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How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by OkpanachiMax: 5:11pm On Apr 23, 2020
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.

Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things.

Also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience

Feel free to add your own contributions

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Ochiban: 5:24pm On Apr 23, 2020
I completely disagree. In Sharia countries where women are completely covered- men are vibrating from seeing a girls shoulder. In nigeria, men vibrate when they see thighs. In Europe where dressing is scandalous, men vibrate only for naked women. It shows that its not what the woman is wearing that is the issue, otherwise all men would behave the same to the same amount of exposure.

Remember that int he beginning, both were naked.

This immorality is WITHIN us. let us stop with the original sin of Adam and Eve with blaming outside influences for our internal lack of faith.

I'm not saying social media and outside things like porn are good- they make things worse for sure. But please stop putting the responsibility of your own holiness on someone else's dressing or TV. Vow within your own heart that you will not look at another woman lustfully

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by blackboy(m): 5:26pm On Apr 23, 2020
The devil never die. Even where everyone wears hijab or ninja or nun outfit or Deeperlife style or from neck to ankle once the mind is polluted immorality will take place. It can be put in check , reduced or even checkmate but eradicated? Nahh devil is not sleeping.

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by OkpanachiMax: 5:32pm On Apr 23, 2020
Ochiban:
I completely disagree. In Sharia countries where women are completely covered- men are vibrating from seeing a girls shoulder. In nigeria, men vibrate when they see thighs. In Europe where dressing is scandalous, men vibrate only for naked women. It shows that its not what the woman is wearing that is the issue, otherwise all men would behave the same to the same amount of exposure.

Remember that int he beginning, both were naked.

This immorality is WITHIN us. let us stop with the original sin of Adam and Eve with blaming outside influences for our internal lack of faith.

I'm not saying social media and outside things like porn are good- they make things worse for sure. But please stop putting the responsibility of your own holiness on someone else's dressing or TV. Vow within your own heart that you will not look at another woman lustfully

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by OkpanachiMax: 5:34pm On Apr 23, 2020
blackboy:
The devil never die. Even where everyone wears hijab or ninja or nun outfit or Deeperlife style or from neck to ankle once the mind is polluted immorality will take place. It can be put in check , reduced or even checkmate but eradicated? Nahh devil is not sleeping.
Just like you said, it can be minimized if the females dress decently because men are moved by sight (it's just naturally the way we are created).

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by bigiyaro(m): 5:45pm On Apr 23, 2020
this your question is like "how to stop a goat from behaving like a goat"

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Ochiban: 5:50pm On Apr 23, 2020
OkpanachiMax:

That's is hypocrisy, I don't want to be religious about this but my question for you, can you vow not to eat when you are hungry?

Have you not heard of Gandhi and his famous hunger strike? Do muslims not fast during Ramdan? Christians during Easter? What are you saying? Acting like we are beasts and not made in the VERY IMAGE of GOD! You are insulting HIM by insinuating you can't control yourself.

I'm not saying we have to be perfect (body no be wood). But sex drive is not the same as a food drive. You will ACTUALLY DIE if you dont eat . and i have shown you countless examples above about people who deny themselves this thing.

Sex is an urge. Something we WANT to do and comes with great reward (pleasure, orgasm, feeling of closeness to partner). All things that can be controlled and satisfied in a controlled manner

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Ochiban: 5:53pm On Apr 23, 2020
And for heavens sake - stop blaming women for your own problems. It is not dressing that is worrying you. otherwise all men would behave the same way to the same dress. You have trained yourself not to shake when you see a girls ankle in nigeria but in saudi- a man would be vibrating. meanswhile in Europe, what makes you vibrate in nigeria will not even turn an eyelid there. its all training. STOP BLAMING other people for your own problems.

Adam said...It is the woman you gave me....


You men havent changed

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by IMAliyu(m): 6:06pm On Apr 23, 2020
Here is my understanding, if you try to suppress sexuality in the society it creates even more sexual depravity.
An example would be; I'm not trying to offend any Catholics, but their is an unusually high number of cases of boy child molestation by some priests globally and in something like super Islamic Arab countries you get more cases of rape.
But on the other hand if you sexually liberate a society it can come with it's consequences. without protection and birth control, you get STDs (eg. the aids epidemic in the US gay communities in the late 90s ) and unwanted pregnancies and abortions, porn addiction etc.

So either way you have to deal with something

My proposal would be to socially encourage marriage and faithful partnership.
It won't do much, but it's all we got.

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by OkpanachiMax: 6:16pm On Apr 23, 2020
Ochiban:


Have you not heard of Gandhi and his famous hunger strike? Do muslims not fast during Ramdan? Christians during Easter? What are you saying? Acting like we are beasts and not made in the VERY IMAGE of GOD! You are insulting HIM by insinuating you can't control yourself.

