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chatinent:
Who Should We Blame: Chrisland, The Parents, The Girl Or Society?


Who should we blame?

Before una blame, ask yourself, is there any content maker or skit maker in Nigeria, so- called comedians, that you can feel relaxed watching their content with your kids? Mr Marcaroni? Sydney? NastyBlaq? Even BrainJotter has given kids new slangs: “you no get yansh.”

They all promote sex! It's always been sex! Sex! Sex! And guess what? We find nothing wrong with it!

And so?
That's why children are experimenting! They watch everything you watch! In Nollywood, if it's not teaching the use of cult language, it's getting rich quickly, or sex! In music, it's sex and leaked tapes! They have all these at their disposal in a smartphone.

^{There's one movie..I think Selina Tested blabla...what's the usefulness of that movie in society? And to say it has millions watching it baffles me! The movie clearly promotes cultism!}

Both in Hollywood, it's either magic, being possessed by a superhero witchy trait, having a bad side, living a double life, shooting, or sex! And many children have watched some movies before you!

What else?!

Talking about Chrisland, let's not pretend we don't know these are happening around us. In many schools, porn and leaked tapes are in gigabytes on their phones. Our music is rotten. Celebrities with a loose sense of fashion. The world is breeding a new era of what you parents failed to prevent! And that's why when you talk of a girls-only school in Nigeria, you think of lesbianism. Because it's true! They do it at whim! A girls-only school in Nigeria has male staff members and some of them use them! You see lots of abortion pills and all that from secondarians! Secondarians!

Children are having sex even under your roof! Don't scream God forbid! It is! Some are part-time prostitutes! Yes, some are!

Back to Chrisland...
Just like every other schools in Nigeria, their best is not enough! The I-dont-care life of teachers is becoming unbecoming and that's why these events occur at whim! Stricter measures must be taken and members of the opposite sex should never be allowed in private areas! Even in public areas, there must be in groups!


Should Chrisland be locked down?

Why?

Inasmuch as Chrisland should be very careful while mixing both genders and putting more measures, it's also the responsibility of parents to train a child properly and guide what they consume morally.

Was it really coverup? Even if it was, Child porn should never be a breaking news! Chrisland took action by suspending the culprits! I understand Chrisland has been in some old mess of late but, haba, judge cases individually. Chrisland is sb’s business and schools have ethics. You wanted them to publish the news? News of child porn?

To stain the image of the school?
The parents?
The girl?

They tried to leverage those!
They tried to die the matter even though it was a serious one!

They tried to allow the matter die in the school!

Do you know the reputation of the little girl in the video now, and in the future after you folks linked and shared the video!
That's what Chrisland were protecting!

Do you know?

Omotola’s daughter is a product of Chrisland. Of course, we saw her wearing panties and bras recently. She's a role model. Tueh! What are the adults teaching the children? That big bombom is an asset! That breast is a green card! That sex is the redpill!

There are few reasonable people in the entertainment industry! Others promote sex!
But don't they say majority wins the vote?
Nude has been given a new name: Bikini. Posting adult content and rubbish is now called “cruise.” Walking naked is now called sexy.

The internet is saturated with diff formats of pornographers. If it's not useless Ruger singing “i want to fxxck your pu pu na,” it's that old layer Tiwa exposing her nude, or that agbero is jeans Oxlade.

But they'll come out and be shouting “lockdown Chrisland, lockdown Chrisland.”

Hanty, before they lockdown Chrisland, y'all should learn to put your panties inside clothes! Na y'all idiots dey spoil pikin.

The parents?
Make una train una children properly! You allow them consume enough pornography! Music, movies in the right proportion and content is good. Music and movies with any sexual activity is bad for them!

The parents of the girl should stop forcing the rape allegations, my opinion tho. The video clearly showed a girl and some group of boys having consensual carnal knowledge. I know it's a big shame to them but white should never be painted black! Your daughter is a mess.

