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Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 11:46am On Feb 11, 2022
I used to be that guy with extreme compassion and sacrificial love for women

I used to be that one, that care so much for women.

I used to be that guy who love to help and protect women wherever he goes.

I used to be the maximum ca$h giver to Nigeria women with their children.

BUT Nigeria women heavily betrayed me and brought tears to my eyes. They turn my world upside down.

I have loss all hope on women, especially Nigeria women.

I loss my confidence on Nigeria women.

I lost my trust over Nigeria women.

I no longer feel or have sacrificial love for Nigeria women and for their children as swell.

I no longer see the need and benefit to be kind and helpful to any Nigeria women.

Nigeria women did me so much wickedness and still continue to show me more wickedness.

They have shown me how heartless they can be as women.

They are so cold hearted and selfish towards men.

They have no compassion for men.

They have no self sacrificial love for men.

Anytime I look at Nigeria women, all I feel is pain, losses and regret.

Each time I look at any Nigeria woman, I just turn my face and my heart away in pain and disappointment.

THE STORY
In looking to rent any apartment, I did not feel the need to use realtors because of my past terrible experience with them.

During the month of December last year 2021, I boarded a bus and traveled to the outer suburb of my home city to look for a bed-sitter apartment to rent. As I go about each neighbourhood looking for any affordable apartment, I pass by the major market and got the reminder that, I needed to buy some food (groceries) because things are very expensive at the town where I live.

In my home city, things are a bit less expensive and there are banks everywhere. So I snick into zenith bank and used their slip to cash out some money, for me to buy some food stuff (groceries) on my way back home.

When it was time for me to go back home, I branch by the market and bought the things I needed for the week. I was left with N500 ($1) which is enough to take me back home with stress free.

I walk a bit to the nearby junction, to take rickshaw (keke) that will take me to the express border of the next town, from there I will take bus back home.

When I was about to take rickshaw (keke) I realize that, the money I got left with me, was no where to be found on me. I lost the N500 ($1) I have left with me.

The bank have closed.
I was not with my debit card.
I was not with my mobile phone for USSD banking.

See me see trouble, I blurted.

As a cross bearer, I decided to walk (trek) to the next town since I lost the money that will take me back home. It took me about 1 hour to get to the bus stop of the next town which also borders two different town. I was so tired because I have been walking (trekking) for about 7 hours in total for that day.

I was still carrying my sack bag of groceries when I got to the junction by 7:pm at night. It was a highway express, and so many buses and exotic cars where passing by in full speed. The buses will drop and pick up few passengers and zoom off.

There was no way for me to speak to any of the buss drivers because it was a high way express. I look all around me, looking for who to help me so that I can get back home.

I walk back a little bit and saw three ladies and a young guy in his 20's, were busy with golden chance lotto. It was not possible for me to speak with the ladies because men understand each other more better. So I wave at the guy who was about to leave - and signal him to come which he did.

When he came to me, I explained to him what happened and even show him the things I bought. He became very worried and as swell show more concern about my well being.

He told me that, those ladies down there are owing him change (money) that he will be right back.

I watched as he went to meet them. They started asking him questions upon questions about me. I stood farther away from the ladies as I wait for my fella, with my bag on the ground because it was a bit heavy.

The three ladies delayed my buddy from coming back, but finally he came back and told us to look for change.

We started looking for change. We went to all the women around, they all refused to change the money for us. Finally we approach one keke man who did change the money for us.

My buddy was so happy and gave me money to go back home. As I was about to leave, he said something that affected my soul to this very day

He point at their direction and said to me, those three ladies down there said I should not help you. Allow him to rot there. Don't help him, the ladies said to him

He maybe a ritualist.

He will used your money to collect your glory.

Don't give him your money they said to my buddy.

My buddy began to argue and quarrel with them over their insanity.

He told me he argued with them and became angry with the three ladies.

He asked them, is it your money ?

Are you ladies, telling me what to do with my money?

I replied him, my Friend. I know why they delayed you.

I know them too well.

I deeply know what they are telling you. For God Himself said, let us make man in our own image and likeness, and God made man like himself.

I gave him a brotherly handshake, fully thanked him with gratitude and took a bus back home.

QUESTION
Nigeria women; why are you people so cold hearted towards men?

When you need help, you will avoid your own female gender but run to a man for help.

You will hardly help any fallen man, but you will even prevent a man from helping his own fellow man.?

