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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by bukatyne(f): 2:14pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
capnies: @bold: Let me get this straight. A woman cheats when she has sex before marriage (even if she has not met her husband) And her cheating before marriage means the husband is entitled to cheat on her after marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Nobody: 2:21pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
NoToPile: Yes you are right, they are aren't old fashioned in looks and communication but their mannerism will be far different from those ones I mentioned up there. Also, just to note that women who date for at least one year physically can most times tell if the man is a jaiye-jaiye kind of man, the red flags will be showing no matter how subtle. Once you are engaged to somebody that is always hiding their phone. Going outside to talk etc You know whats coming. Lets not lie, we all see the signs. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by bukatyne(f): 2:23pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
truthsayer009: But godly & boring are not synonymous. For instance, how can Tyler Perry whose mind is imaginative enough to produce his movies be boring? The fact a man is 'godly' is not an excuse not to develop his mind and humour to be an interesting lover. I can't stand a boring, stiff man myself. Nor can I stand a 'Burna Boy'. Besides, these men don't sell sex, the kizz Daniels & Burns Boys sell sex. This is not exonerating the crushers, these are just facts. Just the way nobody is crushing on Mercy Chinwo or Sinach or even Chiamanda. It is Beyonce, Tiwa Savage & Omotola. 2 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Klass99(f): 2:28pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by angelfallz(m): 2:30pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Maybe the way I phrased my comment gave the impression that men don't have the capacity to be monogamous, which was not what I was trying to say. Men can be monogamous, but it requires discipline and contentment bukatyne: |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by bukatyne(f): 2:31pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
angelfallz: But it not a man thing na. It is applicable to men and women. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Klass99(f): 2:35pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by bukatyne(f): 2:36pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
truthsayer009: What is your definition of 'old fashioned' and 'boring'? |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by bukatyne(f): 2:37pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
truthsayer009: Hahahahahaha @ offended Gistlover. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by GloriousGbola: 2:45pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
bukatyne: Naija man logic. You simple minded women cannot understand this It takes a alpha Nigerian male mind, molded in the rigors of redpillers and high value indoctrination to understand these high concepts Better get back to your place in the open air cooking area 2 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Nobody: 2:48pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
bukatyne: I get what you're saying & I agree it is not synonymous, Tyler Perry is in show business so he definitely cannot be boring but there are some kinds of "exciting" environments he cannot be seen because of the image he portrays. Your spouse may not want to watch Big Brother or Love Island where people are banging themselves on live television because he deems it unholy but you may find it interesting & think he is acting old fashioned. You may enjoy wearing skimpy stuff out & about, around the house even when visitors are in but he is feeling somehow ontop of that decision. My point is, men who are less likely to give you problems aren't moved by popular fun lifestyle or trends which ultimately shields them from a lot of temptations but some women don't enjoy being with that type of person. They want a lively guy/man who is in vogue. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by angelfallz(m): 3:04pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Omo to start typing long epistle... Applicable to women, no, not really. Are there women that sleep around? Yes. But you see, such women have lost their ability to emotionally bond with their sex partners(husbands or bfs). This is because they have maybe been having sex from a very young age with different men. It is because of this reason TRP asks men to marry virgins, because virgins are less likely to sleep around, unlike women who have been sleeping around. Naturally, sex is an emotional experience for women, for men, sex is not necessarily an emotional experience, hence there isn't a bonding issue for men. It is the emotional bonding of women to their first sex partner that makes them monogamous. Many men interpret this as the woman being clingy. It is also, because of this emotional bonding that men who are players avoid virgins. The mistake you are making is in thinking that men and women view sex the same way. No, both genders view sex differently. bukatyne: |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Vickho: 3:55pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
