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| My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 5:13pm On Feb 25, 2022*. Modified: 11:34am On Jul 28, 2023 |
Greetings To You all You choose to open this thread because you want to know about my future plans, which will also convey to you my true person. You may find whatever you read here repulsive, but it is the very important part of my own personal trait. It is about who I am and how I forever live my life. Yes, every one in this life is unique with different personality and lifestyle. You who is reading this have future plans. You have plans to go to school, plans to set up a business, plans to build a house, plans to buy a car, plans to get married and have children which is very good. So, I am sharing my future plans which is very good and healthy for my soul. MY LIFE STYLE Love is my now. Love is my future Love is my destiny. About My Plans: Humans beings are my future plans. My brain and soul is configured to think about humans beings 24/7. Each time we give help to our fellow humans, we share God's love to them. Love is expressed in giving and as love produce courage. Because love will always face trials or dangers for those they love. The love and affection of a woman cannot make me happy. Materials things, money, cars can not make me happy, except the works of charity is involve. The works of help and charity is the only thing that gladdens my soul. It is the only ministerial work I do that makes me happy. I have been praying to God about the desire of my very heart. (works of charity) I want to be or have a foundation that caters and cares about the well being of humans beings. Men, women and children. I will spend my entire life doing the works of charity, which is the only thing that gives me extreme joy. I pray a lot but I don't pray for material things, to have a car or a mansion. I pray to God because of myself and the people who are suffering. People are suffering because of too much selfishness and greed which I seem to hate. When I pray to God for success or finance, it is for the works of charity. There is a way you will love and care for humans being so much that, you will forget about yourself and material things. The works of charity is my heart greatest desire, and I am forever bond to do the works and ministry of help. The works of charity is what I will live for. The works of charity is what I will die for. I am living for it and I will die doing it. MY ACHIEVEMENT My accomplishment is on human beings and not material wealth. If you are readings this, whatever you have acquired in your life, they are all good. But I, myself don't see these things as an achievement. Money, cars, mansions, marriage, yes, we need them but I see these things as life attachment. MY FUTURE PLANS Note; I don't intend to create thread to attack Nigeria women. I only write about my true life stories because, I am a communicator. I love to share my stories ↓ 1. The Woman With A Baby I traveled to my home city to fix something. As I pass by, I decided to branch the market to buy some fish as things is a bit cheaper in my home city. Yes, people still sell at 8:00pm even though it was night time. After buying, I was about to take my leave, I then heard the tender voice of a woman, saying, buy your N100 menthol balm. I stopped and look at my right, there she was, a woman carrying a baby, and at the same time selling hot menthol balm. I was lost in my thought as I stare at the innocent baby she was carrying. O God, I felt love towards the baby that saturate towards the mother as well. As I stop and stand in her front, many thought began to race through my mind. She is a nursing mother, why is she still selling at the market at this time of the night.? As a nursing mother, she was suppose to be at home resting? I don't even like what she was selling because people hardly buy such things How can she take good care of her baby with this little thing she sells?. I did not even look at the face of the woman but focus my whole attention on the baby she was carrying. I know I will never say NO to that beautiful girl child she was carrying on her back. I walk away from her as an unhappy man When I got home, I began to think about the woman and her baby for 3 consecutive days. I felt that, I must be quick and not lost this woman and her baby. No, I can't loss this woman I said to myself. I need her baby in my life. I was constantly thinking about her and the child. Her memory began to torment my soul. To have peace of mind, I needed to go and look for her. I need to look for her I must search for her It was such that, I traveled back to my home city to look for her. I started looking for her all over the market and it took me two weeks to finally see her. O God, thank you I found her, I blurted in my heart. I was so happy to see her again. I walk straight to her, at first, she thought I wanted to buy hot menthol balm from her. I told her I have been looking for you for the last two weeks. Why, she asked me? Because I did like to help you by giving you money to trade. I told her to trust me and look unto Almighty God. I made my genuine intention known to her and put her at ease. She smiled at me as she seem very happy and hopeful that a strange man cares about her well being. O God, I love this woman. I told her, I did like to meet your husband as swell just to remove her fears or put her more at ease. She gave me her phone contact and also her house address. I rest assure her, you will not see me for a while but I will surely come back for you and your beautiful baby. She is my future plan. I could see in her countenance. She was very happy and full of hope again as I walk away. It has been 4 months, and I have been praying to God towards her. I keep asking God to give me the opportunity to touch her life through financial help and love. I want to help her for the sake of her baby. I will help her because I genuinely cares about her well being. I am asking God to use me to help her. I am asking God to use me to make her life beautiful. May God protect her and keep the baby safe, Amen. ----- 2. The Wood Cutter The month of November 2020, I moved to a new town. There I saw a man that always goes to the bush to cut fire wood. I keep seeing this elderly man pass by and something is not quite right from his countenance. Each time I look at him, I see he is heavily suffering. This man has been suffering all his life, and nobody seem to cares about him. Everyone has forgotten him. No one seem to cares and acknowledge him I knew that, suffering has made