Most parents don't even know their tech devices have parental control. Yes, you can control their phones, the satellite and everything! Some countries force parental control policies. YouTube has YouTube for kids. DSTV and other satellites have parental control measures. Even an android phone! What excuse do you have now! You exposed them!

PS: I don't share child porn and I will never share any video so don't bother sending the mails. Thanks.

Small pikin of 10 years wey get android cannot learn anything from Naija celebrities. Just take a look at the body of a ten year old! How on earth does a ten year old have breasts! That means no bi today she start. Ten years old with experience! She should be flogged mercilessly! Shame on her!

The kids?
Shame on those kids!
Most kids too are too corrupt to be corrected!


Tbh, y'all—the parents, the kids, society—failed in making society conducive!

And to all those people here playing police against those who want to watch the Chrisland video and saying they are reporting them, if dem no watch am, how dem wan take judge? You watch your own come dey yarn okoto. Instead of being overly protective—typical of Nigerians only when a bad omen occues, kindly warn against sharing it since it's Child Porn! The video is everywhere!

Tackle the mosquito not always the malaria!

Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

Gentlerespect76:
Why blame parents or even the girl? Absolutely no basis.

chatinent:
Who Should We Blame: Chrisland, The Parents, The Girl Or Society?


Who should we blame?

Before una blame, ask yourself, is there any content maker or skit maker in Nigeria, so- called comedians, that you can feel relaxed watching their content with your kids? Mr Marcaroni? Sydney? NastyBlaq? Even BrainJotter has given kids new slangs: “you no get yansh.”

They all promote sex! It's always been sex! Sex! Sex! And guess what? We find nothing wrong with it!

And so?
That's why children are experimenting! They watch everything you watch! In Nollywood, if it's not teaching the use of cult language, it's getting rich quickly, or sex! In music, it's sex and leaked tapes! They have all these at their disposal in a smartphone.

^{There's one movie..I think Selina Tested blabla...what's the usefulness of that movie in society? And to say it has millions watching it baffles me! The movie clearly promotes cultism!}

Both in Hollywood, it's either magic, being possessed by a superhero witchy trait, having a bad side, living a double life, shooting, or sex! And many children have watched some movies before you!

What else?!

Talking about Chrisland, let's not pretend we don't know these are happening around us. In many schools, porn and leaked tapes are in gigabytes on their phones. Our music is rotten. Celebrities with a loose sense of fashion. The world is breeding a new era of what you parents failed to prevent! And that's why when you talk of a girls-only school in Nigeria, you think of lesbianism. Because it's true! They do it at whim! A girls-only school in Nigeria has male staff members and some of them use them! You see lots of abortion pills and all that from secondarians! Secondarians!

Children are having sex even under your roof! Don't scream God forbid! It is! Some are part-time prostitutes! Yes, some are!

Back to Chrisland...
Just like every other schools in Nigeria, their best is not enough! The I-dont-care life of teachers is becoming unbecoming and that's why these events occur at whim! Stricter measures must be taken and members of the opposite sex should never be allowed in private areas! Even in public areas, there must be in groups!


Should Chrisland be locked down?

Why?

Inasmuch as Chrisland should be very careful while mixing both genders and putting more measures, it's also the responsibility of parents to train a child properly and guide what they consume morally.

Was it really coverup? Even if it was, Child porn should never be a breaking news! Chrisland took action by suspending the culprits! I understand Chrisland has been in some old mess of late but, haba, judge cases individually. Chrisland is sb’s business and schools have ethics. You wanted them to publish the news? News of child porn?

To stain the image of the school?
The parents?
The girl?

They tried to leverage those!
They tried to die the matter even though it was a serious one!

They tried to allow the matter die in the school!

Do you know the reputation of the little girl in the video now, and in the future after you folks linked and shared the video!
That's what Chrisland were protecting!

Do you know?