I'm not saying we have to be perfect (body no be wood). But sex drive is not the same as a food drive. You will ACTUALLY DIE if you dont eat . and i have shown you countless examples above about people who deny themselves this thing.

Sex is an urge. Something we WANT to do and comes with great reward (pleasure, orgasm, feeling of closeness to partner). All things that can be controlled and satisfied in a controlled manner

That's right, but remember, availability of food during fasting is a temptation and It takes only the grace of God to overcome due to our human nature.
NB: am only saying the truth, not that am guilty of those but am human being with feelings. I just proffer a possible way to lessen the chance.

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by OkpanachiMax: 6:18pm On Apr 23, 2020
Ochiban:
And for heavens sake - stop blaming women for your own problems. It is not dressing that is worrying you. otherwise all men would behave the same way to the same dress. You have trained yourself not to shake when you see a girls ankle in nigeria but in saudi- a man would be vibrating. meanswhile in Europe, what makes you vibrate in nigeria will not even turn an eyelid there. its all training. STOP BLAMING other people for your own problems.

Adam said...It is the woman you gave me....


You men havent changed

You won't understand because you are female, so don't argue on male matters.

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by OkpanachiMax: 6:40pm On Apr 23, 2020
More contributions pls
Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by reigncalif1: 7:32pm On Apr 23, 2020
THE PROBLEM WITH SEXUALITY IS THAT ITS SUBJECTIVE,, FOR PEOPLE THATS SAID ITS ONLY URGE ,I DON'T SEE ANYTHING OBJECTIVE ABOUT SEXUALITY ,,NATURE MADE IT THAT WAY TO FORCE US TO CONTINUE PROCREATION ,,WHATEVER U ARE SUBJECTED TO IS WHAT U CAN NEVER AVOID I CALLED IT battle OF NATURE ,IS LIKE WHEN SOMEONE IS TRYING TO BEAT SLEEPING...
SEXUALITY CAN EQUALLY BE COMPARED TO EATING SEEMS ALL OF THEM ARE SUBJECTED.
BUT THE ONLY WAY TO CURB IMMORALITY OF SEXUALITY IS MAKING SURE U DO IT THE RIGHT WAY .
PUTTING EVERY EFFORT ON IR OWN TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY WILL ONLY HELP....

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by OkpanachiMax: 8:02pm On Apr 23, 2020
reigncalif1:
THE PROBLEM WITH SEXUALITY IS THAT ITS SUBJECTIVE,, FOR PEOPLE THATS SAID ITS ONLY URGE ,I DON'T SEE ANYTHING OBJECTIVE ABOUT SEXUALITY ,,NATURE MADE IT THAT WAY TO FORCE US TO CONTINUE PROCREATION ,,WHATEVER U ARE SUBJECTED TO IS WHAT U CAN NEVER AVOID I CALLED IT battle OF NATURE ,IS LIKE WHEN SOMEONE IS TRYING TO BEAT SLEEPING...
SEXUALITY CAN EQUALLY BE COMPARED TO EATING SEEMS ALL OF THEM ARE SUBJECTED.
BUT THE ONLY WAY TO CURB IMMORALITY OF SEXUALITY IS MAKING SURE U DO IT THE RIGHT WAY .
PUTTING EVERY EFFORT ON IR OWN TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY WILL ONLY HELP....
Good point there.

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Nobody: 10:14pm On Apr 23, 2020
OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.
Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things, also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience �


Feel free to add your own contributions
YOU ARE H.ORNY. YOU NEED SEX

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Nobody: 10:17pm On Apr 23, 2020
Instead of talking about how to curb political immorality in the country, you are talking about sex. Na for your domot dem dey do am?? Sex addicts in hiding

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Nobody: 10:23pm On Apr 23, 2020
People are so obsessed with sex In this country like sex is the real problem of this country. No wonder some pastors end up having the sex they so much condemn. (They'll later say they are fallen and cry for forgiveness lol ignoring other sins like gossip and condemning others etc. lol). That's for the pastors sef that have conscience enough not to defraud people of their hard-earned money.

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by OkpanachiMax: 1:55am On Apr 24, 2020
funnyboss:
People are so obsessed with sex In this country like sex is the real problem of this country. No wonder some pastors end up having the sex they so much condemn. (They'll later say they are fallen and cry for forgiveness lol ignoring other sins like gossip and condemning others etc. lol). That's for the pastors sef that have conscience enough not to defraud people of their hard-earned money.

