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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Sassy256(f): 8:41am On Mar 17, 2022
NeroPapas:


Lmao grin grin grin see Person wey dey find solution dey already lay curse on people wey suppose help her with suggestions.. Naso Una Dey Do For Here??

Abeg make I face my front.. Na the few people wey Don engage you by pampering you naim I blame! Are you a source of anyone's peace here? Oshi radarada... I see why the man who put you in the predicament left you. Now it's the innocent unfortunate man who will carry the cross.. A pity!!!
Uncle, try no dey too harsh. Everyone makes mistakes so make we try to dey correct in love
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by NeroPapas(m): 8:43am On Mar 17, 2022
Sassy256:

Uncle, try no dey too harsh. Everyone make mistakes so make we try to dey correct in love

I no harsh oo I talk my mind ni. You want people to suggest solution yet you're already cursing people's peace... Why that one dey happen?

I'm pretty sure she hasn't even told the new man the matter on ground! Let her do that first and her finding peace and solution will surface.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by formidablefunmi(f): 8:55am On Mar 17, 2022
Abeg make I face my front.. Na the few people wey Don engage you by pampering you naim I blame! Are you a source of anyone's peace here? Oshi radarada... I see why the man who put you in the predicament left you. Now it's the innocent unfortunate man who will carry the cross.. A pity!!! [/quote].




I was shocked at the curses. Some women won't cease to amaze me.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Trippleblessing(f): 8:55am On Mar 17, 2022
NeroPapas:


Lmao grin grin grin see Person wey dey find solution dey already lay curse on people wey suppose help her with suggestions.. Naso Una Dey Do For Here??

Abeg make I face my front.. Na the few people wey Don engage you by pampering you naim I blame! Are you a source of anyone's peace here? Oshi radarada... I see why the man who put you in the predicament left you. Now it's the innocent unfortunate man who will carry the cross.. A pity!!!


You could have just overlook her post.
You are man, and when it comes to TTC we see it differently.
A woman is made to run against her biological clock, even though some issues are traced to the man.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Richwifey: 9:11am On Mar 17, 2022
NeroPapas:


Lmao grin grin grin see Person wey dey find solution dey already lay curse on people wey suppose help her with suggestions.. Naso Una Dey Do For Here??

Abeg make I face my front.. Na the few people wey Don engage you by pampering you naim I blame! Are you a source of anyone's peace here? Oshi radarada... I see why the man who put you in the predicament left you. Now it's the innocent unfortunate man who will carry the cross.. A pity!!!

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by sugah: 10:12am On Mar 17, 2022
Starryleeyah01:


Thank you Soo much ma'am
I was actually diagonis with blocked fallopian tube, I mean the two are actually block,
I had abortion In 2016 only to end up bleeading for seven months I went to hospital almost 8times to clear retain product,each time I go to hospital they must say theirs retain product, at a point I stop going,cus each time I go they always insert cannula from the smallest to the biggest,long story short I bleed for 7month,infact I almost died from it,since den I av been trying to conceive to no avail,maybe theirs a problem from all the stuffs they are inserting to drain out all my retain product,and I remembered vividly I never used any form of antibiotics during those bleesing days. Till it finally stopped bit self,since then I av been ttc, it took this long bcus of my non chalant attitude,I never bothered for once,but now it's eating me up,my first husband left me for this reason of infertility and he was the one I aborted for den,we were both serving den,NYSC, so we felt it's not yet time to av a child,that was the reason for the abortion,we got engaged after engagement till now no preg, we separated last year July due to my inability to conciev... Now I have found another man,I am scared of taking the relationship to the next stage,cus I know I am not sure of my fertility status
And I remembered back dem with my ex,anytime we have fun the sperm leaks out with immediate effect.


If any one tries to judge me,the person will never know peace, this is a platform of encouragement, and I am not saying what I did was good,afterall I am facing the bront now... So please shove ur critism in the bin

You already know this forum is supposed to be a judgement free safe space/support group for people going through the very difficult phase of trying to conceive. You should also know that Nigerians generally lack empathy so people will still judge you and there's nothing you can do about it.
The problem with your guns blazing "curse" approach is you've given the trolls amour to quote you and try to get to you. In all the years ive been on this group, you aren't the first to openly acknowledge having an abortion but so far you're the only one ive seen trolls openly judge.
Hopefully you see my message before replying him, dont reply him. Ignore the post. His input doesnt solve the issues that needs to be solved.


First things first, make peace with yourself and whichever higher power you believe in.

Go see a doctor and run comprehensive tests. HSG, Hormonal profile, maybe a laparoscopy to check health of the reproductive organs.
Did your ex do a SFA in the period you were trying to conceive? The fact that he impregnated you before doesnt mean his sperm count cant reduce.

Anyways, if after doing all the tests (including an SFA for your partner) and its determined there's an issue, id advice you be forthcoming with your partner. If he is truly meant for you he'd stay and you guys will seek other means of conceiving. IVF, surrogacy etc.

