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Ohyinyeah:
�‍♂️ �‍♂️ MEN �‍♂️ �‍♂️

You see almost 80% of men who suffer loneliness and rejection at old age today is as the result of the wickedness meted on their wives in the past , she will endure you at young age because of her kids but once they grow up , she releases her long awaited revenge , she goes for Omugwo and lives you at home and sometimes most women , especially the ones that go to their kids abroad don’t usually come back and woe betide you if those kids saw you maltreat their mum . They will keep their mum with them and be sending you money for upkeep.

One of the major things that takes your wife away from you is cheating. Umu Nwanyi has grown thick skin towards their hubby abuses, meanwhile Nwoke will be dancing that he has put her in her place ����, Nna listen to this ;you are living with wounded lioness and you need serious prayers for Divine intervention and please thread with serious caution while you wait for that divine intervention .

So many women today are no more having sexual relationships with their husband anymore because they don't want to die of diseases, they just issue you a certificate of cheating (COC ��) , I guess it is a degree honor��,And you they issued the degree is happy, Chaiii Ekwensu egwugo gi Chandum!!,
now my question is this , who will contact all sorts of Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD), HIV, AIDS etc
Nna another question I have for you is this , how long will you flirt with women??.

Nna you see eeeh,A time will come, when you cannot climb a woman ,even if she is naked before you, some men are already on this table even at this their young age�‍♀️ .

Nna a time will come when you cannot drive yourself in that latest car,�‍♀️

Nna a time comes when you cannot go to club because Anuta agbogho, etufuo agadi �‍♀️�‍♀️.

Nna a time comes when you prefer to wear a simple T-shirt than that designers in Your closet because ego maintenance adirozi�‍♀️�‍♀️.

Nna a time might come when you just want to be at home watching TV with your wife, kids or grand kids and by then your wife’s love and care has travelled to Malaysia or Kuala Lumpu ebe ife na eme �‍♀️�‍♀️.

Nna a time will come when things that matters now become so tasteless for you and those your ladies you preferred over your wife agago iru with other men .

Nna a time will come when that money that you used to intimidate your wife and boxed her to a corner and did all the cheating , can't buy you happiness and at this time Nwanne all you need is to have your loved ones around you ,Mana you know what ? This is the time when most women remember all you did to them.

Nwannem I am not here to tell you to stop cheating or don’t cheat , you can continue tasting different soups INUGO. Afterall many of you said that Variety is the spice of life !!

A woman never forgets cheating ,So Jisike and be blabbing of how you will deal with your wife if she cheats on you , you should also not cheat on her .

So many of you will not like this post and so many will come here and say ‘what of women who cheat ‘, nwanne I am not here to discuss but if you like you can read the post and interpret it up side down na you sabi �‍♀️��.

When a man refused to reciprocate your love as his wife ,Don't kill yourself just transfer the love to your children and sit down to wait for tomorrow, because tomorrow must surly come .

Please you can correct all the grammatical error yourself

Nekwanu mic � jide .

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Aganju849:
Food for the feminazis

kay9:
I personally think the topic itself is flawed. Being treated "bad" in old age is not restricted to men. In fact, more women actually suffer this than men. Go to any village - ANY village at all - and check for yourself. I think the reason for the false impression that men suffer it more is because of our society in this part of the world - men are identified with power, so when the frailty that comes with old age starts,
it seems like a bigger downfall than when compared with women.

Yes, there are plenty stories of men who weren't kind to their families being abandoned at old age. But there are also plenty stories also of women being treated the same. In other words, please take that gender-biased tale and shove it somewhere the sun don't shine.

As for tales of women jetting off to live with their grown children while the man stays back alone, the truth is not many men will accept to go and live under their child's roof. Both of my grandfathers refused to do so. Maybe for a few weeks, yeah, but leaving your own house to go live permanently with a child you raised because you are now old? We're simply not wired like that. So yes, we know madam is probably living it up with the kids, but it's ok, she's welcome to it. So yes - if you are a man, by all means treat your loved ones well, but don't make the mistake of expecting to rely on them in old age. Make plans for yourself, and live out your years in comfort.

ImaIma1:
Too much igbo for different audience.

I remember like 2yrs back, a friend's babe had to travel to the village to take care of her dad who had recently gone blind. Her mum was alive but the father had sent the mum away and married a younger wife. The younger wife left the man and he had to fall back on his children.

The babe was advised to go back to Lagos and live her life and not waste it caring for the father in the village. The children had to come together to pay someone to care for him.

On the other hand, my mum and all of us were there for my dad for 7yrs of stroke before he passed. He was a typical family man. Took my mum out on company dinners, outings, etc. She sacrificed her time and health for 7yrs for him.

So I can relate. Consequences are waiting in front.

MrHighSea:
The evil that men do lives with them.

Many men like me won't go and live with their kids but They Must Get the Invitation.

We need money, but everything is not money.

I've heard guys in late 30s complain, you've not seen or spoken to your dad in 3 years. When you eventually met, after 30 seconds, awkwardness follows. nothing to discuss. no bond.

