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it not quite long after my completion 4 year program at osun state university which I serve a year after in zamfara state


not long after the service on my returning home as a graduate which I think I have had some value to my self as a graduate then I am planning to settle down as a bachelor


but immediately my father hear about it that is all and I don't want to go against him because he sponsor me through our my years in university and some other expenses too more so I went to state university again he spend a lot on me already


your advice is needed I already get an apartment ooo

I dey come
Cuz I no too understand ur story

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I am back
You have added value to yourself.
If true
You dad would allow you to leave

But I guess it's all falsehood and the fact that the freedom you enjoyed in zamfara state you want to enjoy it again on low or no income

Take an advice
If you are not financially capable stay for your father house he is even doing you a favour.

When you are ready to leave no one will stop u once they know you are capable

What do you need an apartment for? Are you in a serious relationship or about to marry

I believe you are at your job hunting phase, and this is the time you need family support, for transport fare, connection, money to print C.V, free food

Even if you are a Gee boy and your luck pick steadily, stay at home and use the money to buy more tools and make more money till you build your own house



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olafundz:
it not quite long after my completion 4 year program at osun state university which I serve a year after in zamfara state


not long after the service on my returning home as a graduate which I think I have had some value to my self as a graduate then I am planning to settle down as a bachelor


but immediately my father hear about it that is all and I don't want to go against him because he sponsor me through our my years in university and some other expenses too more so I went to state university again he spend a lot on me already


your advice is needed I already get an apartment ooo

Guy man elop oh, except you are daddy's boy

Arrest him.

olafundz:
but immediately my father hear about it that is all and I don't want to go against him because he sponsor me through our my years in university and some other expenses too more so I went to state university again he spend a lot on me already
your advice is needed I already get an apartment ooo

If even after 4 years of college education, you still think as you do then maybe your dad knows you best. You sound like you need a couple more tien to grow up before leaving home and considering Nigerian economy, it is probably best you live at home with your dad until you finally become ready for the world out there.

You can always rent the apartment out to someone else.

jaeyking:
I dey come
Cuz I no too understand ur story

Modified**

I am back
You have added value to yourself.
If true
You dad would allow you to leave

But I guess it's all falsehood and the fact that the freedom you enjoyed in zamfara state you want to enjoy it again on low or no income

Take an advice
If you are not financially capable stay for your father house he is even doing you a favour.

When you are ready to leave no one will stop u once they know you are capable

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Dear ejaculating tool,You're even lucky....some of us were chase out by our parents when we were in primary 3 like davash22 for example.

Youngman the economy out there is killing,stay put in your parents house where you can be sure of free flow of foods, shelter and the rest.

Guy man if u no get correct stuff doing to get money stay ur papa house oh maybe ur oldman get plans 4 u oh, u go done Bleep Corpors free during ur NySC u go done think say na so free world u dey oh u never pay house rent join with Nepa bill and etc feed urself too Abey do ur calculation wella u get luck some pali dey ask dem pikin make him find him own levels disturbing and etc buh ur oldman dey reason say make u no begin do pass urself u come here dey ask us..Kara question

Don't let family stop you from chasing your dreams.

Some of us made this mistake. Be wise

Something some people are praying for, as long as he no stop u from making money moves, no be to stay house, dey chop free food and use utilities, this will even make ur journey easier Na with ease u go buy car, buy land and build cause ur plans will be straight forward no other bills distracting u

You really should take the chill pill. Congratulations on your graduation and passing out of service, welcome to the labour market. I really thank God that you made it back home safely from Zamfara.

Why are you in so much hurry to leave home? To move out and settle down as a bachelor? See, I know sey na dah money wey you tamo wan side as per allawee things, naim dey mek you feel sey you fit rugged any level. If people wey don graduate, do NYSC, get job, marry, born pikin, still dey add value to themselves, how much more you that's literally just starting out with life? As an adult, you'll always have bills to pay, even much more as you grow older. Please Ola, try to get something doing to sustain yourself before thinking of moving out and settling down.

From your piece, your Dad is trying to be protective. Which is very normal. I'd have loved to say that you should take the advantage but mind you it comes with loads of disadvantages. Hence, you are the one in the shoe, sit back, relax, and ask yourself this question, are you ready to face reality Street is hard bro. As in, damn hard..... But the street teaches independence and doggedness.

This one never see life. Better sit your @$$ in that house and plan your life.
Get a job, contribute to the family, save and invest where necessary.
Ensure your income is steady and sufficient enough to move before you move out.
I friend of mine who earns 400k still dey him papa house. Guy has finished his master's and acquired two landed properties. If he had moved out to live alone, you think he would've achieved this feat.
Be wise, life isn't easy out here. Don't be deceived