it
Showing off encourage us to help more people beside,people that show off are always more generous

false. You have never met a coded generous person

It depends on the motive. If you help and show it off inorder to encourage more people to follow suit, I don't think there is something wrong with that.
As an NGO you are accountable to your sponsors, you have to showcase what you are doing with the funds given to you.
May God bless all the givers out there
May God bless me as we enter 2022, I want to be giving too

tutudesz:
Yet churches publicize their own

doesn't make it right

She's very right with her statement. No reasonable person will help someone and post it on social media that he just helped someone.
Everything na show off most especially Nigeria celebrities..

erniok:
Rarely do you see secret philanthropist that expect worship. Very rare but those public ones, they are mostly after clout and public accolades.

How do you become a philanthropist if you dont show off ?
I think we should thank the giver,not to blame them for showing off

Iyaebe:
She's very right, I will never help anyone and expose it,never.

me too o

Ouchbabe:
It depends on the motive. If you help and show it off inorder to encourage more people to follow suit, I don't think there is something wrong with that.
As an NGO you are accountable to your sponsors, you have to showcase what you are doing with the funds given to you.
May God bless all the givers out there
May God bless me as we enter 2022, I want to be giving too

NGO is different, they were given to share most times. You might not really know who the real donor is

GeneralPula:
Well, it’s a digital world..

Shebi they’re still doing?

Some people get money but them no dey do anything either off camera or for camera..

mad o

babyfaceafrica:
false. You have never met a coded generous person

They dont exist,most of these people that crave for secrecy are stingy as fu.....ck

This is mostly true

Sometimes though it's not the giver filming but 3rd parties

Also some givers can't go out, so they delegate, and request for proof of delivery

GeneralPula:
Well, it’s a digital world..

Shebi they’re still doing?

Some people get money but them no dey do anything either off camera or for camera..

Leave them lol,instead of thanking those that are helping they are craving for secrecy,i wonder why they can not reject help if they dont want camera
Stingy people wont help and wont want people to help,useless people

Nylonbag:
How do you become a philanthropist if you dont show off ?
I think we should thank the giver,not to blame them for showing off

Some philatrophist use NGOs. You don't have to give directly. You can be an anonymous giver

Nylonbag:
They dont exist,most of these people that crave for secrecy are stingy as fu.....ck

Your opinion

tutudesz:
Yet churches publicize their own

for the sake of beneficiaries who don't have access to internet and tv

I agree.
The issue of saying that it is to encourage others or to keep a record is bullshit.
Whoever wants to give will give.
Whoever wants to deny that he wasn't given will deny.

But God sees all.

Heterodox:
crap

your buisnness

Me too ...it's nothing but eye service and I recognize it anyday anytime.
When lending help from your right hand your left hand shouldn't know about it....I derive so much joy when I help people and no one knows about it

babyfaceafrica:
Your opinion

Not my opinion,you are just wasting if you dont show off because it ont be on record that you ever helped anyone,even churches and pastors show off,and the same people will preach to you to hide your donation

You dont need to show off because you want to help your fellow man. all these celebraties filming themselves while giving help to the needy are all fools and ignorant. they are not giving it from their heart but they are using the moment to show the world they are rich to increase their popularity. i agree with shan george, she is a civilised and a thoughtful woman.