It is such a shame this is coming from you sad

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by OkpanachiMax: 1:58am On Apr 24, 2020
funnyboss:
YOU ARE H.ORNY. YOU NEED SEX

Far from it, that's a disgusting thing to spit from your stupid mouth sad

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Nobody: 4:22am On Apr 24, 2020
OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.
Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things, also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience �


Feel free to add your own contributions

The Watchtower Organization (Jehovah's Witnesses) treated this issue some 46 years ago in a Watchtower magazine, a religionist and Church founder named "Kumuyi" misconstrued the publication and immediately told all his followers to go and trash their TV sets and began some scrutinizing of his female congregants regarding dress code.
Today only Jehovah's Witnesses are living up to the standard, the group granted with wisdom so they had a balance view of morals, entertainment, dressing and grooming.
Kumuyi and his church have returned to the TV in fact they now go for the latest technology, because he stole the idea that wasn't granted to him. Daniel 12:10

The world is filled with rebellious spirit beings (demons) today and they're fighting really hard to promote so many hurtful desires {Galatians 5:19-21} the only way out is to keep associating with God's people where we can be encouraged to love and fine works {Hebrew 10:24-25} by so doing we will continue to produce the fruitage of God's holy spirit {Matthew 7:16-18} and our faith will not die! James 2:26 compare to Luke 18:8

God bless you! smiley

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by invinzible1: 4:31am On Apr 24, 2020
Maximus69:


The Watchtower Organization (Jehovah's Witnesses) treated this issue some 46 years ago in a Watchtower magazine, a religionist and Church founder named "Kumuyi" misconstrued the publication and immediately told all his followers to go and trash their TV sets and began some scrutinizing of his female congregants regarding dress code.
Today only Jehovah's Witnesses are living up to the standard, the group granted with wisdom so they had a balance view of morals, entertainment, dressing and grooming.
Kumuyi and his church have returned to the TV in fact they now go for the latest technology, because he stole the idea that wasn't granted to him. Daniel 12:10

The world is filled with rebellious spirit beings (demons) today and they're fighting really hard to promote so many hurtful desires {Galatians 5:19-21} the only way out is to keep associating with God's people where we can be encouraged to love and fine works {Hebrew 10:24-25} by so doing we will continue to produce the fruitage of God's holy spirit {Matthew 7:16-18} and our faith will not die! James 2:26

God bless you! smiley

See how you are confident in your ignorance.. thinking you said something wise. Well people like you needs to be foolish for wisdom to be valued... Carried on with your foolish assertions that is not factual and truthful.

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by OkpanachiMax: 5:02am On Apr 24, 2020
Maximus69:


The Watchtower Organization (Jehovah's Witnesses) treated this issue some 46 years ago in a Watchtower magazine, a religionist and Church founder named "Kumuyi" misconstrued the publication and immediately told all his followers to go and trash their TV sets and began some scrutinizing of his female congregants regarding dress code.
Today only Jehovah's Witnesses are living up to the standard, the group granted with wisdom so they had a balance view of morals, entertainment, dressing and grooming.
Kumuyi and his church have returned to the TV in fact they now go for the latest technology, because he stole the idea that wasn't granted to him. Daniel 12:10

The world is filled with rebellious spirit beings (demons) today and they're fighting really hard to promote so many hurtful desires {Galatians 5:19-21} the only way out is to keep associating with God's people where we can be encouraged to love and fine works {Hebrew 10:24-25} by so doing we will continue to produce the fruitage of God's holy spirit {Matthew 7:16-18} and our faith will not die! James 2:26 compare to Luke 18:8

God bless you! smiley
Amen
Nice contribution

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Nobody: 7:42am On Apr 24, 2020
invinzible1:


See how you are confident in your ignorance.. thinking you said something wise. Well people like you needs to be foolish for wisdom to be valued... Carried on with your foolish assertions that is not factual and truthful.
Jesus taught us to be confident and back our assertions with God's word, in the midst of so many Jewish religionists claiming worshipers of the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, he said "i am the way the truth and the life, no one comes to the father except through me" {John 14:6} you shouldn't expect his true followers to simply mix with all other without standing out as unique! Matthew 10:22-25

God promised that none of all false worshipers will be able to refute our claims! Isaiah 54:17

Instead of pointing out exactly what is not true in my write-up, all you could do is to start picking offences even without trying to find out if it's true or false, is that how strong the charms of falsehood can blur your senses? undecided

So just as it happened to our Master you will be pained to the marrow and turned to rage {John 8:59} but that won't stop us from delivering the message of truth! Act 4:18-20, 5:28-29

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by invinzible1: 6:59pm On Apr 24, 2020
Maximus69:

