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My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by lawman88(m): 7:16pm On Jun 15, 2019
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.

This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.

During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.

This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.

Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....

Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Davash222(m): 7:18pm On Jun 15, 2019
Hmmmm.

Obviously, your wife knows the game she's playing. Your wife wants you to fucck her sister . She prefers you fucck her sister than fuccking outside. It's up to you to decide if you want to be fuccking two sisters.

There are some temptations that are meant only for Jesus and Satan.

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by delishpot: 7:20pm On Jun 15, 2019
lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.
During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.
This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.
Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....
Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?


Abegi, tell your wife that you do not want to see her sis dressed like a hooker in your presence. What is there to fear? The home is yours too and you have a right to be comfortable.

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by SageMK: 7:21pm On Jun 15, 2019
What did I just read?

Bro, you know what to do. Talk to your wife.

Let her know how uncomfortable and “disgusted” you are by her sister's provocative dressing. Your wife will handle her well. Just keep minding your business.

Don't give any hint whatsoever that you are unable to control yourself or you find her sister attractive at all. I am sure your wife trusts you both that's why she's not reacting. Or could this be a stúpid ploy against you?

Anyway if you can't, demand she kindly move out.

I am beginning to doubt the validity of your story self. grin

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by obiekunie2: 7:22pm On Jun 15, 2019
see mumu!


them dey offer you paradise on a platter of gold you dey reject am!


some men sha! cheesy




bros abeg send me her number shaperly let me help you tell her to cover herself!

na beg i dey beg! cheesy undecided

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Rednaxelot: 7:22pm On Jun 15, 2019
She is your wife’s sister, you have the authority to correct the lady to always dress properly, even without telling her sister to correct her.

No reason for any alarm here, it has been in your mind to fuckck the girl, u just looking for an excuse to do so in her dressing

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Valleys(m): 7:24pm On Jun 15, 2019
It's obvious, your wife is not attractive. Maybe shapeless, I should say. Tell your wife now.


Yes I am not married. Tell me what can make you lust after your sister-in-law. It's either you never liked your wife or she has lost that thing that made you like her. That's why it's good to use character and not beauty to marry a wife.

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by 2dice01: 7:25pm On Jun 15, 2019
obiekunie2:
see mumu!


them dey offer you paradise on a platter of gold you dey reject am!


some men sha! cheesy




bros abeg send me her number shaperly let me help you tell her to cover herself!

na beg i dey beg! cheesy undecided
well done Mr sharp shooter

If she was your daughter will you say the same

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by chidekings(m): 7:26pm On Jun 15, 2019
Send her out of the house,for the good of this young marriage.

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by sapeleboi(m): 7:27pm On Jun 15, 2019
just send me her number , I will handle that

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Amuocha: 7:28pm On Jun 15, 2019
But where is lalasticlala sef undecided

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Cholls(m): 7:29pm On Jun 15, 2019
my brother e dey ya body.. see as you describe her breast like say u just squeeze am

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by lawman88(m): 7:30pm On Jun 15, 2019
Davash222:
Hmmmm.

Obviously, your wife knows the game she's playing. Your wife wants you to fucck her sister . She prefers you fucck her sister than fuccking outside. It's up to you to decide if you want to be fuccking two sisters.

There are some temptations that are meant only for Jesus and Satan.

LoL

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by lawman88(m): 7:31pm On Jun 15, 2019
chidekings:
Send her out of the house,for the good of this young marriage.

That is what I'm thinking too. Thanks

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Davash222(m): 7:33pm On Jun 15, 2019
lawman88:


LoL
Badt guy, you're laughing. Hehehe

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Jmk9292(m): 7:34pm On Jun 15, 2019
Unless you're a visitor to that house... If not, you state to both ur wife and that girl what you don't want... QED

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by ibkayee(f): 7:35pm On Jun 15, 2019
Tell your wife to tell her to cover up whilst she’s in your house, if it’s that bad your wife should’ve noticed it too.

Sounds like given the opportunity, you would sleep with her sister though

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jun 15, 2019
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed about your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. How can her sister be dressing like a stripper, and she’s staying mute? You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate. You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the “show”, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour. You are deceiving yourself, silly man.