Omotola’s daughter is a product of Chrisland. Of course, we saw her wearing panties and bras recently. She's a role model. Tueh! What are the adults teaching the children? That big bombom is an asset! That breast is a green card! That sex is the redpill!

There are few reasonable people in the entertainment industry! Others promote sex!
But don't they say majority wins the vote?
Nude has been given a new name: Bikini. Posting adult content and rubbish is now called “cruise.” Walking naked is now called sexy.

The internet is saturated with diff formats of pornographers. If it's not useless Ruger singing “i want to fxxck your pu pu na,” it's that old layer Tiwa exposing her nude, or that agbero is jeans Oxlade.

But they'll come out and be shouting “lockdown Chrisland, lockdown Chrisland.”

Hanty, before they lockdown Chrisland, y'all should learn to put your panties inside clothes! Na y'all idiots dey spoil pikin.

The parents?
Make una train una children properly! You allow them consume enough pornography! Music, movies in the right proportion and content is good. Music and movies with any sexual activity is bad for them!

The parents of the girl should stop forcing the rape allegations, my opinion tho. The video clearly showed a girl and some group of boys having consensual carnal knowledge. I know it's a big shame to them but white should never be painted black! Your daughter is a mess.

Most parents don't even know their tech devices have parental control. Yes, you can control their phones, the satellite and everything! Some countries force parental control policies. YouTube has YouTube for kids. DSTV and other satellites have parental control measures. Even an android phone! What excuse do you have now! You exposed them!

PS: I don't share child porn and I will never share any video so don't bother sending the mails. Thanks.

Small pikin of 10 years wey get android cannot learn anything from Naija celebrities. Just take a look at the body of a ten year old! How on earth does a ten year old have breasts! That means no bi today she start. Ten years old with experience! She should be flogged mercilessly! Shame on her!

The kids?
Shame on those kids!
Most kids too are too corrupt to be corrected!


Tbh, y'all—the parents, the kids, society—failed in making society conducive!

And to all those people here playing police against those who want to watch the Chrisland video and saying they are reporting them, if dem no watch am, how dem wan take judge? You watch your own come dey yarn okoto. Instead of being overly protective—typical of Nigerians only when a bad omen occues, kindly warn against sharing it since it's Child Porn! The video is everywhere!

Tackle the mosquito not always the malaria!

chatinent:
That father is my mirror. That's the way to train a child!

I bet he'll be humble all his life! Children also hate embarrassment... especially beating them in public..amid their peers and people they oppress.


When I was teaching, a report came that a JSS2 boy allegedly pressed the cups of an SS2 girl. It was his guts for me. And psychology says before he could do that, the girl has submitted her respect to him or he bullies her.

I called him. A lil chat with him and I noticed he's this bully who may have joined a small cult nearby.

Unto say I no well as per military student who went to serve, I land am better slap and some resetting beating for trying to walk out on me, it followed a series of other punitive measures to humble him.

Behold, cultist come dey tuck in clothes in, dey wear tie. En mama come school, call me one side dey bless me.

Kingpin1000:
When I was in Secondary school,one of the most stubborn boys got into problem with the school authority, the principal called his father,whi happened to be a high court Judge to report his son to him.
The father came to school with 3 of his other sons. This boy happens to be the last child of 5 boys but He was a pain in the ass, He was very big and muscular but when his brothers came,they dwarfed him. All of a sudden one his brothers head butted him and He fell to the ground like a paper, his uniform was soaked in blood within minutes, they tied him to a desk and our able Goliath who has lead us to so many war was crying like a baby, we were all shocked. The father demanded for canes. The man was just flogging only the feet of the boy the boy shouted until he lost his voice and became weak, our principal became afraid and started begging the father to take it easy, it was then they loosed him and dumped him behind their hilux and drove away.. we did not see our Goliath for 2 weeks but when He came back, He was sober and reserved.
No more trouble till He left school. Rumours had it that He was taken to the hospital and when He recovered his father locked him up.

Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

uchennaq:
Look at this babyish thinking. Go to public school and find out what is happening. Sometimes people are not supposed to type or say what they don't know. Go to public schools in Jakande and Ajah.

Acehart:
Government schools are worse

AFONJAPIG:
Child wey go spoil go spoil, I start watching porn from the age of 10, had my first age of 12, got my gf pregnant age of 14 we all do all funny things in our youthful age but that doesn't define who we will be in the future, who could believe my person will abstain from sex from 2018 to 2021 I being abroad , so allow those kids to be , I didn't see it as rape , she has been doing it before the incident

Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

Tutu82:
I read and reread your write up with interest it is well balanced as you focus on both the parent and the school.That video should never have been released except at a closed door hearing.I strongly disagree with a few points.

i. you lost me at “Just take a look at the body of a ten year old! How on earth does a ten year old have breasts! That means no bi today she start. Ten years old with experience! She should be flogged mercilessly! Shame on her!”.

Speaking from my experience in special needs and mainstream education with bias in child formation/development having breast at 10 has nothing to do with experience.Children born in the last two decades tend to mature faster,and show more curiosity and this has to do with environmental and dietary changes amongst other factors.
I see even 8 year old girls who have started their periods and have formed breast with the starting outline of hips to top up.

Growing up all i needed was a stern look from my parents to get in line or my mum to raise her slippers.Now flogging a gen Z child mercilessly to what end?.In her head she says i can do this the worst they would do will flog me.An accident can occur and she gets a permanent injury or God forbid die.
When a child defaults, there are alternative measures to take from your archive of punishment and reward systems.

ii.When you say the video clearly showed a girl and some group of boys having consensual carnal knowledge.A child is not capable of giving consent so what you saw was a group of boys having carnal knowledge and the girl participating.Because she a minor in my eyes and in the eyes of the law it is rape.

Both the parent,the school and society as a whole are to blame.I subscribe to label the offence not the offender no child is a mess but like you rightly pointed out look at the supposed role models today,lyrics of Musicians….gone are the days where music was passing positive advise and soothing like if you love me you go wait for me our Onyeka Onwenu type�.The madness that is called fashion in this age and the sort of filth passed as messages passed down through various technological devices.
The girl caved to peer pressure and did a silly thing she needs to be rehabilitated and all sides take responsibility.
It is such hard working raising a child of any sex anywhere in the world so regardless of your religion i say God/Allah for us all.

Jennyclay:
For instance:
People die through road accident, does that stop you from traveling or buying your own car?
People die through food & drink poison, does that stop you from eating or drinking?
Many Parents have warned the school not to discipline their kids, does that mean when they see a child going astray they shouldn't discipline him??

Please let be reasonable here. Do you know that is not all parents that are against the school disciplining their children? I want you to understand that they paid for the services.

Boarding or Day, the students still spends more time in school than at home.. I'm ready to argue with you about this particular one initially.

You did a good job by talking to your family's friend son, but still you also need to tell his mom, so can discipline him. "Charity begins at home"

Tutu82:
I read and reread your write up with interest it is well balanced as you focus on both the parent and the school.That video should never have been released except at a closed door hearing.I strongly disagree with a few points.

i. you lost me at “Just take a look at the body of a ten year old! How on earth does a ten year old have breasts! That means no bi today she start. Ten years old with experience! She should be flogged mercilessly! Shame on her!”.

Speaking from my experience in special needs and mainstream education with bias in child formation/development having breast at 10 has nothing to do with experience.Children born in the last two decades tend to mature faster,and show more curiosity and this has to do with environmental and dietary changes amongst other factors.
I see even 8 year old girls who have started their periods and have formed breast with the starting outline of hips to top up.