Also, be more intentional about your health.
All the best.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by giftfromGod(f): 12:09pm On Mar 17, 2022
Let me confess my sins.
so i went to a near by pharmacy around my area. Told them to give me a very active pain relieve drugs that i can use ahead for my HSG appointment few days time. so i was given ALGIC P(500g). please mamas, do not read and ignore, how safe am I with this drug?
note: i was told not to eat anything on the day of the HSG, Till after the procedure. Am so scare of this HSG even though i have never done it in the past, but all what have read and what people do talked about it , gives me headache
My appointment is schedule for day 10 of menses.
Thanks in advance.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Gellyz: 12:49pm On Mar 17, 2022
I don't think you need a strong pain relief. I have done hsg and it's not so bad.

giftfromGod:
Let me confess my sins.
so i went to a near by pharmacy around my area. Told them to give me a very active pain relieve drugs that i can use ahead for my HSG appointment few days time. so i was given ALGIC P(500g). please mamas, do not read and ignore, how safe am I with this drug?
note: i was told not to eat anything on the day of the HSG, Till after the procedure. Am so scare of this HSG even though i have never done it in the past, but all what have read and what people do talked about it , gives me headache
My appointment is schedule for day 10 of menses.
Thanks in advance.


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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by giftfromGod(f): 1:13pm On Mar 17, 2022
Gellyz:
I don't think you need a strong pain relief. I have done hsg and it's not so bad.

You just gave me hope with this post of yours. have been having sleepless night for like two days now all in the name of HSG.
considering either of this two lab, Afriglobal or A J RAPHA.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Starryleeyah01(f): 2:48pm On Mar 17, 2022
We all shouldn't forget to add fasting and prayer to the recipes.



I smell hundreds of testimonies in this platform already.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by waistbead: 3:38pm On Mar 17, 2022
NeroPapas:


Lmao grin grin grin see Person wey dey find solution dey already lay curse on people wey suppose help her with suggestions.. Naso Una Dey Do For Here??

Abeg make I face my front.. Na the few people wey Don engage you by pampering you naim I blame! Are you a source of anyone's peace here? Oshi radarada... I see why the man who put you in the predicament left you. Now it's the innocent unfortunate man who will carry the cross.. A pity!!!


Wao! Just wao!! I can't believe this is coming from someone that has tasted and know what it means TTC before God blessed his DW

Neropapas like serioisly this is so low of you.

TTC na bastard

Baby dust to everyone.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by NeroPapas(m): 3:40pm On Mar 17, 2022
Trippleblessing:



You could have just overlook her post.
You are man, and when it comes to TTC we see it differently.
A woman is made to run against her biological clock, even though some issues are traced to the man.

So because I be man mean say I go keep quiet and not straighten things?? So all of you saw the curse injunction but look away cos she's a woman.. I laugh grin grin
Should I tell you about our TTC journey or ignore because I'm a man and and leave everything to only the woman to do?? Abegi make everybody carry their cross plus her curse on people's peace is just an empty utterance. Make una dey pet her dey suggest solution for her dey go!

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Jureal(f): 3:44pm On Mar 17, 2022
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by NeroPapas(m): 3:44pm On Mar 17, 2022
waistbead:



Wao! Just wao!! I can't believe this is coming from someone that has tasted and know what it means TTC before God blessed his DW

Neropapas like serioisly this is so low of you.

TTC na bastard

Baby dust to everyone.

Yesso baby dust to everyone. In my case I realised I was the one with issue. I only came here to suggest and advised on what worked for me!

I did not curse anyone's peace because I feel I might be laughed at!
Why would someone say what's wrong with them and curse people's peace because she perceived there might be not too cool response from some people? Abeg I don talk my own.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Trippleblessing(f): 3:46pm On Mar 17, 2022
NeroPapas:


So because I be man mean say I go keep quiet and not straighten things?? So all of you saw the curse injunction but look away cos she's a woman.. I laugh grin grin
Should I tell you about our TTC journey or ignore because I'm a man and and leave everything to only the woman to do?? Abegi make everybody carry their cross plus her curse on people's peace is just an empty utterance. Make una dey pet her dey suggest solution for her dey go!

Again, you could have just kept quiet, allow us pet her, we are doing that with none of your energy.

Guess what? No 2 TTC Journey are the same.

I won't reply your quote nor mention again.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Inikay: 3:48pm On Mar 17, 2022
NeroPapas:


Yesso baby dust to everyone. In my case I realised I was the one with issue. I only came here to suggest and advised on what worked for me!

I did not curse anyone's peace because I feel I might be laughed at!
Why would someone say what's wrong with them and curse people's peace because she perceived there might be not too cool response from some people? Abeg I don talk my own.

OGA Please rest in Jesus name.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by NeroPapas(m): 3:49pm On Mar 17, 2022
Trippleblessing:


Again, you could have just kept quiet, allow us pet her, we are doing that with none of your energy.

Guess what? No 2 TTC Journey are the same.

