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Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by attacker321: 10:47pm On Feb 22, 2020
Is it okay for a husband and wife to stay in separate rooms in the same house?

Some married couples operate like this and I am wondering why.

Let's discuss.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by attacker321: 10:48pm On Feb 22, 2020
Lalasticlala, this is an important subject don't you think so?

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Kylekent59: 11:07pm On Feb 22, 2020
After he paid huge for traditional marriage, paid bride price, still did white wedding.

He even pays for his wife bills, he also sends money to the wife's father and mother. He also pays for his wife's brother school fees and his wife's sister is currently in his house living with them.

His wife's sister is currently in year two and she comes stay with them every vacation. He even pays for her school fees, house rent and still gives her some cash in case of miscellaneous expenses.

He even opened a supermarket for the wife and still gives her #50k everyweek.


And someone comes here to ask if they should or shouldn't

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by attacker321: 11:17pm On Feb 22, 2020
Kylekent59:
After he paid huge for traditional marriage, paid bride price, still did white wedding.

He even pays for his wife bills, he also sends money to the wife's father and mother. He also pays for his wife's brother school fees and his wife's sister is currently in his house living with them.

His wife's sister is currently in year two and she comes stay with them every vacation. He even pays for her school fees, house rent and still gives her some cash in case of miscellaneous expenses.

He even opened a supermarket for the wife and still gives her #50k everyweek.


And someone comes here to ask if they should or shouldn't


You're bringing another dimension to the subject matter. This is not about how much a husband spends on his wife and her family.

The question is should they stay in separate rooms? Pros and cons.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by James289(f): 11:41pm On Feb 22, 2020
It is good and at the same time it is not good, it depends on the relationship.
Nagging wife... Yes
Drunker husband..Yes
Bed wetting wife..Yes
Smoker husband..Yes
Cheating couple..Yes
They're just living together for the sake of their children not for love
But in relationship where there are love, respect, caring, cleanness, ...No.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by pbethel: 12:01am On Feb 23, 2020
No

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Sexyliciousbri: 12:09am On Feb 23, 2020
Big no

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by 1030(m): 12:14am On Feb 23, 2020
Most successful men don't share same room.Dont ask me why.You can decide if is right or wrong.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by chatinent(m): 3:04am On Feb 23, 2020
A family should be fam; the two becomes one!

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Ishilove: 5:16am On Feb 23, 2020
Different strokes for different folks. Whatever works for them.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by yeyeosoronga: 7:45am On Feb 23, 2020
If they want to

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by babyfaceafrica: 8:37am On Feb 23, 2020
Their choice.... What will be will be

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by YourCoffin: 8:57am On Feb 23, 2020
With the recent news on wives stabbing their husbands in their sleep, it is advisable couples stay in different rooms, if possible different buildings

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Katier00(f): 9:03am On Feb 23, 2020
I don't see anything wrong with it, depends on the understanding

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by DonEd(m): 9:17am On Feb 23, 2020
Sometimes, a man needs to be alone. The principle of space also applies in marriages too.

Sometimes, untidyness can bring about an argument that will lead to a fight. This and other issues are factors circling why sometimes, they have separate rooms but can sleep together most often.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 11:52am On Feb 23, 2020
No. cheesy

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Ogbunigwe2018: 12:23pm On Feb 23, 2020
YourCoffin:
With the recent news on wives stabbing their husbands in their sleep, it is advisable couples stay in different rooms, if possible different buildings
My wife stays in her own room. My son sleeps with me in my room.
Doesn’t affect the love I have for my wife.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by snitchbitch: 12:38pm On Feb 23, 2020
Let sleeping dogs lie, to avoid trouble, always assume the worst, so let them stay in different rooms, May God save us!!!

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by tunapawizzy: 4:35pm On Feb 23, 2020
whatever works for husband and wife............staying in the same room is not what keeps a marriage

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Slawormir: 4:37pm On Feb 23, 2020
Damnnnnn niggarrr

As a real niggarrr

It is damnnnnn okay
Sometimes when the sisters or friends to the wife visit then there is a room for them to gossip all day and all night

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by fidet1(m): 4:37pm On Feb 23, 2020
Familiarity breeds contempt. They shouldn’t live in the same house actually.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by eodavids(m): 4:37pm On Feb 23, 2020
attacker321:
Is it okay for a husband and wife to stay in separate rooms in the same house?

Some married couples operate like this and I am wondering why.

Let's discuss.

It depends on circumstances cool cool

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by peacettw: 4:38pm On Feb 23, 2020
Yaaaaaaasssss! Need you ask?

Been married for camel years and I can confidently say that having separate rooms is highly fundamental to the well being of any couple's mental state.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by shegzhkn: 4:38pm On Feb 23, 2020
1030:
Most successful men don't share same room.Dont ask me why.You can decide if is right or wrong.

how many did you know ??

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Joystark(f): 4:38pm On Feb 23, 2020
James289:
It is good and at the same time it is not good, it depends on the relationship.
Nagging wife... Yes
Drunker husband..Yes
Bed wetting wife..Yes
Smoker husband..Yes
Cheating couple..Yes
They're just living together for the sake of their children not for love
But in relationship where there are love, respect, caring, cleanness, ...No.

Lol... which one is bed wetting wife again bayi

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Bukden16(m): 4:39pm On Feb 23, 2020
Yes...
For a Snoring wife, dirty ,untidy, nagging and an unkept wife... I'll say yes a 100 times

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Feb 23, 2020
attacker321:
Is it okay for a husband and wife to stay in separate rooms in the same house?

Some married couples operate like this and I am wondering why.

Let's discuss.
yes its important, no matter how i love my wife i would love to have a separate room(if i can afford) from my wife's which would double as my office and personal space.
She should have hers too.
It won't affect an inch of my love for her.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by 44kings: 4:39pm On Feb 23, 2020
COHABITATION AS A WHOLE IS NOT COMPULSORY. Do what works for you.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by emmabest2000(m): 4:39pm On Feb 23, 2020
yes they can stay in separate rooms that has only one bed grin

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Joystark(f): 4:39pm On Feb 23, 2020
YourCoffin:
With the recent news on wives stabbing their husbands in their sleep, it is advisable couples stay in different rooms, if possible different buildings

Hahhahahahahhahahahha.
I love Nairaland cheesy

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