Nigeria women; why una be like this?

Women, why una dey cold hearted?

Why are you Nigeria women so unkind to men?

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 11:49am On Feb 11, 2022
WHY I RESPECT MEN

I spent all my days fighting for the well being of nigeria women and children. Wherever I go, my eyes are always on them and their children. In fact, I carry their problem for my head like gala.

Now, the same nigeria women almost destroyed me. They show me constant wickedness and manipulated every area of my life, and physically fought against me in extreme measures. I silently cried in shame, pains and regret.

It was nigeria men that covers my shame.
It was the men that temporarily shelter me.
It was the men that gave me food when I was hungry.
It was the men that gave me water to drink when I was tasty.

It was the men that encourage me and told me to keep on walking.

When a man did me wrong, I don't easily take offence. I over look it as I remember all that men did to strengthen me to carry my cross.

In the past, I wish I had been more compassionate and loving towards my fellow men.

I wish I had sacrifice so much for my fellow men.

Life experience thought me that, men has more goodness, love and compassion than women.

I learnt that, men have the inborn nature to give out kindness and love out of their very being as a man.

I learnt that, the love and compassion of women is mainly rooted more on self centered and mutual exchange.

In regret, I vow to correct my past mistake and help all suffering men, wherever I go.

I made a mistake.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 11:49am On Feb 11, 2022
I was at a clothing shop buying some UK used shirt from a woman, and I asked her to reduce the price a bit since I am buying more.

She said nooooooo.

I re asked her, can't you remove N300 from me as a gift from you to me?

She said, noooooooo very smoothly. I can never give my money to a man, she blurted.

I asked her, why?

She boldy repeat her words, I can never give her money to any man.

I said to her, but I do give my money to women as gift without sexually touching them?

She look at me and said, he mm hmm nn, it is you who decide to give na.

wow

I paid her, and left her shop peplexed over her bitter mindset

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by YinkaOlusesi16(m): 11:52am On Feb 11, 2022
Thank GOD you too talk, i think say nah only me they think the same way about women.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Kriss216: 11:52am On Feb 11, 2022
Lostchild:

I was at a clothing shop buying some UK used shirt from a woman, and I asked her to reduce the price a bit since I am buying more, she said nooooooo.

I re: told her, remove N300 from me as a gift from you to me

She said, no oo oo oo oo oo

I asked her why?

She boldy said, she can never give her money to a man

I said to her; but I do give my money to women as gift?

She look at me and said, he mm hmm nn, it is you who decide to give na.

wow

I paid her, and left her shop peplexed
You paid her and left perplexed

You should have cancelled every transactions with her immediately she said she can never give her money to a man.

You don't patronise foolish people.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Apus: 12:28pm On Feb 11, 2022
Women are naturally WICKED, beginning from their mother Eve. A woman that could deceive her husband into eternal doom just cause he loved and put his faith in her.
Always supporting themselves in doing evil but find it hard to uplift one another.
It takes only the grace of God for any woman to break free from such curse.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Chno: 2:33pm On Feb 11, 2022
Na you get time dey talk to naija girls, i no dey even answer their greetings anymore

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Feb 11, 2022
I' m even afraid to ask them for any favour, no matter what

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by VEXT: 3:36pm On Feb 11, 2022
Chno:
Na you get time dey talk to naija girls, i no dey even answer their greetings anymore

grin grin grin No joy

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by bigcee(m): 4:11pm On Feb 11, 2022
Chno:
Na you get time dey talk to naija girls, i no dey even answer their greetings anymore
Lol grin

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by bigcee(m): 4:22pm On Feb 11, 2022
That's where the Red Pill comes in. Las las men go wise up cool

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Medianna(f): 4:26pm On Feb 11, 2022
Apus:
Women are naturally WICKED, beginning from their mother Eve. A woman that could deceive her husband into eternal doom just cause he loved and put his faith in her.
Always supporting themselves in doing evil but find it hard to uplift one another.
It takes only the grace of God for any woman to break free from such curse.


Go and read your bible well.. Adam never said she deceived him
I don't know where you guys get all these ideas...Eve was the one deceived

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by pocohantas(f): 4:27pm On Feb 11, 2022
I don’t blame her. Imagine giving a man, then you come online to read disgusting comments from men, including those that have been beneficiaries of women’s benevolence, you would not want to be a part of their statistics. Except he is below 18, a close friend, lover or family, I doubt I would give in 2022.

