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Re: Should I Share A Room With My Wife Or Live In Separate Rooms In The House? by AgentGoat: 10:48pm On Jul 27, 2022
oluplus:
There are measures that take care of snoring.
Whatever works for you is fine.
What are the measure?
Re: Should I Share A Room With My Wife Or Live In Separate Rooms In The House? by Pootle: 3:55pm On Jul 28, 2022
Youngwiz71:
You for kukuma build another house give your wife then build another house give your children then you self you stay for another house entirely , when una want do family meeting una fit connect through Zoom ehn undecided

But seriously it's not cool na, am not married but I'll advice you to listen to the advice of your parent and in laws..

Besides that staying in different rooms can send a very bad message to the minds of your children, it makes it look like you guys are separated or doesn't love it other which can adversely affect them...

My opinion tho, but you're at liberty to build your home the way you want..
really had a very strict uncle who did that...he had so much money each buildings standing on its own
Re: Should I Share A Room With My Wife Or Live In Separate Rooms In The House? by ImaIma1(f): 8:46pm On Jul 28, 2022
Abujaexpress:
I have been facing a lot of criticisms from some of my in-laws and my relatives, particularly my mother in-law who has frowned at why I will build a three bedroom flat, with separate rooms for me and my wife.

I married my wife in 2016 and we have been been living in a rented One Bedroom Flat, i.e. A bedroom and living room. We have got 3 kids and just early this year, we moved to our own house- a three bedrooms flat all ensuite. The master bedroom for me as the husband and my Wife's room and the other room for the kids, all tailored to suit our respective tastes.

But my mother-in-law, on coming to greet us recently was not comfortable with me and my wife's having different rooms, even when we have allayed whatever fears she may be nursing. According to her reasons, husband and wife living in separate rooms will not bond the love or marriage stronger compared to if we are living or sharing the same room. Apart from her, a few of my people too, including my foster mother have also raised a concern about, saying that the best for us was for both of us to share the same room so that there will be more bonding and attachment.

I really want to ask, which is better and is there anything bad about a husband and wife living apart in different rooms or it's better to share and live in one Room?
So what happens when you guys want to have sex, you book an appointment?
Re: Should I Share A Room With My Wife Or Live In Separate Rooms In The House? by x2x2(m): 8:55pm On Jul 28, 2022
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Re: Should I Share A Room With My Wife Or Live In Separate Rooms In The House? by Twenty8: 9:52pm On Jul 28, 2022
Abujaexpress:
I have been facing a lot of criticisms from some of my in-laws and my relatives, particularly my mother in-law who has frowned at why I will build a three bedroom flat, with separate rooms for me and my wife.

I married my wife in 2016 and we have been been living in a rented One Bedroom Flat, i.e. A bedroom and living room. We have got 3 kids and just early this year, we moved to our own house- a three bedrooms flat all ensuite. The master bedroom for me as the husband and my Wife's room and the other room for the kids, all tailored to suit our respective tastes.

But my mother-in-law, on coming to greet us recently was not comfortable with me and my wife's having different rooms, even when we have allayed whatever fears she may be nursing. According to her reasons, husband and wife living in separate rooms will not bond the love or marriage stronger compared to if we are living or sharing the same room. Apart from her, a few of my people too, including my foster mother have also raised a concern about, saying that the best for us was for both of us to share the same room so that there will be more bonding and attachment.

I really want to ask, which is better and is there anything bad about a husband and wife living apart in different rooms or it's better to share and live in one Room?
Try converting your own room to a study room (with a big couch) and packing your things like clothes and shoes to your wife's room, but spend most of your time in the study room when you want your privacy.
Re: Should I Share A Room With My Wife Or Live In Separate Rooms In The House? by Lamanii22(f): 1:47am On Jul 29, 2022
I rather stay in that one room apartment than that three bedroom flat, what's the essence of the three bedrooms when I can't share a room with my husband God forbid!
Re: Should I Share A Room With My Wife Or Live In Separate Rooms In The House? by Abujaexpress(op): 9:48am On Jul 29, 2022
Twenty8:
Try converting your own room to a study room (with a big couch) and packing your things like clothes and shoes to your wife's room, but spend most of your time in the study room when you want your privacy.
Nice suggestion
Re: Should I Share A Room With My Wife Or Live In Separate Rooms In The House? by oluplus(m): 10:02pm On Aug 08, 2022
AgentGoat:
What are the measure?
https://fb.watch/eNcN1DWdDc/
One of them
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