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Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 6:49pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
bukatyne:Lol........I actually don't speak Yoruba. I am from Niger Delta. |
Re: Please Advise Me by bukitt: 6:52pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by bukatyne(f): 6:53pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
[quote author=BornToSucced post=106912391][/quote] On a serious note, you need to do trade offs at this point: What is more important to you? For instance if: 1. Your job has a strict resumption time (hello bank); 2. If your job is not flexible i.e. you cannot do it at home so you have to finish for the day before leaving the office; 3. If your job requires you available anytime (including weekends) You would consider trading off space & resources for proximity If: 1. The above doesn't apply or you can work around it; 2. You have other projects where the space is paramount; 3. You cannot afford rent + monthly deposits for Sangotedo You would consider trading off proximity for space & resources I wish you all the best. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by bukatyne(f): 6:55pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
BornToSucced: The English would not be sweet but: My big bros, na high-five with klass for traffic sure pass 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by Nobody: 7:07pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
BornToSucced: Brotherly, I don't understand the people advising you out of ignorance or is it that people just love suffering. Why on earth will you move from Ogudu to Sangotedo? When you want to make a decision, use facts and stop depending on emotional responses from people who want you to suffer as they are suffering. Two ways to confirm decisions like this - Open your Google map on a regular Monday and check the distance by road and traffic situations between Sangotedo to Ikoyi, then compare it to Agodu. You will find out that you made a grave mistake. - Choose a specific Monday & Friday, take a cab from Ikoyi to Sangotedo, try this twice in a week and sleep over in a hotel at Sangotedo, your eyes will open. After doing this, whatever decision you decide is left to you. Edit: Since you actually purchased the apartment as I just read, then you need no advice. You are suppose to move in, irrespective of the traffic situations since the house is yours. If it was a rented apartment, it would have been a terrible choice. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by frozen70(f): 7:08pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
BornToSucced: Fantastic, that's a good plan Keep it up, in that case, you can be there for the time being and finish your plans then move into your new house after you must have done the finishing Congratulations, you deserve an applause 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by cococandy(f): 7:25pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Sounds like you’re winning. I’m very happy for you Nothing beats longing for your place because you enjoy being there rather than avoiding going home for as long as possible Klass99: 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 8:09pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
bukatyne: Many thanks dear. I really appreciate your inputs. Oya, take one bottle of chill water 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 8:16pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
truthsayer009: Bro, I totally understand everything you said. I know the traffic in that axis is a nightmare. But in life you can't get it all. In addition, my landlord just increased my rent by 200k, and that's not even my problem because he's the owner of the house. But the way he asked the tenants to vacate immediately if we are not okay with the increase was provoking. I can't continue to go through this ugly experience. |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 8:19pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
bukatyne: 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by Elporo(m): 11:02pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by Klass99(f): 8:25am On Oct 21, 2021 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by Klass99(f): 8:36am On Oct 21, 2021 |
Re: Please Advise Me by NoToPile: 8:44am On Oct 21, 2021 |
Klass99: This got me rolling on the floor, it most likely won't be the total package besides total package or not, its very expensive. More reason why people will keep living on the mainland( not yaba , surulere mainland ooo interior interior mainland) and working on the Island. 8 million for room and parlour self contain 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me by Klass99(f): 8:47am On Oct 21, 2021 |
Re: Please Advise Me by Klass99(f): 9:06am On Oct 21, 2021 |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 11:56am On Oct 21, 2021 |
Klass99: When I said I am a start up, I mean a young man that's just starting life Sincerely, your advice have really been helpful..... 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by Hayastark: 12:39pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
Op considering the stress commuting from sogotedo. What you could do to reduce your current rent is to sublet 2 out of the 3bed you currently stay, or look for subrent in gbagada or lekki, you shouldnt spend more than 400k on rent. Then you can put your sogotedo place on rent. |
Re: Please Advise Me by Klass99(f): 1:18pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 1:37pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
Klass99: Lol. Many thanks! |
Re: Please Advise Me by ThaRealist: 5:40pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
BornToSucced:. You and @klass99 should set up a date or a dinner ...that's if you guys are still single ... You never know , because you guys seem to compliment each other in your response and aura ..my two cents 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by sisisioge: 6:11pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
Hmmmm....oga, Sangotedo to Ikoyi travel traffic is not a child's play. Better leave sentiments and rent out the place. By the time you do it for 6 months, you will grow older in looks than your years. You could change the size of your accommodation to a much affordable one while you continue to service your loan. You could change jobs to somewhere around Sagotedo so you could live in the house. You could spend the whole 1.2m for a mini flat in Ikoyi so you could have much shorter travel time to/fro work to improve your quality of time and give you more time to think of doubling your hustle. Whatever you do.....Sangotedo to Ikoyi travel shouldn't be done everyday biko. Do not forget your physical and mental health matter while pursuing your daily bread. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me by Klass99(f): 7:08pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 10:59pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Klass99: Hi.....its been great.......I have decided to move there by next year hopefully. I am hoping that you would integrate me fully into that area Hope you're keeping well ? |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 11:00pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
ThaRealist: Really..........in this trying times |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 9:28am On Dec 14, 2021 |
sisisioge: Thanks alot. I would put your various points into consideration. |
Re: Please Advise Me by bukitt: 10:52am On Dec 14, 2021 |
I can help you monitor your house FOC. |
Re: Please Advise Me by Klass99(f): 11:06am On Dec 14, 2021 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 11:57am On Dec 14, 2021 |
Assumptabeke: Thank you for your input. |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 12:20pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
Thank you everyone for your individual contributions. I really appreciate your responses and I have factored some of them into my decisions. My special thanks to @Cococandy @Klass99 @Bukatyne @Autochick @Sisisioge and the rest. God bless you � 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 12:22pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
Klass99: Thank you. Cheers |
Re: Please Advise Me by bukatyne(f): 9:32pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
BornToSucced: So what was your decision? |
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