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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by OlujobaSamuel: 4:40pm On Jan 21, 2022
Na his kind Dr go tell you, we can't find what is wrong after conducting all tests, even though it's not ethical, and against our profession, I will suggest you look out, if you know what I mean.
Lol
Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by adefitim(m): 4:41pm On Jan 21, 2022
Our mothers and mothers before them circumcised without no complications. According to the wife story she did her own at age 12 surely this will have complications that’s why it is done after birth to avoid that. I can’t blame the man for wanting to do that only fault him for beaten his wife.

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by ComeToJesus: 4:41pm On Jan 21, 2022
ComeToJesus:
Must be one of those obtuse fellows with a honorary doctorate degree.

Chemist guys are are also called "doctor" in communal settings.

That said, I think they are laws already promulgated at states and federal levels against FGM. The man should be in custody now. That lazy comment by the police should not continue in 2022
Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by nextstep(m): 4:41pm On Jan 21, 2022
donbachi:
You'all want traditions dat has to do with female circumcision abolished.but,not ready to abolish bride price,transport fare,abortions and entittlements.
Ashawo everywhere.

Female circumcision is harmful, medically unnecessary, and is more than a bit misogynist.

There is no medical benefit to any type of FGM. It only causes physical harms, ranging from lingering pain, loss of sensation, infections, urinary problems, sexual dysfunction, and complications during menstruation and childbirth. It is also associated with long-term psychological trauma.
- The medical community concurs.

It should go the way of facial and body scarification of children (i.e. not be practiced in modern society). If you feel so strongly, let the girl mature into adulthood and decide - for herself - if she wants to mutilate (sorry, circumcise) her genitals.


adefitim:
Our mothers and mothers before them circumcised without no complications. According to the wife story she did her own at age 12 surely this will have complications that's why it is done after birth to avoid that. I can't blame the man for wanting to do that only fault him for beaten his wife.

The trouble with this kind of thinking is threefold:
1. that it was done on mother - and her mother - likely against their will at the young age of 12 (meaning they had no say in the matter) does not make it right. There have been generations of women ruined by this practice - the majority suffer in silent shame, but some have been brave enough to speak out against it.
2. If you look at the evidence on ground, this practice has no benefits. None.
3. I agree wholeheartedly with the summary that it "the practice is rooted in gender inequality, attempts to control women's sexuality, and ideas about purity, modesty, and beauty." - source many.

It must stop.

cococandy:
I want people who think women in Nigeria are not marginalized to read comments like this.
And tell us how a man who thinks like this will not discriminate against women if he's in a position of power over them

Quite right. We need to educate folks - both men and women - about this.

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by symbianDON(m): 4:42pm On Jan 21, 2022
pyyxxaro:
A Medical Doctor or a Native Doctor embarassed
native medical doctor grin
Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by AsawanaDgreat: 4:42pm On Jan 21, 2022
Make una check the Dr very well oo, em head fit dey touch
Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by ComeToJesus: 4:42pm On Jan 21, 2022
adefitim:
Our mothers and mothers before them circumcised without no complications. According to the wife story she did her own at age 12 surely this will have complications that’s why it is done after birth to avoid that. I can’t blame the man for wanting to do that only fault him for beaten his wife.

People like you need to be in another planet. Typical male chauvinist.

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by cococandy(f): 4:43pm On Jan 21, 2022
2DADDEY:



No cry but you'll do great if you mind yah fucking business. Not of your hiccups how a man choose to care for his lovely daughter

Maybe your loving mother should have chopped off your peniss as a way to show she cares for you. Doofus

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Nwaajasa: 4:44pm On Jan 21, 2022
We have heard your own side of the story until we also hear from your husband to know why you run away with his daughter,

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by cococandy(f): 4:44pm On Jan 21, 2022
adefitim:
Our mothers and mothers before them circumcised without no complications. According to the wife story she did her own at age 12 surely this will have complications that’s why it is done after birth to avoid that. I can’t blame the man for wanting to do that only fault him for beaten his wife.

I want people who think women in Nigeria are not marginalized to read comments like this.

And tell us how a man who thinks like this will not discriminate against women if he’s in a position of power over them

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by 2DADDEY: 4:45pm On Jan 21, 2022
cococandy:


Maybe your loving mother should have chopped off your peniss as a way to show she cares for you. Doofus

Come on fuckoff ashewo no standard

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:45pm On Jan 21, 2022
cococandy:
Male Doctors have been a powerful force in the propagation of harmful medical practices against women. Research more on this of you feel the need to know more. But only recently did we start to speak about the harm some of them did .


I didn't know about this one.

Thank God that people are speaking out now

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Otutupoyoyo: 4:46pm On Jan 21, 2022
Saintmary:


Always seek a second opinion to any advice given to you by a medical personnel unless it's an emergency.


God help us.
. Second opinion opinion from who?
You be clown

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by cococandy(f): 4:52pm On Jan 21, 2022
2DADDEY:


Come on fuckoff ashewo no standard
stay mad about other people’s vaginass and clitorises. Jobless thing

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by cococandy(f): 4:53pm On Jan 21, 2022
Yep
Ladyhippolyta88:


I didn't know about this one.

