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I have a room mates currently who is a pastor son.He is really a nice person but what I currently don't like about his is his ability to bad mouth someone to the core.
He needs circumcision of the heart.

There was a day he called me his house boy.
Another day he insulted me in front of friends at the university.
Most of the time when we are together,he hits me like a kind of toy,I have warned him tirelessly even involved his mother but he won't budge.
Yesterday night he said my clothes doesn't makes sense..meaning I wear rags..the clothes I have are highly commendable,people comment them but he insults it just to make me feel bad.
Am fed up and as a Christian am trying to control my temper and anger.
He uses foul languages on me any time he like of which I never reciprocate because I wasn't taught that way.

What can I do?

Is his name Austin?
Anyways, the name does not matter. Maybe the born-to-rule mentality that some pastors use to coach their people is the cause. Maybe the pastor father is good and the son is just bad. But you confuse me by saying he is nice.

Change a roommate.

so you just sit there and take all the verbal, mental and physical bullying?

or you are not aware that he is bullying you?

When next he's running his diarrhoea of a mouth; just tell him a simple "k";
or "Ah! you donminit!" "Jesus is lord!" "Shuuuu, tell me something"; "ehen...eweeeeh"

He'll burn out soon enough; idiotxx fare better in a dialogue.

If he's not talking academics, don't talk to him.
If he's not talking care of the house don't talk to him

And also, being a pastor's son doesn't make him any better than the uncultured philistine - which he obviously is.

Cheers

Like you don't have hand or mouth, i don't understand, Break in head!! You never break in head that's why.

Pick up his behaviour and use it agaist him,even do worster than him,na him go chil last last.

If you are the shy type and can't bere it with him,consider changing roommate.

Na my type of guy ur room mate be sha... Nt gentle at all.

Is he the one feeding and paying your school fees (I'm guessing you guys are in school) that you can't give it to him in the language he understands

What makes him to be a nice person?

jesusjnr2020:
What makes him to be a nice person?

He is quick to apologize and then do worsw..he is a cheerful giver..he gives to a fault

PRE4:
He is quick to apologize and then do worsw..he is a cheerful giver..he gives to a fault

Evil people are very capable of doing things which people would call good, but in their hands it is never good..

The Bible did say there is a time for war and a time to cast stones!

PRE4:
Am fed up and as a Christian am trying to control my temper and anger.
He uses foul languages on me any time he like of which I never reciprocate because I wasn't taught that way.

What can I do?

Your roommate regularly bullies you and you are here to ask us how you assume him a pastor who you can change transform into a better person or what?

Jesus Christ taught that you should treat such people as you would pagans. You can tell him to leave or you look for a new place for yourself, simple.

PRE4:
I have a room mates currently who is a pastor son.He is really a nice person but what I currently don't like about his is his ability to bad mouth someone to the core.
He needs circumcision of the heart.

There was a day he called me his house boy.
Another day he insulted me in front of friends at the university.
Most of the time when we are together,he hits me like a kind of toy,I have warned him tirelessly even involved his mother but he won't budge.
Yesterday night he said my clothes doesn't makes sense..meaning I wear rags..the clothes I have are highly commendable,people comment them but he insults it just to make me feel bad.
Am fed up and as a Christian am trying to control my temper and anger.
He uses foul languages on me any time he like of which I never reciprocate because I wasn't taught that way.

What can I do?

In what way is this abusive person you've described a nice person?

I think you need to stand up to his bullying, don't tolerate his bad behaviour.

why would you care so much about what this insignificant person says/thinks about you?! why is it that HIS views matter so much to you?!

here is a clue: next time he says anything negative about you, simply reply "who gives a fukc what you think of me?! you are a nobody with an opinion. get a life"

PRE4:
■He is quick to apologize and then do worsw..
■he is a cheerful giver..he gives to a fault

But he condescends and bullies you every chance he gets?

E be like say you roommate get degree in manipulation. See as he take convince you even at that that he is a nice person..