this man to look more older than his age. Anytime I look at him, I could feel as if his spirit and soul will soon depart from his body. Unless if God put an end to his suffering. There is a way a person will suffer to the point where their body organs will begin to fail. Each time I see this man, all I feel for him is love and kindness towards him. I know I can never abandoned such a suffering elderly man. Each time I remember him, I feel so much pain. When I knew It was time for me to move out from the town, I secretly followed the elderly man just to know where he live. I walk very slow so he won't notice I was tracking him just to know where he live. I knew I will come back for him. I badly want this man to be in my life. I will be loyal to him. I want to take good care of him. I want to help him. I will surely help him because he deserve to be love and be cared for. He doesn't need to work anymore because he has seen enough suffering. I will and can work for him just to give him the life he deserve. He will find joy again. I knew the devils has place this man to bondage of poverty and suffering, and I am willing to help and care for this man. He is my great future plan. I am praying to God over him. I have been asking God to protect and keep him alive in good health. O God, help me for the sake of your children I prays to Him. God let me this man have ease from his suffering I says unto God - The Blessed Giver of good things. May God keep him safe. Amen. ---- 3. The Wheel Barrow Pusher I went to the market to buy some things and I saw a man I know years back. He was once a pastor and he has been pushing wheel barrow for more than 17 years or so. I look at him and I felt love towards him. Many thought began to race through my mind What a good man I said to myself. He is, in his 40's now with no wife and children. How long will this man keep pushing wheel barrow ? What if he is my own blood brother? Will I allow him to push wheel barrow.? Will I be happy about his status ? He is not married because of poverty. I felt I must try to help him. I know I needed to help him like my own blood brother. I cannot abandoned this man. I will be loyal to him. I need this man in my life. I spoke with him about his well being and I could see hope on his countenance. He told me he can remember he was always with some group of boys watching football years back. I told him I was among those boys 17 years ago. I told him not to worry about marriage, but press on. My words lifted his spirit and lightens his tired heart. He seem very happy as he gave me his contact and home address. I told him I will never leave or abandoned him. I will keep my promised to him .. May God keep him safe, Amen. --- 5. The Man I Debate With I met him in a betshop where I went to charge my phone. I had a debate with him as I gave him the history of Jet Li. I never knew he live not far from me. That debate made me to acknowledge and take note of him. O God, I thank you for that debate. Each time he passes by my abode, I noticed that, some things are not OK with him. His health has deteriorated due to continuous hunger; heavy suffering with no one to help him. I later found out that, he has no home of his own but squat somewhere just to lay his head. His life always remind me that, good men suffers a lot. I know I can never abandoned such a man who is suffering and yet in need of brotherly help and love. He is a fallen brother who needed a hands to lift him up. Life experience has thought me to always pay attention and give help to my fellow men in great need. Do unto others as you want others to do unto you. Love and help one another. He has no wife or children. I know I need to give him a helping hand, like trying to raise a fallen brother. He is my forever future plan. I am praying for God to strengthen this man and keep him safe. The list is up to 25 persons, but I decide to stop here. There are even some nairaland users who have cried out for help. O, my heart and prayers goes out to them. I desire from God to restore me and use me to help and touch their life. SPECIAL PRAYERS All the personalities I mentioned above in stories, I have been praying about them and towards them. They are always in my heart, mind and prayers. The people I mention above, If God help me to bring changes to their life, they will go on their kneels and thank the Almighty God. And I myself will be filled with Joy over them. The end. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 5:14pm On Feb 25, 2022*. Modified: 4:57pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Many years ago, I do hear spiritual voices that says to me, there are treasures all around you, everywhere you go. I respond, what treasures? The spiritual voice reply; Look at all the humans all around you, everywhere you go, they are all treasures. Love and serve them. Me; OK. I will hear strange spiritual voice that says to me, there are opportunities all around you. Do not waste opportunities, but make use of them. I asked; how? The spiritual voice; focus your attention and fix your eyes on humans beings. Give virtue to all humans; love all humans, help all humans; serve and invest on humans beings. Me; OK. Truely, when I look all around me, I see treasures all around me. I see a lot and lot of opportunities. I began to see what others don't see. I began to see how many people keep wasting away their opportunities. They waste opportunities because they failed to walk in love. They failed to understand that God is love. In love, God created human beings in his own image, to love him - the creator with all our heart and soul and to love one another. But because of sin and lust, we love created material things. We have forgotten Gods original love, the only genuine love, which is never for self-seeking. We now set our goals and objectives on pleasure, wealth or fame. But only those who have set their life goals to love both God and his man will have fulfilment in this life |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 5:15pm On Feb 25, 2022*. Modified: 4:53pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
When you take the path of love, then you will face the greatest trials and the greatest dangers. To walk this path, you will need the greatest courage. So try as much as you can to respond to every unkind situation with Gods love and meekness. In this way, you will always triumph over every trials. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by donbachi(m): 5:41pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