Feel free to quote with whatever diatribe.
My money, my rules. You can do the same, I wouldn’t notice. wink

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Apus: 5:04pm On Feb 11, 2022
Medianna:


Go and read your bible well.. Adam never said she deceived him
I don't know where you guys get all these ideas...Eve was the one deceived

Didn't Eve eat of the fruit first before passing to Adam without offering any explanation from whence she had gotten it?
God had told Adam not to eat of the forbidden fruit and in turn he also instructed his wife. Why did Eve not explain to Adam that she had taken of the forbidden fruit before passing same to him?
He ate of the fruit without the knowledge of it. How else do you define deception madam? She hid the truth from him haven eaten of the fruit first.

Na the SIMPle Adam I blame Sha.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Medianna(f): 5:27pm On Feb 11, 2022
Apus:


Didn't Eve eat of the fruit first before passing to Adam without offering any explanation from whence she had gotten it?
God had told Adam not to eat of the forbidden fruit and in turn he also instructed his wife. Why did Eve not explain to Adam that she had taken of the forbidden fruit before passing same to him?
He ate of the fruit without the knowledge of it. How else do you define deception madam? She hid the truth from him haven eaten of the fruit first.

Na the SIMPle Adam I blame Sha.

Lolzz for you mind Adam was not there when the serpent was talking... Is that what your bible told you
Go and read you bible again... I repeat myself and quote me anywhere Eve did not deceive Adam.

If Adam was a SIMP for eve...my beloved brother just choose your eve carefully and SIMP for her cuz you cannot do more than pass you forefathers lolz

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Apus: 5:46pm On Feb 11, 2022
Medianna:

Lolzz for you mind Adam was not there when the serpent was talking... Is that what your bible told you
Go and read you bible again... I repeat myself and quote me anywhere Eve did not deceive Adam.

If Adam was a SIMP for eve...my beloved brother just choose your eve carefully and SIMP for her cuz you cannot do more than pass you forefathers lolz




E be like say your own bible na upside down oo. Not like I was expecting anything different from the daughter of Eve.


Yeah.. Women are necessary evil. Ev(e)il
Thank goodness you use your own mouth talk am.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by stacyadams: 5:55pm On Feb 11, 2022
Lostchild:
I used to be that guy that have extreme compassion and sacrificial love for women

I used to be that one, that care so much for women.

I used to be that guy who love to help and
protect women wherever he goes.

I used to be the unlimited ca$h giver to women with their children.

BUT

Nigeria women betrayed me.

I have loss all hope on women, especially nigeria women.

I have loss my confidence for nigeria women.

I have lost my trust over nigeria women.

I no longer have sacrificial love for Nigeria women with their children

I no longer see the benefit to be kind and helpful to Nigeria women.

Nigeria women did me so much harm and still continue to do me more harm.

They have shown me how heartless they can be as women.

They are so cold hearted and selfish towards men.

They have no compassion for men.

They have no self sacrificial love for men.

Anytime I look at Nigeria women, all I feel is pain and regret.

Each time I look at any nigeria woman, I just turn my face and my heart away in dissappointment.

When I am looking to rent an apartment, I don't like to use realtors because of my past terrible experience with them.

During the month of december last year 2021, I boarded a bus and went to the outer subburb of my home city to look for a bedsitter apartment to rent. As I go about each neighbourhood looking for any affordable apartment, I pass by the major market and got the reminder that, I needed to buy some food (grocerries) because things are very expensive at the town where I live.

In my home city, things are a bit less expensive and there are banks everywhere, so I went straight to zenith bank and used their slip to withdraw some money, for me to buy some food stuff (groceries) on my way back home.

When it was time for me to go back home, I branch by the market and bought the things I needed for the week. I was left with N500 ($1) which is enough to take me back home with stress free.

I walk a bit to the nearby junction, to take rickshaw (keke) that will take me to the express border of the next town, from there I will take bus back home.

When I was about to take rickshaw (keke) is when I realize that, the money I got left with me, is no where to be found on me. I have lost the N500 ($1) I have left with me.

The bank have closed.
I was not with my debit card.
I was not with my mobile phone for USSD banking.

See me, see trouble, I blurted.

As a cross bearer, I decided to walk (trek) to the next town because I have lost the money I got left that will take me back home. It took me about 1 hour to get to the bus stop of the next town. I was so tired because I have been walking for about 7 hours in total for that day.

