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Olunmercy56:
Pay the lazy woman her money, I don't know maybe she is not doing giveaway, that is why you are calling her lazy woman? If the business is down today, I know you will be the first person to blame her that she lost her business to her laziness. Think twice

When we have daughter of eve like u, why won't their toxicity in marriages.

Fred166:
Honestly, I don't want my sister to learn somewhere else, when I know my wife is a professional.

My wife delivers cakes to chopping malls, if i even disclose what she charges for ceremonial cakes and small chops you will be marveled. And she has customers who are willing to pay because you're gonna be so enticed by her work.

I've invested in my wife's business so much, I also motivate her, she rely on her regularly customers, so I do motivate her to get more customers. (this is where her laziness comes in, she ready stay house frm morning till night watching TV) so I do motivate her to be hardworking.

Yet, she can't do a little favor by accepting my offer. Mind you I've the 100k but I stand with 50k.

How will my sister feel, if I tell her to go learn baking somewhere else?

I doubt if that sister is your blood sister. Bcs u are just an idiot to open a business for your wife, funded it and yet same wife wana bill you for your blood sister to learn from her.
What kind of boys do we have this day all in d name of men.

Your wife isn't greedy or heartless dear, I understand her. She is really a professional.

In culinary school, 7 months training is over ₦500,000. While pastries and baking, 7 months is over ₦250,000, she even gave you discount based on inlaws reason why she is demanding for ₦100,000. Haba!! She tried abeg.

Baking ingredients in the market are skyrocketing like there's no tomorrow while the utensils will belong to your sister even when she's done with her training, she can be using it to set herself up.

emmanuelbrown26:
I doubt if that sister is your blood sister. Bcs u are just an idiot to open a business for your wife, funded it and yet same wife wana bill you for your blood sister to learn from her.
What kind of boys do we have this day all in d name of men.

You small boys will just come online and be insulting married people. Everyone here is not your age mate please grow up. You lack manners.

NoToPile:
Wait so the sister is not supposed to assist at home with chores, she's not supposed to be humble to the brothers wife because she's a graduate?


Like I said earlier my concern is not even the training it is issues like the bolded that is my own concern oo.

Definitely the sister knows that she will assist in the house but not as a hose help

We should learn to respect people's status not withstanding the condition they may be as at the time they are staying with you

No one knows tomorrow

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emmanuelbrown26:
Onces it has to do with daughter of eve, na their we go see dem cum. Evil gender in human skin

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You’re hateful and evil minded! Especially towards females.

frozen70:
Definitely the sister knows that she will assist in the house but not as a hose help

We should learn to respect people's status not withstanding the condition they may be as at the time they are staying with you

No one knows tomorrow

Okay then, I get you.

Though for me househelps just helps with chores and they get paid for it, the payment is the difference if you ask me.


Yeah, the status thing is my own concern, shey she will be able to learn the work and comport properly as other trainees do?

Cyntie55:
Your wife isn't greedy or heartless dear, I understand her. She is really a professional.

In culinary school, 7 months training is over ₦500,000. While pastries and baking, 7 months is over ₦250,000, she even gave you discount based on inlaws reason why she is demanding for ₦100,000. Haba!! She tried abeg.

Baking ingredients in the market are skyrocketing like there's no tomorrow while the utensils will belong to your sister even when she's done with her training, she can be using it to set herself up.

You small boys will just come online and be insulting married people. Everyone here is not your age mate please grow up. You lack manners.

If u can call an elder like me small boy, well I don't blame u, I only blame home wey bring u come for life. U don't hv elder in your lineage at all

emmanuelbrown26:
If u can call an elder like me small boy, well I don't blame u, I only blame home wey bring u come for life. U don't hv elder in your lineage at all

If you're an elderly person you won't be spewing trash, there are over 40,50,60 years of aged people on this forum, everybody is not your mate okay.

You're not an elder, you're still a kid. And this is the reason why I refused to be open to know a nairalander better. Pls Grow up.

emmanuelbrown26:
Onces it has to do with daughter of eve, na their we go see dem cum. Evil gender in human skin

Evil indeed! Like your mother and sisters slowpoke!

Cyntie55:
If you're an elderly person you won't be spewing trash, there are over 40,50,60 years of aged people on this forum, everybody is not your mate okay.

You're not an elder, you're still a kid. And this is the reason why I refused to be open to know a nairalander better. Pls Grow up.

I still maintain that, if u hv elders in your lineage, u won't utter such to an elder like me.

Olunmercy56:
Evil indeed! Like your mother and sisters slowpoke!

Evil genders everywhere, d world would hv a better place without all these evil gender.

emmanuelbrown26:
I still maintain that, if u hv elders in your lineage, u won't utter such to an elder like me.

Please carry your elderly self to your gullible folks who listens to you.

Thank you.

Cyntie55:
Please carry your elderly self to your gullible folks who listens to you.

Thank you.

Cyntie55 I still maintain that u hv to go back to your family, let them teach u how to respect elders bcs u lack it

emmanuelbrown26:
Cyntie55 I still maintain that u hv to go back to your family, let them teach u how to respect elders bcs u lack it

Feel free to go through all my comments and quote me if I've ever insulted anybody on this forum. That's to show I was well brought up by my elders in my family.

But you the so called elder who still behaves like a child, honestly I'm still amazed. Pls grow up.

Bye dear

Cyntie55:
Your wife isn't greedy or heartless dear, I understand her. She is really a professional.