Growing up all i needed was a stern look from my parents to get in line or my mum to raise her slippers.Now flogging a gen Z child mercilessly to what end?.In her head she says i can do this the worst they would do will flog me.An accident can occur and she gets a permanent injury or God forbid die.
When a child defaults, there are alternative measures to take from your archive of punishment and reward systems.

ii.When you say the video clearly showed a girl and some group of boys having consensual carnal knowledge.A child is not capable of giving consent so what you saw was a group of boys having carnal knowledge and the girl participating.Because she a minor in my eyes and in the eyes of the law it is rape.

Both the parent,the school and society as a whole are to blame.I subscribe to label the offence not the offender no child is a mess but like you rightly pointed out look at the supposed role models today,lyrics of Musicians….gone are the days where music was passing positive advise and soothing like if you love me you go wait for me our Onyeka Onwenu type�.The madness that is called fashion in this age and the sort of filth passed as messages passed down through various technological devices.
The girl caved to peer pressure and did a silly thing she needs to be rehabilitated and all sides take responsibility.
It is such hard working raising a child of any sex anywhere in the world so regardless of your religion i say God/Allah for us all.

Kingpin1000:
One of the most popular statement written in my days in primary school toilet was " TOTO IS GOOD " we never saw who wrote it but we knew people were doing bad things in the toilet and we were not up to 10 years then.
Things like this has been happening and I can attribute it to bad parenting.

Fumiosasaki1:
Ex boy or EX-JACM?

Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their aa dhard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

Jennyclay:
How many similar cases have we read on nairaland that broke out from a government school?

Is Dowen college a government school?
Is Chrisland college a government school?
Is kings college a government school?

Yet we kept on reading heartbreaking cases coming out of private schools.

Gentlerespect76:
Why blame parents or even the girl? Absolutely no basis.

Richy4:
All I see is parent of the girl being blamed.. what about the parents of the boys that raised irresponsible boys.. obviously the girl did not climb on top of herself...

Who are those irresponsible boys filming it and having Sex when they should be studying for whatever took them to where they were?

Is it fair to say that it's only girl child that should be trained and be responsible.. how come the blame is not balanced..

gaddafe:
You were very lucky. In today's private school you can be arrested for slapping a student regardless of what the student's offence was. This is the cause of some of these loose morals we see everywhere. Don't beat the child o! Leave am like that! Just only talk to him he will hear you! Or tell him to kneel down! Nonsense. This is the cause of indiscipline in kids. I know it will soon get to this. In my days when teachers were feared things still happened talk more of now where kids see teachers as though it's one of their mates passing by. I don't blame the school at all for this mess. There was nothing else they could have done. If anyone knows anything the school should have done they should say it. Not saying teachers should discipline them. How should they be disciplined?

LordIsaac:
There's an elite school in the North Central where teachers are not allowed to correct kids, only the school owner can. I learnt the students are so disrespectful that teachers resign almost monthly, in spite of the good pay. If it were in such a school, you would have been arrested.

Kingpin1000:
People fail to remember this. They feel a 10 year old child is innocent and may not have such informations.
When Parents watch movies rated 16 in front of their wards.
Even those movies rated 13 are not even good for 13 year old, especially African and Asian children. We have a different culture from that of whites, the mind of a child is like a tabular razar, any information it takes in at that stage may be very had to erase except with severe punishment. The punishment is not to erase that information but to let the child know what the end product of his/her action will be.
I knew about sex from 7 years but never did it because I knew it was bad and the severe punishment that follows it.

Jennyclay:
You'll also agree with me that, students spend more time at school more than at home.

I know to an extend parents are also to be blamed But then you should also consider the fact that they spend over 400k per term, to ensure the school discipline their children properly... I mean the services are not for free. They paid for it.

And students spends more time in school. So why can't they discipline them

Jennyclay:
You'll also agree with me that, students spend more time at school more than at home.

I know to an extend parents are also to be blamed But then you should also consider the fact that they spend over 400k per term, to ensure the school discipline their children properly... I mean the services are not for free. They paid for it.

And students spends more time in school. So why can't they discipline them