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by CosmicPhoenix: 7:36pm On Jun 15, 2019
from your post i can tell the temptation is too much for you.send her out of your house,inform your wife let her know of your decision and that you stand by it no matter what because even if the girl starts dressing moderately the images of her scantly dressed will keep coming back and she may even use another tactic to seduce you.

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Oluwasaeon(m): 7:37pm On Jun 15, 2019
Safitu:
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed over your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate. You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the show, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour. You are deceiving yourself, silly man.
You've succeeded in making no sense undecided

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by lawman88(m): 7:38pm On Jun 15, 2019
ibkayee:
Tell your wife to tell her to cover up whilst she’s in your house, if it’s that bad your wife should’ve noticed it too.

Sounds like given the opportunity, you would sleep with her sister though

I can't do that. During our relationship days, two of my wife friends wanted to sleep with me but I turned down the offer and she knows about it. That was the genesis of the trust...

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by lawman88(m): 7:40pm On Jun 15, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
from your post i can tell the temptation is too much for you.send her out of your house,inform your wife let her know of your decision and that you stand by it no matter what because even if the girl starts dressing moderately the images of her scantly dressed will keep coming back and she may even use another tactic to seduce you.

Thanks. I will do that. The lady is her cousin sister. I think she has a hidden agenda

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by ibkayee(f): 7:40pm On Jun 15, 2019
lawman88:


I can't do that. During our relationship days, two of my wife friends wanted to sleep with me but I turned down the offer and she knows about it. That was the genesis of the trust...
That’s how it comes across in your write up, but if you’re genuinely not interested in it, sorry for suggesting you may be.

Tell your wife, but don’t talk about the ‘temptations’, just say you’ve noticed the way she dresses is inappropriate and that she should have a word with her. She doesn’t even need to let her sister know that you brought it up to her.

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by GOFRONT(m): 7:41pm On Jun 15, 2019
Chaiii...Op pls I have taken this pills and my body has been on fire from yesterday...I really need someone and your wife's sister is in your house wasting??......Pls can you link me up with her??

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by gweniva22: 7:41pm On Jun 15, 2019
@ op i understand you, All you need to do is to tell your wife about it regardless how she will feel about it.
Also man up and ask your wife sister to dress decently if your wife caution her.

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by lawman88(m): 7:41pm On Jun 15, 2019
ibkayee:
Tell your wife to tell her to cover up whilst she’s in your house, if it’s that bad your wife should’ve noticed it too.

Sounds like given the opportunity, you would sleep with her sister though
Thanks. I will do that. The lady is her cousin sister. I think she has a hidden agenda
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by lawman88(m): 7:43pm On Jun 15, 2019
gweniva22:
@ op i understand you, All you need to do is to tell your wife about it regardless how she will feel about it.
Also man up and ask your wife sister to dress decently if your wife caution her.
Thanks. I will do that. The lady is her cousin sister. I think she has a hidden agenda

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jun 15, 2019
It’s not that he can’t tell his wife, it’s that he is secretly enjoying the show and he doesn’t want it to stop. Let’s not be silly here.
delishpot:


Abegi, tell your wife that you do not want to see her sis dressed like a hooker in your presence. What is there to fear? The home is yours too and you have a right to be comfortable.

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Oyindidi(f): 7:49pm On Jun 15, 2019
lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.
During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.
This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.
Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....
Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

Take your cheating eyes off that girl

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by ibkayee(f): 7:55pm On Jun 15, 2019
Safitu:
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed over your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. How can her sister be dressing like a stripper, and she’s staying mute? You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate. You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the show, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour. You are deceiving yourself, silly man.
True

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by liberalchick(f): 7:56pm On Jun 15, 2019
I find it very hard to believe that a married woman will be comfortable with another young woman parading in front of her husband in see through clothing. I suspect that’s why you don’t want to tell your wife, you’re seeing what’s not there because of your obvious attraction to her.

Your marriage is just a year old you are supposed to be in the honey moon phase. Face your front, learn some self control and get a grip on your hormones.

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