Thank God that people are speaking out now

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by od501: 4:53pm On Jan 21, 2022
Islie:




https://dailytrust.com/doctor-batters-wife-over-refusal-to-circumcise-daughter

All of you shouting education this education that. The dude is a licenced doctor, and baby in question is his. He can't do anything to hurt the child in question. What you all should be asking is, what are the advantages of female circumstition?

Cos the lady I checked, they circumcise the male too. So...what's the hype?

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by thorpido(m): 4:56pm On Jan 21, 2022
adefitim:
Our mothers and mothers before them circumcised without no complications. According to the wife story she did her own at age 12 surely this will have complications that’s why it is done after birth to avoid that. I can’t blame the man for wanting to do that only fault him for beaten his wife.
So what will the circumcision achieve?
It's like putting tribal marks on a child's face and defacing the child in the name of culture.

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Pharaohny: 4:59pm On Jan 21, 2022
Rubbish doctor educated illiterate

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:02pm On Jan 21, 2022
cococandy:


I want people who think women in Nigeria are not marginalized to read comments like this.

And tell us how a man who thinks like this will not discriminate against women if he’s in a position of power over them
Remember, that op that sexually abused his wife the thread you earlier commented on he has brought update already

https://www.nairaland.com/6948560/marriage-verge-crashing

And his brothers did not waste time in defending him and coming at me,the men on naira land can give you a view on some Nigerian men and how low they reason

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by 2DADDEY: 5:03pm On Jan 21, 2022
cococandy:
stay mad about other people’s vaginass and clitorises. Jobless thing


Stupid Akunna with wide borehole no dick shall satisfy you not in this life nor Life after

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by thorpido(m): 5:03pm On Jan 21, 2022
od501:


All of you shouting education this education that. The dude is a licenced doctor, and baby in question is his. He can't do anything to hurt the child in question. What you all should be asking is, what are the advantages of female circumstition?

Cos the lady I checked, they circumcise the male too. So...what's the hype?
Says who?She could get infected and be scarred.The psychological effect on her too will hurt her.
If circumcision will stop her from being promiscuous,what happens when she gets married?They bring the clit back and join?Is she not allowed to enjoy sex in her marriage ?

You compare male circumcision with the female? Anatomically speaking,what they do with the female is akin to removing the penis cap in males!

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Estellie: 5:05pm On Jan 21, 2022
Wetin una dey marry sef?? angry
Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Bahamas95(m): 5:07pm On Jan 21, 2022
Most Africans believe not circumcising a female child would make her promiscuous but the reverse is the case.





Ignorance is a serious disease.

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Torosk1(m): 5:11pm On Jan 21, 2022
pyyxxaro:
A Medical Doctor or a Native Doctor embarassed
grin

Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Karemarealty288(m): 5:11pm On Jan 21, 2022
pyyxxaro:
A Medical Doctor or a Native Doctor embarassed

He is a native medical doctor

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by cococandy(f): 5:12pm On Jan 21, 2022
Smh. Na wa
Ladyhippolyta88:

Remember, that op that sexually abused his wife the thread you earlier commented on he has brought update already

https://www.nairaland.com/6948560/marriage-verge-crashing

And his brothers did not waste time in defending him and coming at me,the men on naira land can give you a view on some Nigerian men and how low they reason

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by cococandy(f): 5:16pm On Jan 21, 2022
2DADDEY:



Stupid Akunna with wide borehole no dick shall satisfy you not in this life nor Life after
die mad grin

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Estellie: 5:17pm On Jan 21, 2022
od501:


All of you shouting education this education that. The dude is a licenced doctor, and baby in question is his. He can't do anything to hurt the child in question. What you all should be asking is, what are the advantages of female circumstition?

Cos the lady I checked, they circumcise the male too. So...what's the hype?

Common sense should tell you that male and female circumcision are not the same thing and are not done for the same reason.

Female circumcision causes long term complications to the girl child. This isn’t something I should explain to an adult.

Advantage of female circumcision? Advantage of cutting the female genitaliaa of a child just to decrease sexual pleasure in future? Is there an advantage to that? Bro, are you dumb?

Do you even know that female circumcision is illegal in Nigeria?

Na why I say make people not dey carry marry. Know who your partner is before jumping into marriage. Not everyone with a brain thinks.

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by aviara: 5:18pm On Jan 21, 2022
blackpanda:
chai doctors are the biggest hypocrites
They dont follow up to 2% of the advise they give their patients
How can a sane human being subject a girl to circumcision madness

Anyway it may also be for rituals in his family. Maybe they use their women sontin for money shocked

But male children are subjected to circumcision which is also very painful. Are there no professional doctors who can circumcise females without any negative side effect? The man may have a good intention after all
Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Exceed15: 5:19pm On Jan 21, 2022
This might not be the root of the matter. I understand one thing about women. They paint story or exaggerate to garner sympathy & emotions.

Who will hear this and not quickly nail the man. I wish we could hear from him .

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by perdollar(m): 5:20pm On Jan 21, 2022
It's not called circumcision but Female Genital Mutilation which is a punishable offense. That man is a doctor but a traditional or native one, moreover lots of ppl now bear d title DR.

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Re: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Exceed15: 5:21pm On Jan 21, 2022
This might not be the root of the matter. I understand one thing about women. They paint story or exaggerate to garner sympathy & emotions.

Who will hear this and not quickly nail the man. I wish we could hear from him

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