Good morning all!

Please I need your advice on what to do over an issue that came up recently between my wife and I.

I dated my wife for about 9month before our wedding late last year and since we got married, she hasnt been able to conceive. She went to the Hospital and she was diagnosed with Ovariann Cyst and pelvic inflammatory diseases.

I was shocked and I tried to investigate her past again from those who were close to her and I discovered that she was quite loose and reckless while she was in school. She finally confessed that she even had an abortion for someone some few years back and this was someone who denied ever doing such when I asked her during the courtship.

Please help me.
I need your advice.

One of things I fear in marriage.... this is tantamount to scam.....even if you want to forgive her,will the thought that you were scammed into a marriage where you will be forced to bear the consequences of someone's else past wayward life ever leave you?......

Let her see a good gynaecologist.

Abortion isn't the cause of cyst and PID.

Ps- if u want to be happy in the present and future, stop digging the past.

95% of people regret their past in one way or the other.

Not necessarily relationships, it might be careers or friends, it might be anything.

The past always hold a dark part that u really won't be proud of.

Best Wishes.

Thanks for this piece of advice and she is also troublesome and quarrelsome.

Foodqueen:
Let her see a good gynaecologist.

Abortion isn't the cause of cyst and PID.

Ps- if u want to be happy in the present and future, stop digging the past.

95% of people regret their past in one way or the other.

Not necessarily relationships, it might be careers or friends, it might be anything.

The past always hold a dark part that u really won't be proud of.

Best Wishes.

team “her past doesn’t matter” It’s her body, it’s not your business...una welldone ooo??

Her body has now become the husband’s business abi..

.clear for ridiculously high body count..una no kuku dey word...just carry your cross oooo..


By the way...Thunder fire all of una wey don scatter street, dey spread leg every where, come dey use settle down dey trouble another person pikin....

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U SEE dis MARRIAGE of a tin..



I NO de too REASON d matterz at all..



Na to JAZZ in ASHAWOO house NACK better BANI and COME back house...




which kind useless MARRIAGE be Dat...



LITE UP my WEED in peace.



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Dear sir,

Ovarian cyst is simply one of the ovaries that didnt regress in the cycle, it doesn't cause infertility.

PID is simply infection along the genital tract . Truth is that severity varies, almost all women will yield different microbes when you do a culture of their Instruments , same as men too, so the best way to confirm PID in women is to do a culture my brother.

Besides, Ultrasound is used dependent, go and do scam elsewhere they may tell yo something different

Thanks so much... Do you think these can be treated and she will he able to conceive.

I am willing to let go and forge on with the marriage if she can conceive after she is treated.

Thanks

DEXTROVERT:
Dear sir,

Ovarian cyst is simply one of the ovaries that didnt regress in the cycle, it doesn't cause infertility.

PID is simply infection along the genital tract . Truth is that severity varies, almost all women will yield different microbes when you do a culture of their Instruments , same as men too, so the best way to confirm PID in women is to do a culture my brother.

Besides, Ultrasound is used dependent, go and do scam elsewhere they may tell yo something different

felixalida:

Thanks so much... Do you think these can be treated and she will he able to conceive.

I am willing to let go and forge on with the marriage if she can conceive after she is treated.

Thanks

Yes pls.She will and very soon.
Abortion is not the cause of it.Even virgins suffer it.

felixalida:
Thanks for this piece of advice and she is also troublesome and quarrelsome.

Ovarian cyst is not due to abortion.She just needs a good gynecologist to take care of the cyst and PID.
Na the quarrelsome be the work wey you get.

felixalida:

Thanks so much... Do you think these can be treated and she will he able to conceive.

I am willing to let go and forge on with the marriage if she can conceive after she is treated.

Thanks

You both got married late last year,

You need to know that you both are not suffering from Infertility.

 Infertility is a disease of the male or female reproductive system defined by the failure to achieve a pregnancy after 12 months or more of regular unprotected sexual intercourse...source WHO

So see a Gynecologist for effective treatment of PID

You shouldn't be with someone who has the temerity to lie to your face that she hadn't had an abortion when she in fact did.
Only God know what other disgusting things she had done in her past.
Divorce her ASAP.

Foodqueen:
Let her see a good gynaecologist.

Abortion isn't the cause of cyst and PID.

Ps- if u want to be happy in the present and future, stop digging the past.

95% of people regret their past in one way or the other.

Not necessarily relationships, it might be careers or friends, it might be anything.

