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| To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Acehart(op): 7:26pm On Jun 04, 2022*. Modified: 8:47pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
The Bible nowhere explicitly states that masturbation is a sin, but there is no question that the actions that usually lead to masturbation are sinful. Masturbation is nearly always the result of lustful thoughts, inappropriate sexual stimulation,and/or pornography. It is these problems that need to be dealt with. If the sins of lust, immoral thoughts, and pornography are forsaken and overcome, masturbation will become much less of an issue and temptation. Many people struggle with guilt concerning masturbation, when, in reality, they would be far better off repenting of the sins that lead them to masturbate. With that said, is masturbation itself a sin? While the Bible does not directly answer this question, there definitely are some biblical principles that can be applied to the issue: (1) “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). If we cannot give God glory for something, we should not do it. (2) “Everything that does not come from faith is sin” (Romans 14:23). If we are not fully convinced that an activity is honoring to God, it is a sin. (3) “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your body” (1 Corinthians 6:19–20). Our bodies have been redeemed and belong to God. (4) “The fruit of the Spirit is . . . self-control” (Galatians 5:22–23). Masturbation is almost always a sign of a lack of self-control. These great truths should have a powerful impact on what we do with our bodies. In light of these principles, many conclude that masturbation is always sinful. Masturbation is a questionable activity, at best—whether it can glorify God; whether it can be done in absolute confidence that it is right; and whether it can honor God as the owner of our bodies. If done with absolutely no lust, immoral thoughts, or pornography, with full assurance that it is good and right, with thanks given to God for the pleasure it brings (see 1 Corinthians 10:30), is it still a sin to masturbate? The most we can say is maybe not. However, we have serious doubts whether this scenario ever truly exists. https://www.gotquestions.org/masturbation-sin.html |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Kobojunkie: 8:07pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Acehart:Sin is direct disobedience of God's very commandment, as our transgressions are said to be against that declared in God's Law and not simply that taught up in the minds of men. ![]() In God's New Covenant Law, Jesus Christ, the agreement God has made with individuals who accept His Truth in the Kingdom of God - Matthew 26 vs 28 - 30 - Neither masturbation, nor sin, is listed as sin. Instead, what is sin is sexual lust, the sin of adultery- Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28. ![]() Those who focus on sex - fornication, etc., - and masturbation distract themselves from that which really is sin. Such focus is on the wrong things as far as God's Truth is concerned. ![]() |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by MindHacker9009(m): 8:19pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Masturbation is not a sin. It is a way out God has provided for men not to quickly jump into a bad marriage with a jezebel. Masturbation allows a man to use he mind and not his rod to to reason when looking for a good woman to marry. |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Dtruthspeaker: 8:37pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Acehart:Same as the Bible does not expressly state "do not smoke" yet it is known it is prohibited. John 3 already tells us that anything you do in dark, you already know that it should not be done, else you would have done it in the light and publicly. |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Acehart(op): 8:41pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Dtruthspeaker:Are all things done in the dark harmful? |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Acehart(op): 8:43pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
MindHacker9009:Is masturbation wrong in marriage especially if a spouse is far away for an extended period of time? Cc: kobojunkie |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by MindHacker9009(m): 8:46pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Acehart:Masturbation is allowed in marriage too when there are situations like the one you mentioned |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Acehart(op): 8:48pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
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| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Kobojunkie: 8:49pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Acehart:Again, sexual lust, not masturbation, is sin in the Kingdom of God - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28. ![]() Regardless of a person's marital status - married, virgin, single, widowed etc., - if he/she lusts in his heart after another, he or she is guilty of the sin of adultery. ![]() |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Acehart(op): 8:50pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:When a man lusts after his wife, is it a sin? |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Kobojunkie: 8:51pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Acehart:In marriage, a man and woman are considered one. ![]() |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Acehart(op): 8:53pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I take this to mean that you affirm that masturbation in marriage is not sinful? |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Kobojunkie: 8:55pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Acehart:Sexual lust, not masturbation, is sin in the Kingdom of God - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 ![]() |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Acehart(op): 8:57pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Please answer with a "yes" or "No": can a man sexually lust after his wife? Is this lust counted as sin against him? |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Kobojunkie: 9:05pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Acehart:A man is one with the woman he is married I.e. she is referred to as wife, not woman. ![]() Matthew 5 vs 27 -28 speaks of lust after a woman, not wife. ![]() |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Dtruthspeaker: 6:20am On Jun 05, 2022 |
Acehart:We know that which is good and evil and The Law |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Acehart(op): 7:31am On Jun 05, 2022 |
Dtruthspeaker:Uhm |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by AntiChristian: 7:38am On Jun 05, 2022 |
This topic no clear at all from the Bible. People need to complete it. Masturbation, Gambling and Alcoholism are not sinful according to the Bible. Too many front and back! |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by NNTR: 8:34am On Jun 05, 2022*. Modified: 1:52am On Jul 04, 2022 |