In culinary school, 7 months training is over ₦500,000. While pastries and baking, 7 months is over ₦250,000, she even gave you discount based on inlaws reason why she is demanding for ₦100,000. Haba!! She tried abeg.

Baking ingredients in the market are skyrocketing like there's no tomorrow while the utensils will belong to your sister even when she's done with her training, she can be using it to set herself up.

You small boys will just come online and be insulting married people. Everyone here is not your age mate please grow up. You lack manners.

Would you charge any fee from your sister If she is to learn a skill from you? Did you read the part the man said he funded this same business?

Why are some ladies unnecessary mean and evil towards inlaws? My GOD

OP,
You better don’t listen to all these ones telling you to take this and that action against your wife. Pay the 100k and move on with your family. You conveniently did not mention what her full lesson price is because, you know you won’t get sympathy here. Anyway it’s your family, if you let baking class destroy it, your problem.

Cyntie55:
Feel free to go through all my comments and quote me if I've ever insulted anybody on this forum. That's to show I was well brought up by my elders in my family.

But you the so called elder who still behaves like a child, honestly I'm still amazed. Pls grow up.

Bye dear

I know u dear and that was why I never unleashed any abusive word at u, bcs u don't deserve any insult at all, but putting an elder like me as a kid was and still an insult

I have this believe that OP wife is a nairalander, she might have saw the previous post where OP said she doesn't take the business serious.

NoToPile:
No I wouldn't have those concerns because she will be humble, respect herself, myself and my husband and will also do housechores despite the fact she's a graduate and if she messes up I can scold her how I deem fit. I can't say the same for an inlaw.

I like how you neatly dodged the first paragraph without commenting on it.

OPs sister might not be a typical SIL but it's normal for those concerns.










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Lemme look for small trouble sef
Sorry but it is what it is. Lots of husband's on NL hardly see their wives as family anyway, even lots of husband families don't see the wives as daughters any way so what's the point. They are just wives in their words so there's no point to pretend, let the wives too not consider the husband's family as theirs at least you must have read such statement here several times.




Don't mind me

Women

Fred166:
Honestly, I don't want my sister to learn somewhere else, when I know my wife is a professional.

My wife delivers cakes to chopping malls, if i even disclose what she charges for ceremonial cakes and small chops you will be marveled. And she has customers who are willing to pay because you're gonna be so enticed by her work.

I've invested in my wife's business so much, I also motivate her, she rely on her regularly customers, so I do motivate her to get more customers. (this is where her laziness comes in, she ready stay house frm morning till night watching TV) so I do motivate her to be hardworking.

Yet, she can't do a little favor by accepting my offer. Mind you I've the 100k but I stand with 50k.

How will my sister feel, if I tell her to go learn baking somewhere else?

You're beginning to constitute a nuisance in this forum. If you're truly married, don't you have friends or family members to share your problems with instead of a public forum?
Since you created this account all you've been doing is ranting about your wife. Na we send you go marry?
Cmon get the fvck outta here with your fake stories.

A true married man won't create the kind of threads you've created so far.

Attention seekers everywhere.

She should pay you when she needs sex!

Mariangeles:
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You’re hateful and evil minded! Especially towards females.

Baby girl, I'm for good, I'm for real and I'm here to put men in boys skin where they should belong to including your brothers if u hv

Fred166:
My younger sis just rounded up her NYSC, she told me she would like to learn how to bake cake and other small chops like chin chin, puff puff, donut, egg rolls, sausage rolls, e.t.c.. from my wife. Indeed my wife a pro in baking.

I told her that's not a problem, I will inform my wife about it. I even told my sister to come over to my house this weekend because definitely she would be staying with us.

When I discussed it with my wife she said my sister would have to pay, that she's not running a charity organization... I was really mad at her.

She said she would collect 100k (for 6 months learning) from my sister, and she is doing that because of in-law stuff... That I should go and ask her clients currently learning in her school how much she charges.

I offered my wife 50k. She rejected it, she said it won't be enough to buy baking utensils not to talk of baking ingredients. Mind you she sells baking utensils and ingredients.

She also said she issue her clients certificate when they're done learning, she refers customers to them as well...

Please note: I have invested heavily in her business, Infact it was my money she used in starting up her business. Yet she refused to help my sister even with the 50k I offered.

Please is this proper? Is she being greedy? It's really causing serious problem between us. I'm so angry. My younger sister is not even aware of what is happening right now.

Your sister has disrespected your wife in the past.

Now the table has turned.


Oga pay up or take her somewhere else.

����� Lol, but honestly dat lady no try at all

donbachi:
Ur wife get mind...she forget sey we rise by lifting others.

Officialgarri:
Ceteris Paribus. Business grows when families and friends pay for the services rendered to them.

You have a good wife, don't let issues like this stir up hostility in your family. Rather, pay her back in her own coin if the opportunity arises, then you both should laugh over it.

The question is...if her sister comes to learn from her, will she demand 100k from her parents or will teach her for free? Whatever help she accords her sister, she should do for her sister inlaw too.

Saintmary:
Your sister has disrespected your wife in the past.

Now the table has turned.
Oga pay up or take her somewhere else.

My sister has never disrespected my wife, my sis is an introvert. She barely talk. Anything you tell her to do, she do it without stress.

Fred166:
My sister has never disrespected my wife, my sis is an introvert. She barely talk. Anything you tell her to do, she do it without stress.

Then you should ask your wife the reason behind her decision.