I was still carrying my sack bag of groceries when I got to the junction. It was a highway express, so many buses and cars where driving by in full speed. The buses will drop and pick up few passengers and zoom off.

I look all around me, looking for who to help me so that I can get back home.

I walk back a little bit and saw three ladies and a young guy in his 20's, were busy with Golden chance lotto. It was not possible for me to speak with the ladies because they will mock me, so I wave at the guy who was about to leave - I signal him to come which he did.

When he came to me, I explained to him what happened and even show him the things I bought. He became very worried and as swell show more concern about my well being.

He told me that, those ladies down there are owing him change (money) that he will be right back.

I watched as he went to meet them. They started asking him questions upon questions about me, I stood there waiting for my fella, with my bag on the ground because it was a bit heavy.

The three ladies delayed my buddy from coming back, but finally he came back and told us to look for change.

We started looking for change, went to all the women around, they all refused to change the money, but finally, one keke man did change the money for us.

My buddy was so happy and gave me money to go back home. As I was about to leave, he said something that affected my soul to this very day

He point at their direction, and said to me, those three ladies down there, said I should not help you.

Allow him to rot there, the ladies said to him

Don't help him.

Don't give him your money they said to my buddy.

My buddy began to argue and quarrel with them.

He told me he argued with them and became angry with the three ladies.

He asked them, is it your money ?

Will you ladies tell me what to do with my money?

I replied him. My friend, I know why they delayed you.

I know them too well. I deeply know what they are telling you. For God said, let us made man in our own image and likeness, and God made man like himself.

I gave him a handshake, thank him and took a bus back home.

QUESTION

Nigeria women; why are you people so cold hearted towards men?

When you needed help, you will avoid your own gender but run to a man for help?

You will never help a man, but you will prevent a man from helping his own fellow man?

Women, why una dey cold hearted?

Why are you people unkind to men ?
pls go back there,buy the guy a drink and thank him again .
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Medianna(f): 6:02pm On Feb 11, 2022
Apus:


E be like say your own bible na upside down oo. Not like I was expecting anything different from the daughter of Eve.


Yeah.. Women are necessary evil. Ev(e)il
Thank goodness you use your own mouth talk am.

If I say I'll drag this case with you, guy you don't stand chance...I was even particular about the bible you brought into this that wasn't correct.Not your hated, your love or acceptance for women.
If you like carry signboard and have women are evil written on it
Take a keke and go to heaven and rally with it
That won't change God's mind from giving people girl child.
So take a chill pill with this mentality and cut the drama

An back to my center of interest Adam was with Eve when the devil was having that conversion with her he just did not partake in the talk...(Gen 3:6)

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Nobody: 6:44pm On Feb 11, 2022
Am I the only one that finds this thread hilarious? grin
Op you will make a good comedian walahi!
Thanks for the laugh grin

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by tensazangetsu20(m): 7:20pm On Feb 11, 2022
Op it's you they are Cold hearted to. There are guys who are even broke like fucking broke and they have so many women loving them, sending them texts buying them stuff and all. With regards to matters of the heart it's all about destiny. Love might not be in your destiny of the life script the creator has written for you to play.

You can improve female attention by making money and all but genuine desire can never be negotiated.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Ulunne777(f): 7:37pm On Feb 11, 2022
Useless post.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 8:38pm On Feb 11, 2022
If western women is as cold hearted as Nigeria women, then all yahoo boyz will go broke. In fact, yahoo business would have been null

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by pocohantas(f): 8:54pm On Feb 11, 2022
Lostchild:
If western women is as cold hearted as Nigeria women, then all yahoo boyz will go broke. In fact, yahoo business would have been null

And do you think the Romance scam is still as profitable as it was in the 90s and early 2000? Western women are getting to know you guys. They are now warning themselves to avoid Nigerian men. The yahoo guys cashing out now are the ones doing BEC and the likes. The rest are just collecting gift cards and iPhone that they would still sell at half the price because everyone on the street knows they defrauded a white woman of it.

Woman wey no wise up after Naija man handle am. E mean say she really get coconut head.

Any yahoo boy that tells you he is cashing out heavily from Romance scam in 2022 is a big liar.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 10:14pm On Feb 11, 2022
stacyadams:
pls go back there,buy the guy a drink and thank him again .