Jesus taught us to be confident and back our assertions with God's word, in the midst of so many Jewish religionists claiming worshipers of the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, he said "i am the way the truth and the life, no one comes to the father except through me" {John 14:6} you shouldn't expect his true followers to simply mix with all other without standing out as unique! Matthew 10:22-25

God promised that none of all false worshipers will be able to refute our claims! Isaiah 54:17

Instead of pointing out exactly what is not true in my write-up, all you could do is to start picking offences even without trying to find out if it's true or false, is that how strong the charms of falsehood can blur your senses? undecided

So just as it happened to our Master you will be pained to the marrow and turned to rage {John 8:59} but that won't stop us from delivering the message of truth! Act 4:18-20, 5:28-29

Comprehension is what you lack I was thinking you are going to publish articles videos of where the religious leader of the Pentecostal church you mentioned asked his followers categorically not to use TV. you just come on the net to say what you just heard without hearing from the horses mouth.. woe unto you.
It's not by quoting Bible verse you not have an insight of

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Nobody: 8:39pm On Apr 24, 2020
invinzible1:


Comprehension is what you lack I was thinking you are going to publish articles videos of where the religious leader of the Pentecostal church you mentioned asked his followers categorically not to use TV. you just come on the net to say what you just heard without hearing from the horses mouth.. woe unto you.
It's not by quoting Bible verse you not have an insight of

See small pikin wey wan put mouth for wetin him no sabi! cheesy

For your information, Kumuyi no call him Church Pentecostal nah Gospel him call am.

Pentecostal can't worship conveniently with Deeperlife because ordinary hairdo of a Pentecostal from Christ Embassy makes a female subject of Hellfire before a Deeperlifer, not to talk of artificial polished nails, eyelashes, lipsticks, jewelries, trousers, slim-fits etc! cheesy


Go ask your Papa and Mama wey born you, before you begin chuk mouth for wetin pass you say which Church for this Nigeria condemn television! cheesy

So that them go tell you story wey happen before them born you! cheesy

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by OkpanachiMax: 9:22pm On Apr 24, 2020
Maximus69:


See small pikin wey wan put mouth for wetin him no sabi! cheesy

For your information, Kumuyi no call him Church Pentecostal nah Gospel him call am.

Pentecostal can't worship conveniently with Deeperlife because ordinary hairdo of a Pentecostal from Christ Embassy makes a female subject of Hellfire before a Deeperlifer, not to talk of artificial polished nails, eyelashes, lipsticks, jewelries, trousers, slim-fits etc! cheesy


Go ask your Papa and Mama wey born you, before you begin chuk mouth for wetin pass you say which Church for this Nigeria condemn television! cheesy

So that them go tell you story wey happen before them born you! cheesy
grin

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Kobojunkie: 9:29pm On Apr 24, 2020
OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.
Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things, also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience �
Feel free to add your own contributions

Curb Sexual immorality? You made you police over how another human being chooses to express himself/herself sexually, by the way? Your Traditional rules and Cultures have failed woefully in squashing people's innate freedoms, but rather than learn from that, you insist it is your place to "curb sexual immorality"?
@Poster, I suggest you reexamine yourself and your belief system. Where do you think you get this right to tell others how to live or not live their own lives? Why do you make it your business what they choose for their own existence when you have work still to do in yours? undecided undecided undecided
Where does this god-complex of yours come from? Questions for you to ponder!

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by paulGrundy(m): 10:40pm On Apr 24, 2020
the only solution is by encouraging early marriage.

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Nobody: 10:23am On Apr 25, 2020
invinzible1:



The foolishness of this foolish one is finally showing it empty skull.
Well I am not surprised because you where spiting fallacious statement from your gutters and quoting verses your will never have understanding, now old man our new generation Methuselah with nothing in your skull, even when you claim you have spent years in this world without nothing to show for it.
Take this little lesson go and study the history of Pentecostalism in the World, from there that it to Africa before finally bring it to Nigeria.
Stop disgracing your unborn generation with the high level of the stupidity in you old Methuselah

So wetin your parents tell you about Church wey condemn television? cheesy

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Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by invinzible1: 10:49am On Apr 25, 2020
Maximus69:


So wetin your parents tell you about Church wey condemn television? cheesy

Old Methuselah ask for parent.. lol you I believe even if they tell you you no fit comprehend... Las las you go Dy okay.
Old Methuselah of our time grin
Re: How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society by Nobody: 11:05am On Apr 25, 2020
invinzible1:


Old Methuselah ask for parent.. lol you I believe even if they tell you you no fit comprehend... Las las you go Dy okay.
Old Methuselah of our time grin

OK!

Next time no dey chuk mouth for wetin you no sabi! wink

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