Let's just not make babies, sons and daughters, Let's create friendships.

Arsenate:
This can't be stated enough.

Men, save; invest for your old selves. Higher chances you will be abandoned by the same people you made sacrifices for in your youth. Worse still, you'll be blamed for that. You'll be accused of failing to "bond" with your kids, which, let's face it, is a luxury most men can't afford with the harsh economic realities.

Ohyinyeah:
�‍♂️ �‍♂️ MEN �‍♂️ �‍♂️

You see almost 80% of men who suffer loneliness and rejection at old age today is as the result of the wickedness meted on their wives in the past , she will endure you at young age because of her kids but once they grow up , she releases her long awaited revenge , she goes for Omugwo and lives you at home and sometimes most women , especially the ones that go to their kids abroad don’t usually come back and woe betide you if those kids saw you maltreat their mum . They will keep their mum with them and be sending you money for upkeep.

One of the major things that takes your wife away from you is cheating. Umu Nwanyi has grown thick skin towards their hubby abuses, meanwhile Nwoke will be dancing that he has put her in her place ����, Nna listen to this ;you are living with wounded lioness and you need serious prayers for Divine intervention and please thread with serious caution while you wait for that divine intervention .

So many women today are no more having sexual relationships with their husband anymore because they don't want to die of diseases, they just issue you a certificate of cheating (COC ��) , I guess it is a degree honor��,And you they issued the degree is happy, Chaiii Ekwensu egwugo gi Chandum!!,
now my question is this , who will contact all sorts of Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD), HIV, AIDS etc
Nna another question I have for you is this , how long will you flirt with women??.

Nna you see eeeh,A time will come, when you cannot climb a woman ,even if she is naked before you, some men are already on this table even at this their young age�‍♀️ .

Nna a time will come when you cannot drive yourself in that latest car,�‍♀️

Nna a time comes when you cannot go to club because Anuta agbogho, etufuo agadi �‍♀️�‍♀️.

Nna a time comes when you prefer to wear a simple T-shirt than that designers in Your closet because ego maintenance adirozi�‍♀️�‍♀️.

Nna a time might come when you just want to be at home watching TV with your wife, kids or grand kids and by then your wife’s love and care has travelled to Malaysia or Kuala Lumpu ebe ife na eme �‍♀️�‍♀️.

Nna a time will come when things that matters now become so tasteless for you and those your ladies you preferred over your wife agago iru with other men .

Nna a time will come when that money that you used to intimidate your wife and boxed her to a corner and did all the cheating , can't buy you happiness and at this time Nwanne all you need is to have your loved ones around you ,Mana you know what ? This is the time when most women remember all you did to them.

Nwannem I am not here to tell you to stop cheating or don’t cheat , you can continue tasting different soups INUGO. Afterall many of you said that Variety is the spice of life !!

A woman never forgets cheating ,So Jisike and be blabbing of how you will deal with your wife if she cheats on you , you should also not cheat on her .

So many of you will not like this post and so many will come here and say ‘what of women who cheat ‘, nwanne I am not here to discuss but if you like you can read the post and interpret it up side down na you sabi �‍♀️��.

When a man refused to reciprocate your love as his wife ,Don't kill yourself just transfer the love to your children and sit down to wait for tomorrow, because tomorrow must surly come .

Please you can correct all the grammatical error yourself

Nekwanu mic � jide .

�‍♂️�‍♂️�‍♂️�‍♂️

MrHighSea:
The evil that men do lives with them.

Many men like me won't go and live with their kids but They Must Get the Invitation.

We need money, but everything is not money.

I've heard guys in late 30s complain, you've not seen or spoken to your dad in 3 years. When you eventually met, after 30 seconds, awkwardness follows. nothing to discuss. no bond.

Let's just not make babies, sons and daughters, Let's create friendships.

Oyindamolah:
While it’s true that many fathers have failed to build close relationships with their children, we must also acknowledge that parenting is a two-way street—especially as children grow into adults. The statement "They Must Get the Invitation" places full responsibility on the children to reach out, ignoring that in most cases, it was the parent who created the emotional distance in the first place. Expecting an "invitation" from the very people you were supposed to nurture can come across as entitlement, not accountability.

Yes, the evil that men do may live with them, but so do the consequences of absence and emotional unavailability. Those consequences aren’t always evil—they're often silence, distance, and emotional disconnect.

The awkwardness you mention in father-child reunions after years of no contact is not just about time passed—it's about trust lost, love unproven, and wounds unhealed. You can't expect a bond where no foundation was laid.

And while money isn’t everything, emotional presence is. Some fathers hide behind work or financial provision as their form of love, but children, especially sons and daughters, need more than that. They need their fathers to show up—in joy, in pain, in play, and in discipline.

You’re right: let’s not just make babies. But the goal shouldn’t just be to “create friendships.” Parent-child relationships are unique. They begin with responsibility, not equality. Friendship may grow later, but it must be built on the foundation of consistent love, guidance, and effort—especially from the parent.