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Is it possible to love your children equally

This issue is currently causing problem were am living

A family of two girls and a boy

Seems like the parents are showing more love to the male child and the female one are not playing or socializing with the male child

Sometimes there parents have to force them to be with their brother

Only foolish parents openly show favouritism to a particular child among others.
No one child(is perfect) has it all.
Every child is special in their own way and deserve to be loved by their parents.

many people show love differently, depending on the sex of the child... dont automatically assume that because parent act differently, it means they dont love these children just the same. i act differently with my daughters than with my sons.

DanielAlhassan:
Is it possible to love your children equally

This issue is currently causing problem were am living

A family of two girls and a boy

Seems like the parents are showing more love to the male child and the female one are not playing or socializing with the male child

Sometimes there parents have to force them to be with their brother

They openly show more love to the boy and still expect his sisters to easily bond with him? Let them continue with the sibling rivalry
they are nurturing ....hope they will be alive to harvest the fruits.

Parents should learn how to balance it.

Yes, it Is very possible,if none of the children look like you . But if one look like you carbon copy it will be difficult. My opinion though.

It's not possible.. Most don't make it visible for others to see. Once the children are exposed to the truth maybe through the action of the parents, there will be trouble if not war in that family

Show love to your children regardless of their gender.

Impossible....

And it's very difficult to hide this fact from the kids.

We are 10 siblings and no matter how hard my parents try to be neutral or show affection for us all equally, they most times do not know when they cross the line of favoritism.

gaby:
Impossible....

And it's very difficult to hide this fact from the kids.

We are 10 siblings and no matter how hard my parents try to be neutral or show affection for us all equally, they most times do not know when they cross the line of favoritism.

10, that's some huge number.

akeem0706514:
Yes, it Is very possible,if none of the children look like you . But if one look like you carbon copy it will be difficult. My opinion though.

lol. I'm carbon copy of my mum. Infact people mistake us for twins. But I'm not her favorite

So your notion is void.

My 2nd son is my hubby's exact carbon copy...
Whenever he looks at him. It's as if he is staring at himself In a mirror and I can see the love in his eyes...
No matter how much he tries to hide it. I know he loves him even more than he loves me sef

The ambiguity of love notwithstanding, yes, it is possible to love your children equally, but it is quite difficult, if not impossible, to wittingly or unwittingly show them love equally.

Those poor children will grow up with a complex because one of their parents made sure they had low self esteem on account of preference. Please do this, every month put some money away so that your children can access psychotherapy later in life. They will need it.

This is how young girls seek love in the wrong places and end up with men who mistreat them because they are looking for love they never got at home.
Your child knows you love them less and that is so so sad.

Descottes:
lol. I'm carbon copy of my mum. Infact people mistake us for twins. But I'm not her favorite

So your notion is void.

So sorry....may be you're a witch that's is why she don't like you

akeem0706514:
So sorry....may be you're a witch that's is why she don't like you

I'm sorry you're too dumb to understand. So I'll leave it here

Descottes:
I'm sorry you're too dumb to understand. So I'll leave it here

I'm really sorry for provoking you.

Hamachi:
Those poor children will grow up with a complex because one of their parents made sure they had low self esteem on account of preference. Please do this, every month put some money away so that your children can access psychotherapy later in life. They will need it.

This is how young girls seek love in the wrong places and end up with men who mistreat them because they are looking for love they never got at home.
Your child knows you love them less and that is so so sad.

flesh and blood didn't reveal this to you.

DanielAlhassan:
Is it possible to love your children equally

This issue is currently causing problem were am living

A family of two girls and a boy

Seems like the parents are showing more love to the male child and the female one are not playing or socializing with the male child

Sometimes there parents have to force them to be with their brother

I'm their own case, because he is the only son, the parents are just being over protective of him so that he won't be feeling not having a brother

As for the girls they love them too but show much affection on the boy

In an idle family as a parent you have to love them equally to get the best in them