NNTR: Acehart:Mark 12:31 '30Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ 31The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ No other commandment is greater than these.” ' There are occasion where masturbation, can be normal sexual activity, and with that in mind, masturbation, then in itself, is not necessarily going to be a sin, just like that, especially if done with absolutely no lust, immoral thoughts, or no lusting after the objects, in supposedly, viewed pornography. Masturbation, in fact, is sex, for one. Is self improvement, its self-love, its having sex with someone you love, you. One of probable sins, in this form of permissible masturbation, is the sin of, not doing the masturbation well, just as well as it will be sinful, not making love well with a partner. Masturbation is secret pleasure. Masturbation is having pleasure without financial cost. Or who you want pay, for having it or giving it, when its something you can do yourself. There, also, is this good thing about masturbation, which is, you dont have to dress up, for it. Do you know that, love is what makes sex be anything more than masturbation? You see, when having sex, even with an active partner, if love is not involved, then you essentially are simply and really just masturbating with the partner. Having sex without love, is just a complex form of masturbation. Masturbation should not be viewed as forbidden or inappropriate, but as the key to success, in certain circumstances, it should not be seen as a shameful act, but rather as a self-positive experience. Through masturbation you discover what sets you off and what doesnt. Gives you the opportunity to learn how to love every inch of your body and yourself. This will breed self-confidence and will make a big impact in your lovemaking sex life. Masturbation is can be an ongoing love affair, we all can have with ourselves, throughout the duration of our lives. Now, it will be sinful to masturbate in public, simply based on the premise that, doing something like that, in open view, for everyone to see, when its you alone, that's enjoying and benefiting from it, is a no-no. Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Acehart(op): 8:34am On Jun 05, 2022 |
AntiChristian:In the exact spot Ibrahim told his son that God will provide for Himself a sacrifice (provide for Himself a son as sacrifice), that is the exact spot Jesus the Christ was crucified. |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by NNTR: 8:37am On Jun 05, 2022 |
AntiChristian:You would or ought to know your body, and would know what's good for it and whats not beneficial to it. Last, last, if at all when indulging in permissible masturbation, then, moderation, is the warning watchword here. It is evident in the bible, when, where, how and what about gambling and alcoholism are sinful Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by atheistconverta: 8:45am On Jun 05, 2022 |
What else would one expect from a homosexualist aka muttleylaff who also denies the glaring truth that homosexuality was not just a sin but an abominable sin before God? Birds of the same demonic feather flock together so no surprises here. NNTR: |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by NNTR: 9:05am On Jun 05, 2022 |
atheistconverta:Revelation 12:10 'Then I heard a loud voice in heaven, saying, “Now the salvation, and the power, and the kingdom (dominion, reign) of our God, and the authority of His Christ have come; for the accuser of our [believing] brothers and sisters has been thrown down [at last], he who accuses them and keeps bringing charges [of sinful behavior] against them before our God day and night.' Matthew 5:11 '“Blessed [morally courageous and spiritually alive with life-joy in God’s goodness] are you when people insult you and persecute you, and falsely say all kinds of evil things against you because of [your association with] Me.' A clear conscience laughs at a false accusation (i.e. Matthew 5:11). Your accusation is of the devil. Whatever the accuser says here, actually is a reflection of their demonic self, (i.e. Revelation 12:10) not anyone else. We, now and then, even past gone, all have experienced yellow-bellied mud slingers accuser of brethren - so let them sling, let them say! Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by atheistconverta: 9:18am On Jun 05, 2022 |
NNTR:Feel free to continue in your abominable ways if you choose, but be ready to face the wrath that comes with such abominations if you don't repent. Trust me, Sodom and Gomorrah would be child's play. |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by NNTR: 9:23am On Jun 05, 2022*. Modified: 10:26am On Jun 05, 2022 |
atheistconverta:Look at a so called thief, holding evidence, goat in arms, playing with it. You better start get practising now, with hot water, to start with, getting used to the thermal high temperature and heat, because the lake of fire, currently is doing press-up and warming up for you, the devil and your co-demons, eagerly waiting to embrace you lot with outstretched open arms Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by xproducer: 11:03am On Jun 05, 2022 |
"This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would." - Galatians 5:16-17 "Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof. Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God." - Romans 6:12-13 "I speak after the manner of men because of the infirmity of your flesh: for as ye have yielded your members servants to uncleanness and to iniquity unto iniquity; even so now yield your members servants to righteousness unto holiness." - Romans 6:19 "For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." - Romans 6:23 ++++++++ "Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak." - Matthew 26:41 |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by Acehart(op): 12:44pm On Jun 05, 2022 |
NNTR:Amongst many things I'd like to ask you, first is this: please explain what you meant by "Having sex without love, is just a complex form of masturbation". |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by NNTR: 1:27pm On Jun 05, 2022 |
Acehart: ![]() Acehart:I meant just exactly what I said, being that, there exists abnormal masturbation, there exists excessive masturbation, there exists normal masturbation, there exists masturbation et cetera, now having having sex, which essentially is what you're having, be it banana or orange, having it without love involved or engaged, simply is, complex masturbation, thats on end of its spectrum, largely because love, is repressed in the activity. Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories.
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| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by FirstSon01: 2:36pm On Jun 05, 2022 |
NNTR:Are you Spirit Man?? Spirit marvellous?? |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by NNTR: 3:20pm On Jun 05, 2022*. Modified: 3:39pm On Jun 05, 2022 |
NNTR: NNTR: FirstSon01:Just as like every other human being , I am made up of spirit, soul and body, however who and what I am, is, I am soul and vice versa, meaning, soul am I. Meanwhile, ruach of God, is not only, purposed, to be a life force within me, but in addition to being a life force, doubles up, to strengthen me physically and support me mentally. It is via the spirit that I communicate with the Godhead. It is with the spirit, that every thing that happen or took place are logged and record of them kept FirstSon01:I have a marvellous, generously well oiled, good functioning and alive spirit within me Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories.
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| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by AntiChristian: 4:41pm On Jun 05, 2022 |
NNTR:Point me to the verse that says they're all sinful? |
| Re: To Masturbate Or Not To Masturbate by AntiChristian: 4:46pm On Jun 05, 2022 |
Acehart:Seems you're drunk or on something else! Abraham killed an animal but the Jews erroneously thought they killed Jesus. How is this even related to masturbation? |
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