Stacy.

I don't have to go and look for him, and buy him a drink. That which he did for me will be remember for all eternity. I still remember his devotion towards my well being that very day as he wanted me to get back home.

The love and kindness he shown me that very day, strengthen me and encourage me more to be kind to strangers, men / women / children.

Kindness is one of the ways we add value to humanity and introduce God love to them. When you give to people who can pay you back, it is eye service to God and you therefore have your reward. But when you give to people who have no power to pay you back, you compel God to reward and lift you up.
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 10:17pm On Feb 11, 2022
tensazangetsu20:
Op it's you they are Cold hearted to. There are guys who are even broke like fucking broke and they have so many women loving them, sending them texts buying them stuff and all. With regards to matters of the heart it's all about destiny. Love might not be in your destiny of the life script the creator has written for you to play.

You can improve female attention by making money and all but genuine desire can never be negotiated.

The write up above has nothing to do with romance.

You are looking at my experience from the romance point of view. I did not come to this earth to do romance and cash out from women. If I want to do romance, I have the qualities, good looks, and sweet mouth to twist the mind of women. I can bring women to their kneels when it comes to romance. I can used romance to become temporarily rich, but that is not my calling and purpose on earth.

I am a love person el who came to this earth to share God's love and kindness

I am a vessel of God's love and not of human romance and cashout or (sex)

Trust me, I understand your point of view.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 10:23pm On Feb 11, 2022
pocohantas:


And do you think the Romance scam is still as profitable as it was in the 90s and early 2000? Western women are getting to know you guys. They are now warning themselves to avoid Nigerian men. The yahoo guys cashing out now are the ones doing BEC and the likes. The rest are just collecting gift cards and iPhone that they would still sell at half the price because everyone on the street knows they defrauded a white woman of it.

Woman wey no wise up after Naija man handle am. E mean say she really get coconut head.

Any yahoo boy that tells you he is cashing out heavily from Romance scam in 2022 is a big liar.

OK.
I hear you wink
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by stacyadams: 10:55pm On Feb 11, 2022
Lostchild:


Stacy.

I don't have to go and look for him, and buy him a drink. That which he did for me will be remember for all eternity. I still remember his devotion towards my well being that very day as he wanted me to get back home.

The love and kindness he shown me that very day, strengthen me and encourage me more to be kind to strangers, men / women / children.

Kindness is one of the ways we add value to humanity and introduce God love to them. When you give to people who can pay you back, it is eye service to God and you therefore have your reward. But when you give to people who have no power to pay you back, you compel God to reward and lift you up.
alright sir

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lightway: 11:00pm On Feb 11, 2022
pocohantas:


And do you think the Romance scam is still as profitable as it was in the 90s and early 2000? Western women are getting to know you guys. They are now warning themselves to avoid Nigerian men. The yahoo guys cashing out now are the ones doing BEC and the likes. The rest are just collecting gift cards and iPhone that they would still sell at half the price because everyone on the street knows they defrauded a white woman of it.

Woman wey no wise up after Naija man handle am. E mean say she really get coconut head.

Any yahoo boy that tells you he is cashing out heavily from Romance scam in 2022 is a big liar.

You don't know Yahoo well?

You're still learning

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by The5DME(m): 11:14pm On Feb 11, 2022
You have a victim mentality op.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by pocohantas(f): 7:38am On Feb 12, 2022
Lostchild:


Queen Poco
I have removed that yahoo boys opinion because the write up has nothing to do with yahoo romance.

So you can be calm like this? Nawa!

Lightway:


You don't know Yahoo well?

You're still learning

Tell me what I don’t know about yahoo (romance scam). You think Hushpuppy and Invictus made all that money from using the face of a foreigner to tell a white woman that they are military men stuck in Afghanistan?

Lol!!!

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Stargurl20(f): 10:49am On Feb 12, 2022
Another stupid post to bash Nigerian women. Guys, I've always say this and will keep on saying it. U guys cannot have what u cannot give, u want fidelity, and u can't even give an iota of it, u want trust, for where?! Trust and Naija men be night and day that will never collide, u want many good things that u cannot give. God is not an hypocrite God that will give good to the bad and bad to the good. It's what u sow u will reap.

U guys come online, bash u country's women like u are any better. Wahala for who dey count una words, coz as for me, for someone to hurt me with words, that fellow must be saint and must have not commit that same thing he of she accused me of .