So help you GOD! |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 6:37pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
donbachi:Amen My brother. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 11:39pm On Feb 25, 2022*. Modified: 4:54pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Love is sincere, kind, pleasant and delightful. Love is strong, patient, faithful and long-suffering. Love is never self-seeking, for in whatever a person seeks himself there he falls from love. Love is humble and upright. It is neither soft nor light, nor intent upon vain things. Love is subject and obedient to superiors. It is mean and contemptible in its own eyes, devoted and thankful to God; always trusting and hoping in Him even when he is distasteful. For there is no living in love without sorrow. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 11:39am On Feb 26, 2022*. Modified: 9:55pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
All the men and women on my list are suffering. I just cannot live in this life without me trying to help them to rise again. I think about them a everyday and their memory gives me emotional torment. I will not be at ease with myself without achieving my target over them. I will not have rest until I see transition in their life. Only death can stop me not to be faithful to my plans or keep to my word. So help me God. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 11:45am On Feb 26, 2022 |
There is too much fun in doing the works of charity. I see it as my fun center |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by sageb: 6:28pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
That's nice |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Mordson: 11:21pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Okay. Good for you. Work hard to become rich so you can assist all these people you listed. I really don't know your motive for posting it here. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 3:50am On Feb 27, 2022*. Modified: 5:05am On Feb 27, 2022 |
Mordson:Yes, persistence tenansity is always part of my life. I will pray to Almighty God to bless the works of my hands. I also don't know if you believe in spiritality or devils, but I post it here because many nairaland folks think I am insane. They call me names and attack me because of my true life experience. They love to attack what they them self cannot comprehend. I post it here because I am passing a message to them that, selfishness and greed has truly blinded them. I also want few readers to know a litte about the unknown me. They also thinks that, the devils will only try to stop their success, or stop them because they want to build a house, buy a car or get married. They forget that, Satan will wage war against every adversary. Trust me, Satan will hunt whoever that wants to take this part in God's original love. Once you are a vessel of God, you become a heavy target of the devil. Most of the problems I have had in my life comes as a result of my love for humanity. The richer I did become, the more people I will able free from bondage to poverty. As a result the devils sees me as a bigger threat that is needed to be remove from this earth. Africa - nigeria is what it is today because of extreme selfishness - that rooted greed which breed corruption. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 5:12am On Feb 27, 2022 |
Without charity our external work is of no value, but anything we do in charity, be it so small, is entirely fruitful because God weighs the love with which a man acts rather than the deed itself. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 5:16am On Feb 27, 2022*. Modified: 9:56pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
How can God give you more if God has already given you so much that you never gave out to those in need? |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 5:20am On Feb 27, 2022 |
Love does not require appreciation. Love simply does what it can to help others. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by ahnie: 5:27am On Feb 27, 2022 |
May all your expectations be met so you can touch as many lives as possible. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Nobody: 5:50pm On Apr 03, 2022*. Modified: 5:07am On Apr 06, 2022 |
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| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 5:11pm On Apr 06, 2022*. Modified: 11:59pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky:Cloudy. I saw your comment, why did you remove it ? My none response does not mean I was ignoring you. You are my special gal, so I am not ignoring you. You should know, you will always be in my heart. Take and accept this e ❀Flower |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Nobody: 12:40am On Apr 07, 2022*. Modified: 2:29am On Apr 07, 2022 |
Lostchild:Lol . Thanks for the flower . How're you doing and how's life treating you, Lc? ![]() |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 4:34pm On Apr 07, 2022*. Modified: 11:31pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky:Cloudy I am gl dAlways remember; You are that special gal that likes and respect me for the Man I really am. As for your question, I am managing. Life sometimes throws us many curves, but no matter how bad it may be, I must keep on walking. I also keep having the feeling of loneliness, the longings for someone to confide with and be held. I miss the companionship and warm hugs of a good woman. I need a good woman that will make me feel whole again. Don't hesitate to email me over anything you want to talk about. You will always be in my heart |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by CountVersailles(f): 8:37pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
When Nigerians do philanthropic work, it has to be because a voice is muttering in their head. Never because they actually felt it or thought it was important, bar God or church. Bill Gates is there giving millions of dollars away each year, but he's not making cring posts about voices and God. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 11:10pm On Apr 07, 2022*. Modified: 11:17am On Apr 08, 2022 |
KO CountVersailles:Mr Man What concern my affairs with Bill Gate affairs? Me and bill Gate get the same destiny? But if I may ask you, who is bill gate trusting his charity funds to? You this block head, since you wallow in ignorance just keep your dirty mouth SHUT. |
| Re: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op): 1:19pm On May 05, 2022*. Modified: 1:59pm On May 05, 2022 |
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