I won't reply your quote nor mention again.
Please don't reply again and I won't since you didn't see the only the I pointed out!

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mummykyrti(f): 3:50pm On Mar 17, 2022
Trippleblessing:


Again, you could have just kept quiet, allow us pet her, we are doing that with none of your energy.

Guess what? No 2 TTC Journey are the same.

I won't reply your quote nor mention again.
but honestly her statement of cursing was extremely wrong, lets not use ttc or emotional stress as a yardstick to accept bad behavior… it was totally uncalled for

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by NeroPapas(m): 3:50pm On Mar 17, 2022
Inikay:


OGA Please rest in Jesus name.

grin grin grin grin shouldn't we all?? Na women thread make una carry go since una don gree make dem curse una peace. Bye!

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by NeroPapas(m): 3:51pm On Mar 17, 2022
mummykyrti:
but honestly her statement of cursing was extremely wrong, lets not use ttc or emotional stress as a yardstick to accept bad behavior… it was totally uncalled for


thank you so much. That's all I pointed out. Since the won't condemn it.. Let's drop the issue

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Sugies: 3:54pm On Mar 17, 2022
Hello mamas, I did this scan yesterday, but I don’t see egg white mucus . What are my chances

Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mummykyrti(f): 3:58pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sugies:
Hello mamas, I did this scan yesterday, but I don’t see egg white mucus . What are my chances
the eggs aren’t mature yet ma, the sonographer said to repeat scan in 2days

As for egg white, it’s not a must to see it… just keep having sex
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mirob(f): 4:32pm On Mar 17, 2022
Mommdav:


FSH is within normal range/okay but close to border (close to being high)
LH is okay
Prolactin is above normal range/not okay. So you will need to work on bringing it down. Dostinex works fine.

While at it, work on egg quality. High FSH or elivated FSH signals low ovarian reserve. Ubiqunol and D3 will be an added advantage.


Thanks so much, please mama, what dosage of Dostinex because the internet is confusing me.I heard alligator pepper also bring down high prolactin level, pls can I combine the Dostinex and the alligator pepper or ewedu therapy. Any side effect?
Thanks once again

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Sugargirl547: 4:33pm On Mar 17, 2022
[quote author=waistbead post=111121041]

Wee you keep qwayet..... Learn to call a spade a spade and not a garden Bleep

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by waistbead: 4:41pm On Mar 17, 2022
[quote author=Sugargirl547 post=111121311][/quote]



Okay you've been noticed you can swerve now.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by sugah: 6:08pm On Mar 17, 2022
NeroPapas:


Yesso baby dust to everyone. In my case I realised I was the one with issue. I only came here to suggest and advised on what worked for me!

I did not curse anyone's peace because I feel I might be laughed at!
Why would someone say what's wrong with them and curse people's peace because she perceived there might be not too cool response from some people? Abeg I don talk my own.
You can correct somebody without bringing down their countenance. What exactly is the essence of your last statement in your reply to her? You are a father now, act like one. There'd be times when your children will behave badly and test your patience, start learning to correct in love.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by sugah: 6:13pm On Mar 17, 2022
Jureal:
Good day mama's pls I need your inputs. Thank you in advance

Good evening all, I did fibroid surgery 20 days ago, recuperating at home. The doctor says that we can resume sex 6weeks post surgery and start ttc after 6months. He also said we should come for family planning as soon as we resume sex to avoid pregnancy before the 6mths period of healing. Pls has anyone experience this? Is it safe?
I was also told to wait 6weeks and 6 months for sex and pregnancy respectively..but i wasnt asked to do family planning.
What type is the doctor suggesting? Since its just 6months wouldnt condoms be just ok? Pls find out from your doctor what type he wants to give. Family planning methods are generally safe.

Or maybe he wants to give combination pill that'll also help you ovulate when youre ready.
Do not be scared.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Mommdav(f): 9:23pm On Mar 17, 2022
Thank you @waistbead, @sugar, @tripleblessing God bless you so much.

TTC is never a journey you wish your enemy. Please always try not to judge a TTC woman. Sometimes we tend to forget what it is to TTC after receiving our testimony. Oppression makes a wise man mad, the Bible says. When you are going through the Pain of TTC you do what you naturally will not do or say.

Please focus on how to help and not to find fault in her message, afterall she didn't mention anyone's name. She only said 'if'.

Papa na so you get energy? Abeg leave this women go attend to your wife and baby. "If God count iniquity who will stand?" Nobody is perfect. Some people way dey judge wetin them do in the past way God forgive them pass this mama own.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Mommdav(f): 9:30pm On Mar 17, 2022
mirob:


Thanks so much, please mama, what dosage of Dostinex because the internet is confusing me.I heard alligator pepper also bring down high prolactin level, pls can I combine the Dostinex and the alligator pepper or ewedu therapy. Any side effect?
Thanks once again

Half of 0.5mg twice a week. Or 0.5 ones a week
Yes love, you can try ewedu therapy. It works too. Cabbage juice too. No side effects that I know of.

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