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by frozen70(f): 12:43pm On Feb 12, 2022
Lostchild:
I used to be that guy that have extreme compassion and sacrificial love for women

I used to be that one that care so much for women.

I used to be that guy who love to help and protect women wherever he goes.

I used to be the maximum ca$h giver to women with their children.

BUT

Nigeria women betrayed me.

I have loss all hope on women, especially nigeria women.

I have loss my confidence for nigeria women.

I have lost my trust over nigeria women.

I no longer have sacrificial love for Nigeria women and for their children

I no longer see the need and benefit to be kind and helpful to Nigeria women.

Nigeria women did me so much wickedness and still continue to do me more harm.

They have shown me how heartless they can be as women.

They are so cold hearted and selfish towards me and men.

They have no compassion for men.

They have no self sacrificial love for men.

Anytime I look at nigeria women, all I feel is pain and regret.

Each time I look at any nigeria woman, I just turn my face and my heart away in dissappointment.

When I am looking to rent an apartment, I don't like to use realtors because of my past terrible experience with them.

During the month of december last year 2021, I boarded a bus and went to the outer subburb of my home city to look for a bedsitter apartment to rent. As I go about each neighbourhood looking for any affordable apartment, I pass by the major market and got the reminder that, I needed to buy some food (grocerries) because things are very expensive at the town where I live.

In my home city, things are a bit less expensive and there are banks everywhere, so I went straight to zenith bank and used their slip to withdraw some money, for me to buy some food stuff (groceries) on my way back home.

When it was time for me to go back home, I branch by the market and bought the things I needed for the week. I was left with N500 ($1) which is enough to take me back home with stress free.

I walk a bit to the nearby junction, to take rickshaw (keke) that will take me to the express border of the next town, from there I will take bus back home.

When I was about to take rickshaw (keke) is when I realize that, the money I got left with me, is no where to be found on me. I lost the N500 ($1) I have left with me.

The bank have closed.
I was not with my debit card.
I was not with my mobile phone for USSD banking.

See me, see trouble, I blurted.

As a cross bearer, I decided to walk (trek) to the next town because I have lost the money I got left that will take me back home. It took me about 1 hour to get to the bus stop of the next town which also borders two different town. I was so tired because I have been walking (trekking) for about 7 hours in total for that day.

I was still carrying my sack bag of groceries when I got to the junction. It was a highway express, and so many buses and cars where driving by in full speed. The buses will drop and pick up few passengers and zoom off.

I look all around me, looking for who to help me so that I can get back home.

I walk back a little bit and saw three ladies and a young guy in his 20's, were busy with golden chance lotto. It was not possible for me to speak with the ladies because they will mock me, so I wave at the guy who was about to leave - I signal him to come which he did.

When he came to me, I explained to him what happened and even show him the things I bought. He became very worried and as swell show more concern about my well being.

He told me that, those ladies down there are owing him change (money) that he will be right back.

I watched as he went to meet them. They started asking him questions upon questions about me, I stood there waiting for my fella, with my bag on the ground because it was a bit heavy.

The three ladies delayed my buddy from coming back, but finally he came back and told us to look for change.

We started looking for change, went to all the women around, they all refused to change the money, but finally, one keke man did change the money for us.

My buddy was so happy and gave me money to go back home. As I was about to leave, he said something that affected my soul to this very day

He point at their direction, and said to me, those three ladies down there, said I should not help you.

Allow him to rot there, the ladies said to him

Don't help him.

Don't give him your money they said to my buddy.

My buddy began to argue and quarrel with them.

He told me he argued with them and became angry with the three ladies.

He asked them, is it your money ?

Are you ladies, telling me what to do with my money?

I replied him, my friend, I know why they delayed you.

I know them too well. I deeply know what they are telling you. For God said, let us made man in our own image and likeness, and God made man like himself.

I gave him a handshake, thank him and took a bus back home.

QUESTION

Nigeria women; why are you people so cold hearted towards men?

When you need help, you will avoid your own female gender but run to a man for help?

You will never help a man, but you will prevent a man from helping his own fellow man?

Women; why una be like this?

Women, why una dey cold hearted?

Why are you women so unkind to men ?

Only you can explain what you did to women that made them to hate you despite your caring nature

Just pray to God to bless you with the one made of uoir ribs else you will keep seeing them in a negative way

That alone will definitely affect your marriage

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