GloriousGbola:you're a fool for insulting that woman that can feed you and your miserable family. idiot na me and you for this forum 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by GloriousGbola: 4:03pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Vickho: this is why anyone can see you are bitter, dull and without a shred of gray matter. did someone remove your brain and put shit there? you stalk me all the time, and yet you are so unintelligent that you cannot recognize when i am trolling? anyone with an ounce of sense would read what i wrote and laugh, but a bitter, uneducated, unexposed illiterate with a chinko phone and too much data for his single digit iq to handle reads and thinks he is reading something with his fellow bitter wan-kers Kindly keep my family out of your mouth. face the bitter reality of the useless failed human beings that spawned you instead of spilling you on the dirty smelly vermin infested floor you were conceived in, and the even more useless future thugs you will bring into the world to break peoples windows in traffic 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Nobody: 4:04pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Klass99: I can't quote you verbatim because looking for the posts will take time but I can tell you what you posted. Twitter and instragram accounts which post job vacancies, we started following them but before then I did not know jobs can be found on those social media sites. In other posts you said following instructions is key, my bro was not following instructions before e.g applying with no cover letter just CV and not doing other things asked. Sending unsolicited applications and how to go about it, is another thing you shared. 2 interviews came from twitter but the job he got came from the unsolicited application. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Saintmary(f): 4:05pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: You need to slow down, then relax, before you can process what I'll tell you. Are you willing to listen, or you want to argue? Because your mindset will determine if my words will be valuable or not. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Vickho: 4:06pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
GloriousGbola:I never even start to deal with you, you don already type epistle. Are you scared I'll make this forum miserable for you? by the time I'm done with you, all these useless ladies you're asslicking on this forum won't recognize you anymore. FYI, I didn't bother reading this trash epistle |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Saintmary(f): 4:08pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
angelfallz: Because they are the ones I have the easiest access to. I have watched them, listened to them, worked with them, etc. So, I know all about Nigerian men. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by GloriousGbola: 4:10pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Vickho: who are you? you are nothing. you are a failed scammer only good at opening multiple email accounts so that he can make sham profiles of his betters. no one who knows me will believe any of your fake monikers small wonder yahoo boys are turning to jazz. anyone as dumb and incompetent as you will be forced to look to the spiritual to explain your ppersistent failure omo ale feeling funky . 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by GloriousGbola: 4:19pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Vickho: how can you you are a functional illiterate you are using a cheap stolen phone you are half blind from tertiary syphilis and cheap alcohol so i have done you a favor and typed in spaced lines maybe i should make it caps and large fonts - and very simple words - your reading level is that of a 10 year old and your IQ is that of a cerebal palsied, down syndrome kid dropped on its head. 6 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by crackhaus: 4:22pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
truthsayer009:Point. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by bukatyne(f): 4:29pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: Yes, my Lord |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by bukatyne(f): 4:34pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
truthsayer009: I totally agree with this. The next question is if the godly man seeker is godly herself. This reminds me of a story I heard; I know the actors Babe was in 'town' and married godly bobo. Nagged him to be jaiye jaiye and as per fast learner, he learnt beyond the syllabus. Added chronic adultery & abuse to his clubbing & hanging out with 'the boys'. Madam kuku carry her kaya like that. After all, the man is her creation. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by angelfallz(m): 4:36pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Fair enough. But you've not met all Nigerian men, so you should say, "some" Nigerian men. By saying most Nigerian men you make it seem like it's a majority of Nigerian men. Saintmary: |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Nobody: 5:31pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:Arabinrin, ewo ni de? Kilo wa fa epe bi odun agemo ke? Lo wa won baba ni ebu to to yii? Kakaki apoda Vikito na so ewe gbeje mowo , nise lo tu n yan fanda fanda bi opolo niwaju elegusi. Dakun dabo fi iyedenu oooo. 2 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Magnoliaa(f): 5:41pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Persephone1: Uhh. Iyen? Ma wo n ti e. Emi ati e ti jo ki ese bo sokoto kan na. Oku baba eni ti o ma ba wa bo. He's a troll by profession... he doesn't need no appealing to in any way or manner. I am used to his ways... I know how to deal with him. 2 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Nobody: 5:56pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:Lol... sha no let sokoto tear ooo 1 Like |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Saintmary(f): 6:14pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
angelfallz: It's a majority, no point sugarcoating the fact. If you don't like your report card, simply do better. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by angelfallz(m): 7:01pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lol. You have no way of knowing it is a majority, but if it helps you sleep well, you can believe your own lies. She say na Report card Saintmary: |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by duduade: 2:03am On Aug 09, 2022 |
Yes we dey 1 Like |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Amarisco(f): 3:07am On Aug 09, 2022 |
Men with healthy and strong relationships with their mothers don’t cheat. That doesn’t necessarily mean mummy’s boys (as a lot of these links are unhealthy). But I think it’s to do with the core values and principles a man learns. I believe in true & faithful love oooooo. I just don’t see why cheating men aren’t true to themselves - ‘Madame, I too like woman o, if u go follow me na to comot eye from some tins, u fit?’. Simple |
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