The past always hold a dark part that u really won't be proud of.

Best Wishes.

Very ignorant and unwise comment. The secret to the future is in the past.

Kellzzyy:
You shouldn't be with someone who has the temerity to lie to your face that she hadn't had an abortion when she in fact did.
Only God know what other disgusting things she had done in her past.
Divorce her ASAP.

Ehn ehn, just like that.

At OP, this issue can be resolved easily.

Damn! I believe the past do hurt when we dig it or think about ours. It's best to have a good past, it's possible to do. Your wife should have told you about the abortion. Well, she might be scared to lose you, hence the reason she hid it from you or she's just good at lying and hiding her dark side.

You should visit a gynecologist. I'd urge you to settle things with her and forge a new and stronger bond. But make sure you warn show your displeasure concerning lies. It's not ideal in marriage.

Foodqueen:
Let her see a good gynaecologist.

Abortion isn't the cause of cyst and PID.

Ps- if u want to be happy in the present and future, stop digging the past.

95% of people regret their past in one way or the other.

Not necessarily relationships, it might be careers or friends, it might be anything.

The past always hold a dark part that u really won't be proud of.

Best Wishes.

Abortion is one of the causes of PID.

felixalida:
Good morning all!

Please I need your advice on what to do over an issue that came up recently between my wife and I.

I dated my wife for about 9month before our wedding late last year and since we got married, she hasnt been able to conceive. She went to the Hospital and she was diagnosed with Ovariann Cyst and pelvic inflammatory diseases.

I was shocked and I tried to investigate her past again from those who were close to her and I discovered that she was quite loose and reckless while she was in school. She finally confessed that she even had an abortion for someone some few years back and this was someone who denied ever doing such when I asked her during the courtship.

Please help me.
I need your advice.

Because of ovarian cyst and PID you went and investigate your wife's past,who'd now investigate your past Have you even gone to hosp to check your numbers if the delay in conception Is not from you? I pity that poor lady.

felixalida:
Good morning all!

Please I need your advice on what to do over an issue that came up recently between my wife and I.

I dated my wife for about 9month before our wedding late last year and since we got married, she hasnt been able to conceive. She went to the Hospital and she was diagnosed with Ovariann Cyst and pelvic inflammatory diseases.

I was shocked and I tried to investigate her past again from those who were close to her and I discovered that she was quite loose and reckless while she was in school. She finally confessed that she even had an abortion for someone some few years back and this was someone who denied ever doing such when I asked her during the courtship.

Please help me.
I need your advice.

Truth is, if you’ve ever had unprotected sex with anyone before you met and married your wife, then you have no right to judge her.
The “digging” you’re doing now should’ve been done by you both before you both married.
She’s your wife now, and the best thing to do would be to put heads together and find solution to the problem aground.

felixalida:

Thanks so much... Do you think these can be treated and she will he able to conceive.

I am willing to let go and forge on with the marriage if she can conceive after she is treated.

Thanks

yes it can. She would give birth soon. Please forgive her, I believe she regrets her past.

Any marriage foundation that was built on lies, normally,such marriage dey always dey experience crash at the end..

Mariangeles:


1. Truth is, if you’ve ever had unprotected sex with anyone before you met and married your wife, then you have no right to judge her.

2. The “digging” you’re doing now should’ve been done by you both before you both married.

3. She’s your wife now, and the best thing to do would be to put heads together and find solution to the problem aground.

1. That is true, only if your spouse doesn't have to suffer the consequences of your past with you ...

You can't be bringing baggages from your past, lie to me about it and then upon investigation, when it's now revealed you now say "eh, you also slept around too so we're equal"... Ma'am, honestly, how does that sound ...

2. Did you read the part where he said during their courtship he asked her about whether or not she did an abortion and she denied ever doing such?

Can asking your spouse about his/her past not be considered as "digging"?

And read his post again, he did investigate her past...

**I was shocked and I tried to investigate her past AGAIN from those who were close to her and I discovered that she was quite loose and reckless while she was in school**

3. You're right about this, they should put their heads together and work things out, but that is easier said than done...

She had a past that is currently affecting the present and she lied about it, it is only upon investigation that she confessed, do you think it'll be easy for the man to just "deal with it" when he was lied to, to his face?

My dear...
This matter get as e be o...
Cause even if they solve this issue and have kids, will the man still trust his wife 100%

@OP
I wish you well OP...
Try and work things out with your wife...
Twill not be easy o...
But with God's help, things will be better....
Good luck Chief...