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Mariangeles:
Op, to be fair on your wife and honest with you, baking ingredients don cost die.
And major part of that money is to cover cost for ingredients, including gas o.

Oya make am 70k and I dey sure say she go agree.

Fred166:
My sister can't be her only enrolled student. My wife is not a novice here, She has been baking for over 15 years now, since her secondary school days.

Fred166:
Honestly, I don't want my sister to learn somewhere else, when I know my wife is a professional.

My wife delivers cakes to chopping malls, if i even disclose what she charges for ceremonial cakes and small chops you will be marveled. And she has customers who are willing to pay because you're gonna be so enticed by her work.

I've invested in my wife's business so much, I also motivate her, she rely on her regularly customers, so I do motivate her to get more customers. (this is where her laziness comes in, she ready stay house frm morning till night watching TV) so I do motivate her to be hardworking.

Yet, she can't do a little favor by accepting my offer. Mind you I've the 100k but I stand with 50k.

How will my sister feel, if I tell her to go learn baking somewhere else?

Stevenbright:
See, she does not have to buy those things specifically for the purpose of teaching her. She will surely be putting her through when making cakes or small chops for customers.

pocohantas:
Abeg leave me o.

Even in your anger, you still dey hype your wife. It shows you really love her and to be on a safe side, it is better I support her sef. Because if I support you, after she rubs your head at night, you will tell her what I said and two of una go join dey beef me.

No ask me again. Go settle it yourselves.

Stevenbright:
See, she does not have to buy those things specifically for the purpose of teaching her. She will surely be putting her through when making cakes or small chops for customers.

Stevenbright:
See, she does not have to buy those things specifically for the purpose of teaching her. She will surely be putting her through when making cakes or small chops for customers.

baby124:
All her students buy it because it’s theirs to use after the course ends. Wetin? Me I no de do free for family o. Sorry. These days 100k no be joke.

Mariangeles:
Yes, she very much does. For her own practicals.

If I were op's wife, what I do would be to give her a list of things to buy, then I'd willingly teach her for free.
Getting them will prove that she is willing to invest in herself and serious to learn, and that she's not going to waste my time and effort.
People easily take free things for granted.

donbachi:
Ur wife get mind...she forget sey we rise by lifting others.

pocohantas:
Abeg leave me o.

Even in your anger, you still dey hype your wife. It shows you really love her and to be on a safe side, it is better I support her sef. Because if I support you, after she rubs your head at night, you will tell her what I said and two of una go join dey beef me.

No ask me again. Go settle it yourselves.

pocohantas:
You and this your wife sha, una reach to start series.

In your previous threads, you said she doesn’t take her business serious, that she only knows how to watch Zeeworld and Telemundo. Well, she has started taking the business serious.

This right here is a good attribute of a business person- DO NOT ALLOW FAMILY AND FRIENDS RUIN YOUR BUSINESS WITH CHEAP BARGAINS.

jenifer007:
Oga park well jare and pay jare

So because you set the business for your wife,she should be doing giveaway anyhow abi

So let's say for example,you established a school for your wife and your sister's child or any family member wants to take their kids to the school,you will tell your wife to reduce school fees for their kids abi

Oga business is business and there has to be standard even if it is her own family that is involved,she must also set the same standard for them.

No familiarity in business

He should park well because now it's about the wife(your fellow woman) and his husband's relative, right?

Would you say the same thing if it were about the husband and his wife's relative?

You guys are bloody hypocrites.

Shikena

Stevenbright:
Alright, I get it.

ibechris:
If I were u,I would not blink an eye but to take her to learn this baking of a thing outside and I will pay whatever amount I am charged just to spite her.

Can she do same to her sister?

I guess no!


Where is her conscience?

Fred166:
My younger sis just rounded up her NYSC, she told me she would like to learn how to bake cake and other small chops like chin chin, puff puff, donut, egg rolls, sausage rolls, e.t.c.. from my wife. Indeed my wife a pro in baking.

I told her that's not a problem, I will inform my wife about it. I even told my sister to come over to my house this weekend because definitely she would be staying with us.

When I discussed it with my wife she said my sister would have to pay, that she's not running a charity organization... I was really mad at her.

She said she would collect 100k (for 6 months learning) from my sister, and she is doing that because of in-law stuff... That I should go and ask her clients currently learning in her school how much she charges.

I offered my wife 50k. She rejected it, she said it won't be enough to buy baking utensils not to talk of baking ingredients. Mind you she sells baking utensils and ingredients.

She also said she issue her clients certificate when they're done learning, she refers customers to them as well...

Please note: I have invested heavily in her business, Infact it was my money she used in starting up her business. Yet she refused to help my sister even with the 50k I offered.

Please is this proper? Is she being greedy? It's really causing serious problem between us. I'm so angry. My younger sister is not even aware of what is happening right now.

jenifer007:
Oga park well jare and pay jare

So because you set the business for your wife,she should be doing giveaway anyhow abi

So let's say for example,you established a school for your wife and your sister's child or any family member wants to take their kids to the school,you will tell your wife to reduce school fees for their kids abi

Oga business is business and there has to be standard even if it is her own family that is involved,she must also set the same standard for them.

No familiarity in business
Shikena

Fred166:
Honestly, I don't want my sister to learn somewhere else, when I know my wife is a professional.

My wife delivers cakes to chopping malls, if i even disclose what she charges for ceremonial cakes and small chops you will be marveled. And she has customers who are willing to pay because you're gonna be so enticed by her work.

I've invested in my wife's business so much, I also motivate her, she rely on her regularly customers, so I do motivate her to get more customers. (this is where her laziness comes in, she ready stay house frm morning till night watching TV) so I do motivate her to be hardworking.

Yet, she can't do a little favor by accepting my offer. Mind you I've the 100k but I stand with 50k.

How will my sister feel, if I tell her to go learn baking somewhere else?

frozen70:
Your sister shouldn't be aware pls before it becomes family problem that will last forever

If you have the 100k give her or tell her you will pay twice and be specific on exact date you will pay the remaining one

Some women are just hard for nothing but the good thing is that one day her family members will need help and if she brings it to your hearing, be deaf over it

She is supposed to train her for free but she loves money over your family interests

But bear in mind that for that six months your sister will be staying, if care is not taking, she will complain that your sister is not assisting her at home because she will expect her to be humble to her and do house chores for her like a maid, despite that she is already a graduate

That's women for you, always looking for one area to pick issues from

NoToPile:
Wait so the sister is not supposed to assist at home with chores, she's not supposed to be humble to the brothers wife because she's a graduate?


Like I said earlier my concern is not even the training it is issues like the bolded that is my own concern oo.

Fatalveli:
Assuming it was your sister, will you have ‘concerns’?

The main issue stems from the fact that women hardly consider their husband family as theirs.

YourCoffin:
If you are the one that funded the business and you are not getting any ROI from it then you shouldn't pay her anything. If she refuses, return the favour by making sure you gain something before helping any of her relatives or friends.

Karleb:
Her decision in this case is wrong.

Na this kind small thing dey scatter marriage. Imagine if the in-laws hear about it?

pocohantas:
You and this your wife sha, una reach to start series.

In your previous threads, you said she doesn’t take her business serious, that she only knows how to watch Zeeworld and Telemundo. Well, she has started taking the business serious.

This right here is a good attribute of a business person- DO NOT ALLOW FAMILY AND FRIENDS RUIN YOUR BUSINESS WITH CHEAP BARGAINS.

Olunmercy56:
God bless you. The reason I kept quiet